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Mariangeles:
Soft parenting? What is that?

i think baa? 😂😂..

MrDoGood:
Life when she don live past, why she no go know 😂😂😂😂

true talk

Melagros:
COMRADES, I think our parents, especially the mothers know us very well that's why they are called first teachers

😂😂.. na who help you apply rob later.. sorry ehn 😂😂

AZControversial:


I remember long ago my mom asked me to wash the dishes. As the king of procrastination, I told her I would do them that she shouldn't bother.
Somehow, I had gone to play ball and had completely forgotten. I entered the house, freshened up and started watching TV. She sat there with me watching oo.
Brethren, it didn't dawn on me until she got up and walked towards the door. As she closed the door and bolted it, my heart cut. And because of me, the stubborn one, cane was an easy reach.
It was then I realised......

😂😂.. no worry.. me self i no go ask 😂

ZaddyJ:
If na olosho or runs girls Arrgh! Your mama must find because e get why. Don’t ask me 🙏🏿 please

eweeh!.. natural kwa?

CJStarz:
A typical Nigerian mum na natural FBI/CID

walahi!.. ... but na that percieve.. I still they wan understand.. na wetin? dey read am for school where boys no dey ni abi.. God do ojoro dash them extra sense ..

Mariangeles:
She perceived a different scent/energy from what she was familiar with, around the house.

A mother's instinct.

careful o.. I be last born o.. I no send like that

CJStarz:
Hehehe
Especially the last borns

emm... sorry.. [coughs].. you say? 🤓 ... abi make the mothers even catch the fathers join 😂... but sha.. if you get evidence.. share abeg.. for the sake of new borns 😂

ZaddyJ:
Mothers are not the only clever parent. Fathers too are.

iss-a-lie! 😂😂.. i talk am!... we never uncode.. how dem dey know this things o!

doctore212:
I carried an olosho come our family house during my uni days.

My mama just entered from market and said Woman dey this house and began to search around.

I fear my mama that day

Na you think am so.. and this one no be nairaland matter... na me and you... wetin do the topic? abeg.. tissh me biko

Apcshit:
Nonsense topic,what is wrong with nairaland.com

you don talk am naa.. white woman ... No Nigerian mum fit tolerate that even if she wan try.. laslas she go hang am 😂

RollinTNDA:
E get one white woman. Her pikin dey wooze her slap she still dey smile. Pikin of 10 yrs

The mother talks to him like an adult and the boy no dey obey a single instructions from the mother.

But the woman still love am endlessly

Wahala 😅.. but he can ask o .. just that the reason for asking may differ.. my thot sha

WahalaWitGrace:
Why should d guy be asking that question? If the table was turned.. would he stay?

Oohkayyyy.. wisdom 😂

WahalaWitGrace:
The one for that video link you attached get food problem and the mother know am 😂😂

Nigerian mums really have some secret intuition not just pure experience jare

EverydayTales:
but then.. i still get something else for mind o.. actually.. i dey build small psychology research with this our everyday patterns.. .. i gree say children can sabotage themselves, helping mama agenda.. even mama.. sure knows her children.. but the one for this chat nko? - https://youtube.com/shorts/zqukMoQi7Y0 - no one gave her hint.. and i know sure say na wetin she know about the children help her decode the mission abeg.. thots on this.. the uniqueness baffles me walahi!

you swear my head.. you don marry?

It is fact beyond saying that men need to be more intentional with their women too. When you find a good one.. do your best never to take her for granted and if you land a not so great one but you love her.. then motivate her (not ultimatum) to change for you.. women are very adaptable if they are truly happy with you.
thanks for sharing.

From time immemorial, men have fought wars, waged battles all for the money,power and exotic women.

We all want to shower our woman with gifts, give them deposits on their accounts and be the one they yearn for-while all of this will make a women respect and admire you…yet we still wonder sometimes...

Does she really love me?

Am I the only one she got?

We all want our woman to be our everything, just like Patoranking sang in his current hit single “my woman, my everything”…but are you her everything?

While making a woman love you might varies, based on factors we won’t be discussing here, there are some certain things that will make a woman love you better.

(1) Give her good quality time

We all can be unavoidably absent sometimes, yet when we find time to be with our loved ones, it should be quality time. Quality time means no distractions, no pinging’s, just you and your woman at unity and one with the universe. Use this time to conversate, relate and stimulate. Talk about things you both desire, laugh, open up to her to see your sensitivity. When you talk, gaze into her eyes and make her feel beautiful. Every Woman want to feel like the “one”, that special one you can’t live without

(2) Tell her about your plans, make it clear enough for her

Even when a woman loves you, there is a standard she cannot go below. In some cases a woman can suspend her love for you when she sees you cannot give her the type of life she desires.

