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MY COUSIN AS IMPUDIATED SO MANY SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ALL BECAUSE SHE NEEDED A MAN THAT COMES FROM OUR TRIBLE.
EVEN WHEN I KEPT WHISPERING TO HER EYES "THAT LOVE DOES NOT BASE ON RELIGION" BUT SHE NEVER HEED TO MY WORDS, BUT SHE IS 30 YEARS NOW, UPTILL NOW SHE ASN'T FIND THE RIGHT PARTNER OF ARE CHOICE FROM OUR TRIBE, AFTER THE FRITTER TIME.
WHAT IS YOUR ADVISE TO ME FOR HER NOW COS SHE REALLY WANT TO SETTLE DOWN.

what happen was when i was at ilorin and i only spent five days with him so am no longer with the guy , have being back to lagos since i finisehed my exams, but we are only communicating through phone,
but we still love each other so much. have tried to stop cogitating about him, the more i reakon back on the past we shared together, the more i kept loving him.
infact i don't konw what to do to get him off my mind,

Pls nairaland i need your admonishment,

It all started this way, i travelled to unilorin for my post jamb , i was stranded cos i knew no one, until i met this guy who accomodated me stil i travelled back to lagos.
We came to know eacch much better as friend, he told me about his girl friend which i also tell him about my boy friend as well, without having anything o n mind for each other but the feelings.
Could you belive i slept with a guy for four days in the same bed without any sexual intension, this made me love him the more. but the feelings gradually started developing i tried as much as posible to hide the feelings, when i ccould no longer hide the feelings i had to tell him i wanted t o leave but he did no t let me go at the period.
The next day i prepared beans and ripe plantain for him which he loves so much and ate excess of it, which caused stomach upset to him that night, i find it insomnia to sleep cos he was unable to sleep because of the pains he had.
Taiye had to open up to me about his feelings for me tha night which he was also hiding aswell, when he could no longer hide the feelings any longer. we both came to love other so crazy not wanting to let go of each other.
But the issue now is that taiye and me are into a relationship elsewhere, and we are so much in love with each other, mean why taiye is a muslim, and i am a christain.
wat could this be? , Could this be love, lust or infatuation i ask one more time cos am bemused?.