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Mz nAirA: OP just play your part well and do what u think/know is right and also make sure your conscience is clear.. If he is for you my dear, he will propose to you before u even say JACK ROBISON'S ENCYCLOPEDIA.... Whatever happens don't appear desperate.....

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chikk: With all due respect ma'am, I don't agree with these. Family pressure can make men do what they don't want to. What if this pressure from home is for him to come home and marry some pre-arranged girl? Or what if his family doesn't accept the OP since the man is yet to take her to his mum. I wouldve agreed with you that she should wait so she doesn't look desperate in bringing up marriage issues, but there's no guarantee that the man will marry her. Love is not enough. 6years is a long time, she's not getting any younger.



I like this. @OP, this is a typical example of how you can discuss this issue with him without using the keyword 'marriage'. If you approach the issue directly, he will see you as desperate. The plan B is for you to be ready to put your life together and move on in case ypu don't hear what you want to.

You have a good point! Will do just dt

rokiatu: Is ok love I am now tamed. Love changes people.

Nice dearie!

HARDDON: a zillion likes!

for six years he wasnt stolen, even when you turned him down and he was as free as air?....
it is now that fate has brought you guys togeda that you wano ooze wuss and air your despiration?


BTW, what happened to your FORMAL LUV? left you in the lurch when age isnt no more on your side huh?

would i be wrong to put it to you that you didnt consider him den because he was not well to do?
but now that he has some confident soft air, you wano lay your claws all over him?

WANO HEAR D HARD TRUTH?
give it up gurl.... he isnt gonno marry you. you already can sense that.
he is just with you now to soothe his ego you bruised and fulfill his somewhat unachieved mission(pay back time)
for all its worth, grow acrobatic in bed with mind blowing sessions, if you may( that seem to be your only selling point now )
it aint gonno change no jack.

to him, you are nothing my a B-mate. when the time comes he wud pick anoda.

still wondering y he hasnt taken you to mama?

Bla blab blab! Yeah the bitter truth is dt he was better before than now in finacial aspect. My former relationship was when I was a student and d guy den was a student after sch. Distance separated us. We broke up in good note okay! I can't handle distance relationship more when nothing has to take u to d place I ve respect for my self okay.
NOW THE SWEET TRUTH is dt u re one lonely person that wish u could atleast see someone to talk to now u wish u have somth like this anyways be good and good ll come ur way

Exponental: On a good day, ask him....... "what's my fate in this relationship? U know I'm not getting any younger, suitors keep going away cos of u and mumsy is also worried"........
BTW, consider a plan B.

BTW what's that? And please what's PlanB like?

rokiatu: You are so wrong...I break hearts not the other way round.

Hehehehehehehe! Not cool, am not in support of that ooo

vivian chinaza: If you love this guy and he loves you and he is looking for a wife? Then you have to tell him.

Tell him you would love to be his wife someday. Considering you have been just friends for sometime he might be confused about how you really feel. He has to know how you feel.

You guys confess love to each other right? Then that's the perfect time to chip that in. There is a way you can tell him and not act desperately.

He has some kinda bad experience with girls in the pass he always says he doesn't want to make a mistake but he is sure he loves me, infact his perspective of life is different, maybe I should do as u say thou.

butta: shame on u y should u say she is desperate there Is nothing desperate about wanting to be with d guy she loves

Thank you joor!

Darlene babe: mistake ladies make,u seem desperate, take things easy. there is more to marriage dan dating

Pls am not desperate, just that I know now that he is seriously getting presure from his family to get a wife, I don't knw what he might be thinking in his mind, I said am scared of losing him, okay

hrmkz: Buy an engagement ring and ask " Will you marry me".

You are not serious

God remembered me

If they are aLl Good people may their souls. Rest in peace. But I wish it would be those boyz that rob in upper iweka, have been robbed there twice just passing ooo! And was in a vehicle, I hate that town