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I regret using my BBNaija prize money to support family members – Phyna

Former Big Brother Naija winner Phyna has revealed that one of her biggest regrets was spending much of the money she won from the reality show on family responsibilities instead of investing it wisely.

Speaking during a recent livestream, the reality star, whose real name is Josephina Otabor, admitted that she was young and inexperienced after leaving the show and did not manage her finances properly.

I regret using my BBNaija prize money to support family members – Phyna
Phyna.
According to Phyna, rather than receiving guidance on how to invest or secure her future, many of her family members constantly requested financial assistance from her.

She alleged that some of them later turned against her whenever she was unable to meet their demands.

Her words …

“The mistake I made was using my Big Brother Naija prize money to support family members instead of investing it. I thought I was helping my family members and sorting out their debts. I was spending generously on them. None of the older family members called me to give me financial advice on how to invest or manage the money well.

All of them were constantly demanding money from me for several stuff. I dug a lot of boreholes for family members. But the moment I started saying ‘No’ that was the beginning of my problem with family members. They complain and even call me out in the media whenever I can’t meet their demands. But now that the money has finished, I’m the only one facing the reality alone.”

VIDEO: Phyna Breaks Down, Speaks On Family Strain Over Fame

Big Brother Naija Season 7 winner Josephine Ijeoma Otabor, known as Phyna, broke down in tears during an emotional livestream over family exploits and financial distress.

She stated that after winning the ₦100 million… pic.twitter.com/iaYBF7cuD4

— LEADERSHIP NEWS (@LeadershipNGA) May 23, 2026

Nairaland guys, over to una

“I’ll sponsor my wedding” – 41-year-old woman cries out for husband online, says she’s rich

A 41-year-old Nigerian single woman has stirred reactions online after publicly appealing for a husband on social media.

According to her, she is financially stable and does not mind supporting or even sponsoring her wedding if she finds a man willing to marry her.

In her words, she said:

“As a 41-year-old woman, I don’t mind sponsoring my wedding. I don’t mind assisting my future husband. Please, if you’re a man seeing this video, and you have nothing doing, maybe you’re still broke, you don’t have something doing at the moment, you’re not financially stable, don’t worry, I have money.”

The lady explained that she is not searching for a wealthy man because she already considers herself financially comfortable and only desires a committed partner.

She also opened up about her fears concerning age and motherhood, revealing that she hopes to become a mother before it becomes too late for her biologically.

“I don’t even need a wealthy man. I am wealthy already. I am rich. All I seek is a man that is willing to take me in as his wife.”

“Because menopause is at my doorstep. Please help me. I need to have a child of my own. I need to have a baby of my own. I need to embrace motherhood,” she added.

Her emotional appeal has sparked reactions online, with some people praising her honesty while others shared mixed opinions about seeking love publicly on social media.Romance

The video has continued to trend online as social media users debate marriage expectations, age, financial stability, and the pressure women face regarding motherhood.

I need a husband. I am not looking for a wealthy man, I am financially stable. All I seek is a man who is willing to make me his wife.” — Woman in her early 40s speaks out. pic.twitter.com/FXPCTzhtWT

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) May 24, 2026

The company further confirmed that both packs are authentic

No problem. Shebi we we have two different designs of naira notes but all are the same

“We sleep outside and barely eat, yet I will stand by my husband” — Lady says

A woman has moved many social media users after sharing her struggle with homelessness and poverty while insisting she would never abandon her husband despite their difficult condition.

The lady narrated how she and her husband reportedly travelled a long distance to Abuja in search of a better life but have been homeless since January.

According to her, the couple now sleep outside and often struggle to find food, yet she remains committed to staying with her husband because of the love and bond they share.

Woman says family abandoned her over marriage
Speaking emotionally, the woman explained that some members of her family turned against her because she refused to leave her husband for another man despite their financial hardship.

“I cannot leave my husband for any reason. Because of him, all my family members abandoned me. We’ve been homeless since January and we sleep outside, but I’ll never leave my husband. We barely see food to eat and people laugh at us as if we are nothing.”

Couple holding on to faith
The woman further revealed that her grandmother chased her out of the house after she refused pressure to marry someone else.

She added that her husband was financially stable before she became pregnant for him, but circumstances later changed.

“He was not this poor when I got pregnant for him, but regardless, I have decided to stay with him. We’ve been praying and I know God will come through for us,” she added.

The touching story has since generated reactions online, with many Nigerians praising her loyalty while others called for support for the struggling couple.

