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Because she has some excellent wife qualities that you can rarely find in all these modern ladies out there try to resolve the sex issue. Only kids don’t realize lack of sex can destroy a marriage just like lack of money. Please confirm the following before divorcing your wife:
1. Was she circumcised? This means her clit and some sensitive parts of her reproductive organ has been cut off. You need to focus on pre-intimacy and learn about her other arousal spots to make her aroused and wet enough. Also help her arousal with warming sex lubricant, so she doesn’t dry up & sex becomes painful.
2. Is sex painful to her? Both of you should go for STD/STI test. Sometimes these infections make sex unbearably painful for women. If there is no STD/STI, Try to use a nice warming lubricant like durex or fiesta. This will make sex less painful for her.
3. Does she not enjoy your pre-intimacy, sex stamina or post sex game? Please read voraciously about how to please a woman in bed. Spice up your sex with intimacy gadgets, sex card games and role plays. Women have a different sexual appetite and preferences compared to men. Find out what her preferences are. You will be pleasantly surprised if she opens up to you. PLEASE DONT JUDGE HER IF SHE OPENS UP.
4. Did her low libido suddenly start after childbirth? This is very common. Both of you need to see a psychologist and sex therapist to help pull her out of the very common depressive state in women after childbirth. They can even prescribe antidepressants for her.
5. Does she not mind if you take another wife? Discuss this with her. Let her know that the lack of sex is really affecting you badly and you still love her. Make her know you don’t want to cheat on her, however, you will be forced to date or marry another woman if she doesn’t improve on her sex game. Monogamy is a western scam that has solved nothing. Sometimes women up their sex game when they face competition from other women.

Good luck to you!

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Many people who feel uncomfortable getting close to people tend not to express their deeper feelings, and then feel resentment towards others for not taking an interest in getting to know them on a more meaningful level. This creates a cycle of feeling let down and disappointed in relationships and leads to a deep sense of loneliness, the result of which further disconnects them from closeness and belonging.

Perhaps consider that you may not be letting people in enough for them to care to know you better. When a person vividly describes their feelings and experiences, they come to life—suddenly someone who once appeared like a black-and-white TV screen is now is in full HD colour. People with low confidence, who struggle with intimacy or experience social anxiety disorder can become so uncomfortable in social encounters that they do not know what to share.

Instead of focusing on what other people may be thinking of you, look within. Work to notice your feeling and experiences and then push yourself to say it. If you feel happy, joyful, sad, disappointed, angry—try and label your emotions. Do not dismiss them. Find the words to describe what you are experiencing, feeling, or thinking and communicate this to others in your life. Find people who make you feel normal when you express your emotions, not judged or put down. Notice if friends or your partner are receptive to what you have to say. It is okay, even if they do not agree with you, because when others are close to you, there will be a sense of comfort and validation.

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