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Ssddff:
Don’t be scared of any accusation, there is no proof and that is only how her accusation can stand. But there are proofs of all the evil she did to you. Gather everything and take her to court.
And as for time, is there no way you can sacrifice a day to rid Nigeria of one criminal?
Criminals continue to commit crime because they know everything will end with settlement with no tangible consequences. What if she had given you HIV or killed you when you housed her.

Hire a good lawyer and take her to court! She needs to be in a correctional facility not in the streets.

Even if I want to now, I can't because she was already released. Court won't just take one day. It's a very long process, might take 5 months to 1 year.

iamme1234:
You are a mugu person
So chidima story and utaga hasn’t send a strong warning to you that you should be careful online
Especially any girl with colour painted hairs
Once again you are a mumu man.

I don't know man. I dont have much experience with girls, let alone online girls. I'm mumu indeed. I let my emotions and sympathy took over my senses.

Ssddff:
Don’t blame yourself, I know how you feel. It’s a pity the world (Nigeria) is like this. Thing is there are a lot of ladies/guys out there doing this and preying on gentle, trusting people. Make sure she is sentenced!

She was released last Sunday. I wanted to go to court but the thing is I don't have time to attend court, I have a lot of work to do. And my friends advise me not to because the girl will lie on court, maybe accuse me of raping or something which could bring me trouble.

Blessedmercy8:
When you were not sure the kind of person she was, why not watch her first before diving raw all the way into her? The way you guys risk your life eh? Hm!

A decent girl will not tint her that color in the first place.
A decent girl will never agree to come spend three whole months with you in just few days of knowing you. Haba! Don't tell me you didnt see all that as a warning sign that she's not the kind of girl that would make a good home. she's a proper runs girl.

Sha go for HIV test. Na ogbologbo you carry. But e sweet you that time she was giving it to you without hesitations. Talk true.

I was too naive and I really don't know how to read people. I made a mistake and I have learnt my lesson

Parrot69:
The Chinese, The Indians, The Arabs. Be mindful of these people especially the Chinese! They're very ill tempered.. I don't know if it's due to their culture or psychological aspect, most of them are sadist and moody.
The Indians are the worst, they can kill you because of woman. The headquarters of "Simpism" is located there. And COLOR skin Black is a problem to them.. even if you're a mixed colored Indian you're are being segregated.

The Arabs are cool with you, till you have misconceptions about their religion. And they nag about women alot.
The Guy you thought was cool with you will turn to a vampire in a Sec!

I hope the Government follow the case up cos such things cannot happen in their country.
I've never heard were blacks kill Chinese in China.
Blacks kill Indians in India.
Blacks kill Lebanese in Leban.
It's always vice-versa.

LMFAO. You dont even know what Nigerians can do.Lie steal , street justice and abduction. Nigeria is bleeped

PoliteActivist:
I Googled. Below is what I found

Herpes cant be cured. At least within 1-2 decades.

Blessedmercy8:
Chai! See what this life had turned into... At eighteen, I no dey house for two days, my papa no use swagger cane with 100 officers come look for me? Hey!!!! Life don spoil.

At eighteen self, I was writing my WAEC. Who born you to move an inch from the sitting room?

Oga, it's not only herps she gave you. Check well, HIV fit dey inside the package. U c h u.
You see 18yr old girl with this color of hair wey get mind come live with you, you come think say na angel joy you meet?. Story. Abeg, leave story. You knew all along she was a bad girl who would give you whatever you wanted in bed. If you wanted a decent girl, the church is there but you chose tinder now tinder don tinder you, you come dey share pictures up and down like it will change anything.

Una no go learn.

I was not sure what kind of person she was. However, she was really good at lying and acting like an innocent and kind person. She knew how to make me feel guilty of anything I did that she didn't like. She is very manipulative.

PoliteActivist:
I think I have diagnosed what the real problem is.
Love! You fell in love or was begining to fall in love then your heart was broken you, you were slapped back to reality!

