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Hello sir...I dreamt dat I was carrying a big container with different loads in it on my head and also holdin one,somehow I discovered that d container fell off my head into a drainage,a woman was nearby and I thought she was goin to help me with d load back on my head while I was putting the loads back into the container,after sometime I noticed she was no longer there,all along I had my 2 n half yr old nephew wt me,while I was bringin out the loads the boy had poo in his pant,I was angry n was bothered abt hw I was goin to clean him up,I even had to spank him on his bum(he has been doin dat recently in real life).Pls help out with the interpretation.

Although some bad habits may seem minor, over time they can really add up and damage the relationship. Often, people underestimate how damaging these seemingly silly habits can be. If your guilty of any of these relationship habits, make changes to help nurture and grow your relationship instead of damaging it.

1. Nagging Too Much

Many studies have pointed to nagging as being the number one factor that makes men dissatisfied with their relationships. Don’t nag your partner. Remember that your partner doesn’t have to do things according to your timeline and nagging will only make the situation worse.

2. Not Taking Care of Yourself

You aren’t going to be a good partner unless you take care of yourself. The best partners are people who care for their emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Take care of yourself so you can give to your relationship.

3. Taking Your Partner for Granted

The longer you’ve been together the easier it can be to take your partner for granted. Take time to appreciate your partner every day so that you don’t overlook how fortunate you are.

4. Half-Listening

It can be easy to nod your head or say you agree to something without ever really hearing what your partner said. Half-listening to what your partner is one of those relationship habits that can lead to a lot of problems. Work on your communication so you can truly listen to what your partner has to say.

5. Avoiding Discussions About Problems

Ignoring problems won’t make them disappear. In fact, many problems get worse when you don’t address them. Don’t avoid your relationship problems. Instead, be willing to tackle them in an adult manner.

6. Not Being Assertive

Pretending to agree with your partner when you don’t isn’t healthy. It can lead to anger and resentment over time. Speak up and share your feelings in a respectful manner.

7. Testing Your Partner’s Loyalty

Don’t test your partner’s loyalty. It will likely backfire over time. Instead, focus on your own loyalty toward your partner.

8. Complaining About Your Partner

Don’t call your mother or your best friend to complain about your partner. If you are upset or don’t like your partner’s behavior, talk to your partner directly.

9. Not Balancing Friend and Family Time

Spending time with friends and family is part of being a well-balanced person. However, if you spend too much time with others, you could neglect your relationship. Strive to find just the right balance and it will help keep your relationship fresh and exciting.

10. Using the Silent Treatment

The silent treatment is a passive-aggressive tactic that can harm your relationship. It is often about control and not about trying to calm down. Learn how to address your issues in a more productive manner.

11. Taking Teasing Too Far

Although a little teasing can lead to a good laugh, taking teasing too far can damage the relationship. Don’t embarrass your partner in front of others or continue to tease when your partner asks you to stop.

12. Telling “White Lies”

One of the worst relationship habits is lying. Even those little white lies can seriously damage your relationship. Whether you aren’t honest about how much you spent on a shopping trip or where you went last, it can destroy the relationship.

13. Focusing on Your Happiness Only

Too often, people focus on what they’re gaining from the relationship rather than focusing on what they’re giving. Whether you’re happy or not, put effort into making your partner happy.

14. Keeping Score

Don’t keep score about who earned what or whose turn it is next. Instead, focus on working together as a team to do what’s best for the relationship.

15. Making a Scene in Public

Throwing a fit at a restaurant, yelling on the sidewalk, or exhibiting the silent treatment at a friend’s party can all be very damaging to the relationship. Avoid making a scene in public. Instead, keep your private business just between the two of you.
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/15-silly-habits-that-seriously-harm-your-relationship.

Ishilove: Lol. Now one thing you have to understand is MFM does not have rules laid down in iron casting. We are allowed to wear earrings, but it is strongly discouraged because of its implications. Unlike Deeper Life where it is strictly enforced, in MFM they feel that it is God who will arrest those that stubbornly refuse to stop wearing earrings. When he does, no one will tell us to stop wearing earrings, so no point in turning us away. However, if you're a worker you aren't allowed to put on jewellery.

As for attachments, look well o. I don't wear weaves

The trouser ish is an ongoing debate which the young and liberal ones at MFM are having with the church leadership. We feel that what the scriptures describe as men's attire is very different from what obtains today. What are men's attire? How does trousers fall into that category? What are the differences between male trousers and female trousers? Where are the lines drawn?

GO thinks we need deliverance

However, you cannot wear trousers to church services or leave your hair uncovered in church. MFM ministries are liberal, but heck, they are not THAT liberal.

As for the foul language thing, that isn't an MFM thing. Its a scriptural thing. The scriptures exhort that we should be pure in speech, not given to froward (iranu) talk or coarse jesting (Eph 5). As for me, I am still praying to God to deliver me from foul language. I don't cuss offline; it is only on NL here that you find me cussing up and down like an American hoodrat. Nairalanders can cause a negress to sin

I love every of ur reply! Tanks 4 takin ur time dear


Last bullet why did u abandon "iyawo nylon bag?

Ishilove: Yes Favour, I am an active member of MFM ministries.

Now tell me something: What exactly are the MFM doctrines which you feel I am not following? Is it my hair? My hair is natural.

Is it my dressing? My dressing is moderate, as exhorted by apostle Paul in the scriptures and emphasised by the MFM doctrines.

So tell me, what are the MFM teachings you feel I am not following?

Thanks 4 @least answerin my question,but u knw what I mean now ishi

I mean they don't allow ear-ring(I once saw a pic wr u wore a long one),trouser,attachment on ladies...and u use foul language like u don't care! My bad,I am just being curious here.

Ishilove,ar u a member of MFM?


I tink I'v seen a couple of ur pics,how come u don't dress like them if truly you believe in dr doctrine and teachin

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