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It is necessary, not mandatory. If the man forgets, the wife doesn't have to remind him because it doesn't matter and shouldn't bring about any disagreement.

No. There is no wisdom in that. You have your kids and other things to take care of which 20% will not be enough to do that. It is also not wise to marry a woman who will not eat if you don't give her. The wise thing to do is to find her a work or establish a business for her so the whole family doesn't rely only on the man's income. A shake on the man's income is also a shake on the family's income while a collapse of the income is more likely to be the collapse of the family. And for the woman, it is simply called,"LAZINESS" for you to relax and wait for your husband to always come back and give you before you eat. Only a gold digger will say yes to this.

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* Helping her wash clothes when two of u are in a serious r/ship, is visible love.

* Helping her write her write her exams is teaching her how to cheat and surely she will do it to u. Rather than helping her write her exams, u should help her during her studies if u can.

* Make ur feelings about her flirt with other guys known to her. If she can cope with it, fine, if she can't, just quit.

If she shouts on u, tell her how u feel about it.

Now let me warn guys, do not send a girl to school because u want to marry her. It might be heartbreaking if at the end she says no. If u decide to help a girl for other good purposes, that is a different case.

falconey:
if she offer me her kitty-cat I can do some.

#never pay her school fees, bad investment.

Hahaha... Falcony I quite agree with u. It's a very terrible investment.

It's quite unfortunate for him. Notwithstanding, the law will spell for him.

It's not all about recovering the money into their own pocket. We want to see what the money will be used for.

Did your friend ask you to seek advice on his behalf?

Did your friend ask you to seek advice on his behalf.

Maamin:
@Op, That his brother must have watched way too many Nollywood Igbo setting movies. Where by a man dies then his brother have to start sleeping with the widow wife.

Solution: Tell that your friend to tell his brother to stop watching such movies or taking them serious.

What u said about Igbo setting movies, is actually a long time out-dated tradition that existed in a very few Igbo communities. But then it was based on agreement binding on the widow, the brother-in-law and the entire community. No agreement, no such act.

And for the guy who wants us to advice a friend of his, one thing might sound funny. If the guy in question has taken over his brothe's fiancee before his brother asked him to do so, he will simply take it that it has justified his action as is the case with some people today even when the husband is around. Who knows what the case is?

OMG! Dare try to relate with her or even marry her? That is suicide.

Is he ready to offer anything good to Nigerians? Is he not going to feed his party supporters and starve others? Is he not going to give an unnecessary immunity to his people, preventing them from being prosecuted after committing crime? Let's wait and see.

oluwasunshine:
As for me it is watching tv,what is yours romancelanders?

Are you sure?

Alright.

Yesoooo! Whatever it is, keke or even wheel barrow, we like it. We don't need such a horrible and regrettable change. You can't beat us and seize our tears from us. What we need is transformation. Take it or live it.

It's horrible. They were never in love. If they had been, that shouldn't have led to such act. And if I may ask the deceased guy, why did you admit to feeding her in the first place since you people are not married yet? Giving her a mere assistance in any way you could, would have been a better option than taking her home as a wife especially regarding the place you picked her. You people were birds of feathers and you have flocked together. You just left lessons for the reasonable ones to learn. You were a club guy and likewise she. That is just what usually results from such courtship.

My people, such party as APC, is not good for this country of ours. We are people with sharp differences ranging from belief, religion, language, culture, name them. A party owned by people of one tribe and religion can just get up and start ruling the entire country. We must not allow that to happen. Doing that will be suicidal because it is obvious that they want to change everybody to their own belief and religion. You people just don't understand the chant,"CHANGE CHANGE CHANGE" they sing every day. They simply want to change every Nigerian to muslims and then all of us will be terrorists. Now view it from this perspective although it is known to everybody. All the highly rated and the shakers of the so-called apc, are the sponsors of one of the world's worst terrorist,"BOKO HARAM." They have killed millions of people in our country and the world at large and have destroyed property worth trillions of pounds. Let me ask you, if a group of people killed your beloved ones, destroyed you property and even your source of living, and then come back to say they want to lead you, will you agree? If they had killed you too, will be alive to vote them into power again? The only wise thing to do is never go near a ballot box meant for their votes. This is for the wise ones only. Thanks and#God bless Nigeria#

I'll be back

F***k! This is getting out of hand. If Nigerian police have started raping citizens and even a daughter to the deputy commissioner of police, it means that the lives and property of citizens, are at stake. I think the training being given to the police and security agents, shouldn't be only that of security but also morals. Because a greater percent of them are devoid of morals.
God help us.

Mr. Hola or whatever, has it got to a point where you tribalize theft? You'd better shot your stinking mouth because you are not morally, economically, academically or otherwise, better than any IGBO guy.

NONSENSE!

Stealing of govrenment property when leaving the office, is the order of the day among our political office holders. I think, in fact I'm sure the guy is just following the footsteps of our leaders and parents.

Nice gals

We're waiting for the movie.

Good...cute...Good...cute

Mtcheeew

I'll be back in a moment.

Awful. That calls for extra carefulness for both parents and guardians.

Don't worry. I'll warn him when I see him.

The doctor has done no wrong anyway. He did well by telling you on time. What you should do now is to seek counseling on how to manage it. The way you sound you are too scared. Well,you might be because of the way you feel about it but know very well that you can do all you wish to do on earth. All you need is counseling and correct practise of it. You don't need to be told about how to protect others.

Kudos to the military.

Victory must be ours.

Happy couples

Just ignore him. Next time don't even waste your energy, time and battery, taking a picture of his rotten hands. Instead, get up and confront him right there. Tell him to bring down his hands because they have gone bad. In fact, that raising those rotten hands of his, is committing sacrilege in the house of God.

BULL-SHIT! This is a witless saying from a person who is expected to speak like a reasonable somebody. But since the reverse is the case, there's no point listening to him. MTCHEW.

If what you said is true, and if you are guilty conscoious, just quit and never look back at it. If you are a religious man, and if your religion frowns at it, go to your place of worship and ask for forgiveness. But first and foremost, forgive yourself. God bless you.