Why does nairaland keep changing the word transgendered to TRANSGENDER whenever I write it?

Has there been anyone born as a transgendered?

Please has anyone ever seen or heard of any transgendered or haemaphrodite in our country Nigeria? Am jst curious to know if that transgendered specie is real or its just a scientific experiment. I see it a lot in porn.

Those kind of asses are for real men like me.

My dear love,
I jst flashed bak 2 hw we started, frm frnds we started datin, u told me abt ur life and ur past wit guys and hw unlucky u'v bin cos most guys u'v met usually lust afta u and nt truly love u, I told u abt myslf too and my past wit women, as tym went by, we fell inlove and started datin officially, I decided to dedicate myslf to lovin u truly and do evrytin I can to make u hapi, I am even ready to put my lyf on da line for u, dats hw much and true I love u amaka, I turned away frm evry female in my lyf and decided 2 focus on u and u alone. We spent tyms 2geda, even lived 2geda, made sacrifices for each oda, advised each oda, planned 2geda, played wit each oda, even got angry at each oda bt got ova it, we did a lot 2geda, I decided to remove evry distractions and focus on four things only, GOD, YOU, MONEY and MY FAMILY. I looked forward to startin a beautiful and hapi family wit u somday, I looked forward to stayin wit u foreva da woman I love and growin old wit u. Then we came dwn to lagos, tins went on wel, we hoped and prayed i'll get a beta job and secure our future, I was vry glad abt ur dedication to my progress, I wanted da best for u and u wanted da best for me also, I was convinced our relationshp is a divine arrangement. But now, I feel strongly i'v lost da woman I used to know, I feel there's somtin so different abt u nw, I feel u no longer love me, I feel u started datin me cos u jst needed sombdy then, I feel u think it wil be a mistake if u marry me, I feel if given da slightest opportunity u'll be out of this relationshp, I smell it all ova u, I feel ur attention is divided, I feel u started feelin sceptical abt endin up wit me, I feel u stil want Henry, a guy who made it known to u b4 we met that he has a girlfrnd and jst wants to av u as a fling and u dnt want that, I feel u'r jst usin me 2 past tym til u meet anoda person u feel is beta dan me, I dnt NW if u devalued me cos of my present situation(but I know soonest evrytin wil be fyn), I feel if Henry coms showin interest of marriage, dat wil be da beginnin of da end of our relationshp, I feel i'v bin kinda forcin myslf on u lately, and if any little backslidin on my part, u won't waste tym 2 move an mind out of our relationshp. I dnt knw hw 2 fight for a woman who wud av da thots of bin wit anoda man, dats not wat I want, I bliv in a relationshp there shldnt be an option B, cos it wud be hurtin for a man to marry a woman who stil wishes she cud be wit anoda man. I feel am wastin my tym and if we marry, ur mind myt stil nt be fully into it. I dnt wana av an unhapi marriage, I want a marriage where my wife is my one and only option and am da same tin 2 her too. I choose to talk 2 u abt all dis cos I wana knw wats ur final decision abt our relationshp cos I knw afta meetin ur parents on Sunday, it wud drive us 2 anoda level in our relationshp, I choose to use my time 2 draft all these cos it's very important to me. I LOVE U SELFLESSLY and can sacrifice my happiness at any time jst to make u smile. Wats ur take on our relationshp? Wat do u feel for me now? Do u feel am da best man u'll wana end up wit? Be honest and tel me, if it's positive, fine, we'll move stronger and kip pursuin our relationshp goal, if it's negative, stil be open, I wil feel hurt bt i'll get beta cos a failed relationshp is beta dan an unhapi and regrettable marriage. Sori if am soundin kinda insecure and hopeless, am not at all, ALL I JUST WANT IS TO HAVE MY AMAKA BACK, because lately I can't find her anywhere arnd me.