“My family abandoned me because of my husband but I’ll never leave him”🥹🧎🏻‍♂️‍➡️ pic.twitter.com/mIISD4TBCT

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) May 23, 2026

Men should also apply test on women then what she does next will define her

Are people still using that thing

“He started making moves at me..” – Lady recounts awkward moment with male friend after father’s death

A Nigerian lady has shared an uncomfortable experience she allegedly had after visiting her male friend to console him following the death of his father.

According to her, the young man had called her while crying over the loss of his dad, which made her decide to visit him and support him during the difficult moment.

In her words, she said:

“Seeing him in that state really broke me. Before you know, he started coming closer. He held me in a very funny way that I didn’t like.”

The lady explained that while she was comforting him, she suddenly became uncomfortable after noticing his behaviour had changed from grief to something more intimate.

She said she quickly texted her female friend to call her phone as an excuse to leave the house after allegedly noticing he wanted her to spend the night with him.

“As I looked down, he had an erection. So I gave him an excuse, and he replied ‘I thought you were going to stay and pass the night?’ Me that just wanted to pay you a condolence visit,” she added.

Her narration has generated reactions online, with many social media users debating boundaries, male friendships, and emotional vulnerability.

The lady added that experiences like this have made her lose hope in maintaining platonic friendships with men.

Her friend lost his dad, and what he did when she went to comfort him will shock you.

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— GIDI (@Gidi_Traffic) May 22, 2026

GEJDHERO:
WHICH AREA U DEY

Northern Nigeria

Another one is: "I want to buy drugs", instead you will say "I want to buy medication"

That picture with his tongue out is going to be used as a MEME

This I have seen

Since Ebola has entered Congo, FIFA should allow Nigeria to take their place in the world cup

I hope they will not come and say they refinery resemble the one that is missing from their country

wehdone:
Congratulations to them


...but I'll never understand these publicity of pregnancy bumps. Same way I can't understand why someone will spend 200k for makeup, just to clean up everything at night when you get back home. Like wtf!!! What the actual f>ck!!!

Me too I don't understand but anyway the photographer will smile to the bank

“They assaulted the lady on trance” – Soldier recounts alleged church invasion, pastor’s abduction by bandits

A Nigerian soldier has stirred reactions online after sharing a disturbing incident involving an alleged attack on a church by armed men.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the attackers reportedly invaded the church premises where a young lady was said to be observing a seven-day spiritual trance and prayer session.

Narrating the incident, he said:

“Armed men invaded the church and a young lady who was on a seven-day trance was allegedly assaulted during the attack.”

The soldier further alleged that the church pastor was abducted during the invasion, while members of the community were thrown into panic following the incident.

He added that security efforts have been ongoing, revealing that they had been searching for the pastor’s location for the past three days without success.

[b]“The pastor was abducted and we’ve been searching for his location for three days now,” [/b]he added.

The incident has raised concerns online as many Nigerians continue to call for improved security across communities and places of worship.

A video showing a Nigerian Army officer risking his job while advising Nigerians to vote for the right person, because whoever Nigerians vote for will determine who gives them orders. Please take one minute to repost this video for others 🙏🙏🙏 pic.twitter.com/OMLvvAPeoY

— GRV Stan (@CrownprinceCom2) May 20, 2026

“He blocked me because I forgot to clean his house” – Lady shares painful breakup experience

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how a man allegedly ended their relationship because she forgot to clean up his apartment after spending the night at his place.

According to a video shared on TikTok by a user identified as @Grow_Withsteph, they had been talking for about two months and only recently started dating before she visited his house for the first time.

She explained that she is naturally forgetful and had even warned him before he left for work that morning.

“I’m the kind of person that is very forgetful. I forget things quickly and easily. He told me, ‘Please help me shut my windows if rain falls,’ and I told him to remind me because I would forget,” she said.

The lady said after the man left for work, she slept off again and later left the house without arranging the bed or throwing away the leftover food he bought for her the previous night.

She revealed that the man later complained that his apartment smelled and looked untidy when he returned home.

Despite apologising repeatedly, he allegedly told her he was no longer interested in the relationship before blocking her everywhere.

“He said it might seem small to me, but it’s big to him. The person that had been telling me ‘I love you’ blocked me everywhere without allowing me respond. This is the first time a man is breaking up with me. I’m always the one doing the breakup,” she added.

The story has generated mixed reactions online, with some people saying cleanliness matters in relationships while others felt the man overreacted.

Social media users continue to debate whether the breakup was justified or if the man acted too harshly over the incident.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

GEJDHERO:
Where can we get this genuine Burantashi...

