₦airaland Forum

Yemlizzy: How long did you guys court sef? To avoid stories that touch the heart,make a wise choice!

andromida: Just curious why did you stay with her?

100Cents: Answer my questions let me tell you what is happening to you..

100Cents: Paint a clearer picture.

1. Is the sex not good enough ?

2. Is she not a good home keeper ?

3. Is there a behaviour in her you detest ?

4. How long have you dated ?

5. When did you start feeling this way ?

From here we know if it is just COLDFEET..

jennylove7575: Don't force yourself into a marriage u ain't sure of. Do not marry out of self pity or sentiments..in short, discuss ur feelings with her at least let her know your fears and worries. .this relationship things sef.

amdman: You are in that place where a lot of guys find themselves as the wedding day draws closer and closer, particularly when it has been a long relationship. I assure you that you are not alone in the game of second-guessing yourself. These same thoughts will also crop up when you get married regardless of the person. On some days, you will probably wonder why you married this person. To me, it is a perfectly normal emotion.

However, the key lies in reassuring yourself that you have made the right choice. Love is a choice, therefore, Focus on those things you so love about her and the things that first drew you to her. This will aid in positively reinforcing your love for her.

Except she has serious character defects, there is no wisdom in ending the engagement, because you wilk feel exactly like this the next time you approach the altar. I know, because am married.

Janeify: You ave alreadystated your intentions. Whats the need for advices?Heaven knows that you are no longer interested and the beautiful thing here is that we are in a free world.call unto God,the author and finisher of our faith,follow your heart but don't forget to take your brain along with you.its of no importance marrying her and making your house a living hell for her,when you Don't love someone, itsalways hard to force. yyourself and even if you force yourself it wouldn't result to anything. Call her as a. friend and pour your heart out as a bestfriend,what ever reaction she may take,just make sure that you come out clear and clean.clear conscience fears no accusation they say and Goodluck!

hushmail: its normal to get jittery n cold feet as d day approaches

only u can truly answer how u feel

if d feeling is not there, then its not. No 2 ways abt dat

Adexxx007: Mtchew.... The so called feelings you have for her didnt ebb when you proposed to her oo... My advice for you, put ya self in her shoes

hushmail: its normal to get jittery n cold feet as d day approaches

only u can truly answer how u feel

if d feeling is not there, then its not. No 2 ways abt dat

Nutase: It happens to almost every guy but very few are bold enough to say it.
Work on your psyche by meditating on the things u luv about her and avoid hanging out with girls u have had something with or those u are tempted to toast.
Lastly, be weary about who advices you because you are very vulnerable now. Any wrong advice to u or action by u now can cause u a lifetime of regrets.
Wish you well.

Hollyb: please think it tru very well o, its not gud to be a heartbreaker but if you've thought it tru and you are deeply convinced dat you can't go tru wit the wedding, find a way of explainin to her calmly because a broken engagement is better than a broken. marriage.

Sermwell: please I'm not a politician ooo! I was just passing by that morning and couldn't stand what the governor was doing to that poor widow and decided to record it! Must everything be linked to politics? Please stop calling me a politician!...... And nothing justifies the governor asking the widow to go and die! Haba

pro01: The same Igbinedion whose son - Lucky - financed Oshiomhole's first election and subsequent legal battles (with ill-gotten money)?

There is a thin line between courage and effrontery, so I wouldn't be too quick to congratulate Oshiomhole for this fiery speech. I'm not convinced that the governor's new war against the Igbinedion clan is borne out of concern for the Edo populace, as opposed to strategic political considerations for his own personal gain.

ckkris: These words no de dictionary . You know whether the man de mad, like some wey de write on walls?

Inosenduatall: So @op, what are you now trying to say? Cos i don't get what ur point is.

Men are allowed to sleep with as many kitten as possible. Women aren't allowed to ride as many d1cks as possible. Deal with it. And for the women that sleep with countless d1cks and are happy with this thread for its useless endorsement of ur shitty lifestyle, rest assured that it's ur fellow women that will first of all crucify you for the hoe that you are before MEN also join the bandwagon.

Double standards? Maybe it is. But this is the real world. Deal with it. Get with the programme. Nonsense.

Billyonaire: I am surprise that IBB is very popular amongst the underdogs, This is a Military Dictator who annulled June 12, killed MKO Abiola, and set this country backwards. This IBB should have been shamefully sacked from PDP and publicly executed if not for respect we have on past Presidents. In his very careful and maradonic move, he uttered an inconclusive statement and the APC (should I say Chloroquin) parasites are scrambling for wants of words. Is IBB relevant in today's Nigeria ? The answer is No, IBB is the reason we are in darkness. It takes a GEJ to refocus our steps.

xtayle: Gbawe my brother, you go kill them finish o. Pls have mercy on their soul.