Yeah I really liked her. She pretended to be an innocent and kind girl. However, I can't say I fall in love with her because I noticed something wasn't right when I was with her but I'm not quite sure. I can't fall in love with someone I'm not 100% sure what kind of person she is. Then she kept telling me her sad stories. How her dad abused her. How she got raped. How she was pregnant and the baby died and then she cried so hard in front of me. I really didn't know what to believe. I tried to give her love and care and then she did this to me.

wesee90:
if I had asked u to lend me some money, I'm pretty sure I'd get excuses lol

It depends. If you are a honest and decent guy and I know you well, I dont mind lending money

The man is like 20 years older than the girl. Obviously the girl was aiming for the man's money. She tried to scam him and then she disappeared. You can't solely blame the man. Yeah killing is wrong, but the girl scammed him and took his money first. It's a relationship problem. Both the girl and the man are at fault. The main responsibility lays with the girl, not the man. She should have not cheated his money in the first place.

LilMissFavvy:
I am not judging you. I'm just trying to point at where you got it wrong and what you did wrong. If the story is true, then be hopeful, because surely a cure for herpes will be found in the near future.

You have been judging me since beginning. I didn't do anything wrong and I didnt do anything against my conscience. I treated her with respect, care and love and she bites the hand that feeds her. This kind of ungrateful parasite will stay in poverty forever.

PoliteActivist:
You are now really asking for too much. This is a vibrant young man with no other sexual outlet

If I want sex I can go to the street and get prostitutes, it will be cheaper than housing this thief tbh.

LilMissFavvy:
Immediately I saw the bold part repeatedly in your write-up, I had doubts. Why would an 18yr old street girl push you for sex*? No girl would do that, unless she was trying to impress you for monetary rewards. So if you truly wanted to help her, you would have kept her in your house with no sexuall stuffs attached.

You blab about having a cook, driver, and paint a picture of living a good life, so what stopped you from helping a stranger and then send her away? what was she doing in your house for three months. Your story doesn't add up, it looks like a cock and bull story. Only God knows where you got that medical report from, and if she was truly the one who gave you such disease.

You should go be a judge. Seems like you really enjoy doing the job.

LilMissFavvy:
Immediately I saw the bold part repeatedly in your write-up, I had doubts. Why would an 18yr old street girl push you for sex*? No girl would do that, unless she was trying to impress you for monetary rewards. So if you truly wanted to help her, you would have kept her in your house with no sexuall stuffs attached.

You blab about having a cook, driver, and paint a picture of living a good life, so what stopped you from helping a stranger and then send her away? what was she doing in your house for three months. Your story doesn't add up, it looks like a cock and bull story. Only God knows where you got that medical report from, and if she was truly the one who gave you such disease.

Ok Miss SAINT. You are a true saint sitting here judging a man who was lied to and scammed.

PoliteActivist:
And people saying she's too young don't understand that some of these girls are seasoned pros by the time they hit 18!

I heard she has many men outside. Even though she told me she is single. When she was at police station, she didn't return my stuff by herself. She had someone delivered those things to police. She also had her male friends contacted me and asked me if she return those things would I release her. I really can't figure out what kind of life she is living, but she's very discreet. Even the text messages on her phone, you have to use password to see them. Her friends who called me, I couldn't see their phone number and I couldn't even dail back. I have never experienced something like this before.

PoliteActivist:
Actually I'm now inclined to believe your story. Just that people never tell the truth on a forum like this. And you are so open about everything including acquiring herpes. People are NEVER/RARELY that honest in a true story because they can be easily identified. It's almost like telling people you have AIDS.
But, viewing everything from all angles, I am inclined to believe you are telling the truth, for the most part.

Thank you. I just don't want to see people getting scammed like me again.

Patriotsleague:
See the small,. miserable girl you dey fck. Some men are miserable, and you dey shout driver and cook, you come dey fck this small thing. Are you a ritualist?

Miserable? Are you joking? She enjoys stealing I'm sure of that

NemoDatQuod:
Emeka does not owe you or anyone else any explanation of what he has learnt or not learnt.

Life is about making mistakes, sometimes severally. Sometimes, we learn, but most times we think we've learnt, but have not really learned. That is where real men and women live: in the realm of mistakes and ups and downs.

You and the others on here who have been displaying your holier than thou views, you have each made SIGNIFICANT mistakes in your lives and most of you did not and have not learnt from those mistakes. It may be your mistakes are not of the same nature as Emeka's. It may just be that you don't have N40K spare cash to give to a babe every month and that is why you have not been to Tinder to hang out with Naija babes. Have you been to Naija Tinder before? Have you seen some of those girls there? It takes a great deal of self control to quickly come out there and promise yourself that never again will you go there.

