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Ruby_licious: This is for me.....my motto this year "in pursuit of happiness"

Hapiness and other good fruits of God is already yours in Jesus Name.

passionate88: What abt ways to win d wife's love?.

on its way

This is what i wanna apply 4 in uni by 2015 by God's grace (Math Edu).
@op, what are d challenges like in school?
Is there room 4 inter/intra scholarship?
What happen 2 graduate with first class? Are they given job as graduate assisstance in the school? Scholarship 4 master?
Sorry I am bombarding u wit question, I just wanna know, thank u.
And again what about inter/intra math competition?

Oga Mod, I still dey wait ooh.

hun

Na wa oh

Look properly, it is there.
Have a happy time ahead.

bico nu oga Mod, front page tins.

oya na Oga Mod, front page tins. Bico nu.

all these Mod dey fall hand. Y dis thing never make front page?
Bico Oga Mod, bico nu.

ms_pee: Only 57 ways?

these are the basics

front page, here I come

Ruq: nice.

thank U

1. Behave like a female, i.e. with all the tenderness of a female.
2. Dress pleasantly and attractively.If you are a home-maker, don't stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Smell good.
4. Don't lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
5. Don't keep asking him 'what are you thinking?' because unlike
women, men's thoughts are as random as the results of a google
search. Women on the other hand have thoughts as organized as a labeled file-cabinet.
6. Stop nagging non-stop before
God gives you something really to complain
7. Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet under the pretense of seeking help, even if you are the victim. If you think you want to solve legitimate marital issues then go seek counseling
8. Be kind to your mother-in-law
the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother
9. Learn all the rights and
obligations of each other in christianity.
10. Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile and hug.
11. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
12. Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident about (looks,intelligence etc). This will build his self-esteem.
13. Tell him he's the best husband.
14. Call his family often.
15. Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
16. When he's talking about something boring, listen and nod
your head. Even ask questions to
make it seem like you're
interested.
17. Encourage him to do good
deeds.
18. If he's in a bad mood, give him some space. He'll get over it.
19. Thank him sincerely for
providing you with food and
shelter. It's a big deal.
20. If he's angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you're quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he's calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change
21. When you're mad at him, don't say 'you make me furious,' rathersay, 'this action makes me upset.'Direct your anger to the action
22. Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
23. Let him chill out with his friends without guilt
24. If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. (this is for both)
25. Learn how to tell him what you expect without him having to guess all
26. Don't get mad over small things. It's not worth it.
27.

28. Tell him you're the best wife
and compliment yourself on certain things you know you're good at.
30. Don't ever, ever talk bad about him with friends or family unnecessarily.
31. Use your time wisely and get
things accomplished. If you're a
housewife, take online classes and be active in your community.
32. Try to please your husband for the sake of God and you will see God's blessings in every thing you do.
33. Spouses are garments for each other; hide your husband's faults and help him get over them wisely.
34. Tell your husband you love him,many many times.
35. Have a race with your husband and let him win, even if you are much fitter than him.
36. Be fit and take care of your
health; you will remain a strong
mother, wife, cook and
housekeeper.
37. Cultivate good manners. Do not be too loud, whether while laughing,
38. Do not leave the house without his permission and certainly not without his knowledge.
39. Make sure all his clothes are
clean and pressed so they always look fresh and crisp.
40. Ask God to strengthen and
preserve the bonds of compassion and love between the two of you,every day in every prayer. Truly Satan's most treasured act is to create rifts between couples to the
point of divorce.
41. They say the way to a man's
heart is through his stomach, and
that's really true.
42. Make sure you always have something for dinner.
43. Brush your hair everyday.
44. Don't forget to do the laundry.
45. Surprise him with gifts. Even
necessities can be gifts, like a pair
of new shoes.
46. Listen to him when he's talking.Don't interject him and talk about your own issues.
47. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies (bowling?).Try not to go shopping too much
and spend all his money.
48. Look attractive and it's fine, in
fact good, to be seductive towards him.
49. Learn tricks and techniques to please your husband in intimacy.
50. Prepare for special evenings
with him with special dinner and
exclusive time (no children permitted).
51. Take care of your skin,
especially the face, which is the
center of attraction.
52. If you are not satisfied
intimately, talk to him and help him. Don't wait till matters become worse.
53. Never discuss important or
controversial matters with him
when he is tired or sleepy. Find the right time for the right discussion.
54. Learn to compromise.
55. Continue to do things for your husband and don't take him for granted.
56. Respect his rights (he's your
road to paradise).
57. Make tea for him or whatever hot drink he likes, it will soothe his rough edges.
Happy time ahead.

eddiebruk: It takes real determination for a man to be able to portray these characters during taugh times, But I am Glad I can boast of them all.

