Reminds me of a couple of years back when my younger sis brought vouchers back from the company where she worked in Lagos. They give each staff a full booklet like cheque book to use for a whole year. We usually used them at ShopRite. The thing make sense die

I can understand the OP from the aspect that it's painful to be in such as situation after years of graduation. But, to be angry at others' successes is where i draw the line. I'm facing similar situation too after graduating in 2010 without a job till now, but I'm happy for my younger ones who are doing better than me right now, especially my kid sis who just travelled out earlier this year. U can't blame others for how ur life turned out but u can try to learn what they did that made dem successful. That's what I'm trying to do right now. I hope u do the same too. Cheers!

One day you will wake up in hell and all your wokeness, handsomeness, wealth and smartness will not be invalid. Then you will see the stupidity in doubting God's existence. Stay woke

KINGJAJA888:
Nairalanders Good day. My Pops is a Senior Pastor in one of the Pentecostal Churches in Nigeria and has devoted his life to Church.
Ironically I don't believe in God. Never been the religious type. I See no sense that in 2022 humans still live by a book written by someone in 18BC. Doesn't make any sense to me.
Pops wishes I were religious lyk him carrying some big story book (Bible) with me about Lol.
I'm too woke for those fairy tales Sorry.
Watch my Pops dedicate his whole life to someone's business (Church) as they seriously exploit him.
I've advised him Severally but he won't listen. I Can't be like him. I'm Smart, Handsome, Rich and Non-religious. And I Will remain so.

The existence of God defies logic so u cannot explain it with common sense. Also, what u believe is a conscious choice and so no one person can force u to believe in the existence of God Almighty, no matter how hard they try. But a day will come when the truth will be revealed and then it may be too late to change ur mind. I just pray that God, through His Holy Spirit, will reveal Himself to you cos people like you are the reason why Christ came to die on the cross in the first place

Ironically I don't believe in God. Never been the religious type. I See no sense that in 2022 humans still live by a book written by someone in 18BC. Doesn't make any sense to me.

There is no action without a cause. The rrason why people do the things u mentioned is materialism so u have not stated anything different from what the op posted. The fact that America and others u mentioned are successful doesn't mean their methods are not without demerits


4 major things ruining young people which is directly related to their choices are
Betting/Gambling
Yahoo Yahoo/Fraud
Prostitution/Runs
Drugs[/quote]

What's her previous sex life like? Was she molested before? Cos from experience I've seen someone who was abhsed sexually and due to the trauma blocked anything about sex mentally to the extent that sex was a no-no. I think it might be a psychological problem, which can only be cured by a psychologist. Also, I've read on Instagram about a woman who experienced painful sex for years after marriage. I think surgery was the solution to the issue in the end. Bottom line, a gynecologist should know more if onky she's willing to try. It all depends on her

Any sensible person that watched that match and voted CR7 as MOTM needs their head examined. They are doing everything to rubbish Chelsea FC. E no go better for all of dem

The problem with people like you is that you like to over analyze things just to sound intelligent. Some people sleep better while nude, you know? Also, why assume she's making things up just to suit your narrative that every girl is an olosho? That's why rapists get away with their crimes coz the victims are shamed when they speak out. If it was a business deal gone wrong as u insinuate, I'm sure she won't come out boldly to say otherwise knowing that the fact would be revealed in the end. Try to give people the benefit of doubt until proven otherwise. Thank u


[qquote author=Originalsly post=112043954]I'm still chewing on her story ... just can't swallow it. Too many things not normal. She had reservations about travelling alone as a female ... but yet slept naked? ... on pretty much the first night? Lights out... room dark... rapist somehow enters the dark room ... takes off all his clothes... lays besides her on the dark bed... and strokes her breasts? .. rapist engaging in pre intimacy? ... and steering her hands to get a grip of his gadget? This must be the world's gentlest rapist ... the first and the last. More like they were probably hanging out earlier... she got high... he brought her back to the room... she undressed and fell aleep... and he made a move. He first fondled her breasts... and she didn't react... said she thought it was a dream ... maybe he took that to mean it was OK to continue ... got undressed and ready for action... and continued where he left off... handling her breasts and moving her hand to get a good grip of his goody... and that's when she came to herself.... two hours down from the high.... when she can now smell the guy. Place was dark... can't see... but knew the guy was naked. Wake up with strange naked cool and calm man in bed... and wouldn't scream? ... even a dumb woman would scream so loud that every drunk in 5he hotel would hear... it is the go to weapon in every woman's defense arsenal. But noooo ... she is thinking of running her hands on his body to identify him... really? The guy in turn ... finds her mouth in the dark and covers it. At 2 a.m he agrees to leave the room to go get a condom... from where?... the Mall?... and return to start the main course. Really?... just one more ... the guy took $1100 from her purse ... out for the day with $1100 in purse?.. in hotel? Why didn't the guy take it in the first place while she was asleep? More like the guy took back money paid for services not rendered.... more likely one of the Russian guys she was hanging out with all day. Almost nothing she alleged makes sense. I agree with the findings that it was a personal matter ... agreement gone wrong. Extortionist.[/quote]

