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Hi everyone,
Please I need mature and genuine advice. Dated a guy for about 2 years but it didnt work out because my parents were against it. After we split,I was hurt and decided it best to just close that chapter of my life while he always wants to be a part of my life(even though he was seeing someone else). About 8 months after we split,he is getting married to someone else and wants me to come for the wedding. I always said i wont go for his wedding but now that he called me and gave me an IV,I felt that will be bad because he always tells everyone that no matter where I wed,he must be there. Plus the wedding is in my church.
My major reason for not wanting to go is because I think I'll feel embarrassed. Dont want unnecessary attention that day cos alot of people knew us together, plus those who will keep saying 'dont worry, God will soon do your own, we will soon gather for you too..he really wished he could marry you etc'..I also think it will be unfair to his wife,will she ever feel comfortable having me around her husband....is it really possible or even necessary to remain friends with an ex.....please I need advice

P.s....could it be that I'm just some form of emotional cushion for him while he tries to face reality with his new wife