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Yes, I was born by mistake and I have accepted the truth. I don’t even know what/how family seems like. I grew up with my grandparent in the village all my life (Esan Edo state). i’m a student of UNIBEN, I’m about to proceed to 200L.

My mother is something I don’t want to talk about, I already talked about her in my previous thread some years ago. infact I have disowned her long time ago. Yes.

My so called father on the other hand, has been deceiving me all my life. He lives in Ogun state with his new wife and 2 children (a boy & a girl). My father only comes to see me whenever he’s invited for a wedding or burial ceremony in the village. Although I won’t lie, he has been paying my school fees, sending me money for up-keep e.t.c but my father doesn’t want me to come and know where he stays. Always giving one stupid excuses to another.

The last stupid excuse he gave me when I told him I wanted to come know his house was “nobody is always around, the children are in boarding school bla bla bla”

I feel void, lonely and empty in my life, I want to know my step siblings, I want to have a good family bond relationship with them, I always wished to have a brother and sister I can talk and laugh with.

My matriculation day, nobody came, my sick grandfather can’t travel from village to Benin wish i so much understand. My father only called me to wish me congratulations and told me to send him pictures on WhatsApp.
Seeing Everyone with their families and loved ones made me cry like a baby that day.

Infact my plan right now is to call my father and tell him my mind, since he sees me as a mistake, he shouldn’t take care of my bills anymore, he should focus on his favorite children. He should just keep staying away from me as usual. I will be fine.

I swear, I’m heart broken, i’m crying, I’m in pain, I hate my life, I’m a mistake, I should’ve been aborted.. Ooh GOD!

I need your advice pls.

James brown and bobrisky should repent and ask God for forgiveness.

BenedictAbajue:
Case has been adjourned but the ex parte order was not extended.
The Supreme court can talk but they cannot execute their judgement.
For peace to reign, follow our darling Buharis order. He is the only one that can execute his judgement. Forget dictatorship. And obey your president.

Thank you sir, God bless you sir.
People are fighting themselves because of this new naira note. This afternoon, someone went to a canteen to eat, after eating, he gave the woman ₦500 old note, the woman rejected it, the guy told the woman that we can still spend the old note because the case is in court until court gives final judgment. But she refused, the woman even held his shirt and they started fighting.

Good afternoon everyone. I hope we're all having a good day? I would be so grateful if someone educates me better on this issue

Here in the village, we are confused about whose order to follow on this new naira note. Is it the federal government, state government or Supreme Court.

Federal Government (President Buhari) said we can only use ₦200 for 60 days but can't use ₦500 and ₦1,000

State Government (El-rufai, Dapo Abiodu, etc..) said old & new naira note is generally accepted within the state. We can go ahead to spend old note.

Supreme Court has adjourned the case to 22nd of February to decide what to do. And since it has been adjourned, that means, we can keep spending the old & new naira note until they come to a conclusion. Please we are confused here.

Jennyclay:
Nice car
Expensive Hair
Expensive jewelries
Expensive Handbag & shoes (to match)

read nd understand before commenting. OP said moderate gift not expensive gift.

I am 17 years old, I am done with my secondary school, I stay with my grandparents in the village, Uromi Edo state. I started living with my grandparents since I was 8 years old around 2013 when my parents got separated. My father live in Abeokuta and he is married to another woman with 2 children. Although my father has been the one paying my school fees and sending me money for up-keep, he even told me to pick jamb form in order to further my education in uniben.

My mother live in Lagos, she has a daughter for another man but they were not married. The man took his daughter and kick my mother out his house. Now my mother is Single, she own a mini bar where she do her ashawo work. She sleeps with men that come to drink in her bar. Her house is just opposite the bar.
No wonder my grandfather ban her from visiting us in village. 9 years I didn't set my eyes on my mother. So when my uncle visited us, I begged him to carry me to Lagos just to see my mother, I also begged my grandparents too.
When I got to Lagos, My mother was looking like a slut. Long eye lashes, nails, chewing gum, tight leggings revealing her bum bum & hip, her skin looks bleached.

Since on Friday evening i came to Lagos I have been crying. She couldn't even respect herself. She have just 1 sales girl in her shop, the girl is also an ashawo, she dressed seductive like my mother, she would be in her early 20s. Anytime men comes around to drink and they want to have sex with my mother or her sales girl, my mother will jst take them to her house opposite the bar.
I told her I will be going back to the village tomorrow, she gave me 25k but I rejected it. I was crying, she was crying too. She could sense that I hate her reckless lifestyle
I am at my uncle's place now, I am so devastated, My heart is wounded. My uncle told me so many things but he said I should forgive her, a day will come that my mother will come looking for me by herself.
I will be at iyare motor park tomorrow morning going back to the village