See ppl mama siddon for corner...oga o. Wow! Firstto comment...lol

BrideOfDracula:


Yeah. Maybe she needs more time to calm down.

Yeah.....I guess
I even hate the process of having to. Meet,bcm frndz......before d dating stage. Its too long

Jorussia:
Op forget about her.There is no lady that is irreplaceable.

Think of the fact that I av bin so used to her. M always finding it difficult to let go.....js like when I lost my mom

BrideOfDracula:


Who knows? Maybe she will come back or maybe she won't. Some guys tend to not appreciate what they have until it's too late. You could try having a talk with her. Ask her where you went wrong & try to make amends if you believe she's too good to let go. It could be that all she needs is a little more effort from you. IDK. Good luck.

I actually did ask but u won't believe she said "I thought u were more experienced,u shld av figured it out" as if I am a magician. To crown it all,Shes not ready for dialogue.... Wat more can I do?

Curvinus:
Bros, attraction cannot be negotiated. Ive seen this play out far too many times to not fall for the lame crap about trying to talk sense into her head as is being suggested by some cringe inducing posts above. This will only lead to more tears by the time you see her looking lustfully at your friends/relatives whom you know are by far below your social and economic status.

Even if she decides to return after so much prodding by you, she'll just end up overcompesating, a diluted form of the genuine desire you once knew, leading to mental torture for you and her and then another painful breakup, loneliness and dry spell.

You really need to move on but try to always keep two or more in the kitty. A MAN WITH OPTIONS IS A MAN WITHOUT NEEDS. Women by nature love tension and drama and if you don't give her one, she'll create one for herself and you are once again a dead duck.

You may not agree with this but there are many beautiful women out there that you can still fall in love with and I guarantee you that the moment you go out well dressed, nicely perfumed and start approaching, you'll be drowning in more love than you ever imagined was possible.

But have it at the back of your mind that woman's love is conditional and opportunistic. In other words, it is based on how she feels, vis-a-vis competion, jealousy and the good feelings you are able to bring to her. She is not capable of loving you unconditionally in the manner you imagine is possible. That kind of love is only reserved for her kids and this is activated by maternal instincts.

Thank you sir. So far, this is d best motivative talk I've heard. I guess you are a counsellor n if ure not, u shld think abt bcming one. Thank you sir.

cbliss:
Dude be a MAN!!!




Grow some BALLS!!!




.....and walk away.....



Wts wrong with guys sef.....she giving u attitude and u here howling......#pissedmuch

bro.....it takes time to build a relationship, u dnt js walk away like that. I ve kinda invested all my time,money,emotions n what have u. Is not that easy

BrideOfDracula:
Hmmm, I can't say I blame her. Her IQ may be low, according to you, but it sounds like she has an EQ of a genius because no offence, parts of your post do sound a little condescending eg. "She was catching up fast". I'm not saying that you put her down in her presence but she probably picked/sensed that you thought she was below par & not on your level intellectually. Maybe you acted out your thoughts subconsciously, IDK. Or maybe during the relationship some things were said, which she forgave but didn't forget (creating resentment in her), which made her realize you were only Mr Right Now rather than Mr Right. Shrugs.

If she thinks/feels she has a perfect match in someone else out there, then I suggest you let her be.

BrideOfDracula:
Hmmm, I can't say I blame her. Her IQ may be low, according to you, but it sounds like she has an EQ of a genius because no offence, parts of your post do sound a little condescending eg. "She was catching up fast". I'm not saying that you put her down in her presence but she probably picked/sensed that you thought she was below par & not on your level intellectually. Maybe you acted out your thoughts subconsciously, IDK. Or maybe during the relationship some things were said, which she forgave but didn't forget (creating resentment in her), which made her realize you were only Mr Right Now rather than Mr Right. Shrugs.
If she thinks/feels she has a perfect match in someone else out there, then I suggest you let her be.

yea,I guess I must av hurt her n she never forgave. U won't believe I kip dreaming n I saw her cm back..dnt js knw where pick up

I met her in church 2012, actually,her frnd was d one who caught my eyes @first, but I lost interest later. She n I became friends n soon became so fond of each other. On d 16th of May 2015,we decided to start dating officially. I got to find out that her level of IQ was kinda low, still, I never wanted no other cos I knew I could work on it. @first,she was catching up fast....even to d extent that I began to see myself in her. Strict,I was but.....I usually ask if I was too hard on her but.....her replies were always dsame (No). Mostimes,I feel m too harsh but she never complained..dis made my love for her grow so much faster. In April 2016,I bought a ring n I asked her to marry me. I saw tears in her eyes, I suddenly noticed I was in tears too. She didn't utter a word,she stormed out of my apartment Nd next tin she told me was dat she needs to pray abt it. I was a bit relieved until one day 16th May 2016(exactly one year later) she gave me d shock of my life.(guess she's bin planning it)......she said Iv always treated her like she was a nobody,I dnt respect her,I don't love her,I don't value n appreciate her. She said I only wanted to engage her cos I felt my ppl liked her dat I don't love her. She said,She'll find someone who will love,cherish,value n take her for who she is. All diz was over d fone. As I write,we avnt seen in 2 months n she warned that if I call,she wouldn't pick n dats exactly what she's been doing. Good ppl,what should I do? I cry everyday, hope I won't wound myself coupled with d fact that I live alone.. Plz help me. Did same girl dat I cld gv my life to actually sent a msg to me dat ppl dnt value wat dey av until its gone. I still never saw what I did to warrant such treatment... WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE HER COME BACK