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You need to be physically fit, emotionally stable and spiritually strong

To face what this country has to offer each and every day

So make him no play double chance

fredpeter:
See who God give second chance

Nice read

franchasng:
Its subjective and based on individual experience.


Agreed, some ladies can make life a living hell for their partners while acting like all is well.


Many ladies enter into marriage empty handed and expecting their husband to become a commando and spider man Pope John Paul The Bill Gates at the same time, it can be frustrating if you are married to such women at the long run, reason many men regret getting married.


The truth is, in Nigerian setting, marriage seem to benefit women more than men, especially when the man is financially successful, the only thing he benefits is having children and heir in wedlock, outside that nothing else for most Nigerian married men and reason some see marriage as a waste of time.


I addressed some issues on a new thread on my profile for single ladies to learn.


Many well to do men are regretting getting married because they married valueless women whose only contribution is sex that many married men even get bored of over time due to over-familiarity and the natural male trait of desiring new experience at some point.


So to all single and married ladies reading, this is a wake up call for you all, try and become valuable woman that contributes immensely to the success and growth of the man and the overall family finance to avoid your man having this kind of regret of marrying you at the long run.


Marriage in this time and era is beyond providing sex and keeping the home, domestic staffs and side chicks can provide those, be more than just that, be a valuable woman, strive to be a contributor to your husband and family's financial growth and wellbeing, peace

Can you please share? As someone intending to marry it might be helpful.

Sonnobax15:
Relax bro.

Like someone recently told me, that there's no manual to achieving a successful marriage.

Just like the op wrote,that those friends of his are all well-to-do men, but they're all still regretting why they got married in the first place.

Three days ago, fortunately I was opportuned to pay my would-be mother in-law an impromptu visit. What the woman told me is still very fresh on my mind and immediately I said to myself,na better mother in-law be this.

Bro,no let anybody pressure you into marriage. Cuz inside relationship self,we don pass through alot,how much more e go be for inside marriage.

Nuf said already 📌

May God help us

Brendaniel:
Jokers, see them acting like they are sincere about the fight against terrorism, Gumi, Turji and co are walking free inside Nigeria, DSS has never invited Gumi for questioning since APC took over in 2015, but Mr Mailafia( may his soul rest in peace) who was raising alarm about the terrorists and exposing part of what we are seeing today was invited by the DSS for questioning.

And some people want me to believe that Tinubu and APC government are sincere with this fight against terrorism.

if this is true, it nothing other than wickedness

Kobojunkie:
🤣🤣🤣

First time I would see this woman using a laughing emoji aside your usual yawning emoji

bukatyne:
@ bold...

Finally oooooo!

@second bold: sorry about that 🫂 🤗

She never said she's not a woman she only says she's not a girl

preciousMI1:
brb.... I'm breastfeeding

And 10years after you are not done breastfeeding

Still waiting for your comment if you can still comment even from a new account

I saw telltruth123 appreciation post to pocohantas, ishilove and clarendon on the thread "What Are The Events / Things That You Are Thankful To God For In 2025?" on the front page


I say make I investigate and thread is worth it.

Yoruba says oruko omo ni ro omo

telltruth123 told the truth even til the first crate of egg she bought

And noobody is actually nobody

Even though I understand he's trying to protect kind-hearted people from falling to scam but he went overboard.


Already judged the woman spamming the thread with a scream of scam. In fact I believed him almost exited the thread but seeing the thread lasted up to ten pages I was like there must be more to it.

He undoubtedly called her a scam later changed mouth that she might be scam. Baba promised am later changed mouth talk say dem dey insult am.

The thing con be like Nollywood movie con dey get emotional, hard man like me wey no dey cry don't even know when tears was rolling down my cheek especially when it get to the point where they were giving appointment up and down because I was afraid for the child.

It is well anyways thank God
And thank say man no be God
And thank for people God use for am( pocohantas, ishilove, calendron and others).



I really learnt a lesson from this thread that am taking to 2026.

If you really need help and Satan is running after you back and forth avoid his distraction, brouhaha and be persistent God will send help. After the red sea comes the Canaan land

Emmolap:
Congratulations to him!

I guess I'm the only one that doesn't know him.

When I first saw "UK trained" the first thing that comes to mind was a visual artist.

Must you use a UK trained for a singer?

This look like the doings of ALEX REPORT

dailybuzzng:
Since then, he has continued to record several exploits in the industry, beginning with his debut single, “Feelove”, on August 21, 2021, a record that garnered over 40,000 views on YouTube.

His follow-up single, “JOLLOF”, released on March 9, 2022, earned him broader recognition with more than 20,000 views and opened the door to a five-year distribution deal with Dapper Music.

He has done well congratulations once again to pull off 40k YouTube views and a 20k views that opened the door of 5 year distribution no be beans

Congratulations to him!

I guess I'm the only one that doesn't know him.

When I first saw "UK trained" the first thing that comes to mind was a visual artist.

Must you use a "UK trained" for a singer?

This look like the doings of ALEX REPORT

GindoX:
His wife convinced him... Some females are obsessed with wedding.

You said convinced?

I heard Natasha is the husband 2face is submissive to her, she's controlling not only his life but finances too

2face didn't marry her, she married 2face

Sermwell:
When I was in the university, me and my ex girlfriend cohabited for close to 4 years. She was studying pharmacy while I was studying law. There was nothing we didn't do sexually, including an*l sex and all. She even mistakenly took in 3 times and we had to abort because we weren't ready. We eventually broke up amicably after school.

