Antoeni: Tinibu is working as the governor of katsina state said. Defense also said insecurity has reduced in about 70%. Weldone
I concour with you... Tinubu is working seriously and insecurity has reduced by 80%. Make dem continue to dey deceived themselves there...as long as poor man no get sleep and peace, dem too go continue to dey see shage!
pdppower: Obidients no longer see Kwankwaso as a terrorist any longer because he is now in their camp. it is now glaring that they only see the devil in whoever does not fabour their "Messiah".
You are quick to forgot that it was Tinubu who wooed him first for the position of vice president....so because e no work for una, na em make you dey castigate am like say he comut food from your mouth!... Like this APC dey get running stomach, only Ebele Good Jonathan dey give una headache sote una go block the arena where dem won use announce him mandate for Abuja... APC people can't think straight anymore! Na weed full una head!
annford: Here in Abuja, it takes less than 6 hours. Walk into the FRSC HQ at Wuse Zone 7 or the one at Wuse Zone 3 by neighborhood center or the one at Mabushi. They'd first call you in for " Capturing" and then print out a temporary driver's license for you. They'd tell you'd be notified via an SMS when the permanent one is ready (usually on your birthday). Within 3 months of the capturing, the main would be out. You go give them the temporary one and show the text sent too you and they give you the permanent one. Chikina.
You no talk say money dey involve... na so e easy to just walk into their office and they instantly attend to you whereas other people have been waiting for a month or two throughdue process.... baba the truth be say e go cost you up to 60k to get such treatment jare! No be Abuja here...we no the koko and we're a beneficiary of the process.
FarSide: So, last week, I was involved in an accident with my new car. The victim, a boy of about 10 years laid lifeless on the road. Though it wasn't my fault but that a story for another day...
At first I thought it's just an accident, maybe if the boy dies, the parents will now carry him and burry. And maybe at worst, it's a bad name, people could be suspecting me of murder... Anyways their opinion I thought. After all it's not my fault .
But then something struck me. I have no driving license! That's when I realized I could be in for a long thing. How can I clear myself at the police station. I could be charged for murder and I will be doing a prison term for it.
At that moment, I started sweating profusely. I realized a single act of negligence (failing to get a driving license) could land me in serious trouble.
But then, my African instinct came in, a consolation I thought. I said to myself, if this boy dies, I will be going straight to a driving school that promised to help me process my driving license and get it instantly at any cost. With that my offense could be dismissed as just an accident.
Well, lucky me, I took the boy to the hospital and he survived. Drove home and grounded the car. Moved straight to the driving school to process the license. To my greatest surprise, they only gave me an enrollment form to fill that day and told me the process will be continued after 26 working days!!! I was like "sir, is there no way to fast track this?" He said no way. That was when I realized there is no shortcut to freedom had the boy died from the accident. Well, I'm still patiently waiting to continue the processing and get a valid license. Though I drive the car once in a while but I'm extremely cautious. And I pray my chi will see me through.
Lawyers in the house, what do you think would have been my punishment??
My fellow new drivers, do well to get your license asap.
Max 1 month you can get it....I got mine within a space of 1month....a week after enrolment form, I was called to come get temporary licence and after 3 weeks my original licence came out...they collect the temporary one and issued me the original licence. It will cost about 60k for express licence like mine.
oarowosola: I met her sometime around April or May last year, and from the beginning, things seemed fine between us. Like every relationship, we both made sacrifices, and even though I don’t like keeping score in relationships, I know I gave a lot of myself into it. Over time, though, I started noticing certain habits and behaviors that became harder and harder for me to ignore. At first, I kept convincing myself that maybe I was overthinking things or expecting too much, but eventually I realized that I was simply becoming exhausted.
One of the biggest issues for me was cleanliness and basic responsibility. I’m not a perfect person, and I can be nonchalant too. I’m someone who enjoys my own space and doesn’t constantly need attention or communication. If someone is busy and doesn’t check up on me for a while, I honestly don’t take it personally. But what bothered me was the imbalance. She could disappear for days or weeks whenever she was occupied and expect me to understand, but if I withdrew into my own space just to protect my peace, she would become upset about it. That double standard was one of the first things that started weighing on me emotionally.
The first time I visited her house, I was shocked by how untidy it was. I’m not obsessive about cleanliness, but I believe there should be a basic level of order, especially when you know someone is visiting you for the first time. When she came to my place for the first time, I made an effort. I cleaned my house , mopped the floor, arranged the bed, and even bought small things just to make the environment more comfortable. It wasn’t about trying to impress her with money; it was simply intentionality. I wanted her to feel welcomed.
