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Even as a full blooded Igbo I support SA on this.
Make we try to de rest Abeg.
Our own don de too much

I seriously doubt it was deliberate. Don't assume that every body on steeling wheel knows how to drive or experienced.
It will safe your life when u avoid front of any moving vehicle..
Break might fail..
Driver might be inexperienced
E.t.c

advanceDNA:
U better keep ur daughter far away…: someone that starved a child and threw her out can kill oooo…. Most women dont do well with other women's children

the hatred is something unexplainable and they expect your to love and pay for their kid if tables turn

Thanks

Gotocourt:
From personal childhood experiences, stepmom only love their biological kids. Do away with that woman, keep your assets documents away from that house, your life might be on the line, use your head, don't snooze on this 📌💯🙌👌

Thanks.

Greetings all .
I'm having a serious issue in my home and I need to listen to other peoples options and advise.
Please this might be abit long, try and read to end.
Brief summary about me.
I'm 38 years old man, married for close for 6 years now but no child.
We have done everything possible, go to many hospitals and do all kinds of test no way.
I Love my wife so very much and am willing to travel that path with her as long as it takes ,even though our problem is; well, am not and have never blamed her, I believe God is God of miracles.
I have 2 girls..I have them long before I meet my wife. I was never married to their mother but we are cool.
I take care of my girls,their warfare and schooling.
2020 I relocated to the same state where my Girls and their mother stays but I never let them (My children) knew. From 2020 to 2024 I visited them just twice both occasions they thought I came from the state where I work.
I did that Just to create boundaries and to avoid creating any form of doubt in the mind of my wife.
Though it was never easy for me but I have to endure it.
That 2024 was my first girl is graduation from primary and she insist I must come which I did.
When I came back I told my wife that we will be bring her to stay with us from 2025 Sept and continue her schooling..
My reasons is because
# The area they are staying is pure ghetto and I don't want her been influenced
# Her performance in school is dropping at speed of light which I also attribute to the environment.
# Again the mother remarried and I don't really trust a stranger with my daughter considering that they are staying in one room .
# I need to bond and create memories with my girls.
This and many more are the reasons why I decided she moved in with us.
We are staying in 2 bedroom apartment and it is my wife alone for most part of the year because I work in the North, and my work took me away for 4 months and 2 months off.
The issue now is, from that 2024 I told my wife about my daughter coming it has been war ..
I deliberately gave her 1 year notice because I know her very well. Still nothing change .
Fast forward to Sept 2025 I decided to go ahead and bring her since all the discussions,pleading , explanation, begging failed.
From the moment the girl step her feet into our house my wife became coldly hostile.
She don't allow her do or touch anything in the house , she complain and throw tantrum over everything the child did , I tried all I could to make her loosen up with the child , no way. I even have to extend my traveling back for like two weeks to see if I can help her settle in.
I enroll her in school , which she (my wife) kicked against, before traveling back.
Just two days after traveling back the hell let lose .
I was in a meeting when my wife messages pop in , that she can't no longer stay with the girl..
Immediately I came out of the meeting I called her to know what the issue is,
Guess what? That she saw my girl calling her mother from another person's phone .
Well ,I am against that too. I warned my girl and even the mother against that ..
I made it clear that only my phone and my wife's phone will they communicate with .
But you know children and again my wife is making her stay and settling in very difficult.
I tried to descalate the situation and pacify my wife by pleading with her and also threatening my girl and the mother that am sending her back to her mother.
But from that day my wife won't let me have peace , every second she kept asking when the mother is coming to pick the child , every effort to calm her down fail
On the 3rd day she threatened to go hand her over to police if the mother fail to come that day and pick her .
I have to call the mother and plead with her to go talk to the girl and advise her. Because she herself want to keep a distance from my house but my wife is not letting go.
So She suggested to go pick her and stay with her over the weekend instead because that day was Friday, but I refused.
Unfortunately I was charging my phone when she got to my house they called I couldn't pick .
when I finally called back she have already gone with the girl since my wife is insisting she should go with her daughter.
Truth I was mad with her because that was not what we agreed. I have to even tell her to stay full one week with the girl since she go against our agreement.
I called my wife from after 8 to 11:59pm she was on call all through but refused to my calls, who she was on calls with I don't know .
On Monday my baby Mama return my girl as promised.
But to My greatest shock I received a call on Tuesday evening that My wife refused to give my girl food from that Monday evening , taunting her to go back to her mother that if not hunger will kill her. This continues till Wednesday evening when I finally asked the mother to go pick her up and pack her things .
Yes she attempted not giving her on two occasions in that two weeks I stayed with them before traveling but I never expected that in my absence she can do that.
The pain is unbearable for me..it cost me a lot to bring that girl and I have already have my self planned out.
For 6 years now my wife is not doing anything,
I am 100% responsible for her well-being and upkeep. Every effort to make her start work or start business failed , I have started multiple businesses for her to manage she run it down before it even started ..
But I just choose to live with it since she is my wife she is my wife .
Same woman can't allow my child in her space .
Since that night that she ignored my calls I have not talked to her on phone till date
So many people has tried to talk to me to calm down but I am not having it.
Mind u, this is not first instance. There has been occasions when talks of bringing relatives, like nephews and nieces to stay with her arises she kick against it with many excuses . I have to let go because I don't want issues in my home,but this is my daughter.
We have not talked since then because I insist that for we to talk about next way forward she will refund me the money I spent to enroll that girl in school and she will bring her back by herself this time..
Then , and only then will we will come to table to discuss with the two families about next way forward.
I don't know, Are my over reacting ?
My major anger in all this, is starving my child in my house and the rate at which she spread stories and drag my house outside ..
Even people who are not supposed to call me and talk to me about marriage and relationships were all calling and talking to me ..

