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divinedifferent:
This your problem is demonic,please if you have not accepted Jesus Christ as your saviour please do. Life without Christ is full of crisis. Look for a real church to join,like living Faith church aka winners. They have branches everywhere. Look for the one closest to you. God bless you

Not every problem is spiritual, I'm in same condition with him. I'm a winner, it hasn't solved problems. Offer a solution.

ArmadillopgpA:
Hmmm,I can relate with everything bro.But you just might not know it your curse is a gift.Statistics has shown that the most creative people in the world are people who got some traits of autism in them.But then these same blessing never stops to leave some trails of anti-sociality.The same power you can use to create amazing things are the ones you can use to create a solution to your problems.Yes talking about perfection anybody like you should be ready to be perfect cos you are on a higher grade of thinking which most people don't have,so bro when your mind tends to do things perfectly don't blame it,that's what it was programmed to do.It now remains with you to train it to know its limit.Cos everything actually ends with mind control.
Wake up everyday setting difficult goals for yourself and try your best to achieve them,cos austistic people are programmed to analyze things to death.My bro you cant kill that analytical part of yourself,you cant help it and the world needs it.So being autistic is ironically being a genius it depends on how you want to use your autism.
Your main problem is people,you don't know how to deal with people without offending them which is not possible,cos you yourself is offended by people everyday.
But you can use your analytical mind as an armour against people
(1)Start beings blunt,don't care whose horse is gored
(2)Be free with people make new friends but don't attach yourself too much with anybody
(3)Make up your mind not to be expect any form of niceness or kindness from people(Don't search for pity cos you will never get it but most surprisingly you don't need it)
(4)Be ready to stand for yourself even if the whole world is against you.
(5)Take on a difficult task like programming the fulfillment you get from being able to do what only a few people can do will compensate for your perfectionism.
(6)Rather than watch a movie,listen to music or watch a football match read a magazine and drink water.Things like tv make your lose mind discipline nd control which you need so much
(7)Drink once a while maybe twice in a week just to free your analytical mind
(Work hard enough for success but don't be scared to fail
(9)We got some many celebs who are a bit autistic when you look at them more closely,nut they have been able to manage it to the top."Jay-Z ,Adele...

Thank you, I have the same problem, I appreciate your contribution. Perfectionism is both deadly and great, this I know.