Wait o, so that is the best your coconut head could come up with as a response? So why are you reading the book and why did you recommend that I should read it? The title of a book is a window to know the subject matter the book deals with. And so far, you who is reading the book have not been able to tell me anything profound about it. So why should I waste my time reading a book that has nothing to offer me?

And are you not aware that people especially women lie a lot? Aren't you supposed to be living in the US? There are countless of men in jail due to false accusations. In fact, there was one that made the news recently of a guy who lost his whole sporting career due to false accusation and he spent I think about up to 10 years in jail for doing nothing. When there is no evidence that an incident occurred, you should take every story with a pinch of salt. It has nothing to do with first class or third class women you freaking idi.ot. So where is the evidence that this incidence occurred? I need to see some receipts.

Is the "part 2" part of what you posted here? If not, then you are the ret@rd. And I'm yet to read anything intelligent that you and your book about manhold have contributed to this thread apart from simping extra ordinarily. So how about you read a book on how to stop simping?

This actually reminds me of a funny chorus about love when taking the bride home.

The women who are part of the bride's entourage escorting her to the groom's home will be singing...

Vbo khin? -- What is happening?
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love
Vbo khin? -- What is happening?
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love
Oyenmwen ekia -- Love of dick
Oyenmen nor -- It is love
Oyenmwen uhe -- Love of pussy
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love
Oyenmwen omo -- Love of child
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love
Oyenmwen owa -- Love of home
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love
Vbo khin? -- What is happening?
Oyenmwen nor -- It is love...

Oyenmwen (Edo)

Besides Chika Oduah is not a very good storyteller. The whole story is very sketchy, the boss is nameless and she didn’t even name the firm or organization. So how is this concocted story going to help any woman in the future if the accused is nameless and justice is not served?

All dis wannabe activists sef who actually do not care about the supposed cause they are fighting for apart from projecting themselves as someone important for the simps who adore them.

ozo_emeka: SMH. Again SLOW THINKING

A book's name only yet you reason like a ret@ard so you just assume the book is a "GUIDE" to manhood. How about the book discussing the trials of men of the 21st century? How about discussing what it means for men from diverse backgrounds (black, white, asian, african etc) to have responsibility and how culture intersects with perception? No? AH, I forgot, of course whatever you "ASSUME" is right (as I see you do a lot of ASSuming.)

You are free to probe the story however you come off as the type of guy to make a snotty comment about how a 15 year old girl must have wanted some d1ck if she was at a guy's (who is 28) house and now is "screaming r@pe" as you see it.

You are a juvenile. So until you read a book, you do not know your responsibilities as man?

Let me tell you one right now:

A man should not run off with whatever a woman says and hold it as the gospel truth without knowing the motive behind it or hearing the other side of the story.

And that is what your punkass did. At least common sense should have told you there are at least two sides to a story. But nooo, you ran off with what Chika wrote as the gospel truth like the simp you are. Why? Because she has a hole in between her legs? Sorry, if I'm not easily fooled by holes.

And of course, every comment on this thread is based off assumptions because no one was a witness when the incident occurred but while everyone's assumption is based around the story, your juvenile azz keep coming with r@pe scenarios, sleeping with kids and what not. Why? because you think that's what constantly runs through the mind of a “pure Nigerian” man? You are a fool.

Trials of men in the 21st century was discussed in the comment you quoted in the OP, but no, because it was not written in a book and sold to your idiotic azz, you brushed it off as irrelevant.

ozo_emeka: TO you Chika MUST Have wanted to SLEEP with her boss, of course, she is a mind reader she should know that a GROWN EDUCATED MAN WHO CLAIMS TO BE A MAN OF FINESSE AND CULTURE expects s@x when he takes her out for DINNER....AH of course, her job description includes being an escort... RIGHT? You "ASSUME" all women in the workplace Must want your d1ck right? Because, of course, she can not have a goal of wanting to strive ahead in the workforce...why should she? Right? ALl she must think about according to you is TAKING IT FROM THE BACK. All that "intelligentsia" she has is too "proud" as CHIKA's BOSS put it..

This is why you are representative of the rotting nigerian man and his complex.

