What is going on with we igbos ?

What exactly is this victim mentality with the New generation of igbos ?

We have watched with outermost dismay and disappointment as the once powerful igbo tribe is now reduced to a disorganized and over sentimental tribe that is quick to cry victimization on any issues related to one of our own regardless of the evidence on ground.....

How can a tribe of over 15 million people be this confused, disorganized and sentimental at the same time ?

What happened to the old never die attitude that we are known for ?
That same attitude our Fathers and grandparents used to overcome the after effects and challenges of the Civil War ?

Where did we go wrong ?
When did we become this emotionally and mentally weak ?

We claim to be intelligent and brave yet our actions and inaction says otherwise.....

We are currently destroying our region all in the name of sit at home, chasing out and discouraging investors from coming to the east Yet at the same time crying about lack of investment and business activities in the east.....

We are destroying our home land/ region in hope it will affect our neighbors. HOW DOES THIS MAKE SENSE ?

We are quick to cry victimization on any issues that doesn’t favor us regardless of its nature

We seems to focused more on what's going on in other regions than the economical abominations and atrocities that is going on in the east....

And our youths are on rampage on social media insulting and threatening anyone and everyone not in support of their beliefs and ideologies....
Things indeed has fallen apart

@gidigidi congratulations you guts have succeeded in destroying the economic growth of the east...

Please how does this sit at home affect other regions apart from the east ?

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Lifestone:

I'm sure you red that am married, it has been for a while. I don't have anything to prove to you. Your views are yours

Guy enter kitchen go prepare food for your boss lady she will soon return from "work"

I hope you washed the pants she asked you to wash before she left for "work" this morning...

Nonsense and ingredients.

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Lifestone:

I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too.
Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor.
A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle

Your attempt to sound mature and woke just showed how shallow and weak you are not just as a man,but as a human being....

A girl he was taking care of when she was jobless finally got a job and suddenly became unappreciative and suddenly lost interest in her man even to the extent of not allowing him visit her sounds ok or normal to you ?

Instead of you to ask how a Woman earning 120k a month is able to rent an apartment of 700k a year ( more than 60% of her yearly income) Excluding the money spent on furnitures instead you are here castigating the OP for not being supportive to such irregularities.

Weaklings like you are one of the reasons why accountability is in decline in today's society.
It's obvious you lack the guts to question irregularities and abnormalities in your home and relationships...

With the way you sound I am 100% sure your wife is the Bread winner and the Authority in your house...

Weaklings coming on social media and be forming something the are not.

Try this in Nigeria and watch it turn to tribal war.

Very anyhow citizens.

Mr Rotimi Akeredolu is the only governor in the whole Nigeria that has earned my respect.

I just love the open mindset of that man.

I pray for his quick recovery...

The day I told my siblings my salary will always be the day a made one of the biggest mistake of my life.

On a weekly basis both the elders and the younger ones are always taxing me.

I have been "assisting " in paying their house rent,children school fees and other emergency bills since 2019...

The worst is I don't even have the heart to say no to them.

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lhordspy:
I think its right time US start coming to term with the fact that they are no longer world power. We are now in a multi-polar world where every one is a king.

They cant keep warmongering around, sponsoring wars in different continent at the detriment of their citizens. They keep sending billions of dollar of military aid to Ukraine, and yet, Russia keeps smoking them all. Billions of US taxpayers money flush down the drain. Again and Again.

Over time , we've had the Persian empire, Spanish Empire, Ottoman Empire, Mongol Empire, Ummyyad Caliphate as world power. We've even witnessed the British empire and German empire which at one time dominated the world. The US should accept reality too. Nothing last forever. The world is now becoming a multi-polar world.

Forcing LGBTQ on weak nations, rallying other partners-in-crime countries from EU and NATO to sanction Africans countries by stopping trade with them when they reject the demonic way of life; does not make one a world power, it is an act of bullying.

Also, US need to know that; Instigating, Sponsoring, and funding different wars even when they are exceeding their debt limit is an act of desperation, more of last kicks of a dying horse.
Just like the other 'ex-world powers' aforementioned, US time as world power is up. It is reality and happening fast.

The US is living on its past glory unfortunately, such delusion has led to them overestimating their strength, influence and importance in today's society.....

Personally, I think Hollywood is to be blamed for such delusion.

The Nigerian political atmosphere is a very uncultured and toxic one.

