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[quote author=mhiz post=46613843]Biko, women are not 'more cheaters'.

Nice one


Thanks sis.

40. One in seven newlyweds will cheat in the first year of marriage.


The last thing you didn't know about cheating is the most depressing thing you may ever learn about cheating. A large British survey from 2005 revealed that most cheaters in excess of 60% have been in a relationship for at least five years. However, a shocking number of newlyweds admitted to committing infidelity within a year of tying the knot: 18% of newlywed women and 12% of newlywed men.

33. When a wife does cheat on her husband, she is more likely to have an emotional affair. Women are less likely than men tohave a one night stand.


34. Because women are more likely to have an emotional affair, cheating wives tend to cheat with someone who is part of their social group a friend, a co-worker, someone from school, church, etc.



35. A Cheating wife is also more likely to swap up when she cheats.

Cheating wives tend to have affairs with men who have more status and resources than their husbands. Or women cheat with men who are better relational partners someone who is more attentive, appreciative and understanding.


36. A cheating wife is also more likely to consider leaving her husband when she is having an affair. Because female infidelity tends to be based on emotionaluintimacy, women often attach more significance to an affair.


37. Women are also more likely to draw positive inferences about their physical appearance when they are cheating (e.g.,I’m still attractive, I’m still desirable, etc.).


38. Women are also more likely than men to use cheating as a means of getting revenge. While using infidelity to "get even" is rare, "revenge cheating" is more common among women.


39. When a woman does have a one night stand, it tends to be with someone who is more attractive and physically fit than her husband.




source: https://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity/stats-about-infidelity/cheating-wife.html?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C8441344707
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32. Cheaters aren’t going after better looks.


While we would like to think that cheating is as simple as a biological urge, that a man sometimes just can’t help himself when an attractive female is on offer, in most cases this isn’t true. Surveys have shown that most men who have cheated do not find the person with whom they had the affair more attractive than their partner. This backs up the idea that infidelity is often complicated and not always easy to explain.

ThaCarter:
dont tell me i will cheat on my wife? Becos my balls ar big enough to clog a pipe

Lol...

31. Women cheaters are better at not getting caught than men.


Most cheaters, across the board, don’t get caught. A recent survey found that 89 percent of spouses engaged in extramarital affairs are able to keep their infidelity on the down-low. But women are better at keeping their affairs a secret than men.

30. The French Are Big-Time Cheaters.

The French are known as the world's best lovers, but they might not be the most loyal. In fact, a French poll found that a majority of men and a third of women admitted to cheating on their partners. Infidelity has been on the rise in that country since the 1970s, when only about 19 percent admitted to cheating.

29. Afterblondes, redheads were second most likely to cheat, followed by brown-haired women and black-haired women.

28. Most female cheaters use their smart phones to cheat. A recent study revealed that most female cheaters use their smart phone for their affairs. The iPhone is their device of choice. Nearly 64% of the women polled said they would log on when they are in the same room as their spouses.

27. Women are cheating more than ever.

A 2010 study from the National Opinion Research Center found that over the last 20 years, the number of married women who admitted to affairs rose a staggering 40 percent.


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26. Many people are attracted to a partner's friend.

An overwhelming 86% of men and 85% of women said they don’t think they have friends who tempt their partners. They are very wrong, however. When asked the reverse question, nearly half of men (45%) and more than one-fourth of women (26%) are attracted to the friends of their partners and tempted to act on it.

25. Faking orgasms could lead to infidelity.

Both men and women who fake orgasms are more likely to cheat on their partner. As for the numbers, women fake orgasm 20% of the time while men fake it only 5% of the time. Interestingly, men are more likely to stay with women who consistently orgasm.



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24. Most cheaters look for affairs while at work.

Data from Ashley Madison has revealed that most (68%) of cheaters search for affairs while at work. Surprisingly, they do this for an average of 1.17 hours daily, which means some people are spending over an hour of each work day searching for a secret partner.

