₦airaland Forum

fadilaMaikiriki:
Alright. So this married man has been disturbing her to get down with him. The thing is, she doesn't know how to tell the man no or how to discourage him. She doesn't know how to turn him down in order not to come off as rude, and also because of the money the man gives her.

Please, how best do you think she can do this. As a lady, how do you put off a married man who wants to get down with you, without sounding rude? And also without affecting the friendship you have with such person. She said she wants to do it in such a way that the man will not be offended. And also she doesn't want the issue to affect his financial gestures towards her.

Your opinions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

to whom it may concern.... STUPID IDIOT

Wisdomkosi:
https://dailytrust.com/emirate-tussle-flag-hoisted-at-nassarawa-mini-palace/

whats all this .....just to tie ur face and cover all ur body with plenty cloths and agbada under heat or hot condition then with all this inadequacies oooo they get one dry looking man to be fanning them with a deceitful name called maybe Royal fan of the king.......just tht ooooo then perhaps when they r going out inside their thick cloths with intense heat .....people begin to jump around and singing praises ...while they act as though they are above death........
All a sudden they are faced with death conditions defying assumed or acclaimed royalty.....they die and they are soon forgotten.........
What's power ?......rubbish .....we re here today to live and die tommorow.......the whites are better than the useless blacks bcus they are not driven by assumed power ....but empathy and capacity building...thts y the black run back to them to live a good life ......the blacks creat problem in her society and then complain......the rich among them try to creat a divide always

Zico5:
You cannot pay salary but u can loot as much as u like. Yaya bello made away with whooping sum of 82 billion naira and he couldn't pay salary. You guys are just greedy. The useless labour leaders are nothing to write home about but I know this country will be grounded very soon cos I know that when the masses reach boiling points, they will revoke. I don't blame u guys but toothless and corrupt Labour leaders.

which useless masses reach boiling point....we Nigerians are the most useless of entities .....even if u boil Nigerians them no go hot ...they go quickly try to adjust...Nigeria has already reached her boiling points.....see no sane humans in any country will take what our animals (leader's) are doing.......
They steal ,they loot,to even go the southern governor meeting they sew new cloths ....they only construct worthless roads and flyover so as to inflate amounts .....they send their children out ....they don't go to our local hospitals....they don't try to bring up developmental structures that can creat wealth and jobs.....the highest they can do to creat money for their respective states is to increase levies on the people ....no capacity....yet they take bogus allowances and money.......ur here saying when we reach boiling points ....which boiling points ......only tax revenue bill ....Kenya erupt......yet nothing is happening in Nigeria ..........KOGI STATE.....due to high end looting always look like the name ( primitive poor looking state with no meaningful development) yet the governor then always come out looking neat amidst poor local people .....this human has been indicted for taking up sum up to 82 billion yet ....the zombies no even talk (typical Nigerian mentality) now to crown it all he had the guts to say they should transfer his case to his state for prosecution.....
Ogbeni this one no reach the country to even roast.....
Tunubu just to answer president came on board with no direction nothing just mumuing himself and destroying the already scattered country ....yet u dey wait when Nigeria go boil........

muyico:
Another, amazing Sudanese News.

Meet Athiak Dau Riak, a 19-year-old girl who stands at 7 feet tall, whose marriage has gone viral this week in South Sudan. 3 men from different communities are competing for her, with one pledging 105 cows and 65 million South Sudanese pounds ($20,000).

The 2nd man is yet to reveal the dowry he is paying, but rumors have it that he will pay 350 cows or more, including a Toyota V6 and a standalone four-bedroom house to the girl’s family.

The 3rd Man, 500 cows and one millions USD .
South Sudanese youngest tycoon, Laurence Lual Malong Yor has finally awoken from sleep.

Malong is a South Sudanese youngest billionaire who’s been single for so long. He’s 33 and never gotten married.

Well today rumors has it that, Lual Malong is set to become one of the competitors in this marriage competition of Athiak Dau.
His offers are yet to be revealed.