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shevchenko:
Una want Tinubu right?


This regime reminds me of Abachas

You guys are the true definition of an abomination that causes desolation.

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PoliteActivist:


Also in every country on earth there is something called COMMON SENSE.
You are the one insisting that a 17 y.o. "evil woman" must equally serve long jail time for sexing a 14 y.o. boy because a 35 y.o. man received long jail time for raping his 13 y.o. stepdaughter. Because RAPE IS RAPE!!!!

I honestly pity any male rape victim that come across someone like you in a police station or even in court.

People like you are one of the reasons why most male rape victims are mocked and shamed to silence.

I will contact you soon I have some Samsung phones that needs fixing.

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TheMostComplex1:




This is not usually true because children knows that their mum works & sees all her efforts. The see their Dad's own two

And I am telling you that in most cases the children don't see neither they know about their fathers efforts in a family because 99% of the time, his love andsacrifice are shown through the wife/mother and unfortunately, some wife will rather die than to tell they children about their fathers love and sacrifices thereby keeping all the glory and praises for themselves.....

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eminikansoso:

True talk.
Naso my landlord out of annoyance when his wife said she suffer for nine months during the pregnancy period, then landlord said thank God that his delivered but he was pregnant for 21 years from feeding, clothing and other basic necessities at home and he doesn't know when he is going to deliver.

Yes yes yes
They are quick to say they carried the child in their wombs for 9 months but most often than none no one gives a fuccking fucck about the mental, emotional and fainancal sacrifices the father has to make just to make sure the family is save and well taking care of for decades.

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thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

You are indeed a wise person.

99.9% of children don't know and will never understand what fathers are sacrificing on a daily basis for them.

Funny enough the sacrifices of a father is mostly done silently, and shown through the mother that is why most children don't even realize that most of the fainancal love they received from the mother actually came from the father.

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Bobloco:
The Igbos are always meant to take the fall for every thing wrong in this country

Unfortunately, it will remain so until the igbos start investing and transferring their investment and wealth back to the east.

Me all I know is that 2023 election has really shown a lot of we neutral Nigerians the most tribalistic tribe in Nigeria and suprisenly,

It is not those we were initially told.

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God1000:
These foolish gunmen and their sponsors should be seriously dealt with


They are trying to sabotage and undermine the forthcoming presidential election in southeast.

Fake News

The are trying extremely hard to discourage people in the south east from voting.

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kenedyx:


Hahaha... You're right though.
The last thing I want to do is ruin our relationship. I'll think about it some more.

Op have you considered that the reason your brother is adamant with his price is because he is testing your loyalty ?

Has it occurred to you that your brother will probably refund some capital back to you at the end of the transaction ?

Don't allow greed and instant gratification blind you from seeing the bigger picture.

Respect to Men

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Kipaji:
Guys I have a serious question.

There was this story in my country.

So, the woman, her husband, their kids, (and I think the husband's mom if I remember well) were all in the living room chilling at night. Then suddenly masked bandits broke into the house. They all got scared and started to shout relentlessly. The bandits calmed them down with their machettes. The father pleaded them to do anything but not hurt them or take their life. One of the bandits had to stay with them in the living room while the others went around the house and robbed all the valuables they could find. The robbery done, they regrouped all in the living room. But when everybody expected the bandits to leave with what they stole, one of them approach the frightened family at the corner of the room. He picked up the wife and then rǎpɛd her in front of the whole family. The kids were traumatized, the husband was schoked and hopeless. But as the rape was going on, at some point, the wife... had an orgasm. An intense loud orgasm. The bandit proceeded to ejaculate too and they all evacuated the house.
Since then her husband does not talk to her anymore. Her mother-in-law constantly give her demeaning looks. Clearly, the husband reproach the wife for having an orgasm especially since the wife virtually never had one with him. But, isn't she the victim here? Didn't her body act against her will? Does her orgasm necessarily mean that she enjoyed it? Isn't the husband reaction inappropriate?

Guys what do you think about this case of a woman orgasming from rape?

@CaveAdullam
@ubunja
@Emotionss

I am against rape and strongly advocate that rapists should be castrated, then they should be force to drink hot Asphalt or they should be boiled alive starting from the waist down and in a public place...

Back to the topic.

I PERSONALLY BELIEVE

Only a Nymphomaniac or a sex starved freaking freak of a person will experience orgasm while being Raped...