23. Research has found that certain physical traits and characteristics are linked to infidelity. For instance, men with larger testicles and higher levels of testosterone are more likely to cheat.
Scientists believe the males developed larger testicles to store more sperm and be able to mate more frequently with the females to increase their chances of passing on their biological material.

22. Social media has led to more cheating.

The rise of social media has paralleled a rise in infidelity. With sites like Facebook and Instagram, people can re-connect with old lovers, increasing the amount of affairs and breakups.

21. More than 60% of affairs starts at work.

1. A 2011 study found that in half of the patients admitted to the hospital for fractured joysticks, they occurred during an affair. Researchers believe that a man may be extra excited during an affair and he may be having sex in awkward places.


2. Women tend to cheat for emotional satisfaction. Men cheat more from sexual motivation.


3. Infidelity is not the leading cause ofdivorce. While an affair can destroy a marriage, the main reason for divorce is 'Money'


4. There are certain red flags that signify a partner may be cheating, such as a sudden shift in behavior, either positive or negative. If a partner suddenly becomes super critical, he or she may be setting up the other person to be at fault for his or her affair.


5. Another sign is partners becoming unnecessarily generous, such as with gifts often they are doing it out of guilt.


6. Infidelity does not mean the marriage is over. Over 50% of marriages survive infidelity, although they may still break down from other underlying problems in the future.


7. If a partner is unfaithful, it is not the other spouse’s fault, no matter how terrible the spouse or the marriage may be. When a person cheats, he or she is making a conscious choice to do it.


8. A July 2011 study suggested that men who were easily aroused and men who suffered from performance anxiety were more likely to cheat. Women who felt sexually unsatisfied were more like to cheat.


9. Business trips are the most common settings for infidelity. More than one-third (36%) of men and 13% of women in one study reported that they gave in to temptation on a business trips. The temptation to cheat was especially high during the 6th – 9th years of marriage, when relationships are the most fragile anyway.


10. Nearly 1/3 (32%) of women who admitted to acting on sexual temptation said it was with an old boyfriend or crush, compared to 21% of men. For many pople, old flames never dies.


11. In surveys that ask adulterers whether they want to leave their marriages, the majority says no.


12. Researchers note that infidelities have increased even when divorce has become available, accepted, and largely non stigmatized.


13. Approximately 9% of men and 14% of women said they hadsexwith someone else as revenge for their partner’s infidelity.


14. Boredom was the reason 71% of men in a national study cheated and 49% of women cheated. Even people who were very happy in their relationship admitted to curing their sexual boredom with someone else.


15. Cheating men rarely tell their wives they cheated. Without being asked, just 7% of men admitted to their wives that they cheated. Approximately 68% of men never admit to cheating or do so only after their wives have concrete evidence of the affairs.


16. Approximately 68% of men who cheat feel guilt during the affair. Though, obviously, guilt doesn’t seem to be enough to stop a man from cheating.


17. For ladies, it might be in the genes.


18. The risk of having a heart attack during sex is very low; however, research has found that when heart attacks do occur during sex, they’re more likely to happen to men when they’re cheating compared to when they’re having sex with a spouse.
Why? Some scientists have argued that cheating induces psychological distress (e.g., by creating feelings of guilt, anxiety, or stress) that, in turn, can have a negative effect on cardiovascular function.


19. There is some truth to the old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater,” because research has found that a majority people who admit to infidelity say they’ve done it more than once. However, this isn’t true across the board. Whether a cheater is likely to cheat again depends upon their reasons for cheating in the first place.





source: http://facts.randomhistory.com/affairs-facts.html
http://list25.com/25-scientific-facts-about-cheating/
http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/9-fascinating-facts-about-infidelity
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DEIFIED:
Because there is never a sane crowd in Nigeria.

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ichommy:
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Priceless200:
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bookhy:
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ichommy:
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Priceless200:
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Rich4god:
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"They wont follow simple instruction"
So you dont blame security men for that?

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