In Dinka culture, marriage is not all about dating a girl but it is about your character and hers with good family background. As long all is studied to be clean, your family will agree and start to approach the girl with her family. If she is beautiful, different men may arise to compete.

RUBBISH....

Chicagograduate:
Billionaire is an overstatement.I am yet to know which company davidos father owns.

Adeleke university......He also have an independent power generation plant that distribute electricity to western states

Brainwashed lazy weak useless Spineless Nigerian youths can never try this.......if only we get moral to run ship for this country all these useless bastards called leaders for know say they are employed as workers and not lords

Nonexisting1:
Another man is being considered and he has better chances than you. Nigga, you've lost out and your heartbreak will be massive, just wait for it. It's coming soon.

. Lol ur a blue goat I swear ......very brilliant response......seems ur typed this from experience......lol

Chidex369:
Greetings my people,

Please I really need your advice on how to go about this matter that is really eating me up. We went on a normal date with my girl whom I have proposed marriage to and she accepted it. But in recent time I have been telling her to come and see my parent but was like we are not yet ready, I don't understand it.

Today we went out and she opened up and started telling me areas of my life which she's not really comfortable with and I should improve on them. When she was done she said she needs us to slow things down for now.

I don't really know how to go about this right now. Please I really need your advice on it. I really love this girl and wants to settle down with her. We broke before and reconcile after two years, and we been back for like 6 months now.

Please no insult or curse. Please I need your advice.

I don't want to talk or type much ....bros when person no like or into u anymore he/she begins to see ur ugliness very well unlike when person dey in love with u (love is blind) ogbeni .....leave tht ur birch alone for now act indifferent to her.......she don weigh u Finnish nd she no get tht vibes with u for now so ....pls free urself the heartache.....if u continue she will resent u the more .........


Should I tell u.......baba tht ur babe get person wey she feel better pass u in those areas she pointed out......so she dey use measuring tape measure u and tht obscured guy she have ....to her .....ur just 1.2 cm ...so calm down let her be

Ybholy:
Can you SIGN Death sentence of another fellow if you’re a judge?

. YES YES YES YES .....INFACT death sentence not by gun but by nails driven into the person's head while he/ she is still alive
......I ll do this to kidnappers ....I ll make them drink acid or open their ass and insert hot rod ......I ll abolish killing by guns or prison service ......to our politicians I will tie them to a stake naked with no food close to ants hill with Suger rubbed over their body and show it on NTA how the soja ants eat their eyes ......for rude women and fake pastors and useless men .......tie them to wood and throw them onto deep dirty water ......

geoworldedu:
Politician money helps them. Also, nature has a way of favouring the rich over the poor anywhere anytime. Ask nature why the poor bet with their 5k and lose it to the rich, whereas nature could have whispered which team will win to the minds of the poor so that they can gain little more money. Nature favours you when you are rich. It hates the poor so much.

ur rite no wonder the rich keep getting richer while people in batcher keep giving birth to children

Why is it that politicians don't die like this ..... atleast Politicians should be dieng like Nigerian actor every year.......pls God answer ur children prayers

sweetkev:
Tinubu is a very clueless old man. I never believed there would be a president that will be worse than Buhari until this old fool proved me wrong. Even Peter Obi has no solution to the country's problems. In fact, I have lost hope in this country because things will surely be getting worse day by day with those idiots running the affairs of this nation.

A useless man with no political blueprint but just ambition of becoming a president owing to the fact tht he was able to help others who had agreement with him to become president. So it's is turn.....what do u expect .......a country with useless people like us tht cannot be able to come together in unity and fight for our right .....

The woman should be killed secretly while the overzealous bastards that joined in the killing should also be disfigured.......once u give a useless Nigerian gun,money or small power they automatically begin to act in weird manner of show off ......