From the expertise displayed on the video, It is obvious this isn't the first time those children are engaging in such act. Both sets of parents failed in the duty and this is what led yo this mess. The school is culpable too and should face the backlash along with the parents

Victor Ikpeba's dad is Isoko from Delta State and his mum is yoruba.

sotall:


Na family matter. Both are Edo sons.

Make una leave them.

You should count yourself lucky that she at least opened up to tell you she no longer has feelings towards you.

Fom what you said, the signs were there but you chose to ignore. Now her bottled up feelings have become unbearable hence she's venting. It is now up to you to wake up and smell the coffee, disolve the union cos apparently it's heading nowhere.

Failure to act now could prove disastrous as has been seen in the past. You don't want to end up poisoned to death or something. Leave while u still can as she's unwilling to engage in anything to sort things out.

Many couples are in a loveless union, which they try to manage, probably out of shame. It doesn't usually end well. A word is enough for the wise

Yes the economy plays a part but poor parenting is top of the list as is materialism

MONEY247:
It's a time for sober reflection...!!!!

Poor economy....(I weep as I write)
Corrupt systems.......may we be able to get it right....when it's time...!!

I'm in Oghara and the level of prostitution in this town is astonishing to say the least.

mariovito:
It is. I was surprised with what I saw when I came to Asaba in November and went to Hampton's to relax.

Which town are you in?

That's true. I didn't realize it was this bad over here though cos this is a relatively small town.

mariovito:
This is not limited to Delta, its everywhere.

The kids born after '96 are something else.

Hello Nairalanders,

I recently went out for a drink after so many years and what I observed was truly disturbing.

As I sat down with the bottle of drink i ordered, I couldn't help but notice a lot of young, pretty and scantily clad girls around (some couldn't be up to 18 surely). I began to wonder if there was a brothel around, but discovered that there was indeed none.

This made me curious as to what all these girls were parading around for. I soon found out that these young girls were waiting for clients. Some of these clients are borderline teenagers and kids, who somehow drive expensive cars.

When they arrive, they don't waste much time, they just go straight to the girls and start negotiation.

I was fortunate to hear one. He was telling the girl: "see babe, i no want phuck na just bj I want. I go give u 25k for night." Soon they departed. I was astonished cos that's like a teacher's salary for a whole month gone just like that.

I began to wonder why young girls and boys engage in such acts but the answer is not far fetched: too much money in the hands of small boys and too much love for material things on the part of the girls.

Girls in these parts can do anything for an iPhone or bone straight. They don't even care who the guy is or where they are being taken to for this escapade. Thats how one girl i know almost got used for rituals cos she was coming back home late from one of her walkabouts. The bikeman diverted into the bush with her and she found herself in their den with many girls already dead with missing body parts. When it got to her turn, it was diacovered that she was seeing her period so she couldn't be touched. They took her and dumped her along the express that night after collecting all her valuables. She vowed never to return to such activties, but within a week she was back in full force. Many have gone and never returned, leaving their families bereft.

Folks don't keep tab on the activities of ther children nowadays, thereby giving kids the freedom to do as they wish. Some parents don't even know their daughters are dead cos they re supposed to be in school, not knowing they have derailed and paid the ultimate price with their lives.

I don't know how we got here, but i wish parents will take more responsibility and our young ones will find better ways of living.

Peace

You have to have the capacity for such conversations before having them.

The average Nigerian girl hates conversation and see it as boring when it doesnt involve money, hair, iPhone etc. That's why they end up marrying total strangers and when things go south, they rush to social media to cry and seek sympathy.

It was so shocking to see Simon doing his leg like lekeleke and Osimhen falling and throwing his arms up at every opportunity. Worse, was Ayew who has only scored two goals in 52 matches for his club.

I last watched SE in 2013 but wanted to see what the hype was about based on Afcon performance. I think I'll be best served not watching more if this is the level of talent these teams can offer

Stop deceiving yourself. Mary is not your bkessed mother neither can she save you. She's just a mere human like you

toobusy:
Our blessed mother will sure intervene in this case......I love you holy Mary, protect us all as we all fly to ur patronage

So God get mama? These people can deceive themselves sha. Ordinary woman like themselve na dem dey pray to. SMH

BarrElChapo:


Lolz na prayer try pray am.