Who sent you to go pick form?

cloud:
it's because of the same military that you sleep peacefully in your bed. It's unfortunate that some many military personnel have paid the supreme price just to keep ingrates like you from harm's way. If it were easy, kindly pick up an army form and show them how it is supposed to be done.

enemyofprogress:
I'm beginning to hate that local champion called Osimhen. He should get lost abeg

Honestly. The guy has a serious gutter attitude

obiekunie01:
NA WHNE UNA WAN SHOW GRIEVIANCE, UNA GO REMEMBER SAY SOUTH-EAST IS NEGLECTED JUST TO BALANCE THE EQUATION.


SOUTHEAST NO SEND ANY OF UNA MESSAGE MAKE UNA LEAVE US IN OUR STATE OF FEDERAL NEGLECT.

Abeg make una continue with una one naijeria fulaniyoruba no call us into your husband and wife matter!

You took that from my mouth, bunch of hypocrites.
We no send their papa.

North Central kee?

Like Tiv, Jukun, Bachama, Yandam, and co right ?

Who ever dish out this stat must be high on something wey pass his power

Mossad and their cheap disinformation
Immediately UK and other choose to recognize Palestinian,
Boom !!Hamas release parting pictures.🤣🤣🤣
They know Nigerians religious bigots will surely buy into that nonsense

malali:
As everyday goes by, I start believing , Hamas was sponsored by Israel to cause chaos to justify invasion of Gaza.

It is not a conspiracy theory it is fact. Mossad carry out Oct 7 attack.
How on earth will u believe that Hamas has means and resources to plan and execute attack of such scale at Israel back yard without Israel notice?
It is not possible

Igirigimercenar:
It is obvious, Maduro is as good as gone. They set a trap for you and you fell for it. The plan is simple, provoke Venezuela into taking some irrational decisions and boom! Next is invasion

It won't take America more than a month to get rid of you Maduro. Nothing even Russia can save you as it is now

Naso they talk in before going to Vietnam, Korean, Syria and Afghanistan...
But the paper tiger not just failed in each occasion but was beating like small pikin in each occasion.
Venezuela go soon disgrace them

God1000:
Vladimir Putin reminds me of Joseph Stalin, they both sent tens of thousands of their soldiers to die in needles wars

Nlfpmod

Rest

Raxxye:
So because the know the terrain and can speak the language makes them not to be Fulanis?
Dey play!
Who knows the terrain of any area than the Fulanis who work and live in the forest?

It is not News that 90 percent of all the crimes done in Benue is done by Tiv people.

No wonder they are so desperate for cease fire.
12 more days would have been devastating for Isreal to say the least

The United States blew through about a quarter of its supply of high-end THAAD missile interceptors during Israel’s 12-day war with Iran in June, according to two sources familiar with the operation, thwarting attacks at a rate that vastly outpaces production.

US forces countered Tehran’s barrage of ballistic missiles by firing more than 100 THAADs (short for Terminal High Altitude Area Defense) – and possibly as many as 150 – a significant portion of America’s stockpile of the advanced air defense system, the sources said. The US has seven THAAD systems, and used two of them in Israel in the conflict.

