My dear love,
I jst flashed bak 2 hw we started, frm frnds we started datin, u told me abt ur life and ur past wit guys and hw unlucky u'v bin cos most guys u'v met usually lust afta u and nt truly love u, I told u abt myslf too and my past wit women, as tym went by, we fell inlove and started datin officially, I decided to dedicate myslf to lovin u truly and do evrytin I can to make u hapi, I am even ready to put my lyf on da line for u, dats hw much and true I love u amaka, I turned away frm evry female in my lyf and decided 2 focus on u and u alone. We spent tyms 2geda, even lived 2geda, made sacrifices for each oda, advised each oda, planned 2geda, played wit each oda, even got angry at each oda bt got ova it, we did a lot 2geda, I decided to remove evry distractions and focus on four things only, GOD, YOU, MONEY and MY FAMILY. I looked forward to startin a beautiful and hapi family wit u somday, I looked forward to stayin wit u foreva da woman I love and growin old wit u. Then we came dwn to lagos, tins went on wel, we hoped and prayed i'll get a beta job and secure our future, I was vry glad abt ur dedication to my progress, I wanted da best for u and u wanted da best for me also, I was convinced our relationshp is a divine arrangement. But now, I feel strongly i'v lost da woman I used to know, I feel there's somtin so different abt u nw, I feel u no longer love me, I feel u started datin me cos u jst needed sombdy then, I feel u think it wil be a mistake if u marry me, I feel if given da slightest opportunity u'll be out of this relationshp, I smell it all ova u, I feel ur attention is divided, I feel u started feelin sceptical abt endin up wit me, I feel u stil want Henry, a guy who made it known to u b4 we met that he has a girlfrnd and jst wants to av u as a fling and u dnt want that, I feel u'r jst usin me 2 past tym til u meet anoda person u feel is beta dan me, I dnt NW if u devalued me cos of my present situation(but I know soonest evrytin wil be fyn), I feel if Henry coms showin interest of marriage, dat wil be da beginnin of da end of our relationshp, I feel i'v bin kinda forcin myslf on u lately, and if any little backslidin on my part, u won't waste tym 2 move an mind out of our relationshp. I dnt knw hw 2 fight for a woman who wud av da thots of bin wit anoda man, dats not wat I want, I bliv in a relationshp there shldnt be an option B, cos it wud be hurtin for a man to marry a woman who stil wishes she cud be wit anoda man. I feel am wastin my tym and if we marry, ur mind myt stil nt be fully into it. I dnt wana av an unhapi marriage, I want a marriage where my wife is my one and only option and am da same tin 2 her too. I choose to talk 2 u abt all dis cos I wana knw wats ur final decision abt our relationshp cos I knw afta meetin ur parents on Sunday, it wud drive us 2 anoda level in our relationshp, I choose to use my time 2 draft all these cos it's very important to me. I LOVE U SELFLESSLY and can sacrifice my happiness at any time jst to make u smile. Wats ur take on our relationshp? Wat do u feel for me now? Do u feel am da best man u'll wana end up wit? Be honest and tel me, if it's positive, fine, we'll move stronger and kip pursuin our relationshp goal, if it's negative, stil be open, I wil feel hurt bt i'll get beta cos a failed relationshp is beta dan an unhapi and regrettable marriage. Sori if am soundin kinda insecure and hopeless, am not at all, ALL I JUST WANT IS TO HAVE MY AMAKA BACK, because lately I can't find her anywhere arnd me.

and

bewla:
and

he woke up from his dream

*Hiss*

pele, u better go an look for work

Girls between the ages of 18-23 are emotionally scared of commitment

shytt happens nd I blame no one
bak then I use 2 tink dis kinda stuff is jst crap!!!
seriously m goin bak 2 bein a playa till whneva!!! it aint worth it

Gistedge:
pele, u better go an look for work

That is it. Get a job and start earning and before you know it your Amaka will be just beside you. Girls of this days don't want to hang around broke guys no matter how promising your future may look like. Ane immediately you noticed she's no longer giving you attention, chances are that she has come across someone else. God will answer us bro.

am out so u brought our matter here.....Byeee I hope u two will make up soon gudluk

I'm not understanding

The guy hit d last nail in d coffin. He has finally lost d amaka for good. Men shld learn never to go to soft, only mature women will stick wt u, other ones will capitalize on ur weakness and ruin u.

Op ....
This kind of msg does not only drives a woman farther away but it's a total disrespect to manhood. Chaiii...u don f**k up!

From this write up... u can vividly point out reasons to dump this girl b4 she does same- cos she is not only on d verge of dumping u but also using u until she is ready.

It amazes me dt u r not only putting up with the mess but also begging for more.
Something must b wrong with u.

Your love is obviously blind at d moment but it will b healed soon...Don't commit suicide when it does anyway.

My guy u are so close, infact 0.001 inches away from heart break. Start preparing so it wont hurt u too much

I dislike weak guys

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error detected..

Correction

GOD, MONEY, FAMILY, YOU. the You Is optional..
Family can replace money when its not coming.. you need money to take care of family

Macgabe:

That is it. Get a job and start earning and before you know it your Amaka will be just beside you. Girls of this days don't want to hang around broke guys no matter how promising your future may look like. Ane immediately you noticed she's no longer giving you attention, chances are that she has come across someone else. God will answer us bro.

I don't think he is not working since he didn't state it as so duh I tink he might not b earning much but again letz say he getz d good job why will he want amaka beside him if she didn't stick wen he was in the process I believe that the process is as important as the progress because the future isn't certain does that mean that wen I marry her and things aint working well she might want to leave again I am not disputing the fact that money might be the reason for this but again we must consider that fact also that not all girls are moved by that relationship isn't marriage I feel itz a time u get to kwn if u can live with the other person she might have seen she can or have doubt and the reason might not be money it could be she just not happy I feel communications is lacking here and with that long story he wrote for her she might actually pity him and stay but it still won't end well

Gistedge:
pele, u better go an look for work

And when he finds one?

Where are we heading to? Youths of nowadays cannot even spell correctly. What will happen if you wrote life instead of lyf, time instead of tym, another instead of anoda, etc

he would get more busy.

Mrmoz:


And when he finds one?

my guy take this one console urself....

Macgabe:

That is it. Get a job and start earning and before you know it your Amaka will be just beside you. Girls of this days don't want to hang around broke guys no matter how promising your future may look like. Ane immediately you noticed she's no longer giving you attention, chances are that she has come across someone else. God will answer us bro.

I tell you brother, I have since learnt my lessons where Nigerian girls are. I feel for the OP though cause we seem to share same fate but mine came earlier before his. I have since moved on with my life and I am better off now. No much spending on gifts, eateries, recharge card and so on. Infact, I am more focused man now and having nothing to worry about like a lady somewhere. The truth is, love isn't real. It's just an infatuation. Ladies wouldn't have been necessary if not for babies.

I can't read this crap because I value English

mendula:
my guy take this one console urself....

. Na the amaka be that?

Gistedge:
he would get more busy.

you that you are talking, which work you get

the one you gave me now.. olodo

Bamoha:


you that you are talking, which work you get

I have passed the state before.

Hmm.... Guy, I see u letting her have her way all because u still love her.

Guy, u are gonna break down seriously than u can imagine. It took me almost a year to get back from the strike of a bae

In advance, take heart bro

Gistedge:
the one you gave me now.. olodo

ah ahn, be nice jor, who is olodo... mseew, oya say sorry