But each time I visited her place, the environment remained the same. One particular day, after she stepped out, I decided to clean the entire house myself just to prove a point. While sweeping, I found sugar inside the couch, rotting cashew scattered around, and several things that clearly caused unpleasant odors. I cleaned the parlour, arranged the bedroom, organized her bags, and put everything in order. When she came back, she thanked me, but I remember telling her that it shouldn’t get to the point where her boyfriend had to clean her entire house before it became livable. I told her clearly that if I visited again and the place was still in that condition, it would probably be the last time I came there.
Unfortunately, nothing changed. On another visit, the smell in the house was so terrible that I kept trying to trace where it was coming from. Eventually, I discovered a sack beside the couch she had been sitting on. Something inside it had gone bad, and the odor was unbearable. I carried it outside myself because I couldn’t understand how someone could stay in that environment comfortably. Later, when she went to make yam and eggs, I followed her into the kitchen and found another terrible smell coming from plates that had clearly been sitting there for days. Instead of cleaning the sink first, she simply pushed the dirty dishes aside and placed the yam directly on the dirty sink to peel it. In that moment, I felt completely traumatized and emotionally checked out.
Beyond cleanliness, I also started feeling unappreciated in the relationship. On her birthday, I called her early in the morning, posted her on my WhatsApp status, and celebrated her the best way I could at the time, even though I was broke. Yet she still complained that I didn’t make her birthday special enough. Meanwhile, on my own birthday, there was no call in the morning, no thoughtful gesture, nothing until later at night when she casually said she forgot because she had been going through a lot. What hurt me more was that I had actually bought her gifts for her birthday, including a designer bag and matching slippers I personally made for her. It wasn’t really about material things; it was the imbalance in effort and thoughtfulness.
I also noticed the same imbalance in everyday life. Whenever she visited my place, I was usually the one cooking, cleaning, and taking care of things even while working from home as a shoemaker. Most times she would just sit pressing her phone while I handled everything. She barely cooked for me throughout the relationship, and eventually I stopped going out of my way because I started feeling taken for granted.
Money became another issue. She would borrow money and either delay repayment or never complete it. As a shoemaker, the money I receive for jobs is not pure profit because most of it goes back into materials and production. Yet I still found myself lending her large amounts from jobs I was supposed to complete quickly. Even when she paid back partially, it felt emotionless, almost like she didn’t recognize the inconvenience it caused me.
The final straw happened recently when she visited me during a very busy work period. She suggested we spend the night in a hotel even though my house was already comfortable, and I agreed. I paid for the room, and when food was ordered later that night, I still ended up paying almost everything despite already spending heavily on the hotel. The next day, after returning from the market exhausted from buying materials for work, I expected to at least meet food at home since all the ingredients were available. Instead, I walked into a kitchen with bread wrappers and milk sachets scattered around while she had already eaten without cleaning up after herself. I still ended up cooking for myself.
The following morning, after she made food during the night, she left the kitchen in complete disorder again. Pots, plates, and leftovers were everywhere while I woke up early to continue working. Rather than cleaning up, she sat watching TikTok videos. Eventually I had to pause my own work to clean the kitchen myself because I couldn’t stand the environment anymore. At that point, I realized I was mentally exhausted.
What made everything clearer for me was understanding that this wasn’t just about dirt or money. It was about incompatibility. I realized I was constantly carrying responsibilities that should have been shared. I’m not against people hiring cleaners or getting help. I also take some of my clothes to dry cleaners. But there’s a difference between getting assistance and being unable to handle basic responsibilities yourself. If someone who is meant to clean your house doesn’t show up, there should still be a basic ability to sweep, organize, remove trash, and maintain a healthy environment. I couldn’t understand depending entirely on other people for something so fundamental.
At some point, I stopped seeing peace in the relationship. I started feeling drained instead of supported. Even during intimate moments, she would make comments like, “If you leave me, I will haunt you,” and although she may not have meant it literally, those kinds of statements only made me more uncomfortable emotionally.
Eventually, I accepted the truth that we are simply not compatible. I don’t hate her, and I’m not trying to paint myself as perfect. I just know that I can no longer continue in a relationship where I constantly feel emotionally exhausted, unappreciated, and burdened. I’ve reached a point where I no longer want to argue, explain, or force things to work. I’ve already made up my mind that the relationship is over, and at this point, I just want to walk away peacefully and move on with my life.
What do you think? Be nice please
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But you no complete that part where una spend night together for hotel...you no tell us if she dirty inside like on the outside!