Newlymarried:
Source

from my understanding of this issue is what normally happen when an Average foolish Nigerian know or is related to one person in high place or the other .(Connection)..the power intoxication to quickly make call ....no be here o....the animal in this situation always feel highly placed and untouchable hence the reason behind making calls at the slightest provocation.......now bcus this useless woman a typical Nigerian she is decided to over look all the plea bcus she felt she have connections somewhere just so to show off was wat escalated this .....

DryMouth:
Rema is not a talented artiste. Don Jazzy just dey push the guy

I tire o which talent very stupid songs ....all media hype ....childish songs most time .....like tht song called spider man .....just imagine ....don jazzy use him influence push the song thts all........the song no fine self (baby calm down ) little tins pls those mumu oyinbo bcus they don't have much problems

Thevoiceupdate2:
Just in: "Davido ripped me, he only used me to trend, You didn't Give me any Money or Verse, And you then Posted me that is a Superstar, I used First Class to travel to the America" - Portable Cries out


Watch video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCWRfwL9gO8



https://thenationonlineng.net/davido-ought-to-have-given-me-10000-but-he-used-me-to-trend-portable/

dirty looking attention seeking useless noise maker

Thevoiceupdate2:
Just in: "Davido ripped me, he only used me to trend, You didn't Give me any Money or Verse, And you then Posted me that is a Superstar, I used First Class to travel to the America" - Portable Cries out


Watch video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCWRfwL9gO8



https://thenationonlineng.net/davido-ought-to-have-given-me-10000-but-he-used-me-to-trend-portable/

dirty useless noise maker

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

have never seen any over kind weak man tht always want to be good loyal and submissive to his wife tht have ever been happy.....imagine with all this the woman still act up ....God forbid.......ur just to weak loyal and kind to her thts y she act up ......
Am speaking from experience
No man is ever respected by any woman tht always provide all her need....... increase the fire under her feet and watch her take u seriously........u dey leg she dey drive.....she keep her own them eat ur own .....u ask for inclusiveness she vex........mumu man ....na so my papa do .....my mama don buy house everywhere without him knowing.......ur very annoying.....

this scam looking guy got this chuchy slow ..
Non enterprising mgbeke sister on hire purchase.......but trust me this guy will quickly Bleep his way up to reduce the hire purchase amount......
Quote me foolishly nd I will open the secret about who ur real father is

Emmanuelbolaji:
please house I need advise on this, I don’t know if I should go for my HND or Bsc after OND in public administration

Go learn something mean full and start engaging in something meaningful tht u like very well tht can fetch something.....school is a system tht becloud ur sense of reasoning of futuristic inclusiveness and balance but In reality it's a catalyst tht accelerate your slow growth potential...... Nigeria definition..........advice learn something or invest tht money u want to waste now into something then later go to any stupid university go run part time......school will decieve u and waste ur time ( public administration) hmmm this one is about to suffer x2......

Okwyjesus:
Will they stand on top of your bed to preach THE JESUS IS COMING SOON.

Critising without brain.

But for bible they said they went about preaching the bible.....even Jesus no too stay inside one luxurious bank (church) preaching he went on foot from place to place like his disciples preaching ....na where he for see multitude and his disciples....e.g those fisher men.....our pastor today will never try this they rather stay inside big buildings....

kuroben4real:
You mumu ehn.. where you see high table for church? No be Tinubu and Buhari I dey see for front row? Is it not these same thing as segregation between the poor and the rich? Get brain, una no gree.

who is this idiot did they force u to comments ......fool during outside church related activities. Or even church activities haven't u noticed church arrange sitting patterns and structure for the speaker or guest speaker ....have u seen the pastor sitting on sittings structure with the congregation......idiot like u calling ur father mumu....if not ol.with my exposition y don't u take a work
...... google church (big churches) and see if the pAstor is sitting with the members on the floor or thesme sit......get brain yet this idiot hardly comprehend issues in his environment instead always resort to argument....u will be dealt with one of this days.