hmm hmm

1. The only person that can ever
truly make you happy is yourself. Stop depending on everyone else.
2. People lie, stuff happens. Don’t
take it too personally.
3. Want people to think you’re
amazing? Start believing you are,
and then they will too.
4. Smiling is the ultimate anti-
depressant. Smile and laugh out
loud, it doesn’t look stupid, I
promise.
5. The world is never just black
and white, right or wrong, one
way or another. Try and see
things from as many points of
view as possible.
6. "Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror Just keep going No feeling is final"
7. Have empathy.
8. Gossip, problems of the past,
events you cannot control,negative thoughts and negative
people; time spent on these is
time poorly wasted.
9. When you're jealous or find
yourself filled with hate for
someone/something, stop. The
only person its hurting is you.
10. Although the newest, most
expensive material things may
make you feel as if you’re a better person, they won’t hold you at night or listen to you when you need it. Make sure your priorities make sense.
11. Step outside your comfort
zone- it’s when you’ll really feel
alive.
12. Don’t be afraid to be yourself,
the people who really matter,
don’t mind
13. Let your emotions out
sometimes, humans have them
for a reason.
14. Celebrate the things you
have. Think only positively of the
things you don’t (but would like
to have) and they too will come.
15. Love unconditionally ♥

Alikaxon: 11- Never quit in your struggle, ie Always have an undending alternative. When live gives u a reason to stop, give it a reason to continue. Always plan alternatives ahead, when a hope is lost, lean on the next hope; this would give u the reasons to survive. [left]NOTE: loosing hope is quiting, quiting is dead. Don't loose hope, don't quit.

I think u met '10' and thank u.

9. Look for the beginning in every ending. A wise man once said, “Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” Today is a new
beginning; treat it that way. Stop
thinking about what might have been and starting looking at what can be. Say to yourself: “Dear Past, thank you for all the life lessons you have taught me. Dear Future, I am ready now!” Because a great beginning always occurs at the exact moment you thought would be the end of everything.
I hope this make front page. All Mod's please make this my christmas gift. Thank U all.
Happy X-mas.

7. Take a few steps back.Everything seems simpler from a
distance. Sometimes you simply need to distance yourself to see things more clearly. You are more than whatever is troubling you. A very real part of you exists beyond your worries, beyond
your doubts, independent from the troubles and frustrations of the present moment. Step back and observe yourself as you experience each moment. Be present. Watch yourself as you think, as you take action, as you experience emotions.Your body may experience pain, and yet that pain is not you. Your mind may encounter troubles, and yet you are not those troubles. Think of the most difficult challenge
you face right now. Imagine that it’s not you, but a close friend who is facing this challenge. What advice would you give her? If you could step back and, instead of being the subject, look at your situation as an objective
observer, would you look at it any differently? Think of the advice you would give your friend if your friend were in your shoes. Are you following your own best advice right now? Don’t allow your current troubles to
cloud your thinking. Take a few steps back and give yourself the benefit of this distance, and then give yourself some great advice.
8. Give yourself time. Take all the time you need. Emotional healing is a process; don’t rush yourself through it. Don’t let others force you through it either. Moving on
doesn’t take a day; it takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken past and your wounded self. Take today breath by breath, one step at a time. Never let trouble from the past make you feel like you have a
bad life now. Just because yesterday was painful doesn’t mean today will be too. Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us. Today you have a
choice to explore these parts of
yourself. Give yourself the needed time and permission to explore and heal.

4. Open up to someone you trust. You aren’t alone; let someone special in when you’re in a dark place. You know who this person is. Don’t expect them to solve your problems; just allow them to face your problems with you. Give them permission to stand beside you. They won’t necessarily be able to pull you out of the dark place you’re in, but the light that spills in when they enter will at least show you
which way the door is. Above all, the important thing to remember is that you are not alone.No matter how bizarre or embarrassed or pathetic you feel about our own situation, there is someone in your life who has dealt with similar emotions and who wants to help you. When you hear yourself say, “I am alone,” it’s just your insecurities trying to sell you a lie.
5. Use hope to drive positive action. Only in the dark can you see the stars.The stars are hope. Look for them. The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the
most you can do is live inside that
hope as you work for what you want.Do not admire what you hope for from a distance, but live right in it. Get deeply involved with the thoughts and activities that keep your hope alive and your intention possible. No, hope alone will not save you from despair. Hope empowers you to strive and grow even when your
circumstances are in shambles. The road that is built with hope is more pleasant than the road built in despair, even though they both may seem to lead you to the same place in the short-term. But it is the positive growth you attain on your way to this
temporary place that will benefit your final destination. It’s all about balance – accepting
reality without giving up on what
needs to be done to reach your
desired destination in the long run.
6. Move TOWARDS something
instead of AWAY. “Don’t think about eating that chocolate cookie!” What are you thinking about now? Eating that chocolate cookie, right? When you
concentrate on not thinking about something, you end up thinking about it. The same philosophy holds true when
it comes to freeing your mind from a negative past. By persistently trying to move away from what you don’t want,you are forced to think about it so
much that you end up carrying it’s weight along with you. But if you instead choose to focus your energy on moving toward something you do want, you naturally leave the negative
weight behind as you progress
forward. Bottom line: Instead of concentrating on eliminating the negative,concentrate on creating something positive (that just happens to replace the negative).

Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s about learning to dance in the rain.
1.Learn to trust yourself. “It isn’t as bad as you sometimes think
it is. As you heal and grow, it will all work out. Relax and trust yourself.” Repeat that in your mind every morning. Because the truth is, it all works out in the end. Put your full trust in yourself by following your intuition and doing your best, and then move forward one step at a time with faith and confidence in the future.Life will not forsake you. Love,persistence and hard work combined rarely lead a person astray in the long run. If you have faith in your abilities, if you
stay true to the path that feels right, if you channel your passion into action,you will ultimately achieve a breakthrough. In other words, as soon as you trust yourself you will know how to heal and grow.
2.Focus on what you’re learning. Mistakes and setbacks are simply a form of practice. If the road is easy and free of bumps,you’re likely going the wrong way.The bumps in the road teach you what you need to know to progress down a path that is all your own. Sometimes things have to go wrong in order to go right. Sometimes you need to
change a flat tire or two before you can move on. Bottom line: Your journey isn’t supposed to be easy, it’s supposed to be worth it. To never struggle is to
never grow. There is no perfectly
smooth road to anyplace worth going.
3.Ease your expectations. Life is under no obligation to give you
exactly what you expect.Whatever it is you’re seeking will rarely ever come in the form you’re expecting. Don’t miss the silver lining because you were expecting gold. You must see and accept things as they are instead of as you hoped,wished, or expected them to be. Just
because it didn’t turn out like you had envisioned, doesn’t mean it isn’t exactly what you need to get to where you ultimately want to go.

Yes,you can become lecturer without BED because you have NCE already,NCE is the minimum educational qualification for teaching/lecturing.Therefore you don't need PGD again since you have NCE.[/quote]thank U so much.

I am still waiting 4 2015/2016, studying Math/Phy (N.C.E.). Will like to study B.Ed Math.

please I have this question. Can someone with NCE(PHY/MATH),''BSC''(MATH).MAS,....... Become a lecturer without that one year of ''pgd''? Must it be NCE(PHY/MATH),''BED''(MATH).....

darmochy1: Sure, you can teach with your nce. To the best of my knowledge, B. Ed is mainly meant for those that want to pursue a career in academics...but the market is no more about what you study but what you can offer, so no matter what you eventually study, try to add value to yourself. Peace!

thank u thank u thank u thank u

born2bleep: Yes,with the NCE,u are a qualified teacher so u can go for the BSc. All the best

thank u 4 d info.

darmochy1: Hello David, my attention was actually arrested by your seriousness and focus and these prompt me to drop my contribution.

Bed or B.Sc- it all depends on you, what are you planning to do with your degree? Are you planning to teach? Then B.ed. will be your bet. For limitless opportunities, I'll advice you go for B.Sc. (personal preference though).

As we know that first degree is no more enough in our country, you can add value to yourself by pursuing a masters degree in financial mathematics. This will make you an hot cake in the job market.

Above all, present your case before God- He knows the best for you. Also, remain deligent. God bless you.

thank u very much.but I have these questions. 1)if I should go for B.sc in math can I still teach with my ''nce'' without that one year of ''pdg''? Just dont wanna limit my opportunities. 2)is B.ed meant 4 education only (teaching, publishing, e.t.c)? If no, then what else? Thank u once again.

How do I become an advert brand (advertisement ambassador),I mean advertise for company through newspaper,commercial,bill boards e.t.c. I just need cash to pay for my school fees. Thank you in advance for responding to my post.

hilaomo: it all depends on u nd what u seek 2 achieve,with wateva course u wish 2 study...I hold a B.Sc(Hons) Mathematics...teach physics/maths/fmaths durg nd run my biz durg wkends!Maths doesnt guarantee u a job,bt it does boost ur IQ whc inturn helps u in actualg ur dream.

thank u very much.

I am David a student of Adeniran Ogusanya College of Edu, Physics/Math department.Enough of introduction.
I will be graduating by 2015 and I have some confusing question, urgent reply will be appreciated.
1)Between Bed/Bsc in math which one should I apply for with reason(s).
2)what are the job prospect for a math graduate?
3)Was there any question(s) I was supposed to ask which I failed to?
Urgent reply will be appreciated

I am David a student of Adeniran Ogusanya College of Edu, Physics/Math department.Enough of introduction.
I will be graduating by 2015 and I have some confusing question, urgent reply will be appreciated.
1)Between Bed/Bsc in math which one should I apply for with reason(s).
2)what are the job prospect for a math graduate?
3)Was/is there any question(s) I was supposed to ask which I failed to?
Urgent reply will be appreciated