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That is true but I disagree with you when say that ladies are only moved by what they hear. A lady can also be attracted to a guy just for spotting him. It even happens these days that ladies are beginning to surmon courage to directly or indirectly approach a guy. I'm sure you know what I am talking about. You can imagine a lady passing several times beside or before you so that you can at least talk to her. Just as a guy may always stand at a corner staring at lady, so ladies do. Infact the case is the with both genda. The only difference is that guys are more couragous to make the move first. This is because of our religious and traditional belief that it is a guy who should approach a lady for such issue.

You are doing the right thing. But the truth is that people have their choices. You made a wrong choice earlier and you regreted it. The guys you came across also loved you by telling you they won't go as far as marrying you probably in what I will call," out of pity" when they do not really love you from the deep of their heart. It is better you endure it now than enduring in marriage. But do not give up take it to your God. Always tell them. That makes you trustworthy. Sooner than you expect, you shall find your right person.

Menn, it had nothing to do with sex. Some religious people just mistake it to be so just because hypocritically frown at. Do you know that they also do it?

Whatever the value of money was then compared to its value today, that is the issue. The issue which is the expectation of every nigerian today, is that if an ordinary nigerian who steals should be prosecuted and executed, so be it to all our so-called leaders. The nigerian leaders contradict themselves and confuse the citizens by having what they call the rule of law and the immunity clause at the same time. That gives them the chance to loot our resources while they are in seat without being challenged by the citizens. Anybody who does that will be dead. Infact citizens do not even know anything about how their resources are being managed. When they descend the seat, their co- thieves called EFCC will collect some part of it by the process of charging them to court. That will be the end of it all. Some frustrated citizens even go as far as giving them thuggry intimidating their fellow citizens by the command of corrupt and selfish leaders.

Koroaso, your statement depicts nothing short of witlessness and lack of understanding of anything about your country. FOOL!!!

What has sleeping got to do with first class?

It's a pity dear. Regarding the way you placed your request, it's obvious you're a christian. As a matter of fact what you need to do now is to fully commit it to God since medical solutions are proving abortive. You and your wife should go to God in prayers with faith and endurance. Be open to God(I mean confess to God all your sins) If the two of you staying together will hinder your openness to God, seperate yourselves but why not do it together since two of you are the same flesh. Seek spiritual counselling if you can but most importantly, pray pray and pray with faith. Your faith is the root. I will also be praying for you. God bless your marriage. Amen.