₦airaland Forum

ghosttownboss:
Bros make I laugh small,wetin concern Nigeria future with sickness where small olosho dash you?

You do realize it is these corrupted people who are ruining Nigeria right? We should take hard stance aganst people like this to make Nigeria a better place.

PoliteActivist:
You want companionship?! Nigerian girls will be throwing themselves at a guy like you! You'd be the one running.
Story doesn't add up

That's the last chat history with her sis I will share with you. Believe it or not, not my concern anymore.

PoliteActivist:
I want to believe you, but this is Nairaland and I know how people are here. And as you yourself said, don't believe things you read online.
So, despite all the evidence you presented, my gut tells me there is something off about this story

This was her sister begging me to release her

Rayban25:
OP you cant be on a site like tinder and assume that the person you're Bringing to your house is just a normal person...let's even say okay you wanted to be having sex with her...why give money keep a stranger in your house for 3 months?? Even being in your house for a weekend is still risky for a girl you dont know and having unprotected sex.You cant call yourself a victim for making a very stupid decision...I hope say your eyes don clear.

I was new to tinder. And I was looking for a companion or maybe a good relationship.
I gave her money and took care of her for free because she told me her sad stories and bad experiences. I just have a good heart and I really tried to help her in a lot of ways. Even tried to help her to get a job. And I never had unprotected sex. I got herpes with condoms.

PoliteActivist:
Now your story seriously doesn't add up. If this were a true story the first thing you'd have said is that you've gotten her locked up and are being begged to release her. Plus you have cook and driver!
My verdict? Not a true story

I caught her and sent her to police after she ran away. She was released last week.

What's wrong with having a cook and a driver. The company I work for provids me with cook and driver. I don't have to tell you everything about my work and life.

I'm only here to tell my bad experience

Rayban25:
Hide your face in shame...see what an 18 year old baby did to you...fool

Please make constructive comments instead of insulting the victim? I treated her well with all my heart and she did this to me. I took care of her very well. I gave her money, fed her, bought her things and tried to help her to get a job. Why do I deserve all this?

GodsOwnMan:
Well, it appears you have learnt your lesson. I hope you recover from your pains and move on with your life. Also, I hope the other simps that are reading your story will also learn. The face can mask the heart very easily. Also, STD no dey always show for face.

Thank you for your understanding

youngbabaj:
Werey go raw

I didn't go raw. I know how to protect myself. I don't understand how I get herpes even though I wear condoms.

Allahmuzayaf:
Sorry about that,and sorry for the insults too.
Hope say you don run test and all?

Thank you for your understanding. Yeah I ran test and I have herpes too.

Allahmuzayaf:
Baba but you looseguard I swear,why you go carry trust pesin like that?
Pls shine ya eye make Dem no get you down oo.

Yes. I was too naive and I always trust people easily. I can't say it is because I'm stupid. I just always have a good heart and try to believe others. This experience really changed me, I can never trust people easily anymore

GodsOwnMan:
Okay, Emeka I believe you. Now, tell us what have you learnt from this encounter so that it doesn't happen to you again?

I was a fool indeed. I'm not here to defame anybody. I just want people to learn from my experience and don't get scammed like me. People nowadays are really good at faking themselves. Don't trust people easily online. Thats all I can say

Allahmuzayaf:
See simp go house strange girl wey em meet for tinder for 3month.
Ogbeni at least she no kill you throway,my mind dey tell me say you just wan defame this girl if not you suppose dey drop evidence of chat and proof but no na to post details you dey do.

Actually I caught her after she ran away. And I sent her to police station. This is the chat her sister begging me to release her from police.

TollMind:
She also has herpes, both on her mouth and genitals and she gave them to me. Can you imagine an 18 year old girl has STD? How disgusting!

This part made me laugh
Na trade by barter

Brother way mumu

What did you expect from a street girl, anything is possible

I didn't know she was a street girl. I thought she was like a normal girl. She lied to me about the places she worked. Only later I found out she makes a living by sleeping and living with others. Btw, I never took advantage of her. I didnt even have sex with her much. Maybe once a month. I just need a company who can talk to me, thats it

MrBrownJay1:
your simping got the best of you, OLODO!!! show us the picture of the criminal yeah, instead of telling us your sob simping stories.

imagine this fool having unprotected sex with this supposed "parasite", and now biatching because he caught Herpes from her. you got what you deserve from being a fool, you are lucky she didnt give you AIDS or got pregnant!

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I wear condoms all the time and I still caught this. Why you guys always blame the victim. Nigeria has no future

GodsOwnMan:
You took sexual advantage of a poor teenage girl and you are here making noise on NL. See your mouth like pepeye own.

I didn't take advantage of her. Everything happened with mutual consent. I didn't force her to do anything.

MatrixReloaded:
First of all your story doesn't add up, you picked a hooker on tinder and similarly fall in lust with her tender body and accommodate her for 3 months enjoying free knack on a young pussy.
Now she flee with your computer, phones, money, but you never think of giving her a comfortable life after 3 months. I wonder where her documents will lead you to but if I were you it's not necessary because alot of people will accommodate her, nurse her and get her treated of those Aforementioned infections you gave her.

I pay her 40k every month. I feed her and buy things for her even though I dont have to. We didnt even have sex much. Sometimes it was her requested for sex. All I wanted was a partner and friend, sex was not even the main thing I need

She uses the name Nora.

She doesn't have advanced education or any skills.

She makes a living by lying to people, sleeping with people, living with others and stealing their stuff.

Just like a parasite.

I met this parasite on Tinder and I allowed her to stay in my house, for around 3 months. She acted like an innocent girl in front of me and told me all her fabricated sad stories, only to get my trust and sympathy. Until one day, she stole my money and laptop, phones and ran away. Everyone please be aware of this girl. She's very manipulative. She even tried to frame my cook and driver for the stolen objects when I confronted her until I realized all things didnt add up and then she ran away. She's from Calabar but she lives in Lagos now. I managed to catch her and sent her to police and she returned my laptop and iphone. Still she has no remorse. She still lying to people that she didn't confess or stole anything.

At the police station I found out she has not been working since her graduation from high school. I really don't know how she makes a living. And she was not scared at all. She was making calls to people and chatting like nothing was happening on our way to police station. At the night we sent her to police and police interrogating her, she had people to call me to tell me release her. The person who called me, I could even not see his phone number or track the number. From this moment I knew this girl is a very discreet criminal and probably has been doing this to a lot of people. She and her friends outside know how to hide their information.

She has herpes, both in her mouth and genitals and she gave them to me. I didn't even know it until she gave me herpes. I had high fever for a week and had infection and blisters on my genital and I spent a lot of money in hospital. Even though I got her test result later and confirmed she had it, she was still lying to me and told me the test was not correct. However I forgave her becasue she told me she was raped when she was young so I thought the rapist might give her herpes.

Her name is Okon Joy Etim.

Please be aware and dont be scammed by her.

Stay safe

For those who say that I tried to sexually take advantage of her. I just felt lonely and needed a companion, maybe a real relationship. I didn't aim for sex on Tinder. We rarely had sex. Once a month maybe even though she stayed with me almost everyday. I took very good care of her because I believed all her sad experiences she told me. I just felt sorry for her and tried to give her love and care. And as a result this happened to me.
The most infurious thing is that she tried to frame people who worked for me. My cook and driver could lose their job becasue of that and she just didn't give a shit about their lives. How could an 18 year old girl do such a thing? It's evil!!