I thought I answered that silly question long ago? Why do you keep bringing it up? Oh, I almost forgot you are a dumbass. But Chika was d*cked down in my opinion and I am not running off with her story. She would not have been the only female employee who worked there and you have not heard from other female employees if the boss is capable of such, and you don't know anything about the boss' character apart from how she painted him. The man may have been an upstanding guy who is not capable of such and lots of men are in jail due to false accusations levied by women and swallowed by simps like you.

So go tell Chika Oduah to do a part 2 of the blog and probably include more stories about the boss' relationship with other female employees, how they view him, and how they also may have previously accused him sexual harassment, then her story may become more believable. Until then, her fiction is not a good story and wont sell anywhere where simps are not allowed.

Edo - Ukpoko / Kpoko

ozo_emeka: Classic. Throw the gay joke once a guy doesn't want to stick his d1ck in everything. That I have class, decorum and CHOOSE who gets to sit on my D1ck doesn't = less man. Males stick their d1cks anywhere, MEN are selective. So if I said, YES let's r@pe Chika and every girl in the office wants to be f-ckd then I will be cheered on as a man? See how retarded your thinking is?

Try
The Book of Man: Readings on the Path to Manhood by William J Bennett

I did not contradict myself - A man should be STRONG, DOMINANT (of MY environ), CONFIDENT and IN CHARGE (of HIMSELF, his Actions, etc)

vs

A misogynistic view - a MALE who wants to be IN CHARGE (of everything and everyone around him) to this one DOMINANCE of EVERYONE is his way of spearheading. These are the guys that WANT to be SEEN as in charge, with all the posses.. This sounds like what you want to be or your IDEAL. This is the majority of Nigerian men. Unfortunately


When was the last time you saw Obama TRYING to be/to be seen as DOMINANT, or even "dominating" a conversation? YET he is indeed DOMINANT, he gives the AURA of Confidence, Power, Dominance and Strength, THAT is a man.

Clear?

Yea, yea, the Gay Agenda comment was just to say I doubt your gender because there are a lot of confused souls running around claiming to be men when they are not but that was neither here nor there. However, I can see you have allowed your imagination to run wild by coming up with more conjectures that has nothing to do with my response.

All I did was:

- Probe Chika Oduah’s story which I believe anyone should be allowed to do, and I personally believe that it is fake.
- I went on advise her on how she should value herself by only giving it to someone who is worthy and not jobless nigguhs whose only work is to f*ck all day.

But you somehow concluded that I want to “display dominance” from the above?

Then you claim you do not have a “misogynistic view of women” although you inherently believe as a man, you should dominate your environ. And a man’s environ does not include women? How is that not a contradiction?

And also, why should I read a book on the "path to manhood" when I am already a man? I guess you can see why I doubt your gender. You are the one who needs the path to manhood not me.

ozo_emeka: Chika told YOU that she took it from the back? She didn't? I guess then you would do best to shut up and shut your imagination along with it.

No, but I’m assuming she’d like it from the back like most women would. Or do you know her preference? And why should I shut my imagination when Chika Oduah could freely write about hers and you have allowed yours to run wild by coming up with r@pe scenarios, sleeping with house helps and 12 year olds. Are those the types you love to indulge in?

ozo_emeka:

I see the type of person I am talking to.

FYI: It does. MEN do not sleep with everything running around in a skirt. You are the type to sleep with the help, or a 12 year old and claim - she has a pu-ssy. Sleeping around DOES not make you a man - at all. Sex is easy to get, way too easy.

But you have already limited my preference to "low brow easy women", so that means I do not fancy everything in skirts. And I never said sex is difficult to get, after all it didn't take much for Chika Oduah to go "hang out" with her boss. And only God knows what she hung on while taking that bulala. Lawd have mercy! : )

What's up with using raffia mats as background in traditional weddings these days? I don't like it.

ozo_emeka: Makes your calibre of women very clear. Low brow easy women.

And even if your conclusion is true, it wouldn't make me less of a man.

ozo_emeka:

Besides she never slept with the man, you assume ALL FEMALE EMPLOYEES want to sleep with their boss? You watch a lot of movies.

