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snowlord:
madam plz kindly leave him,he will eventually come to his senses.dnt let him kill u first .plz biko

By leave him, you mean divorce or temporary separation?

TUNSBOYLE:
some men no dey get tired of sex




i will advice you to use padlock on your kitty before you go to bed

Is that possible?

Florblu:
Madam the best thing is for you to to the family planning you've been running away from or you divorce your husband.
Domestic violence is the order of the day now

can't do family planning for personal reasons. Or wanna hear the reasons

My marriage is 3years as we speak with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). I took in for my daughter when my son was 1 year 3 months old. Now when I told my hubby I was pregnant, there is nothing he did not say or do to me, he said that he has people looking up to him and I am bringing extra burden on him. ((This is a man that agreed with me that we will have 3 kids God willing)) throughout my pregnancy he tormented me to the point that he wanted me dead with the pregnancy or that I miscarried the pregnancy or that I die with the pregnancy.He told people that I always disturbed him for s*x and that I planned the pregnancy. I fought to stay alive for my son. He beat me twice with the pregnancy on one occasion he blinded me in an eye from a punch from him for one week I didn't go to work, my job was astake. I kept praying and hoping I sailed through this pregnancy. On another occasion I needed to go out to my school's graduation with my son considering that i was heavy and am going with my son who is less than 2 years old, so i needed to go with the car (we both contributed money to buy(the family's car)) and we had both talked about my going with the car for my graduation the previous day, only for him to take the car keys and zoomed off to the car when I was ready with my son to go out. I tried to remind him about what we agreed on, he said and I quote "if you don't get out of there, I will jam you with the car", I was perplexed, still looking at him, he entered the car drove it and hit me with the car. Came out, slapped me and went back into the car and he said that he will kill me and marry another woman. It then dawned on me that he wants me dead. I had to start threading with caution knowing that am alone in this world, with my son and with pregnancy. I became more prayerful and I paid alot of sacrifices to stay alive. Sacrifices in the sense that I never demand for money from him as that will infuriate him to pounce on me. From the start of the pregnancy to baby items, hospital list, hospital bills after delivery till date I never asked him for money and he never used his mind to help out with money. I promised myself never to ask him for money again, I spend my money when am in need and I don't have money, I borrow. In the midst of this saga, he was always having s*x with me whenever he wants to, which mouth will I use to say no. And most of the time, he gets rough really rough during s*x so as to make me miscarry. Prior to this pregnancy I never refuse him s*x, even when I am too tired. When I am sick, he wants s*x, I tell him I can't because I am not well, he will force me. We can quarrel throughout the day and not talk to each other, but at night he must have "his" s*x. I tell him am not safe, he will tell me he will withdraw until I got pregnant for my daughter. Now I have put to bed. My son is 2yrs 4months and my daughter is 5months. I pay my bills and my kids bills and now he wants more sex. I can't do family planning for personal reasons. I plead with him to use condom, he says he won't that he does not like it. He uses withdrawal method which we both know doesn't work, and then I refuse him sometimes but still he over powers me and gets his s*x. I fear I will get pregnant again. Now he is threatening, raining fire and brimstone over s*x. That he will bring in a woman who will drive me out of the house. Please I need your candid advice on what to do. I am going crazy

March 19th

If I hear? MAN my foot. The only thing they are good at is f*ck f*ck and f*ck again. Take responsibility they won't. Mtcheeeew

abnsugbe:
talking out of frustration aint the way out....No matter what,you can never be without the MAN in You.

If I hear? MAN my foot. The only thing they are good at is f*ck f*ck and f*ck again. Take responsibility they won't. Mtcheeeew

abnsugbe:
talking out of frustration aint the way out....No matter what,you can never be without the MAN in You.

My lovely lady. Run for your life till you give birth, after delivery, if he wants you, he will come for you and when he does be careful not to be pregnant for him again... When next he wants to jump on you like a hungry lion that have seen a goat to devour, he should use condom. If not zip up

KingLennon:
Just pray you don't marry a wife beater. The highest you will do is to arrest him

I will walk away from the marriage. Not just arresting him. I need to stay alive for my children

The man should have gone for family planning (vasectomy) for himself after the first 2 kids or continually use condom. Family planning for women is as dangerous as the risk of abortion and childbirth of which the best option is childbirth..... My opinion though

The man should have gone for family planning (vasectomy) for himself after the first 2 kids or continually use condom. Family for women is as dangerous as the risk of abortion and childbirth of which the best option is childbirth..... My opinion thought

Seriously I see selfishness in everything you said even up to sex. All your points from 1 to 4 are selfish. What about men? Don't they have to wake up to their duties?? Who is competing with a mistress??
Well, its in YOU to be good. Love and care for husband and wife should be balanced and not one sided. They should care and love each other. Cheating or adultery from either side is a decision.