naptu2:
Buhari Sallau @Buharisallau1

these humans remains the reason y this useless entity will never grow U see Nigeria youth very useless y go see some one with no useful bench mark to mean full development after years of rulership
U see white folks they don't pretend they make u know say u be idiot irrespective of ur power ....but u see this country youth very stupid and hypocritical...they go there to see him then turn back and complain about his abysmal performance again......if youths begin to boycott these people and stand up for the truth they will know they are not doing well ...but trust Nigeria youth with busybody
The leader will go there and stand with mic while making the following statements
"On behalf of the Nysc batch mumu stream hunger we came here to felicitate with u during this celebration and to commemorate ur good work as a leader...?eye service just for sallah meat and small money to enter their pocket..........when u wake up we will stand up ....

Exousiang01:
There is a difference between the NPF and PSC find knowledge before commenting

over sabi ....the dafts selected under the psc recruitment catalogue fall back to the Npf so if tht person made reference to the police being corrupt wats ur contention about calling him out


Psc ........police service commission (body under police unit tht carry out oversight functions on behalf of the police
Npf ........police .....the police body tht work with the selected things tht the psc brought forward

The person u quoted was not out of context....
Ur just one kind ....

naptu2:
Lagos Deputy Governor's Office @DeputyLagos

the only thing I like about this religion unlike tht fake ass Christianity..... irrespective of ur Status you will sit on the ground .....they are more moralist .....christians are hypocrite.....over sabi ...and fake although both religion are fake as well with central point of self moralism


But u see christians .......they will get high table for the VIP while others will sit on plastic chairs....even inside the church one self acclaimed person will sit on throne with chain like 50 cent then others will sit on wooden chairs or rubber chair

Yaronkirki:
Some pictures from Kano State Eid durbar today.
June 16, 2024

Rubbish ....if not for the selfishness of Britain they would have been like Niger....... drawing us back since independence......with the political stalwarts emanating from that region ......Arid and productive barrenness remains a contender

Quote me out out of context and watch how I will give the real story of who ur real father is ......after ur mom slept around.......

post=130508225:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/6/sad-veteran-actress-stella-ikwuegbu-dies-2.html

some of this actor and actresses na untill they die before we dey know their name.....I know her in movies but never knew her name was Stella

Putindbutt:
Peter Obi is a clown, nobody dey respect him. after kneeling like a goat before the Oba, the oba still rubbished his party candidate before him while Obi himself was still on his knees begging for royal endorsement. Obi is still a boy.

lol they published names of people that will go to heaven I swear go and check the list they have erased ur name ....na only u go dey this earth.......just imagine obi na ur father .....and someone wrote something like this about him....

Kuginzi:
https://leadership.ng/pictorial-peter-obi-donates-cow-to-bauchi-lp-members-to-celebrate-eid-el-kabir/[code][/code]

over ambitious Femboy sissy female voiced man......I swear if this man enter power of which he can never.....he will be Good luck Jonathan promax.......quote me foolishly and see the curse of constant urination fall on ur father scrotum.As for ur mother her mouth odour will chase even her....... Rubbish

Princedapace:
Then Nigeria will never ever be successful till enternity and may get into serious war or extreme crime driven society. Because with uncontrollable birth and terrible opportnunities, come lots of crimes.
This is not about selfishness, regions can partner with other regions. For example, ur region may lack in this and can partner with other regions that have such and benefit one another.
A norther state can partner with another state in the south for green grass and stuff like that.

sorry .....this dream will never come to past .....
Nigerians are naturally cowards, docile, gullible and stupid in nature .....they will rather make adjustments rather to be alive to their plight.......they will not revolt....enjoy the greed of the British in peace.....