Yes, apparently it's located in Herbert Macaulay Way, Zone 5, Wuse Abuja where I've never been to

iHart:
does the bank have a physical address?

I'm as surprised as you are. Ive Googled the bank and its located in Abuja. I also wroe an email to them but they haven't responded yet

iHart:
How can a bank give you an overdraft of 2million naira when you are barely their customer. ...and this is a year the account was opened and they have never contacted you over the overdraft. You need to sort this out oh

[quote author=iHart post=111128215]Hmmm, try to contact the bank...
already did via email but no response so far

I don't know where exactly to post this so kindly bear with me.

So today I wanted to take a loan and the lending company sent my credit report stating that my credit score was too low to be given a loan. So i took a closer look at the report to see what's up.

Lo and behold, i was confronted with a report i could scarcely believe! It stated on the report that i had or took an overdraft from Consumer microfinance bank in Abuja as far back as 18th March 2020 to the tune of 2,000,000 (Two Million).

I've never heard of that bank neither have i taken any loan or overdraft up to 100k at any time! This got me worried as I don't know the implication of this, especially as it says in the report that it is still an open situation.

I recall that a few years back, my mom asked me to submit my bank details and passport photo at the church, saying govt wanted to give grants to citizens via religious organisations.

Could it be that the money was paid and someone took my share hence its recorded on my report? If so, what does that mean to me? As in, can i be held liable for that?

Pls someone with knowledge about this explain to me. Thanks

Memberclub:
Facebook lol
Home of fake news

This is not fake though. You can verify that by going to Facebook and watching the video. I just started the source of the story cos thats the way it should be. Sapele OGHENEK is very well known as a source of Sapele gists amongst Safarians in Facebook bwith videos and pics to prove the veracity of their stories

AfricanGiant91:
His daughter or a girl of his daughter age??
can't comprehend how your D*ck go rise to your own blood...
if dis story nah true abeg carry dem go Mountain Of Fire Ministry close to the area, dem need deliverance

The story is very true as there is a video of both of them being interrogated.

Facebook lol
Home of fake news[/quote]

For those of you doubting the story stating that the guy looks too young to father that girl, I will just tag you as ignorant of the way people bear children at a very young age in Delta state. Besides there are videos of this happening that i can't post here for some reason. Go to Facebook and search for Sapele OGHENEK and watch the video yourself

A young man has today been caught at a hotel (name withheld) in Sapele Delta State, sleeping with his daughter. The incidence, which occurred at a guest house behind Zenith Bank, Okirighwre Sapele was reported by Sapele OGHENEK, a popular Facebook page. When interrogated, the young girl disclosed that this was not the first time, as it was her father who deflowered her a while back.

This is not the first of its kind in Sapele and it's environs and one is forced to wonder the motive behind such dastardly acts.

The Delta state polytechnic otefe-Oghara, has been shut down for the next two weeks after violence erupted some hours ago between rival cult groups. Trending videos and images show the body of a student being carried in the rain by fellow students after he has attacked by about 8 black clad boys. He was said to have run from his class to another class on sighting them, but was trailed there and mercilessly clubbed and finally hit with a block on his head, after which they left. Reportsalso indicate that there have been reprisal attacks on two other students along staff quarters road Otefe killing both on the spot. The course of the violence is yet to be known as at time of reporting this. Otefe has recently become a hotbed of cult activities and his has prompted the management of the school to close it down for the next two weeks to forestall further violence.

Hmm, I graduated from university in 2010 and since then I've only been employed for a grand total of about 6 months as a teacher then I quit cos I wasn't paid. Since then no job just hustling

yanabasee1:



lol....


Op doesn't seems to see it coming.....


She has already developed hatred for the boy.... She will not have it if you eventually get married to her and treat this one better than her own kids in the future....


You have to teach that boy how to survive on his own already.... Coz sooner or later the love you have for him will be taken away from her due to how much you want to keep her....

While what you just wrote is not beyond the realms of possibilities, as I've heard from various stories, I assure you that nothing can diminish the love I have for my son. If as u say it turns out that any woman I marry starts maltreating my son, she goes right away. I know she cares for him and that's why she's trying to make me do things differently and not out of malice. I hope it stays that way. Thanks for Ur input anyways

MufasaLion:
I feel sorry for the boy in advance because if you don't reduce the attachment now the lady will surely maltreat him.

Thanks. I'll consider it

Mstick:
Return that child to the mother please.

He's too young to be in this mix before your girlfriend starts abusing him.

Thanks but taking him back to his mother is out of the question right now. She hasn't proven that she cares enough to be his mom