Temichristy:
Hello, please how did you sort this? I need the same information presently. Thanks

No! I wasn't able to sort it out. Do you have a domiciliary account? I'm planning to go to the bank to find out tomorrow anyways

Hi all!
I have domiciliary account with gtb and fcmb however I've never received money internationally so have no idea how it works.
Now I have someone who wants to send me money from the US, I asked she send via Western union but she prefers wire transfer, can someone educate me how it works? How can I be able to receive international payment via bank? Please advise!
Thx!

I believe their maternal aunty will love and care for the kids more than any step mother, do well to look after them when you take them to live with you.
Dont just take them to a place where they'll inherit unnecessary hatred and jealousy amongst all siblings rivalry.
If they are living a peaceful life leave them where they are, take them for holidays etc... but not permanent stay.
A man is not always home to monitor the affairs of the home.
Be wise!

TundeWX:

Not a bother bro
LASUTH also treat the ailment.i believe the cost will be subsidised,if I recall well they treat hydrocephalus around 500-600k abt 2-3yrs back,but you know how Government hospitals are.

True. I'll let you know how it turns out.
Thx

TundeWX:

There rates are high bro,I won't lie...but rest assured its going to be done professionally and successfully

Thank you! I'm anxious to hear what the cost will be. Do you know any affordable hospital in lagos. Just incase that hospital is not affordable for me. Sorry if I'm a bother.
Many thanks

TundeWX:


No problem bro

Thank you.
I want to ask one more question, is that hospital averagely priced? Or they charge at an exorbitant rate? Like I said, I want her treated as an emergency but the fact that the hospital is located in abuja gives me goose bump already.

TundeWX:

Hi there..Glad to hear that.
Hotels in abuja can be a bit pricey,especially one with close proximity to the hospital...your best bet will be to book a shortlet apartment on AirBnB or JiJi( JiJi most preferred). You'll see apartments tailored to ur choice around the hospital area like galadimawa,Life camp,etc

Thank you for responding. You don't know what this means to me, I'm grateful. I don't know how that works though but I'll check and get back to you.

TundeWX:

You know how government hospitals are...protocols and unnecessary delays...at Nizamiye its good you've contacted them,its immediate...Try and alert the LASUTH if you have someone in lagos to comfirm..
Wish ur kid all the best,cheers

Hi again!
Please do you live in abuja? If yes. Can you recommend any affordable hotel for me? I've booked an appointment with the hospital. Just worried about accommodation.
Thank you

TundeWX:

Its private...around Idu industrial area abuja,close to life camp .
I'll advise you go for the Lagos state teaching hospital tho

I don't want her treatment delayed anymore. Can luth offer emergency treatment? She have been suffering for the past 4 months of her life. Those pressure needs to be reduced from her head. Btw, I've put a call through to the hospital, they said they'll speak with their neurosurgeon and get back to me

TundeWX:


Nizamiye Hospital,Abuja

Kindly advise how I can locate it. Is it a privately or a government owned hospital?
Thx

Hello all
I have a 4 months and two weeks old baby, she is diagnosed with hydrocephalus. Help recommend a good hospital I can have her shunted.
It's an emergency.
Thanks

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Phema: Few questions please:

1. How old are you?
2. How long have you been married?
3. Have you.sept with your boyfriend since you got married?
4. Do you have any kid yet?

I'm in my early 20s
I've been married for a year plus
Not after d marriage proper only after d introduction
No i don't have any kid yet as i'm so scared of having one so that i don't end up staying in d marriage if i really want to divorce hubby.

On reading the advice here i'm beginning to think of what i have done because my husband don't deserve it, i have really hurt him so bad i use to take contraceptives after se.x so i don't get pregnant

Hubby is worried about me not getting pregnant even wen he is not around n i tell him I'm not feeling fine he will call his friend to take me to the company hospital as he don't want me to drive just incase it turns out to be pregnancy

Thank God i came here i will start retracing my step because my boyfriend is really using me, he just finish uni infact we finished same time n we are both waiting for service, he even wants us to be transferred to same state but hubby didn't agree because he wants me to serve where we live n each time i ask him when he is planning on getting married he will reply me with when i've left my hubby because he is waiting for me n d tin is not yet financially stable.

I've been responsible for some of his basic need even before i got married as in when we where dating so he said he wants us to get married so he can show me love n also take care of me.

The story goes on n on
God please help me

Thanks to every one that has advised me as silly as it might sound it's actually what I'm passing through.

I really feel sorry for my husband because he has tied helping me n he really love's me.

I stop communicating with him but after a while we start communicating constantly again. Hubby noticed it n asked me to stop talking to him as i am married but i told him to bear with me because i can't stop talking to him i will only limit it then he agreed.

My husband says i should tell him anything that is bothering me if i'm angry i should communicate it with him but i just don't see myself getting close to him because he is not always around as he is working off shore. When he is not around he used to communicate with me but i just feel like i'm sharing him wit
his work as i want my husband all to myself.
Yes i knew he was working there before the marriage but i never knew it's offshore as he used to tell me i want to be d first person he will see when he wakes up but now i spend some night alone at home n each night i'm alone i hate d marriage so much then my boyfriend will be d one to make me happy.

My boyfriend said if i can't cope with the marriage i should divorce my husband n marry him but he doesn't pray for me to leave him.

Im so confuse right now as i don't even know d reason i will use to divorce my husband apart from the reason i don't want to hurt a good man because even in his absence he cares for me.

I was in a serious relationship with a guy whom i love very much . We love n understand each other n to d best of my knowledge we are perfect together.
Few of my family member knew him, we were high school sweetheart.
At some point in our relationship i started thinking he wouldn't marry me as our age difference is not much n he was quite too young to be thinking of getting married .
I told him my fear's n he said i shouldn't worry if he gets on his feet d first tin he do is to get married to me n at this point some of my family members start telling me how he would live me for a younger woman when he is ready for marriage.

I was young n i had many suitors so i decided to try one of them out, he turn out to be very nice n full of love then we started dating, everything was Fine.
I told my boyfriend about him n he said he is ok from what i told him so far about him n i introduced my fiance to him as my friend because apart from being my boyfriend we where friends very good one at that n he is d only person that understand me very well n not scared to tell anything.

Some months down d line we tied d knot n i told my boyfriend we won't be seeing each other anymore since I'm married he said ok n he wish me luck.

I'm so confused now because i don't love my hubby my heart belongs to my boyfriend, i'm so much happy around him even when hubby makes me angry i call him, if hubby travel i invite him, if i have any decision to make i call him to ask of his opinion, if hubby couldn't satisfy me in bed i tell him.

He is practically d man i want n marriage couldn't stop our love because we have grown to be one.

Hubby on d other hand love's me very much and he wouldn't want anything to hurt me, he is very caring n respects my opinion.
I feel d bound between us is not just enough as he doesn't know somethings that makes me happy n sometimes when am angry he just ignore me. REASON: i don't know what to tell u because i'm scared of ur reaction n when we are in bed he wouldn't touch me REASON: I wouldn't have any urge throughout d night if u reject my first attempt.

I'm so confused because up till now hubby don't know how to approach me when I'm angry n this is seriously pushing me to my boyfriend .