So how do you know she did not sleep with him? Were you there when it all went down? And no, all female employees do not want to sleep with their boss neither do all bosses want to sleep with their female employees. However, I do believe Chika Oduah took some nuts on her face consensually. From the boss that is.

ozo_emeka: I am

Well, the Gay Agenda and all sorts of backward behaviours are thriving in the West. And who knows, you may be one of those confused lot who believe they are females trapped in a male's body and are fighting desperately so that they will be able to use the female restrooms like other naturally born females so that you can be sitting down to take a piss instead of standing up like a man.

ozo_emeka: I don't have to have a Pig misogynistic view of women.

ozo_emeka:

I am a man, I should naturally be dominant and just be confident and in charge.

Go tell that to the feminist and they will call you a misogynist. I can see you are contradicting yourself and you don't know where you stand especially with women. My dear, go use the women's restroom and call it a day.

ozo_emeka:
If she reported to the police they reason like you. They will also tell her that she must be lying and that she must have wanted to sleep with him.

Why would the police assume that without an investigation, and to hear the other side of the story? But you no see you now, even in Nigeria such cases are dealt with at least to hear both sides of the story and this was supposed to happen in the good ol' US of A where women can file sexual harassment cases so easily and the cases are taken seriously and not swept under the carpet. But your Chika Oduah could not report it after she believed she was sexually harassed? But could find solace in a blog? Why? Is it because she is a Nigerian woman who loves taking it with a smile from their pure Nigerian men? Taking it from the back that is! : )

Is this who you are parading as a scholar? An Igbo man who still refers to Igbo as Ibo? And has not realized that Igbos, oops Ndigbo consider Ibo a derogatory term for Igbo? Where was this knucklehead when the Igbo literary giant Achebe corrected it years ago? haha

PS: Tell the scholar to leave Edo out of his so-called scholarly work. Na Bini e wan take settle quarrel when it is convenient? E dey craze!

appleton:

28 yrs after that song hit the Nigerian Air waves, it still remains a Valid Question;

WHICH WAY NIGERIA?

Anywhere belle face.

^
And nothing stimulates the brain of the Nigerian female (pure or diluted) quicker than lowbrow conversations and before you know it the panties don drop.

Dem dey craze! : )

What is the purpose of the broom hanging on the wall? To fly go village for night? haha

My advice to Chika Oduah as a "pure Nigerian" man is:

1) Stop sharing the kongo anyhow. After you don share the kongo to dem broke azz nigguhs wey no get work but to f*ck all day and dem don slacken the thing finish, you come dey expect make a pure Nigerian man wey be oga to take am seriously? You must be dreaming.

2) Use alum to wash the kongo to tighten it up and I reiterate, stop sharing it anyhow coz Lord knows you bible-wielding conservative haux are very liberal with the pucci.

stillwater: That is why they are likely to be jailed for sexual harassment

So if Chika Oduah actually believed she was sexually harassed, why didn't she report the case to the police instead of blogging about it? The whole story is a figment of her imagination and I doubt ozoemeka is male.

bokohalal:

You right! Just listened to it again.
"Eban de.Ghe omon.Ghe omon. Ghe omon"

Yea, and it sounds similar to this chorus usually sung during traditional marriages.

Ghe omo, ghe omo
Ghe omo, ghe omo
Ghe omo, ghe omo oo
Omo n'ogie...
Aikpitan ye omo na
Ghe omo, ghe omo
Ghe omo, ghe omo
Ghe omo, ghe omo oo
Omo n'ogie.

Somebody call Dr. 90210 please...a lot needs to be tucked in.

bokohalal:
There is Edo language. Did not get the first part but the chorus "ghe omon,ghe omon" is Edo and means "behold a child,behold a child".

I'm coming now.

Barbados is great by the way and not a chithole.

*Kails*:
eziza you can stop coon dancing for my attention now.

So says the one with my name in her mouth.

*Kails*:
can you read or can you not?
again worry about your own.

i dont answer to cowards.

Tough question huh? What are you scared to say that you run chit?

And now that you are running chit, isn't Xamayca gradually becoming a chithole?