Let's stop the hypocrisy. Life is for the living.



As for you Emeka2000Emeka : You need to stop being naive. You came here to complain because you felt aggrieved. How can you keep another person's child in your house and pay her only N40K a month, because you thought she is a teenager and does not know better? That amount is less than what she will get if she spends a few hours with someone else. She did her maths and realised that you were owing her a lot of money. That was why she took your personal stuff.

If you are still holding her at a Police Station, release her and move on with your life.

In case you do not know, you have committed a very serious crime by releasing her Personally Identifiable Information online without her consent. If there is a Law Enforcement personnel on this forum, he or they can identify you (which can be done very quickly), have you arrested and given that you are living in Nigeria, they will make so much money off you before the case is ended.

Don't go from frying pan into the fire itself. Delete these photos and any reference that can be used to identify that girl.

The reason why I want to post her information here is because she has no remorse. She was even laughing at police station. She has no fear. After she returned my stolen objects, she still lying to everyone that she didn't confess at police station and she didn't steal anything. She could have done this to someone else. I don't want this to happen to anyone else. It may be wrong to post her information online, but nothing else I could do.

What do you mean child? I'm very young myself and I'm not much older than her. She's 18 and she's an adult. I took good care of her and I have nothing to be sorry for cuz I have done everything I could to help her. I did nothing that against conscience. It was her who used me and stole from me. I'm the victim here. My cook and driver are also the victim because she tried to turn me against my cook and driver. She's very manimuplative and very good lair.

Why can't I post any information of her online? She's a convicted criminal. I saw people posting a Chinese man's information online for killing his Nigerian scammer girlfriend. Nobody is blaming the person who posted that.

PoliteActivist:
Mumu (not meant as insult, just being descriptive), you miss the point. The point is a young guy having all those things and still so lacking in companionship that he pays a girl that looks like that for it!
Not in today's Nigeria, mumu!

You see. If I wanted to lie and make up the story, I didn't have to mention my cook and driver at all. It might cause doubts to some people. I'm just telling what happened. This is what happened. You doubt it because we are different. Everyone's experience and life is different. We do things different. Our relationship experience and the way we deal with relationship is different.

PoliteActivist:
So why her? Why not some boy? Anyway you already said it was because of "companionship"

Yes, I went on Tinder because companionship, maybe we can also call it relationship, so no boys. She was the first person who communicated very well with me on Tinder and I was new on Tinder, so I let my guard down and thought everything would go smooth. She showed me where she stayed, the house. It was bad. And she told me she didn't want to stay there anymore. And she was new to Lagos. So I offered her, if she don't mind, she could stay with me, I live in an estate with good environment. And she agreed.

Fadafada231:
u re even telling her to persuade her sister to return the stolen items, this is the first thing she should have done when she was in police custody. Sorry for ur ugly experience

Yeah I tried to give her a chance because I think those 3 months I spent with her means something to me. I didn't want this thing go ugly. I even told her if she returns everything, I would forgive her, but she just kept lying and manipulating me and even trying to frame my cook and driver. That's is evil and disgusting.

LilMissFavvy:
If we check now, you are old enough to be her father. You met a helpless girl,, you couldn't have mercy on her without entering her private/part, why didn't you help her and release her to go? Shame' on you for wondering how an 18yr old got herpes, yes she got it from evilll men like you who decided to destroy'her innocence. You are the evil'one sir. You people live to hop from one female to the other. Herpes has no cure, live with it.

I'm old enought to be her father? LMFAO. Do you even know my age? You are a dumb sexist with no brain. Go Bleep yourself

LilMissFavvy:
No you didn't. If you were a genuine God sent helper to her, you would have blessed her financially and sent her away. Genuine helpers don't request for sex*benefits.