Using so many THAAD interceptors in such a short period exposed a gap in the US missile defense network and depleted a costly asset at a moment when American public support for Israeli defense has reached historic lows.

Former US defense officials and missile experts told CNN that the rapid drawdown has also raised concerns about America’s global security posture and ability to regenerate supplies at speed.

Last year, the US procured only 11 new THAAD interceptors and is expected to receive just 12 more this fiscal year, according to the 2026 budget estimates from the Department of Defense.
US used about 25% of its THAAD missile interceptors during Israel-Iran war | CNN https://edition.cnn.com/2025/07/28/middleeast/us-thaad-missile-interceptor-shortage-intl-invs

igala1:
The attack by Hamas in October was all a setup. Natanyanhu got intelligence Hamas operations before the D-day. He was already unpopular and was facing corruption charges at home. He needed a master plan to distract the Israel, he created the war. Boom! He allowed Hamas attack on Israel soil. He baited them so he could gain worldwide symphaty and the have a reason to go to war. His plan worked, it so it seemed.
Under his regime, Israel has committed the worst genocide in recent history. Our God is fair and just. Natanyanhu would not go unpunished.

Thanks you. At least I see one person who reason and think intelligently.
How did anyone believe that Hamas planned and executed Oct 7, 2023 without Mossad Knowledge beat my imagination.
Mossad that can snif and take out someone underground far far away from Israel ,
Miss such an operation planned and executed from their back yard.
Can someone make it make sense

I know it might take Long but Palestinians will surely come out victorious.
Israel and their evil supporters will surely be disgraced.

StoryHaven:
A comedian who knows his right is not foolish. He is a comedian with balls.
No one dictates to a country how to live their lives, especially when they don't hurt anyone.

Putin is the Coward. He fears joining NATO by a sovereign State is a threat and so, because he is stronger than them, he should bully. Why has anyone not wage war on Rusia for associating with Korea and China. Are they not ganging up to form a force against the US?
PUTIN is the coward.
ZELENSKY is one of the brave guys of this world and no matter what happens, his name in history stands to have confronted a stronger bully for years in a war that was thought to be over in weeks or months.

Smoking is dangerous to your health

Cherrybae:
Russia sponsored this protest
Wether Russia likes it or not Ukraine will never surrender to Russia.

In next two weeks I see Ukraine keeling Russia to dust with superior equipment from NATO

I pity Russia

Quite weed. It is obviously not good for your system

sweetjohn:
Na for your papa house they come beg. You guyz just like lies. Is that what your religion is all about lies upon lies. Iran went to EU and they agreed for ceasefire, Israel accepted it since Israel has achieved their aim which is destruction of their nuclear facilities thru the help of US cos US is the only country that can do such with their B2 shealt and secondly, the degradation of Iran military capabilities and capacities

Ewu ohia!! Achieved which aim exactly nwa bingo.
Hahaha..
Even CNN, for the first time was mindful and careful of the lies.
Nuclear facility destroyed and Trump is forming of second bombing or probably handing Israel bunker busting bombs,
To do what with exactly?
Nuclear facility destroyed and Trump was attacking CNN that they are trying to undermine the unproven and imaginary successful mission.
If that war continues till now Iran would have levelled Isreal to Rubbles.
Why will Israel accept Cease with Iran but refused that of Hamas since they believe their self and also winning ?

Wizardslayer:
Chinese are known to be coward and very unstable set of people.

They actually don't want Russia to loose the war against Ukraine but they allowed Iran to loose the war against Israel.

How did Iran lose against Israel?
Last time I remembered it was Isreal crying all over the media begging for cease fire

PHIPEX:
What can China do, which War has China won in histroy ?

Poor student of history

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Oga rest abeg.
Other than Morality forget that consequences bullshit.
It is all scam

bigpicture001:
Trump came in this year.. war is 3 years and counting...

Okay, Russia didn't start with its army only children, soon the men will join... Or maybe they key to the door housing the armoury was lost since , but now found...

Hellelujay, Russia has arrived .

Joke is on u bro! Dream on!

Actually the joke is on you. Because I reply your delusion where u stated that Trump is the one stopping URK from hitting Russia by not giving them needed or enough weapons.
I want to remind you that the last time their where giving go ahead to use US and UK weapon to to target deep inside Russia , Russia
Nuclear Policies where adjusted and they were hit with something beyond their imagination called Oreshnik,though without Warhead.

If not the coming of Trump that halt those weapons and it use.
It would have been very very very devastating for URK