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Prettyhurts:
No problem, flagyl is antibiotics (metronidazole) but people think is only for runny stomach but they should have combined it with cipro.

Shaa make sure you finish them, please try.

Oh,thanks a lot, never knew

Prettyhurts:
The test is not compulsory but is to check for infection. Hvs is high vaginal swab (they'll collect sample from the mouth or near your cervix), urinalysis is just urine.

I wrap my akwụkwọ anara with nylon before I put inside fridge(vegetable section) (na my own preservation method and e no dey spoil)

Abeg if the buscopan no dy help, I fit vouch for diclofenac, pain dy fear am. Any blood tonic is good, I was given cipro, feroglobin, folic acid, vit c and diclofenac.

HTH

Thanks a lot ma,I still have some diclofenac I was given at the eye clinic. Was given paracetamol, folic acid,those red blood tablets, flagyl.

completey:
pele sis. Did you take your antibiotics religiously. If pain will not subside you can try another hospital. Never say never. Health is wealth. God will heal you.

Amen .I don't know if the drugs they gave me qualify as antibiotics,but I wouldn't know.

@Liftedhands ,hunniesuzie , proudmom38, dunasy, stephmiracle, sassyangel ,I really can't thank you enough, I'm so grateful. The care and prompt response, may God bless.

Mum called so I was shipped to my parents' ,she said there is definetely still some things remaining ,gave me a hot water massage (e pain no be small) then massaged my whole body with okuma/ori, plus that stuff they cook for women that gave birth newly, Uda and co...after taking the concoction, lumps of blood came out, after sometime I was able to sleep,woke up and the pain was gone.

Will definitely go to another hospital, would never have known I was to be taking antibiotics.

Thank you again my able mommas God bless you all for me.

Prettyhurts:
Sorry dear, they should give you diclofenac injection or any pain relief injection and also the tablet. Your body is removing the remnants. I felt the same way too, hubby was even the one that carried me so I understand, I bled for 2wks but I took blood tonic and leafy vegetable especially garden egg leaf(akwụkwọ anara).

I know you'll come back sooner than you expect

Modified:

Please when you stop bleeding and completely healed. Go for scan and lab tests(hvs and urinalysis)

They gave me bescopan(don't know if it's the spelling)...that akwukwo anara I don't finish it before it spoils. Please is there any particular blood tonic.

Thanks a lot, you people give me hope and allay my fears,may God bless you plenty.
I never knew about going back for tests,please what's hvs

imurboss:
@ all you people sharing different kinds of food here @ proudmom38 & co, make una kwantinu. God dey

Team October, how far with us. How are we holding up,I'm reporting live from the hospital. We shall all testify in Jesus name,amen.

Wow,our twins are about to make a grand entry...supernatural delivery ma

Benignasweety:
Eezohbae, its well with you ma.

please how long have you been bleeding?

2days after the evacuation,gave a day break then started again yesterday, so its roughly 4days.
Thanks a lot ma

zaynie:
Did he do an US scan?
Did he check your tubes?
Only with USS can he be sure that there's no remnant.

Yes ma,he did US scan,though I don't know about checking the tubes,cos he brought that stuff down

PatKing:
Hi dearie,
I had an evacuation in April, twin pregnancy.
I was given the green light by my Doctor at 2 weeks. You will do a scan to be sure no product remain at that 2weeks.

Guess what!?
You may even Ovulate!
Though the lining of your womb that was forcefully removed will need a full period to build/form back.

In my case, what did I do.
1. Resumed my Pregnacare Conception
2. Baby Danced same month (TTC 2 years my dear) couldn't wait.
3. Never missed Baby Dancing the next 2 Ovulatione... God showed up.

My Sis...
I understand the grief.
If you need more time to heal, please take all the time in the world.
When you are emotionally ready, get down to work dearie.

Let me know if you wanna talk more one on one... my shoulders are super big.

Lots of love

I've come o. Good morning sis, I'm in serious pains,the cramping is almost like the day of the bleeding. Can't stand, can't sit,serious fever and cold,my whole body is aching and I'm still bleeding. Gone to the hospital and the Doc said there is nothing remaining there.

Please is this how it used to be... I don't know how to feel again honestly,biko help me my loving mamas.


What of Goldenheart,given birth?

proudmom38:
My sister, the only strength i have is to crave, cook, eat and enter nairaland o. The rest na story lol

Twale mama

kelizosuy:
Lol... If you look well u will see the budge under.
I pray it goes back to the way it was oh

It sure will,sharp sharp

Sassyangel,you funny die,chai

Congrats 4realwoman on your blessing. God who started the journey will bring it to a fruitful end.