If you say she got wet while being Raped that may be understandable because wetness might be her Virgina protecting itself from injuries. But orgasms ? Na. Only a sex freak will experience that under such conditions.

I think the husband is angry mainly because since he has been sexxing madam she has never experienced orgasm at least genuinely.

As unfortunate as the "Rape" maybe, the truth is that it brought out the True Sexual preference of the wife and exposes her as someone that loves hardcore sex.

Oga thought that madam is an innocent gentle wife that love only missionary style.
Only for the armed robbers to expose her as the harder harder, chock me and spank me kind of woman.

The husband is understandable angry because the armed robbers were able to brought out the freaky freaky side of madam in a very short short time and in an unfortunate situation.

Something he has been unable to achieve under Normal circumstances.

Your loving and understanding wife/girlfriend attitude towards you did not change because you lost your job or your fainancal status,
Her attitude towards you changed because you lost your Frame and fake MASCULINITY the moment you lost your fainancal Frame...

In today's society most men depend mostly on their fainancal Frame to improve their SMV while ignoring/abandoning other critical qualities like mental,emotional and physical frame thereby placing them at a higher risk of losing their Frame and authority the moment their fainancal status failed them... This is why large percentage of Men can't approach or communicate and successfully handle relationship with the opposite gender when they are fainancally down.

Using ONLY fainancal status to win and dominate women is never enough.
The disadvantages are far more than the advantages.
The moment you lose your fainances, you automatically lose 80% of your frame Especially when you don't have the mental,emotional and physical frame to compliment the lose of your fainancal Frame..

A masculine and Authoritative man can still successfully run his Home/relationships irrespective of his fainancal situation. Irrespective of the fact that his wife is the bread winner of the family...

Fainancal status is good for life in general but to be among the top men with higher smv, you need more than just your fainancal Frame...

I find it extremely amusing that some entities that claimed to be enlightened, established and exposed do spend some ridiculous amount of time on this thread on a daily basis just to broke shame, insult and troll people...

But I honestly must commend their efforts and determination.

It takes an extreme level of low-self esteem, loneliness and dehumanizing emptiness for one to be able to pull off such level of trolling....

It doesn't matter how educated or financially stable you claimed to be on social media, trolling says a lot about the personalities that engages in it.

In fact, it takes an extreme level of narcissistic sycophancy and mental derangement for one to spend such amount of time trolling and insulting strangers on social media..

And for the fact that trolling and insulting people is exciting to you, and even makes you feel important says a lot about your life outside of social media...

Pathetic

To those that comes to this thread for Redpill enlightenment/knowledge on how to be a masculine and productive personality in today's society, or how to increase your SMV in the dating market, have it at the back of your mind that this thread is filled with all kinds of Redpill knowledge ( The good, the angry, and the confused Redpill knowledge are all here)

Every Redpill knowledge you come across on this thread most be analyzed by you and you most decide for yourself by yourself which knowledge is best for you and also decide on who or what you want to be in life.

A master puppeteer or a puppet.

A man or a "Real Man"

The choice is yours.

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TheSourcerer:
So ? Why the hate on our black sisters bruv

So he should ignore the shameless and uncultured attitude of some women simply because they are "our African sisters" ?

Weaklings trying to form woke.

We find it funny that the same group of men that are against the Redpill knowledge and principles are also the same group of men complaining that we getting all the attention and connections from women wherever we went/go.

They just don't understand how a "childish women hating, irresponsible misogynist" like us be getting all the love and attention from women while women loving White Knights and responsible real men like them are being friendzoned...

They just don't understand how the same girls that confidently told them they hate and dispise men like us with passion are sending us nudes, be requesting and ending up as some of our freakiest FWB....

Even the married ones don't understand why our names always come up whenever they be discussing with their wifes or why their wife's be comparing them (The husband) with a toxic misogynist like us...

You guys are lucky I don't do married women...

Simps be wondering how the same women who refused to respect and submit to them even with all the love, care and sacrifices They be receiving.
Are willingly submitting and respecting guys like us...

SIMPle men be wondering how the same girls/women that called/messaged them for urgent 2k are also the same women sending guys like me 200k on the weekend just to have the privilege to hangout and be seen with us.

Modafuckerrs be lucky I still have some moral principles if not, I be snatching, their women...