*Kails*:



yawnz...someone pass me a pillow asap..

a fluffy one please. This fool is too boring. Yes mzdarkie explained the situation in jamaica plain and clear. Even when you tried to act like I was changing my words. The fact remains jamaica was once a british colony and obviously there were some coons. Seeing as how jamaica is not soley a black country and located in the west we have a westernized system.

The fck you want jamaicans to do? Have a civil war and take stuff over by force? Lol was that NOT what jack was complaining about in the first place? Ha! Na..i think we will pass and focus on doing things the right way.

If you dont have the common sense to know jamaica is still recovering from slavery and years of corruption nor be my fault.

Get well. And do so soon. In fact why not grow some nuts and stop hiding behind alt accounts. Offer some solutions as to how your ppl can stop contributing to making your country a toilet bowl. Do that.

looooool thanks for the pillow and and please send a model-type Mzdarky to come lay by me because it can be cold in Ja for darkies! Hey, I'm only trying to help.

But my focal point of this discussion is to know if you Negroes in Jamaica run chit or not because not too long ago, you were busy playing the victim and acting like you don't run chit. Whereas on this thread you are busy playing the Don Dada and acting like you run chit and seem to be offended when people think you don't run chit!

So do you run chit or not?

*Kails*:
Is that not what I said?
Lol...do the research its simple.

Jamaica was a former colony of the british
Its obvious the whites controlled the country. I said it then and I am saying it now.

However things have changed and its now about class.
There are even black jamaicans who are "stush" hence the term. Those black jamaicans were who I was talking about when I said:

Many upper class darkskin people back in the day would purposely choose partners of lighter complexions or other races to have children so that their kids could have a brighter future (no pun ntended..hehehe ).

Is the same thing as:

"Most of Jamaica's poor is black while the mixed race, white and non-blacks own the most businesses and hold prominent positions"

so foh. And learn to read properly.

lol, how times have changed. And you like posting without making valid points.

So far, at least you've admitted Negroes don't run chit in Jamaica that's why most of the businesses and prominent positions are under the control of mixed race and non-black people. And until you are able to turn the table where you own most of the businesses and hold the prominent positions, how are you negroes in Xamaya not destined to suffer? Especially the Mzdarkies? (no pun intended) because even your upper class negroes become uppity and purposely breed themselves out to become non-black. Dang, it must be hard being a darky in Jamaica. Need a hug?

*Kails*:


second... i keep hearing this crap about non black people controlling jamaica... WHAT?!

Oh really? Because I remember you making these quotes a while ago where you basically admitted you negroes don't run chit in "Xaymaca"

MsDarkSkin:

How did "blacks benefit"?  It wasn't until recently we had a full black prime minister. Michael Manley, Edward Seaga and Alexander Bustamante were biracials/creoles and before them were whites.

MsDarkSkin: Most of Jamaica's poor is black while the mixed race, white and non-blacks own the most businesses and hold prominent positions.

So why the sudden change of heart? I guess it is now convenient to say you run chit.

Dis Chika Oduah never talk the true koko of the story -- that is where she got d*cked down by the boss and was left high and dry with no more supply of the agba because the boss had several options to choose from.

Whatever happened to eating a bowl of ice cream to move on? E be writing sob stories all over the internet na dey reign now. Everybody wanna be a blogger.

bokohalal:

Eziza rhe!
I grew up in neither. My partner did . Do ghe ezo vbe igbina everytime.

looool...funny. Izigha weya ze ose, ghe mue yan Oteghodo.

bokohalal:

Let me give you a hint about Edo girls.
If in the process of having an amorous affair with an Edo girl,ask if she is from an OTO EGHODO home. If yes,run.
You see those girls that can fight naked in broad daylight at Ring Road and other public places without shame,ninety-nine percent of them are from OTO EGHODO.

I respectfully disagree because you seem to be giving "Oteghodo" which is a form of a courtyard a negative connotation.

If anything, those who grew up in Oteghodo lived a compound with some social structure and understanding, and they are generally from a family that is privileged because you cannot create an Oteghodo out of a tiny compound.

I think those who grew up in a passage "face me, I face you" house is what you are looking for.