Am in a situation similar to this, but my own case is a little difrnt. When I was dating my ex bf one of his friends liked me but he did not make any move and one day i mistakenly sent him a msg on whatapp thinking he was someone else.And that same week he started asking me out @ first and now he is saying he wants me to be his bride. And he sounds like his sincere and he seems good like what I want in d man I choose to marry but I know that its wrong to date him cause hes my ex friend and all my friends are like I cant date him it mite b a bet but he seems much older than my ex and very intelligent and also responsible.And he is not my ex best friend and i broke up with my ex over 8months ago. A part of me wants to try and a part of me is scared, like am making a mistake. And if i choose to agree i feel its unfair even though he was the one @ fault in our relationship. And right now am so confuse. I just wish i dint even send d msg that day cause i think am falling.

Wow am presently in a situation similar to this, but my own case is my when I was dating my ex bf one of his friends liked me but he did not make any move and one day i mistakenly sent him a msg on whatapp thinking he was someone else.And that same week he started asking me out @ first and now he is saying he wants me to be his bride. And he sounds like his sincere and he seems good like what I want in d man I choose to marry but I know that its wrong to date him cause hes my x friend and all my friends are like I cant date him it mite b a bet but he seems much older than my ex and very intelligent and also responsible. A part of me wants to try and a part of me is scared, like am making a mistake. And if i choose to agree how am i going to face my ex even though he was the one @ fault in our relationship. And right now am so confuse. I just wish i dint even send d msg that day.

Thanks to evry1 who commented, and rilly i felt beta abt myself. And i told him from the begin i wznt and if he wznt ready to deal with it he shld tk a bow, i wznt talkin 2 him at 1 tym n he apologised 4 mkin me fill bad. And lata we quaralled and he read so many meanins and lata said its difficult for him 2 accept me as non virgin. So i worked on letin him go which i tink i av, bt d pain of losin my virginity is stil dere. And sumtyms i wish i cn turn bck d hands of tym bt i cant so i decided to jus b me.And if a guy cant tk me for wu i am den he shld tk a bow.And by the way av been practicing celibacy and i tink it hz workd its nt easy bt i thank God. And the fact am not a virgin doesnt mk me lesser dan other girls and what matas most is my character. Thanks once again [color=#006600][/color]

I met a guy whom i so loved, bt just that he wanted a virgin and am not one bt i wanted to give him my best. But he just couldn't accept dt i was not a virgin. So i just wonda guys would u condemn a girl that is not a virgin. And which do u prefer?

I dont think i understand your comment. And i speak based on facts and the bible God disciplines his servants himself not us. Whr u pple d one that called him no so face ur business and am not a worshiper of men and niether do i have that grace. I fear God thats what matas to me.

frosbel:


Pastor Kumuiyi is not more special than any of GOD's children, in fact be careful because that which is highly regarded among MEN is an abomination to GOD.

When people like you start to worship mere MEN, it is our responsibility to call you to order.

"But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant" - Luke 22:26

We make our religions or doctrine for our self and make Christianity so difficult for people. When God sent Jesus to make it easier and all we need to do is to blive that Jesus was born and came to die for our sins. We just cr8 doctrines that make life hard. DL so sorry to say this and pls no offense shld be tkn but u guys are 1 hell of pple menn. Wow i cant bliv that there pple wu rzn like this bcs i make up, wear jewelries and wear a skirt dt is above my kneel den am on my way to hell. wow, den i think so many of us are on that track but God forbid and he said judge not so y do we judge and make christianity a big deal wen its so easy and sweet to walk with God. Wow, 2 women i love so much are Junita bynum she wears heels to preach she even runs on dem when the spirit is in another level,she does makeup, she fyn and the late bimbo olukoya. Pls u guys shld grow and be matured mentaly mennnnn. And i think is just bad belle dt is woring u pple and u nid to porge wow

DL members are very very shalow in tinking

joiam:

Which Bible standard dear proud denominationally proud Pharisee, which bible standard is DL upholding? You've quoted no scripture to support your assertion! Pride goeth before a fall. Read Rom 10:1-3.

Be carefullevry one dt judges the pastor kumuyi and his children. Touch not my anionted and do my prophet no harm. The only person that has the right to judge d pastor is God, he knws ow he ll handle itand if u try to help God. hmmmmmmmmmm u r bringing danger to urself and your home. And secondly wether i wear a makeup or use jewelries it does not determine my faith. Every one have teir own personal relationship. And to everyone who says that the couple is or are on a wrong track it shows the level of your mentality. Christianity is a personal race and we cant really know who is sincere to the faith or not and certainly not wearing makeup and jewelries does not show that am a christian. And thirdly, u never know how difficult it is to be a pastors child, we tend to forget that the children have their own life to leave and sometimes its diffrent from their fathers own. And we often tnd tohelp them destroy their lives by picking on them every little thing they do. My point is the pastors son might have his own diffrnt way of lyf. And lastly i cant imagine myself looking ugly on my wedin day, its the one day i ll always refer to. And i cant afford to wear china white made wedin gown and tie a scarf common i have to loke beautiful is my day ,mennnnnn. Pls rethink and dont bring Gods wraht on ur household cause u think the pastors son dint do what was right u r no God.