Those of you that choose not to embrace the Redpill, pray guys like me don't come across your girlfriends.
Because If we do, I promise you.
You will be friendzone.

The same group of men that will broke shame you, demonize you for defending your rights as a man or for questioning the societal standards between a man and a woman in a relationship/marriage in this age and time are probably the same set of men that will mock and laugh at any man/male child that is a victim of Raped or sexual harassment from women....

The same society that expects you to be a provider and protector, is the same society that will criticize and demonize you for expecting some level of respect and submission from the same woman you are expected to love, protect and provide for....

It is considered childish and irresponsible for a married man to still keep in touch or even hangout with his friends or relatives
But it is absolutely normal and acceptable for a Woman/wife to still keep in touch, hangout and even travel out with her own friends regardless.

And it will be considered oppression, misogynist or toxic if the man asked her to stop hanging out with her friends just as he did....

You are a Real Responsible Man if your wife/woman looks healthier and more sophisticated than you.
BUT it is considered an abomination, another version of domestic violence if you the husband somehow look more healthy than your wife.
Regardless how you looked before getting married.

And guess what
It is men like you and me that are the society. We are the ones oppressing ourselves.

It is men like me and you that are creating and enabling this social iniquity and transgression against their fellow men.

Me, I refuse to be a mental and emotional slave to anyone talk less of a woman.

I refuse to live a depressed and miserable life all in the name of being mature and responsible.

My life matters.
My happiness matters.
My heart and health matters.
My mental and emotional health also matters.

As I always tell all the women in my life I will be respectful to you (if you deserve it).
I will be compassionate and understanding but I will not compromise my authority as a man neither will I displease myself to please you.

My peace of mind is non negotiable take it or leave it.....

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dontai:
or the way we analyzed football.

Perfectly put.

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Tonnyray:
No offense intended but you only exposed your lack of knowledge when it comes to women in the marriage context. Why do you think their wives frown at them going for footballing sessions? I'll educate you.

1. I’ll start with the flimsy one which is that women naturally dislike the fellowship of young men cos it brings out the "boys" in them and boys are known to be mostly up to no good, only mischief. The same women will not raise an eyebrow if it was a workplace career training/workshop their hubbies were going to with other guys for obvious reasons.

2. Injuries are common with football, and guess who bears the brunt of care should things go south? The wife.
A secondary school friend residing here in Abuja was confined for over a month to the hospital bed for a fibular fracture + knee injury sustained from a football game. Guess who bore the burden of care? shuttling between the hospital, her office and caring for the 2 kids at home? Preparing food o cos my guy detests hospital meals even though it's covered on his health insurance plan with us.
What if he wasn't working for an understanding firm that invests a lot into staff welfare? The dude was out for well over 6 weeks. Are you aware that is enough for many workplaces in Nigeria to have him replaced? Especially if his job demands he be actively up and about?
What then befalls his wife and kids? She will have to shoulder responsibilities she never in her wildest dreams imagined. And if she eventually snaps and leaves because she cannot cope, you'd still be one of the first to call her unprintable names. Yet when she's employing common sense to prevent such now you are wailing "she's controlling him".
One thing I have realized with good wives/gfs is they smell danger a mile away and move to avert it. Their sense of premonition alone could be lifesaving. If I find the time I’ll share an experience along this line.

3. Good wives hate what takes their men away from bonding with their kids. As working men how many actually have enough time to play bond with their children? Out of the time you don't have you still want to spend hours playing football from which you will come back extremely tired and spent. The more common one is those always going to football viewing centers. And we later complain the children love their mothers more.

It’s ok not to marry bro.. in fact I’ll advise many here not to cos so much growing up is obviously still required just judging by what many spew here.

1) Women are against men hangouts because it brings out the boys in them.

BUT THE SAME women have no problem hanging out with their Female friends even though it brings out the whoring who'res in them.

Men hangouts are immature.
But girls night out, girls trip and girls me time are perfectly ok.

Magnificent!!!!!

2) We men are soo useless, carelessly incompetent in taking care of ourselves (even though we have been successfully doing so many many years before getting married ) that it now require our wife's to now be the ones to TELL us how, where , when, what and who to play with BECAUSE JUST LIKE CHILDREN, Paraventured we get hurt they will be the ones taking care of our childishly useless and incompetent asss...

