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This nigga don go soapy wetin no good and stopped updating.

And the thing about relapsing is once you do you'll be jerking off back to back to back, it's crazy.

Wonder who he thinks he is cos it wasn't realistic in the first place. Every man should aim to not masturbate, but not having sex either? ever?
Not even remotely possible unless you're mutilating your genitals.

If it's masturbation, I wish strength to anyone out there trying to overcome. I did so years ago and you can too.

Borrow2222:
Oga, don't let nonsense give you high blood pressure.

Do you expect her to frown and be mean to her customer?

Abeg, drink water, you'll be fine.

There's a difference between smiling at your customer and blushing. Hers was so clearly the latter.

Double0h7:
I wish I checked op out before I made that long comment up there! 👆

I'm no saint, but my wife was pregnant then and we hadn't had sex for weeks, but in the end I overcame the temptation and hence I deleted the initial message.
I have never cheated on her.

Was in my wife's shop and this guy came in, I have only ever seen him once...some weeks ago when I was in the shop and they (him and my wife) seemed to be going back and forth about a withdrawal he did via POS a few days prior, which she had even mentioned to me. He ended up proving that he indeed made the transfer but to a different bank from the one my wife had checked.
It seemed like a totally normal encounter, I mean both of them were very cool and relaxed about the whole issue while it was happening but it wasn't anything to think about.

I saw him for the second time 4 days ago, came in and something was immediately awkward.
He had a cunning smirk and didn't greet just asked her “how are you na".
I also must add he's a young guy and quite good looking alright.

The whole time my wife was acting very shy, she could barely look at his face and had a little sheepish smile. I know what that exact behaviour from ladies is, I have experienced it severally in the past.
Meanwhile he didn't even acknowledge my presence at all like I was invisible or something.

He came to withdraw money again and buy something which I was too bewildered to even recall now.
I've always been a jealous lover I'll admit but this is my WIFE we're talking about here. Married for 9+ years with 3 kids, and she should be at least 7 or 8 years older than this guy.

He left with a similar, even bigger smirk than the first and my wife had an obvious smile this time while she bade him goodbye.
She went back to sit and started pressing her phone like usual, with a normal facial expression. But I couldn't stop trying to decipher why my wife had been visibly blushing hard for a guy much younger, all while in my presence. I didn't even know what to say to her or ask her.

Ever since I have been trying to look up her WhatsApp chats and calls, something I have never done since I got married to her, but I haven’t found anything unusual.

My wife is a beautiful fair woman who doesn't look like she has multiple kids at all so I can understand why younger guys would be after her. I usually visit her shop like 4-5 times a week and spend a couple hours at most, but yesterday I spent almost the entire day with some excuse, hoping to encounter this guy again and witness my wife's reaction.

It's becoming obsessive at this point.

Didn't wanna add this, but we made love 2 nights ago and I literally thought about this guy while at it, made me go extra hard on her and have a doggy style position which my wife has never really liked, and I was spanking her butt and squeezing very hard while doing it to her shock, also something I've never really done.

This shit is basically derailling my life right now and I'm just looking for this to pass and everything to go back to normal. I guess as the days pass I'll forget about it but I'm just eager to witness both of them meeting each other again.

Am I overthinking this?? Should I bring it up?

lmao

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link pls

kawasaki