Sex benefits? I didn't even request for sex. We did it naturally. Only male could sexually exploit female? You are a fucking sexist. I gave her money even though I didn't have to. She told me she didn't want to stay at her broken house in Lagos and she just came to Lagos from Calabar. I gave her good accomodation and money because I wanted to help. I told her she could save up the money for better education later. And we rarely had sex. Sometime it was her trying to turn me on and have sex with me. Go blame me then. Stupid sexist

PoliteActivist:
Mumu (not meant as insult, just being descriptive), you miss the point. The point is a young guy having all those things and still so lacking in companionship that he pays a girl that looks like that for it!
Not in today's Nigeria, mumu!

I gave her money because I wanted to financially support her. I didn't have to pay her.

LilMissFavvy:
This is not a case of having a good heart, didn't you see your age mates on tinder? You did, yet you decided to chose a small girl which you felt you can toss around and use as you like.

Small girl? She's a fucking adult. I didn't force her to do anything. What kind of sick fk are you? When a teenager killed somebody, go defend the killer just because of their age then.

LilMissFavvy:
This is not a case of having a good heart, didn't you see your age mates on tinder? You did, yet you decided to chose a small girl which you felt you can toss around and use as you like.

You are so quick to judge me. Do you even know my age? Maybe you are a sexist. Just becasue you are a female so you are siding with a fucking criminal. Do you even fucking know how well I treated her? I did so many things for her beyond my fucking obligation becuase I fucking wanted to help her. Now you are pointing fingers at me? We already know she has been scamming people like this for quite a long time. She has people who called me without showing numbers and I could not track back. She's an experienced criminal. You should shut the Bleep up and stop judging people without knowing what exactly happened. When you are scammed because of good heart. Don't cry then.

jonahhh:
She had herpes and you housed her for 3months … lol you have her the herpes , plus we need to hear your staffs side of the story , I bet they have a lot of gist about your activities. That’s if all of this is not a lie . You probably turned her into your intimacy gadget without benefits for 3 months . She made a mistake she was Supposed to move with your jewelries and your international passport for punishment

My cook and my driver didn' t like her at all. They think she's typical lagos girl full of lies and might steal. However I tried to defend her considering her vulnerable position and what she has been through(fake though).

Seems like you are siding with her. People like you should go to hell. With no fucking humanity.

seemlilystun:
Where do you live btw ? Also, have you been able to locate her ?

After she ran away, she lived with her friend who she met in online games. I managed to get her friend's contact and I told her friend what happened. Her friend told me his mom also didn't like her. His mom thinks that she's lazy and full of lies and she tried to use the smae pity tricks and told lies to the mom to make the mom pity her and house her.

Then her friend told me the address and I brought police to catch her. Actually her friend's mom brought the thief to us. I really thank her friend and the lady for her help

Mursz:
Sorry about your ordeal, too bad with your efforts you were rewarded with an incurable disease, “You cant make a hoe a house wife” , A bit-ch is a bit-ch but a dog is a man’s best friend ( DR DRE 2001 ). You would have been better off with a dog for companionship.

I’m sure you’ve learnt a bitter lesson from all of these, moving forward you will learn to trust less and question more.

Godspeed my friend.

That's what I have been thinking. If I treat a dog well, at least the dog would be loyal to me and love me. I took very good care of her and she did this to me. I can't believe in humanity anymore

ISellBeer:
Met girl on tinder and housed her ?
She has herpes both in her mouth and genitals but you still chop?

Either your a liar or you are a fool

Dude, I didn't know she has herpes until I got infected. I got blisters on my genitals and I had fever for a whole week. I thought I had malaria but after treatment I didnt recover at all. So I thought the fever had something to do with the infections on my genitals. I didn't know much about herpes before and I only heard about it before. I did full blood test and everything is normal, only that doctors told me the fever might be casued by infections. I figured it out myself so I took her to lab for a test too, then it was confirmed. Even though, I still housed her and I forgave her because I still felt bad for her fake past experiences she told me. She told me she was raped when she was young so I thought the rapist gave her herpes. I just really felt bad for her.

PoliteActivist:
Bros if I told you I not only have a car, but also a driver as oga, and my own prvate cook (because oga can't eat mama put) and lack companionship, will you believe me? Different if I were insisting on dating Tiwa Savage, but some nobody girl that looks like that??

I'm not the boss of my cook and driver. I have a boss above me. My boss own all of them.

starpower:
Account created today, scam alert

According to your logic. All the posts by new accounts are scam right?