There's nothing as powerful And Exhilarating as when a man finally realized he is the ultimate price at the End of the dating Games...

The moment you realize this, everything about you Automatically changes.
From the way you Think, Act, Talk, All through the kind of people you associate with and the kind of things you tolerate from women...

It doesn't matter your financial status
It's doesn't matter your physical appearance or your Educational or family background, the moment you realize there's more to being a man than a retirement plan for women or just being a provider and a protector to the unappreciative society, everything about your way of life will change automatically for good.

Society knows this.
The sisterhood knows this.
That is way they are trying everything possible to stop the Liberation of men from Such mental slavery by demonizing masculinity And The Redpill movements. That is why They go about canceling anyone that try to talk about the liberation of men from such mental bondage....

So when a woman broke shame you, demonized or even try to demoralize your masculinity, please don't take it personal. They are just angry they couldn't manipulate you....

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madridguy:
This is so touching. How come you people neglected him to that extent? I felt for him. Many men are in bondage of their wife i swear.

My brother you will not understand. We tried everything possible to discourage him but his mind was made up.
He is in love with a manipulative woman and he wanted to prove how enlighten and real he is as a man.

As of the financial assistance of a thing, I can not bring myself to help a man that intentionally and purposefully resigned from a job he was earning 250k a month to become a house husband so as to prove his love and manhood to a manipulative wife even though she earns higher than him.

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madridguy:
They don collect trouser from your elder brother give him wrapper

This is problem of majority of men of this era, forming woke " westernization ". Wetin even concern me.

That was how a relative resigned from his job to be a full time house husband just to prove to his Wife that he is Woke and a real man.
The most painful part is that the idiot even went as far as telling the wife that some of us tried to discourage him. Now the idiot is begging for financial assistance to enable him buy some personal items.

Me I no get shishi to give him.

Learn To Talk Less.

Being the strong and silent type of man is also another quality the New generation set of Men are gradually losing.

One of the most powerful impressions you can give as a Redpiller that will differentiate you from other men in a crowd of men, is by being the Authoritative strong and silent type. A MAN OF FEW BUT POWERFUL WORDS.

It doesn't matter how well you dressed or your financial status a talkative of a Man will lose the admiration of his friends,family and society faster than a Nigerian woman loses her home training for iPhone .....

As a man you must learn to speak less especially in a public places. Let your Eyes and body do most of the talking it has its benefits on the long run.

Unfortunately, In the quest for validation and acceptance, a lot of men have become talkatives and emotionally weak ...

Please note the difference between A Strong and silent Man and a spineless weakling that is suffering from low self-esteem.

One of the most powerful And underestimated Attractions of a Man is his Ability to maintain A Silent, mysterious Eye contact with anyone especially an Attractive woman or a higher value personality without showing any form of Emotion...

Eye contact is one of the most powerful and underestimated feature of a Man. Any man that can maintain a straight 30 seconds eyes contact with a woman even without saying a word to her, have 90% possibilities of accomplishing his intentions with her.

Now when we talk about eye contact, we are not talking about staring at a woman like an efulefu or a creep.

We are talking about that eye contact that will make a woman forget her home training and get WET instantly even without you saying a single word to her....

We are talking about that Eye contact than can win you contracts or jobs even when you're less qualified than others.

For some Men Such Ability is follow come.
But a large percentage of modern men will have to develop such Ability and anyone that desires such Ability, must be consistent and determine in their pursuit for such.

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Zonefree:
Ofo ma onye ji ya.


Ofo is not Basically for first sons. A man in my village handed the family Ofo to his last son. He was a great native doctor. On his death bed, he called his 3 sons together and handed the Ofo to the last son. They were happy.

The first two sons know nothing about tradition. They are not even interested. They are colonized by westernisation. Their own is to send money across only. They visit village once in 5 years. While the last son is the one taking over from his dad's nativity. He knows all the proverbs in igboland.

Thank you soo much for this.

But I will love to know.

Can umunna withdraw the ofo giving to a son on behalf of their late brother after it was discovered through DNA results and the mother's confessions that the Late Man is not the biological father of the said son ?