Oh...prenup na Èķpà àtì ĝùĝùŕu! In a layman language, if you're wealthy and feels no woman would want to marry for love except for pretence.. You will ask the lady to sign an agreement document, that after devoice she no go get shimkpam from you! Your property is yours to keep and nothing goes to her after una finalise devoice. Except if you guys have children bounding you two.. you will be paying child support if the court choses to keep the children with their mother but, in a situation where the child or children are all grown up, they the children will decide on their own on who to live with.
voortrekker966: Has anyone else seen the leaked video of the ex wife been bonked by a homeless married man?
Only fools fall in love marry.
Can you imagine! Na only God know which kind of lie the homeless man tell her where make her open the gate for him... After 1year her eyes go clear, when her parents begin see her as liability and the pounds cease to come monthly..na there she go no say even tea na water!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpBE39sC54o A man reportedly collapsed during a workout session at a gym, and the footage quickly spread online. Witnesses say he appeared normal moments earlier before suddenly losing strength.
The incident has sparked conversations online about hidden health conditions, overtraining, stress, and the importance of regular medical checkups. Many people are now asking the same question… could this happen to anyone?
Always listen to your body during intense workouts.
Baba nothing like always listened to your body during workout....when is time to go, death will come knocking jare!
Ayaa! Sorry oooo.... you forgot say Balabulu na serial betrayal him be! He a use a dump mafioso who cares about nobody except himself and his ambition to amass more wealth ignoring death! The interest of Nigeria matters not to him, except what he can get from our small individual savings by creating more means of taxation. And nobody fear opposition reach am!
lovediehatelive: Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.
Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.
I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.
It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.
If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.
But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.
Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!
Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.
That was it.
After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.
Since then she's been giving me attitude.
She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.
It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.
Has anyone ever experienced such?
E better as you say no....after all na sin una won sin and Allah put asunder between you two! Imagine say she come and in the middle of doing the do...she come cut ticket to the other side beyond...you for dey regret not watching the match and saying no to her visit.
lovediehatelive: Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.
Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.
I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.
It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.
If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.
But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.
Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!
Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.
That was it.
After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.
Since then she's been giving me attitude.
She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day. E better as you say no....after all na sin una won sin and Allah put asunder between you two! Imagine say she come and in the middle of doing the do...she come cut ticket to the other side beyond...you for dey regret not watching the match and saying no to her visit.
It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.
Lovelink1991: Situation like this shows that we should not trust anybody.
A girl chase out her roommate after she caught her boyfriend sleeping with her roommate after two months of trying to live with the incident as if nothing happened.
Lawal1555: Here is another lazy old fool... Where is the future for the youths here?
Baba go chop shawama for my head jare! Those old politicians are too selfish and greedy... imagine person where don pass 70yrs still dey run for senate.
Wale my guy! No worry the truth go soon come out....we all know you did your best and stand for the truth but the yemu yemus in that stone house no want make you do the right thing.
Lovelink1991: The boldness of some ladies need to be study in school. After she rejected the man's proposal publicly she still have the guts to sneak into the man's house at night and slept. At midnight the guy sent her packing.
NOTE: how it started is at the end of the video.
Watch the drama that played out via the YouTube link below
The guy should have seen it coming...Because you dey spend for woman up and down no mean say she go marry you ooooo! The lady in question should have used her discretion to react, disgracing him publicly is never an option. There other ways to handle such moments. The guy throwing her out of the house at the middle of the night shows how dangerous and unremousefull he could be. Na this kind of guy dey use cutlass design their wife body if dem commit crime! It's better it happens to her now than later, when things will be uncontrollable.
Racoon: Wale Edun served in a government that hates the truth and paid for it with his reputation if he has any. Tinubu does not like truthful or clean people.
Bro nailed it!! Simple truth is that Wale Edun is always open to the truth, and this current government don't like people countering them on fact.
Magnetic010: I think most of these stories are made up for likes and engagement online but if this is true- it’s a clear example of how mothers can ruin their children’s lives with their own selfish interests
Willy2025: Patanmi is a strong supporter of extremists by extension the BH and ISWAP its offshoot. It will be catastrophic if the man is elected under any political party at all. He introduced BVN and NIN, yet violent crimes like banditry and kidnapping are on exponential increase with the NIN serving no value for the security agencies.
Can you prove it? If you don't like his personality, that is a different thing entirely...but saying trash without prove is nonsense!
Crime › Re: Rabe Abubakar & Wife Kidnapped In Katsina by Etila(m): 1:51pm On May 31
