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Brokeandnolove:
Before now, I thought that not all Nigerian girls are materialistic like we are made to believe, but a recent experience with my girlfriend made me rethink that particular conception.

I've been dating her for a little over a year now, and asides from normal relationship disputes, we have been cool. I met her when I was jobless and broke, and the relationship wasn't meant to happen because neither of us wanted a relationship then. We somehow clicked and started dating.

I got a job that pays 150k soon after, plus other small side gigs. She never put a strain on my pocket because I give whatever I feel whenever I feel like it. She hardly demands stuff, and I felt l just found myself a gem.

Rich guys hover around her like vultures over a carcass, but she stayed faithful, or so I thought. My company started experiencing difficulties towards the end of last year, and my salary was no longer consistent. At one point, I was owed three months' pay.

Due to the cash crunch, I could no longer give even the changes I used to give her. A bestie of hers that wasn't in the picture suddenly appeared after he started doing fraud and picked some mega bucks. He started getting her gifts and promising her heaven and earth to get her.

She's currently about write her final exams, and she has a list of stuff that she needs for graduation, which I promised her that I would be able to get her just two out of her list. Recently she went out with two guys within four days, and they were all yahoo looking guys with Benz and the likes. When I tried cautioning her of the dangers of associating herself with such people and how I was uncomfortable with her going out with random guys, she angrily said that I couldn't sort her bills and was still stopping her from going out with people that could sort it out for her. She kept referencing how she was not gaining anything from being a good girl while other girls that weren't half as beautiful as she was cashing out from guys.

She came over for the weekend, and just yesterday, she asked if I could allow her to go for an Easter outing with a friend today; I told her it's insulting to go see a guy from my place, but she saw nothing wrong with it.

This morning she begged me to allow her to spend a day with a guy that has been sending her money, and he is willing to pay anything she wants to spend a day with him. She pleaded with me to understand because she had bills and didn't want to stress me.

I told her she was free to go and started dressing up to leave the house. I never felt so insulted in my life, I already ended the relationship in my mind for her to even have the effontry to make such a proposition.

She started complaining that I wanted to ruin her weekend by giving her attitude when I could have easily said no to her request. I just ignored her and left the house to see a friend.

I used to think that she was different but just realized that most girls aren't contended which pushes them to do all sort of rubbish cos of money. SMH

It's not fair to generalize all Nigerian girls as materialistic based on one experience with your girlfriend. It's important to remember that individuals have their own values and behaviors, and it's unfair to paint an entire group based on one person's actions. However, if you feel disrespected and insulted by your girlfriend's behavior, it's within your right to end the relationship. Communication and mutual respect are important in any relationship, and if those values are not being upheld, it may be best to move on.

Richy4:
Lets just blame it on the hormone... The way she was snatching the microphones left, right and centre...
The money for the hall and food they served the guest, they should have used it to buy baby stuffs...The hall, the decorations and catering doesn't come cheap I guess...

It's understandable to feel frustrated with how the event was organized, especially if you feel that the money could have been better spent on more personalized items or practical items for the baby. However, it's important to remember that everyone has different priorities and ways of celebrating important milestones in their lives. It's possible that for the person organizing the event, having a memorable celebration with family and friends was important to them.

Blaming everything on hormones may not be fair, as there may be other factors at play as well. Instead, it may be helpful to communicate your concerns and priorities with the organizer in a respectful and understanding manner. This could lead to finding a compromise that meets everyone's needs and priorities.

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