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AkuOlisa:
But in another part of Igbo tradition the First son whether biological or adopted is the legitimate son Okpara and only Okpara can hold Ofo. Even if it is known in the entire community that he is not the biological son.

The term "legitimate son" in Igbo tradition means son of a legally married woman or an adopted son and not necessarily biological. Even if the son is an adopted SLAVE. Like the popular adage says "Onye nwe aku nwe nwa" (the man who paid her bride price is the owner of the child). Iko naghi ekita nwa Nala igbo.

Ancient Igbo tradition allowed for a relative to help raise children for a late brother. Later down the line of history, some men who were not healthy enough to reproduce arrange for that ( especially a relative). Those families and kindreds do not invite somebody from another family to holding their Ofo. Let us leave sentiment and unnecessary gossip.

However, Christianity has changed that practice.

Ok but what will happen in a case of paternity fraud and deception from the wife.

Where a Man presented his first son to his umunna and his Chi thinking that the son is his biological son Only for him to discover later through DNA test or through confessions from the wife that he is not the biological father ?

My question is can he change his opkola from the first son to the original First biological son even after thinking and presenting the Non biological son as his okpara (first son ) ?

Who carries the Ọfọ?

A man could not have a Child so asked the wife to sleep with a certain man to father his Child.
And a son was born and becomes the Diọkpala.

Years after, the man gives birth to his own biological son.

Between the biological son and the first son who should bare the family ọfọ when the man joins his ancestors?

How is It done in your place; kedụ kà ụnụ si eme ya na be ụnụ ?

Cc Odumchi

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0neal:


Then they will see there's little or no difference from the african-american women they are running from in the states.

I heard about it from Fresh&Fit podcast on youtube, Colombia is also another destination AA guys go to get marriageable women, the Fresh&Fit crew were cancelled for saying they don't deal with AA women because they are too masculine and aggressive.

Is fresh&fit cancelled ?

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VeryWickedMan:
Nigerians naturally love watching others have problems while they sit back & enjoy the show.

Imagine sharing your problem with someone in hope the person will assist is solving that problem unknown to you that person is busy thanking God that his Own problem is not as big as your own.

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God1000:
women and children are the ones dying most, this is nothing to rejoice over

So if MEN Are the only ones dying then we can rejoice ?

Is that how worthless the lives of men are to you people ?

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Kingsince95:


Most guys in Nigeria here are fooling themselves, just disguising as FWB. Many of them even invest financially and emotionally than the girl's boyfriend.

I've had series of FWB relationship... I stopped such friendship with a girl, we've been fucking since 2020. She started trying to bill me, mehn I had to jakpa... Because she don start dey feel say she's doing me favour because of the sex.

The first time we had sex, she paid for the hotel bills. I just took care of the drinks and food...

Once you're investing more in a FWB relationship, you're only fooling yourself as a guy. Because , these days sex is even cheaper outside. Lol

Most men fail in this FWB entanglement of a thing because along the line, they start developing feelings towards the woman. Some even as far as becoming a protector and a provider in the process thereby defeating the purpose of engaging in FWB in the first place...

To successfully engage in FWB, you must learn to be stingy.

Stingy with your emotions
Stingy with your resources
Stingy with your time
Stingy with your complements and attention.
And most importantly, stingy with your body. Make them beg for it. Even with their begging be available ONLY when you are in the mood for them in particular. Never compromise.

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CaveAdullam:
SOZINN, smarb0y, Zabiboy, Nerostealth01, Lordcassy, Ichidodo, Emotionss, Tonnyray, hope you guys are fine.

Am good bro. Busy with some projects but silently following and observing.

Redpillers that are qualified for this opportunity should please apply.

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prez:
This is actually very true. It will be difficult or highly impossible for anyone to bet against him as the article suggests

You guys are actually underestimating Atiku Abubaka.


Tinubu and Obi camp are busy fighting themselves while ignoring the bigger threats.

ATIKU ABUBAKA And the Almajiri/chad and Nigel Voters.

The north/Atiku is a very powerful threat to southen presidency yet he is being ignored by southerners.