Ask those hausa fruit sellers in your area, they will tell you more. But talk small small o let people not hear you

I can return the mood for you

If they had succeed, he will take the ritual and charms back to China, mass produce it in factories, package it and write made in China on it, and ship it back to Nigeria and people will rush and buy

Any woman that plays with intimacy gadgets deserves to be knacked with beta hausa burantashi

You are not just suffering, you are used to hardship. Go back to the village

I am the man, and what I want is what I get

“He Insulted And Blocked Me”- Private Chef Alleges Harassment From Client After Booking

A private chef has raised awareness about harassment and stigma in the food service industry.

She attributes negative perceptions of private chefs to the actions of a few individuals.

These experiences can lead clients to make inappropriate assumptions about private chefs.

A private chef has stirred conversations online after speaking out about alleged harassment and the stigma she says she encounters in the food service industry.

She explained that negative experiences involving a few individuals have contributed to a misleading perception of private chefs, which sometimes leads clients to make inappropriate assumptions.

Sharing her experience online, the chef alleged that a male client she was speaking with about a food booking suddenly shifted the conversation in an uncomfortable direction. According to her, he asked if she also provided “special services,” a remark she interpreted as a request for sexual favors.

She said she immediately rejected the insinuation and clarified that she only offers professional cooking services.

However, after her refusal, she claimed the client became angry and sent her a lengthy voice note in which he insulted her and told her she would never succeed in the private chef business.

She further alleged that he later blocked her after the exchange.

The incident has since triggered mixed reactions on social media, with many users condemning the alleged behavior and urging greater respect and professionalism toward women working in service-based industries.

Read some comments below:

@uchechukwu.au: “A legit business for most, but a certain few have infiltrated the space and used it as an avenue to market their immoral careers. Now the legit ones are going to suffer the profiling that the few have brought upon their profession.”

@rio_nation226: “Chef is chef nothing like private chef …. Private chef na upgraded olosho nothing more.”

@folly_posh: “Like how do you feel safe cooking in someone house una get mind oo with what’s going on in this country like are you guys not scared.”

@rickkyrich: “A business won’t exist if there’s no market for it. We often criticize the girls but neglect to condemn the men patronizing them.”

@chinonso_anusionwu: “Advertise the business, get jobs then send one old woman or man to do the cooking. But let the person you send be a good cook. Simple.”

@nnennyo: “It’s a shame but most of the girls advertising your business also offer s*x … that’s why he expected it …just keep going you will find good ppl to cook for 🙏🏽.”

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYeXbDbDL34/?igsh=OTlzempheXl5ejBq

“When You Get Married, You Will Feel It”- Man Warns Ladies Using S3x Toys

A man has stirred mixed reactions online after sharing his thoughts on intimacy, modern relationships, and the use of s3x toys.

According to him, reliance on s3x toys may affect expectations in marriage and real-life relationships. He expressed concern that some people may develop preferences that make emotional and physical connection with a partner more complicated.

He said:

“Continue using s3x toys, when you get married, you will feel it. You charge a s3x toy for 4 hours and use it on yourself, then you expect a man with blood running through his veins to compete with s3x toys.”

The statement has generated debate, with some agreeing that modern habits can influence expectations in relationships, while others argue that intimacy in marriage is based on emotional connection, understanding, and mutual effort rather than comparison with personal devices

"Continue using sex toys, when you get married, you will feel it. You charge a sex toy for 4 hours and use it on yourself, then you expect a man with blood running through his veins to compete with sex toys." - Man pic.twitter.com/On11d4LXOd

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) May 18, 2026

The police source added that the incident had yet to be linked to cultism until investigations were concluded.

They will not investigate anything, the story don end for there

They will go to any length just to win.

Just see the way they are writing the thing as if it is exam scripts they are marking

Samantha125:
And when I tell people that I don't eat food from those local street restaurants, they think I'm acting all uppity, which is not the case... I'm all about supporting local businesses, I wouldn't even mind if my man took me to one of those restaurants, but unfortunately, I can't keep going where my health is being compromised.

Yeah, health and safety first

Countersam:
Please where is the footage?this news is incomplete with all the blurring 🙄

Wetin you wan see



Anyway I have the uncensored picture

MyExpression:
Oga, there's no Hebrew 14:14 in the bible.

Those that do not read their Bible will be confused and be running to check

joseph1832:
I'm curious to ask, how did someone make a video with a phone, when they're not suppose to use phones in prison.

If you hear the type of things that go on inside the prisons, you will be surprised. They do business in those prisons, they officials even organise conjugal for some of them. It was even said that some of the prisoners are released at night and giving guns to commit robberies at night and they will return before the next day

emmabest2000:
The book of Hebrews stopped at chapter 13 dude

Those wey no de read their Bible will run to check