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Please don't mind my English oo, English no be my language. Few month ago, my wife went for antenatal clinic for registration after she discovered she is pregnant. In the process of her registration and testing, she is tested HIV possible. She was immediately refer to another clinic for further confirmation, in which she also confirm positive in that clinic too. She informed me of everything that she went through in the clinic when i came back from work that day, in which she told me that my attention is also needed in that clinic. We went together the third day, and i was also tested positive. Throughout that week, we don't get ourselves, he went for counseling the following weeks, in which the told us that the sickness is manageable and the drugs her free in their clinic, that all we need now is schedule time to attend clinic every month. Since we don't have a choice and we need to protect the live of our unborn child, i told them the nature of my work that i may not keep to date everytime because of my work, in which the accepted and told me that my drugs will be giving to my wife everytime she attend the clinic even without my presence.
Last two month ago my wife went for clinic alone, and my drugs was not giving to her, I thought she was joking when she told me that, because that is the first clinic that am not in attendance. I went for clinic last month, and was full of shame, the way the clinic attendants addressed me, telling me all sort of disgusting words in the presence of my wife, all because i miss a clinic.
Now their final conclusion is that whenever i miss a clinic, i should forget my drugs that months. And according to them, if i miss my drugs for a day the viral load will increase in my body, as a result of that in which we also affect my wife anytime i have sex with her.
That words have cause a lot of problem in my family that my wife don't even respect me again, she always telling me that am the one that affect her with that sickness.Currently now, am absolutely confused because i know personally that i will not make it every month due to nature of my work. Please your matured advise is needed urgently, make pesin no go take illegal action.