₦airaland Forum

Deepspirituals:
The Economy is Bouyant. Food is Very Cheap . Nigerians are enjoying.

Really?
Are u been sarcastic?

Its well with the common man.
The oppression is too much.
I really need someone who can hear me out. Who will give me a listening ear?
I'm down. I'm down. I'm down

ezeknov:
Hm... It's well oo

How is it well ?

IgOga:
22 governors did not endorse Jonathan. Infact somePDP governors went to form new PDP which was part of the APC when it formed as a new party.

Ndume is just making things up. Lying can't change history.

Yes you're correct Sir.
Sir, life's actually hard. I won't lie to you. I don't even know who can just hear me out. I don't know

meobizy:
We’re in the time. All one has to do is report said account and it disappears for a while. The work now is easy and the forum is better off for it.

Ok mummy

meobizy:
Your type is who the spambot aims to remove. One could not open any topic without it devolving to ethnic bashing. At least you’re still here. It means the lot of you have adjusted to civil discourse. Some accounts which were created for mischief have gone dormant. Nairaland is sweet.

I look forward to a day when this forum will be devoid of "ethnic bashing"

kingbee90:
All these biase Nairaland mods dem sef. Someone can not even type a.m.a.l.a, A.f.o.n.j.a and other words in peace again without chopping 30 Mins ban.

Nairaland will soon be boring !

Honestly, so boring now.
Haba!

Am I the only one who gets banned at the slightest?

Two days ago, I made a post in the crime section about insecurity where three persons were kidnapped and killed but to my surprise, the post was instantly deleted while I go banned for 30mins.
There's no day I don't get banned for 30mins. Sometimes, thrice in a day and I don't seem to understand my offence. I think Oga Seun and his team urgently need to work on this. All these have made the site to be uninteresting. Even if u must ban us, we should know why. Look at all the rules here, which one have we violated to warrant this continued 30mins ban. Its really annoying.

Yes , your Excellency. You're correct

maasoap:

Someone is seriously pained

Says a child

lumens:
He is still your average Nigerian politician.
All of them are bunch of failures

Its true sha...
Happy Sunday Sir

Governance. Almost all politicians are only interested in Winning next elections even if it means selling their souls. They are not interested in governance.

Life is already hard. Waking up and not having any hope of your next meal and what to live on, is really heartbreaking.

lumens:







You may have issues with the Lizard of Ubima, but one fact is that he is the best governor Rivers state has produced since 1999.

Amaechi is not a saint. But his developmental strides were felt through our the state. He impacted health-care, education, infrastructure and other sectors of the economy.

He built strategic and important flyovers and critical interchange including the beautiful Obirikwere flyover/interchange.

Fast forward, one drunkard came and scattered useless flyovers all over Port Harcourt and ignored other sectors of the economy.

So why the use of "Lizard" in your statement?

At times u look at how difficult life is, and u feel like just giving up. Imagine waking up and not having the slightest hope of where one's meal would come from?

Smithwilliams826:
u still can't understand what you wrote, probably u dey fine how u 1 mov ur post go FP.

Commot the older women make ur story balance. Wise man wey fit comprehend the littlest stuffs.

Stop being rude, Boy....

Checkwell:
Don't mind the governor of Benue state. Cho cho cho, yet the good people of Benue are dying. He can not protect his people.

Wike should please be president after Tinubu so sponsors of terror can be checkmated. I trust Wike will sanitize our land.

Wike will nameshame them publicly

victorazyvictor:
Benue is a joke. That state annoys me dole

Are u from there?

Good!

Some of these Governors who are having issues with their godfathers like to make some unguarded utterances just to score some cheap political points, not understanding the sensitivity of such unfounded claim.
Alia is becoming a cheap blackmailer cum manipulator

Smithwilliams826:
Op, u b male or female. Ur topic no match ur post.

It depends on what you understand by sexual abuse?
Everything boils down to your ability to comprehend the littlest stuffs

Smithwilliams826:
Op, u b male or female. Ur topic no match ur post.

Ok o

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Keep her till u get the job.

Guys Have you ever Been sexually abused?
Share your Experience here.

I remember when an older neighbor and family friend wanted to rape me. A guy for that matter. I was hearing rumors that he was gay but I doubted it, so I decided to find out by myself.
One night, I entered his house, a family house. But he was the only one at home. He started playing pornographic video on his phone and before I knew it, he grabbed me and wanted to touch my Dick, but I resisted him and ran out as far as I could. I was just 14years at the time. It was then and there that I confirmed he was gay. It was so obvious that his own parents and other family members already knew about it and had been praying to God to deliver their son and brother. This guy was 8yrs older than me.
Before he tried forcing himself on me, he had already taken me out to buy me suya and coke. While I went to urinate, I believed he added some substance into my drink cos I wasn't feeling the same when I returned to continue the drink. I became weak and dizzy, as a result, he took me on bike to the house but instead of dropping me at my place, he took me straight to his house to carryout his evil plan. Thank God I was able to overpower him and escape. Since then, I no dey trust any guy again. When I meet a fellow guy and he begins to show some unnecessary kindness to me, I run. There's a way they start when they are interested in you.

Nlfpmod
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Seun

I feel it's because of your English that she left

lendahand:
you are very correct. I met my beautiful angel thru connection where she came to meet with my oga's wife. Those good ones hardly show faces at hotspots. This is why you need to call on the Father to assist and direct you.

👏🙏

They unite to Loot while they use us to cause division amongst ourselves

There are saboteurs right under your nose sir. Until you start from them, your fight against insecurity may not yield the desired outcome

Fantazy:
I just decided to put that, any problems?

Yes there's a problem. Its a deceptive act

Fantazy:
Female

But ur profile says Male

zelnababa:
lolz Tinubu is no Jonathan

You think the 2015 was just about Jonathan only?
How about his party PDP? When didn't they all do something to hold on to power. PDP members should blame themselves more and stop thinking that Jonathan was weak.

Nigerians would decide when the time comes

Riskymarvelous:
they will still loose South south to obi ask okowa ÒBÍ still beat am for home without sharing derica of rice or 3k

I hope so ooo

Agbegbaorogboye:
You were there when he was sent abi

Same way u knew he's having issues with his godfather. You live with them that's why you know everything about them