Last Saturday, she had her wedding and invited me. To my shock, right in the church during the sermon and marriage counseling or whatever, the pastor began to praise her for keeping her virginity till marriage, and also praised her parents, who are elders in the church for bringing their daughter up in the way of the Lord. As if that wasn't enough, after the reception, I saw the groom lieing on camera of how it's a Godly marriage because he met his wife a virgin and they kept themselves till marriage bla bla bla. The girl's parents also spoke to the cameras advising other parents to train their children morally in the way of the Lord and sexual chastity bla bla bla.

My question is why lie about these things that are not even true in the first place? Why fake sexual chastity that's not there?

I don't understand the bolded I supposed the statement should come after the wedding.

Or is there anything am missing?

No pictures of the said international airport at all.

Modified

Dem don' add the entrance/exit pics

Congratulations to her!

But wait, what kind of braided hair took her an average of 4minutes?

Or I don't what a braided hair is?

Forty forty characters am coming
Twelve more character

Na if transformer blow.. (Assuming there is no solar)

Data finish?: Even if you get 1000TB if battery no dey your phone, your data is useless.
Gas finish?: some people still dey use their hotplate, it could save them. But me I no get and I cashless transaction most of the time and if battery no dey na yawa be that.
Bank app no dey open? if na to transfer to withdraw you fit use ATM if not your USSD fit work. But if light no dey, how you wan take open bank app?

havilla:
thanks everyone for the advice, but i just called home now and my sister just told me that he just got married this weekend!! so i guess we werent meant to be together, i have to be all means move on, i have been praying about it and am sure i would find someone who i love and who loves me just as much

Do you later found love or you believe the love thing is a scam thing?

Torg77:
what kind of processor can handle android studio?? what about corei3??

of course

SoftSport:
No problem at all. your question is not silly. Since you are learning by yourself

ways to find small jobs or internships:

You can try
Linked In, Indeed, Angel List, Remote OK
follow tech people on Twitter. Many of them post jobs or give good tips. Keep building small projects and share your work online.

Do you mind if I have your number?
can you give me some of their names(the tech people on twitter)

airsaylongcome:
Go on Upwork and search for real life problems in your niche that need solving. Solve them as part of your portfolio.

Use ChatGPT to guide you how to title the portfolio and present the portfolio.

Good luck in your career

thanks brother

SoftSport:
Congrats emmolap. build small projects, join online dev groups like Git Hub, Dev to, Stack Overflow, and Twitter (tech side), and try getting a small job or internship to grow your skills more.

I'm self-taught programmer, I'm not really familiar with some info.

Don't mind for asking some silly question.

SoftSport:
and try getting a small job or internship to grow your skills more.

Please, how do I get this small job or internship, is there any particular website I can get info about that?

DemonSlayer:
Build a solid portfolio. By "solid," I don’t mean simple to-do lists or recipe apps, focus on full-fledged software, preferably for the industry you want to work in. E.g financial, build fintech clones.

Tidy up your GitHub. Write clean, well-structured code and thoroughly document every project. Be active and consistent.

Optimize your LinkedIn. Use relevant keywords that match the roles you're targeting. Link your portfolio and your GitHub, and be active; post regularly about what you’re working on, new tech you’re learning, or tools that have boosted your productivity.

Network strategically. Connect with interesting people, especially recruiters and senior developers who share job opportunities. Keep your contacts warm. Get mentors, assist them with projects, proof value.

Apply for roles, even if you don’t feel fully qualified. If you land an interview, go for it even if you don't feel qualified! You'll gain valuable experience no matter the outcome.

Attend tech events. Go prepared with a 3-minute elevator pitch that clearly summarizes who you are, what you've built, and what you're passionate about. For example:
"Hi, I’m Emmo. I’ve developed [portfolio projects], and I’m passionate about [industry/specific tech].”+something interesting about you that makes your pitch memorable. Don't be the introvert standing alone in the corner, talk to people, gather valuable contacts.

Participate in hackathons. They’re great for learning, networking, and showcasing your skills. You can win small money and swags, plus there use to be jollof/small chops back in the day, don't know about now.

Join and be active in your local tech communities. You'll know which ones are worth it from the events and hackathons you attend.

Participate in Open Source. Hacktoberfest happens every October. Prepare for it, participate, build cool things, connect with people.

Wishing you the best of luck and a fruitful and fulfilling career.

Thanks for your input, I'm really grateful.

This is good one

Every response here is just a banter.

Shey na only me understand wetin this man dey talk abi i understand in the wrong way.

From what I understood, AI is good for your productivity don;t copy and paste code you have not known by heart.

Code yourself until you understand and grab the concept by heart to improve your programming brain afterwards you can now use tools to improve your productivity.

I finished my B.Sc a few months ago and I decided to learn a tech skill firstly before choking my head in any other thing like NYSC.
Please, what do you think is the next I should do to progress in this newly found career path, how I need to improve myself and if there's any platform to network with developers in this same career path.

And how do I position and market myself to clients, employers or probably get an internship.

My stacks are; Javascript, React, Nodejs/Express, MongoDB and Mongoose and Python.

I learnt React-Native too, but I can't boast of that because I have really not done much all because my PC is a pentium processor couldn't handle Android Studio(anytime I open android studio it hangs and immediately get hotter than fire)

Additionally, I would be glad if anyone is willing to mentor me in this career journey.

He has saved more lives than _______

Nothing wey I wn talk wey pass Happy Birthday Sir

Na person wey get SOUL dey buy SOL and na person wey get SOL dey download Monica and na person wey get asset for Monica dey withdraw for Naira.



Ire ooo

I have nothing to say I just want book space