It is better to make her understand from the start how things are, and state your plans and how you want to go about reaching them. If she does not clearly understand your plans, she will not know where to fit herself in your life and future- this certainly will bring about draw backs.

See full article at-

https://lekkidatingandsex.com/f/how-to-love-her-better

But..
Can love actually survive when money is gone?
Or do people just say “money doesn’t matter” until reality hits?

EverydayTales:
Be honest… women don’t always mean what they say 😅
A guy asked his babe:
“If I lose my job, will you still love me?”
She said yes… even said money doesn’t matter
But then she asked one question… 👀
Why do I feel like that answer changed everything?
my motivation is coming from this chat - https://youtube.com/watch?v=mqdIkJJvRAs?feature=share
Be honest… how broke is TOO broke? 😭

Be honest… women don’t always mean what they say 😅
A guy asked his babe:
“If I lose my job, will you still love me?”
She said yes… even said money doesn’t matter
But then she asked one question… 👀
Why do I feel like that answer changed everything?
my motivation is coming from this chat - https://youtube.com/watch?v=mqdIkJJvRAs
Be honest… how broke is TOO broke? 😭

No be me talk am o.. Just think its common sense to reduce the tendency.. even i fall victim but i remind myself what it does to ridicule a man and so sit up on time

WahalaWitGrace:
you are so right.. ok you support that we should teach people that wait till deadlines a lesson by not helping them ni?

Imagine thinking you’re slick, and she’s already 2 steps ahead 😭.. mothers!

interesting but that problem is not only within students o.. most of us wait till last minute to do what we know we should do early but I guess the first way to addressing this matter is as they did in that your video.. refuse to give the person what they need when they come too late for it.. they will learn fast.. that should spread to everywhere even outside schools

WahalaWitGrace:
🧑🏼‍🎓🙆🏽‍♂️🙆🏽‍♀️😮.. that means means it’s worse than I thought 🤓. Here is a very clear example of this though funny but sad situation -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-iJy_BMn6o?si=5kzw4R2dxNmqP0vu and it is not with students only.
We ourselves too self… 😅

Na so.. Nigerian students and deadlines have a toxic relationship 😂

WahalaWitGrace:
Someone I saw today came to submit something very important…

Deadline = today.

Everything was already set o.

But he still waited till last minute before showing up.

Now pressure everywhere, begging for “quick help” like it’s urgent for everybody.

Be honest… why do people do this to themselves? 😭

If your mum thinks so.. you better listen.. borrow sense here - [https://youtube.com/shorts/zqukMoQi7Y0?feature=share]. You can not underestimate the 7th sense of mothers 😅

janejjjjj5000:
I hired a househelp in October. She is 34 years old. She tells me she wants to get married and that she is not getting any younger.

My mum is around now on a visit and when she heard her saying it, my mum told me to send her away so she will not snatch my husband.

My mum said that people like that when they get too desperate can come up with all kinds of ideas.

I trust my husband but my mum's words have been playing in my head.

I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you.

Nigerian mums are too sharp 😭 and I believe it more of Nigerian than Africans generally. As husbands, we have to give them kudos for this abeg

EverydayTales:
but then.. i still get something else for mind o.. actually.. i dey build small psychology research with this our everyday patterns.. .. i gree say children can sabotage themselves, helping mama agenda.. even mama.. sure knows her children.. but the one for this chat nko? - https://youtube.com/shorts/zqukMoQi7Y0 - no one gave her hint.. and i know sure say na wetin she know about the children help her decode the mission abeg.. thots on this.. the uniqueness baffles me walahi!

but then.. i still get something else for mind o.. actually.. i dey build small psychology research with this our everyday patterns.. .. i gree say children can sabotage themselves, helping mama agenda.. even mama.. sure knows her children.. but the one for this chat nko? - https://youtube.com/shorts/zqukMoQi7Y0 - no one gave her hint.. and i know sure say na wetin she know about the children help her decode the mission abeg.. thots on this.. the uniqueness baffles me walahi!

.. na true o.. i know think am that way at all.. one pikin go always wan be mama favorite... okayyyy

Emmy000seun:
Lol 😁..all mother know each kid with their attitude..💯..the know the one that has over sharpness trait,..😁😁😀..those one can b presume as a thief of the house 😁😂🤷..even d baddest but gentle looking kids too are not left out..
Laslas mothers dey get spy inside pikin.😂😂..like if pikin reach like 4 to 5 for house den go get the olofofo ov d house and mum favorite,she must not report you to her or else... 🤔😆..all this makes home sweet tho!: sometimes you're happy and sometimes sad..just as life b generally 💯

Nigerian mums are actually wizards 😭
This one asked: “Who finished the meat?”
The children said no… but she still found a way to know who did it.
Is it intuition or just luck?
Have you ever caught your kids or been caught?
Let’s explore these peculiar Nigerian mum “genie powers” 👀
How them they do am?