₦airaland Forum

kay29000:
Okay.

Yeah. So do you think u speaking for all the men? Some other men might v their reasons. Who knows?

kay29000:
Yeah. By the way, do you know me? Did you know me before I commented on your post?

I know you on Nairaland. I've read some of your posts

kay29000:
I'm glad you can admit that.

So I hope u get your thoughts on judging all women as the same in order now..

kay29000:
Yes I am. At least in Nigerian standards where you have to spend tens of millions on a wedding.

Now that's where y'all missing it. An average lady from "from a home with family values' would not subscribe to investing ur hard earned money on just a day's celebration. Whatever happened to a non-elaborate wedding where u can save up the money for other businesses that can yield more income for the family.

Well I for one disapprove of an elaborate wedding. I once had a relationship that the supposed patner kicked against a parlour wedding celebration.

Did u see that?

kay29000:
The guy above me has answered your question perfectly... Especially in his third paragraph.

Are you also still in the business of grinding and hustling @kay29000 cos I know you've been around for a while.

Just look within and around.

kingkoboko:
I'll assume u're female. *winks*

I'll also assume u're lookin 4 RESPONSIBLE single men of 30yrs & above.

Based on d assumptions above, such men are around u. But unfortunately they're still strugglin 2make money. because tragically our women (I mean NAIJA WOMEN esp) want ready-made rich men.

Another tragedy is that women mistreat & take GOOD men 4 granted. It's a biological, sociological & subconscious tin so I don't even blame women much 4doing it. They know not wat they do. Hehehe...

Dear men, we need 2adapt 2d realities on ground & evolve 2beat women at their new game. I recommend d book "THE RATIONAL MALE by Rollo Tomassi" 4all men. Read it & thank me later.

I beg to differ on women taking men for granted. Good women with great family values still exist too (but not in large proportion) but are mostly found in the wrong cadre of men. Yes I mean women who are supportive, understanding and very hardworking, ready to stand by her man come what may but the good men usually have eye for the deceptive and materialistic ones too. The ones that will come and rip their pockets off their so called '"hustling and grinding". Instead of staying with one woman who is able to help achieve their dreams, No they wud be chasing flashy ones up and down.

So I think it's a vice versa thing among both genders.

I really wish to look further into this matter.

Are our values going into extinct cos of modernity

Help save our family values.

Yes I mean the Good Guys raised by Mothers in the 1980s......

Does it mean they are all taken??

Those guys with good home upbringing, nutured to be responsible adults/fathers in the society, where are they?

Who else is on this table with me?