It is ok for me to climb the roof of a 30 story building all in the name of being a provider for my family BUT it is too risky and childish to hangout or play football with my friends.

It's ok to drive a truck from kano to port Harcourt Even with the security situation of the country as long as madam is happy and satisfied with the money involved with such risk.

But somehow it's more risky to play soccer with my friends on a Saturday or Sunday !! Because money is not involve.

3) So a man hanging out with his friends ones a week for 2hrs will deprive him the opportunity to bound with his children ? Wow!!!! what an excuse.

That means truck drivers, rig workers , military men and other interstate workers are finished.

They certainly can't remember the name of their children talk more of bonding with them whenever they are opportuned to return home.

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LutherSanchez:
Talking About Misery Loving Company..
I play Football Sometimes on Week Days but Mainly on Saturdays,(i no dey miss that wan).. Some of My Teammates are Young but married,they usually gather around every Saturday before Training to start talking about how their wives didn't want them to come to training today,each will be talking how his own wife don't allow him do this or that.. Me i normally avoid their talks because someone here today said that trying to Advice a married SIMP is equal to like trying to run with a broken leg or ankle.. It's Practically Impossible.. I usually screenshot some Nuggets here and post on my Whatsapp status, sometimes i download some of HeartOfCity's pictures and post too and to be very sincere it's been very helpful as the leeches have left my DM on WhatsApp. Almost 97% of the ladies i use to chat before have filtered themselves naturally.. Many of my teammates also view my status and the Married SIMPS always pick offence....So back to my main topic here,there's this picture of Will Smith and His Wife with the caption [b]"Never Lose a Loyal Woman just because she cheated just once". So i posted the picture on my Whatsapp status with the Caption "The Words Of An Insecure and Societal Perfect God Fearing Man,It Can Never Be Me". The one of my married Teammates viewed my status and ask said,"I wonder if you will get married at all" ... Is our God not wonderful?

I have come to realize it is mostly men that are miserable in their marriage that are quick to defend marriage and demonize any man that try to speak against the injustices men face in marriage and society....

Most married men of this age lack self worth.
They have been so pussifyed in to believing that the emotional terrorism and mental demoralization being experienced in their individual marriage is a necessity for a peaceful home...

Society and women have successfully used the term "REAL MAN" or "MATURE AND RESPONSIBLE MAN" to manipulate,conditioned and pussifyed men both married and single men into submission and slavery.

HUMAN MAN is the only creature in existence today that will gladly use his hard earned resources to imprison himself in the name of marriage and also employ/marry his Tormentor just to prove to society that he is now mature and responsible...

If men start Analysing marriage the same way we logically analyzed our everyday life, majority of Men alive today will run away from marriage....

I am going to change my current church.
The number of women from my church and home cell unit that are volunteering to came "cook and clean" for me every weekend is giving me anxiety.

Even the residents pastor and elders are not helping matters.

Is it a crime to be successful and single ?
Why will I intentionally sacrifice my space, comfort and happiness for a woman ?

Why are they not persuading the struggling and unemployed brothers for marriage ?

They said we should get married so that we will not be lonely yet most married men are lonely to the extent that loneliness is even ashamed of their loneliness.

They said we should marry so as to get unlimited sex. Yet married men are the most sex starved category of men in our society today....

How ironic that the number of married men that engages in masturbation are 50% more than single men...

Of all the reasons giving to men by society on why we should get married in this age and time, peace of mind, long life, happiness and good health are not part of those reasons....

Society are quick to tell men to take good care of their wife's so that when we grow old, sick and broken our wife's will reciprocate and take care of us.
But I can not help but wonder why society expects the husband to be the one to have health challenges in his old age and not the wife...

It's like this people are not informed.
For the fact that my name is emotions does not mean I am emotionally available oo they should wait maybe in 40 years time (that is in 2062) I might consider but for now,

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Tonnyray:
I'm almost tempted to believe you never meet married men with sense.

Honestly speaking the amount of masculine and Authoritative married men I have met in my life so far are less than 5.
The Majority of married men I have met so far seems to have handed over their manhood and Authority to their wife's.

They seems to be more afraid not to hurt their wife's feelings than doing the right and logical thing for the betterment of their families.

When you try to advise them, they start saying rubbish things like a happy wife means a happy home.

Those men are willing to die prematurely from depression or stress as long as their wife's are happy with it....