Proudmom38,you really get strength o,you can cook and still eat,and crave for more,na enjoyment for you o. Cos then my other name was laziness, was always weak to do anything

Kelizosuy,your body na fire,you get flat tummy at 5months you can even wear high waisted skirt,I envy your body o. Even though I'm slim,abi I was slim,my tummy came out real early and e never go down.

@Lioha,thanks a lot sis and amen to your prayer,been fantasizing about twins and how we'll share the resemblance between the two of us(hubby and I)

sassyangel1:
My sister, lemme b truthful wth u. As human beings we can never heal from a loss nt to talk of a mother dt carried a gift in her tummy buh later went to be wth the lord. Don't allow d pains n fear delay u n ur hubby from consoling together n start d beautiful journey again wth no pressure. Thk God u'v nt reached menopausal age. Don't think I don't understd d pain of loosing a baby. One of my neighbors lost her beautiful daughter as soon as she was brought forth to the world and mother decided to rest. Only 4 her to wake up n was told dt her daughter she saw brought out alive was proclaimed dead. It was so painful. I cried in my bedroom wen I heard the story. I cleaned my tears n visited her @ home n d only tin I could do was to hug her. She was devastated n it even wanted to strain the marraige Union buh I had to talk to her husband to b more patient wth any of his wife's attitude or talk and spoke to both of them dt it's only God dt will console them n they shd console each other n start work (kpekus ministry) immediately. Truthfully, two months later she told me dt she was pregnant n she gat her beautiful girl right nw wth her. Now, my point is do not allow the situation on ground to trouble ur marraige n ensure dt u tell ur partner Hw u feel buh don't v the tot dt it was ur fault. Pls, don't delay in za oza room. It is well wth u n ur home and I strongly believe u r coming back b4 dis yr runs out to announce ur EDD. Shalom...

I say a big Amen,really can't wait to come back here and testify the goodness of the Lord.
I try my best to keep it off my mind,even though sometimes I unconsciously rub my tummy then I remember.

Trish102:
sorry about your lost sis. ve been there before. just ensure you take the antibiotics given to you as prescribed. i started having s*x three weeks later.

Thanks a lot sis...for taking out time to reply me

Liftedhands:
Just give your sef a few days to a week till the soreness down there eases and you are good to go.

As long as the loss is not medically linked you can start trying immediately .


Let your hubby know when you are ready and guide him along men too can be sensitive so he doesn't feel left out or hurting you.


God heal you in and out and you will rejoice again



Be on folic acid from now on and Watch you eat or drink .

Don't delay to see your doctor immediately you take in so he can put an eye on you plus guide you rightly.

Rest and be happy .

Amen
Thanks a lot ma,may God bless you

Will definitely keep up with the folic acid, was thinking of leaving them till the next journey. About what I eat or drink,don't know if my body doesn't want beans anymore or it doesn't want food at all cos I get bloated and it makes my tummy look big and hard.



@PatKing...thanks a lot,thanks so much, only say as you give me this kind go ahead,I go disturb you tire with questions.

God,I feel a lot better,I can't thank you enough my e-sisters. God bless you all for the kind words and your prayers,it really really helped. It renewed my hope strongly. I never believed I would be smiling now. In truth I was scared of coming back to this thread, was ashamed. But this much love and good wishes,it brought joy back and I'm so grateful.
Hubby says to greet and thank you too.

@booqee,euphorbia,toyeem,mumIbeji,imurboss,NIFES, CheeryChy, forzarush, Prettyhurts, Kelsgal,patKing, sassyangel proudmom38, Roseey0 ,Liftedhands, mumsgirl27 and every other loving momma I forgot to mention,God bless you all for me.


Ermm I don't know I'm really scared after the evacuation stuff,don't know how I'll start having s*x again, cos in truth I dey imagine how something go enter there again. Hubby too is more scared than I am after Doc told him to let me be till I'm properly healed. Please help me out.

Chai,I'm sorry for the long post...so so sorry,but I'll really appreciate tips on the way forward cos I don't know what next,I really don't know what's safe and what's not.

My tear ducts have dried up,its all pain now,pain deep inside my heart

I lost my baby at 10weeks yesterday,my angel that was gonna make me a mummy.Was already counting down to the day I would hold my baby. I just wish its all a dream.My body aches but my heart aches more.

I fear its all my fault..I look out the window and I see baby clothes all around me.
Teamie @proudmom38 and other preggie mamas.This is my LA(loss announcement)



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