2shure:
He stole 25m .and couldn't use 30k to win 30m. Now everyone is broke ,including his father.he would have been claiming yahoo boi on campus,I swear he 4 don go buy one lexus es350 for 7m.use the remaining do dorime for campus.this one even worse dan yahoo plus.if him papa get house now,bank must collect am as collateral. He should be shot dead by the father pls

No,shooting I him will make it easy for him .....the guy is a fool and should die the die of fools ....I suggest they take him to JOS ....where the weather is very cold .....he should be stripped and soaked in ice shilling water and left outside with razor cuts all over his body on a very lonely hill top with all his body tied in the frigid water no food till the cold and pains kill him......

If this animal had succeeded he would HV gone all out wearing coloured soaks with trousers hanging below is waist while still putting on belt then u see him with one useless animal of a girl with leg chain and 5 earrings on her ear......next u will see him shouting......oluwa naim do am for me......before u go say waaaaa the bastard will start singing and featuring humans abi wack things like shallipopi singing wack slow lazy useless songs

Princedapace:
Dear CUPP, if u are reading, carefully read this:

Regional system of govt/decentralization is best because it is hard to hold leaders accountable in the current system. There is a reason why it is a known fact backed by evidences that countries that are in heterogenous in nature rarely succeed while nation states do better all over the world.
The current system makes the governors to hide away from their responsibilities, giving the central govt so much power, the people now focus more on the cental govt, leaving their governors. Now, the central govt who is truly powerful is not easily held accountable because ethnic sentiment will set in. The presidents no matter how incompetent will enjoy the support of his ethnic group. Protesters will be easily seen from ethnic dimension.
Is there a solution to ethnic sentiment? No! There is none! Humans will surely play this ethnic game. I mean, even the most developed societies still battle with racism. The best thing to do is setup a system that makes it harder to experience the impact of ethnic sentiments.
This is one core area regionalism will solve.
With regions, the citizens of the regions will now focus on their regional leaders more who are their own ethnic family members. The sentiment will reduce. Protests wont be seen from the ethnic angle anymore. No matter how u argue it, it will reduce.
The cental leadership would now focus on other things. I mean, Dubai is like a country inside a country. Grant regions such autonomy. Pleasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, enough of the soffocation and by fire, by force tactics na. Humans will always be humans.
Whoever that is in the central will always have more of his ethnic group people around him. This is a fact. We can never ever stop this reality.
There is always the contest for ethnic groups to fight over power. U see power, political power and resources, humans dont joke with this.

Also, regional govt will end the laziness. Regions that wants to wallow in laziness are free to continue like that. Others will be forced to look inward and harness their god given resources and powers. I mean, UK is heavily dependant on service economy. U dont need all the oil in the world to grow. I mean, this will fix that. Some of the regions in Nigeria have the capacity to have a more agric based economy that Netherlands if they work hard.

Thirdly, regional govt will improve security. I mean, regions can now decide how u move into their regions. Not too stricts but they can decide on this.
They have total control of their internal security, so ethnic sentiments wont setin when dealing with security issues.
They control their population. Now, the current system we have encourage us to birth anyhow. I mean, population is a game in politics for the foolish blacks. I mean, some see it as a way to win elections and take over the central govt which gives them full access to riches of the lands.
Now, regional govt has ended this do or die central govt election, if u decide to over populate ur region, that is ur own cup of tea. Regions that wants to enact birth control will do so freely.

The love will be there. Each regions will try so hard not to be left behind. They will naturally love their regions, I mean, they want to be the best.
See eh, the list goes on. I can lecture you on the endless list. This will make a better society, it will help us hold our leaders accountable. I can protest if I want to. Now, I cant protest because I would be tagged a guy from this tribe or that tribe if someone from my ethnic group is not ruling.
Do this and watch Nigeria compete with gtreat countries from Asia in 20 years time.

Blacks are naturally selfish in nature ...now listen u decided to formulate this strenuous epistle bcus I strongly believe ur from the lush or non landlock states in Nigeria thts y ur want this proposal.....for clarity am not against this ....but I swear Nigeria will never go back to this system bcus the most populated state Are arid in all sense and as such they will rather not allow u to come up with this suggestions again .......