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theophorus:
Halleluya!!!
All Praise to the Lord.
Congratulations to the Young Man, Generational Blessings may have been unlocked already.

Laslas, John15:14 is however more importanta.

Cousin9999:
Most men want a thick woman, which is a pretty big size/weight range. There is also a substantial amount that straight up like very overweight girls, but very overweight girls with curves. There's a minority that like slim thick women. I think there's an even smaller minority that likes obese women. Thick, very overweight, and obese are not the same thing. Pic 1 is obese. Pic 2 is very overweight.

If you want to look at this in terms of health, this chart can give you a general idea of where you are:

Jaycobbs:


I like 'em thick, though. Meat is for men

If my wife has tendency to add weight, we'll develop a gym culture together. Go jogging together to trim down. Let the thickness be very shapely, in the right proportions, and in the right places.

I'll pay any price to maintain it (to my taste) and help my lady do the same.

ThothHermes:
What we consider attractive is programmed into us by society. In the past, chubby women were the standard of beauty and femininity. The current gravitation towards skinny women is largely the product of Hollywood and other media.
In Africa, there were fattening rooms were women were kept and fed to become bigger in preparation for marriage.
Today, the media has made people like the Hadid sisters, the Kardashians and generally slim women the standard for beauty.
Thus, today's men are more likely to consider women who look like that more attractive.

I assume you are the person in your profile picture. If it's any consolation, you are a reading a book by my favorite author. To me, there's nothing more attractive than that.

Sapasenator:
Depends on how long the preek is, he fit jam bone and bend or break when angle Bleep*ing. Be very careful. Reason I avoid skilly ladies.

obaidan:
All these babes with excess fat just wan dey whine themselves....no go work on ur body, dey find man wey like bigger girls.
Dey use greed chop everything u see,

Bazztadewu:
Most Nigerian ladies stink.from dirty pant,dirty teeth,wee wee infested jeans, dirt infested vagina,gawd I can never finger yall. Inyama.
To stinky body odour, just few ,vewi vewi few are clean. Bunch of ugly things feeling funky.stupid wigs,smelly breadth, disgusting attitude,I so hate u fat smelly ugly things,hiding under smelly chinco wigs and dead layers of make up.

willyo:
DM

OKOATA:
Smoke some loud and you will forget your chubby girl in a week. It's that easy. The beautiful girls that you aren't into will start to make sense before you. I can't even date a fat elephant 🐘 sorry.

Talkisneeded:
You are not simp my bro,it's the power of sharing everything together for four years...
You don't expect everything to die and go away in six month, all the memories you took years to built..
You are Just being human and people react to breakup differently.. You'll wake up one day and realize she doesn't really matter that much again...
Chin up my bro, time heals everything...

I sell herbs

willyo:
Sincerely, I can help you. But not 100% certain

Franzinni:
You deserve to see hell from her bro ... There is a skin you need to shed before you realize that you only want what you believe you can't have ... But if I would advice you I would say .... Ghost her.

Treat her like she is dead ... Use this one opportunity to train your self to know everything in life is only passing .... Realize there was a time she was supposed to be in your life and that time came and went like the sun .... In the day .

Now this is my own analysis and I most likely am very wrong but ... You likely feel you have invested too much to let her go, and I would also guess the guys she is with now are perceived to be better than you in one way or the other and so you feel despite your status and finances, this girl is treating you like shit ? And so your ego takes full control... Mind you this is the early stage of the life of a stalker which metamorphoses into a obsession and the rest is history ... Forget the past before you cast

Wizyoung:
My submission is based on my assumption that you're being sincere with all you've typed up there.

The whole "...gotten new boyfriend in 2WEEKS..." might just be her way of taunting you and to make you feel worse. You're also doing a "good" job of letting her think of you as a lesser man the more you disturb and pester her.

I'm no relationship expert but I'd advise you to give her SPACE. Do all you can to stop bothering her. Infact, do not make her think you're cyber-stalking her (avoid simple acts like viewing her status updates).

Hang out with friends, meet new girl friends, don't get fixated on seeing the positive qualities of your ex in them.

Above all, the time to be closer to God is now if you aren't already. (Discard this if you're not a man of faith in the Supreme)

telleyway:
I can tell you for free that that girl isn't in any relationship, all the altitude she's putting on is to make you jealous and regret your actions.
She won't be picking up your calls if she has found a man as she makes you to believe.
All you need do is give her some time.

telleyway:
I can tell you for free that that girl isn't in any relationship, all the altitude she's putting on is to make you jealous and regret your actions.
She won't be picking up your calls if she has found a man as she makes you to believe.
All you need do is give her some time.

Beremx:
You dated your girlfriend for four years without any commitment of marrying her. Guy move on to the next woman and stop sulking. You cannot use your own and delay her destiny of not getting married.

Move on and stop sulking

madone:
Calm down give her space. Dont go calling and begging her anymore and dont go into dating for now. Dont even try hard to replace her cos all these wont work, rather it will all contribute to you being more anxious thereby hearimg more hurtful words. Let me warn you if you dont stop and give her space you may become more violent and a pest to her and that will affect your chances of gettimg her back or moving on quickly, this may lead to you loosing totally

I wont blame you or your ex the truth is that life happens.
The best thing to do now is focus on work focus on self love, get new hobby just get busy and stop blaming your self or asking for validation from people cos it will worsen the whole thing.
You will be fine at the end of the day.
Dont date for now just keep casual friends of the opposite sex And hang out with your guys Something new will develop for you sooner

Fisiryorh:
Simp....

danijesus:
You actually need JESUS