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chatinent:
Premarital sex isn't good, bro; you are entangled with its aftermath.


Well,



Maltreat wey dem go maltreat this boy wear pyjamas dey pluck orange.

It may not necessarily be that she wants to maltreat him. Front the way she acts around him I believe she cares for him

ImaIma1:
You actually need to teach your son to be a bit independent. And quit giving him everything he cries for; it won't help both of you in the long run. If you let him grow up that way, you will be in trouble because he will be annoyingly spoilt.

Of course it will affect your relationship. Even if you had a wife and you are overindulging your child, it would still be a problem. So, your gf might not be bad or have the mind to maltreat him as some people are insinuating.

Just try to balance both. Another option is to allow him stay with his mum if that would be healthier for him.

I appreciate your words. I'll try to do as you've said

Thanks for your input

Hey guys, hope you are all doing fine? Please I need your candid advice on this issue I'm having right now.
Ps: I don't know if this should be here or not so please bear with me

So I'm a single dad, with a two year old son. I had issues with his mom during the lock down and she left. We weren't married but were planning to, by December 2020. Needless to say, things didn't work out for some reason. She wanted to go with my son but I vehemently refused because I was afraid I might not see him anytime soon if she leaves with him. He was just 11 months old and we've lived alone together since.

Recently, I met this girl whom I like a lot and would want to be with permanently if things to to plan. She comes and spends time with me whenever she can and has been of immense assistance to me.

The thing now is, my son has become so attached to me and spends every waking and even sleeping minute beside or on top of me, as the case may be. He won't let her come close to me (this especially impacts us when we would love to spend some adult time alone). He practically refuses to play alone or sleep alone. I think living alone with me for so long may have spoilt him because I carry him always and gives him whatever he desires as far as I can provide.

Now,my girlfriend thinks I'm spoiling him and sometimes gets upset when he cries and when I give him stuff he cries for. She also gets upset when we can't have our alone time due to his presence. I've tried to calm her down telling her it's just a phase that he will ultimately outgrow but then I don't think it's working for her. I honestly understand her frustrations and I don't want to lose her for this reason but I most certainly don't want my child to live with anyone else apart from me. Most especially as I'm always at home due to the collapse of my business during the lock down. He's the only thing that kept me sane during that hard time and even now.

I need advice on what to do in order for everyone involved to be happy given the situation. Thanks for your time and suggestions if any. Bless✌️

The number of people coming out everywhere to support Abba Kyari beggers belief and goes to show the level of corruption in this country. If he's innocent as he claims to be, let him go to the US and defend himself before the FBI instead of hiding behind the evil and corrupt government that will do everything possible to shield one of their cronies. My two cents!