The southern votes might go 30% for Atiku and obi. then 40% for tinubu. while Atiku will likely get 50% or more votes in the north and North central while kwankaso mat get 25%, tinubu 20% and obi 5%....

The silence in Atiku camp should be a concern to southerners but instead they are busy fighting among themselves.....

Las las north will retain power.

Tinubu and Obi camp are busy fighting themselves while ignoring the bigger threats.

ATIKU ABUBAKA And the Almajiri/chad and Nigel Voters.

The north/Atiku is a very powerful threat to southen presidency yet he is being ignored by southerners.

The southern votes might go 30% for Atiku and obi. then 40% for tinubu. while Atiku will likely get 50% or more votes in the north and North central while kwankaso mat get 25%, tinubu 20% and obi 5%....

The silence in Atiku camp should be a concern to southerners but instead they are busy fighting among themselves.....

Las las north will retain power.

Nigerians will start murmuring both online and offline only to sell their rights for 2k and vote in old analog men in office simply because the said old men are from their tribe or Religion.....

70% of Nigerians are comfortable with hardship and poverty and will do anything possible to resist anyone that will try to change their conditions especially if the changer is from a tribe or region we all love to hate.

What you're asking is to complicated for an Average Nigerian to understand..


Nigerians are more interested in the tribe and religious beliefs of a political candidates so they can either attack him or support him any other thing is irrelevant to them.

Hmmmm see how Mr tinubu camp are threatened by Mr Obi that they are trying everything possible to prove that Mr Tinubu is better than obi.

Anyway it's good thing that the southern candidates are arguing among themselves while ignoring mr Atiku abubaka.

Las last Atiku will suprise everyone.

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Cheasystickylov:
Thanks man. I am very grateful

You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start acting like you're supposed too...

The damage has been done and your wife has tested power to the extent it will be impossible for her to change and start respecting and submitting to you....

At this rate, your best option is divorce.

If you can try and convince Them to come for "HOLLIDAY IN NIGERIA. if you succeed, you can start the process here if not, I suggest you Look for ways to save some secret money that only you know about then hire a lawyer for advice on divorce proceeding over there...

Collect/ save as much evidence of her abuses and uncultured attitude. It will help in court.

And be ready to lose/sacrifice some of your possession for you to regain your manhood and peace of mind.

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Cheasystickylov:
I am not scared. Just don't have the courage to leave the kids. I am just scared what they will be exposed to when I am gone.

Op if what you wrote up there is truly what you're passing through in your marriage, then the advice you need is how to start your divorce proceeding. Because at this rate, you will probably die of stroke,HBP or any stress related illnesses in the next 10 to 15 years or even sooner.

You know what to do but you're too afraid to to it and you're using your children to mask your weakness.

Your wife know you're extremely weak and not man enough to Authoritatively take charge of your marriage or even end it that is why she is more than bold enough to act the way she does.

Before you married her. You saw what she really is but unfortunately your blue bill mentality thought you could use Money and Simping to change her. Unfortunately life doesn't work that way.

Divorce that woman as soon as possible or you start preparing for your untimely death.....

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seunmsg:
Ekweremadu is finished. They Brits will ruin him completely before leaving him alone. So sad this is how he ended his illustrious political career.

They should keep him there.
His "illustrious" political career was of no benefit to the common man.

One would have thought that after the yam beating the idiot will receive sense but no he felt untouchable.

It is well ooo

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Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
[url] https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures [/url]

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

[url] https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice[/url]

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.


This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

It is impossible for someone as weak and emotionally confused as you to be a Redpiller. It's just impossible.

I am 100% sure if the said girl should call you and apologize, you will abandone your dignity and go back to her....

After insulting your Ancestors and Elders because of a girl you're here forming Redpill.

To slap you dey hungry me.

Father's deserve more appreciation than they get.

Ok

Happy father's day to all father's out there. Your sacrifices are appropriated.

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StopPipelines:
Why won't they be happy to have small money to keep soul and body together when your nigeria government have impoverished the people even to the bone.
When they complain of the too much hardship they are called miscreants.

And for that they sold their right and privilege for few thousand naira

Truly Nigerians are now comfortable with sufferings.