₦airaland Forum

bigdammyj:
That man is not a serious man, the lady is just his fiancé not his wife yet so he has the right to walk away without being dramatic about it.

The man details her chats with at least four partners, quotes flirty and sexual exchanges like "this morning quickie was great," while she sits nearby before the scene turns chaotic with arguments.

It’s a family affair and must be treated as such.

truthCoder:
I remember the project.

It was a clone with black background and green colored fonts.

There have been hundreds of new Nairalands springing up every time someone completes his HTML and CSS trainings. Many have even bought domain names and launched but they all fail.

The failure reasons are many but i have identified some few:

First, you need promotions to push the new site to the potential users. This cost money and many dont have. “Organic growth “ is a long gone possibility for new projects except something viral happens to it. You have to pay to play. Ask PayDay and Kuda wassap.

Second, the founder should not be greedy. Look at seun, despite the traffic, advertising is minimal. This makes using nairaland enjoyable. If the founder cannot survive without ads, he can’t overthrow nairaland.

Third is the unique offering deficit. If you are not bringing something new to the table, why would new users sign in. Mastodon, BlueSky vs Twitter. Signal vs WhatsApp. If you don’t come with gifts, users will leave.

There are many others but..

Offpoint1:
He has the natural right to build anywhere he wants.

No man can make a grain of stand talk more of "owing" a land... Every living creature on earth has the right to land.

HydraFeeds:
What happened to load balancing?

Stephen0mozzy:
3k daily be not extravagant jare. It's just not buying enough.

The only way you can spend 2+k is if you fit dey manage small food and dey buy from buka. Na to find side work wey go dey augment the food budget.

If cooking is an option, stock house with 80k for one month and see if it stays for month, then adjust accordingly.

I personally think cooking is way more expensive (though you go chop belleful 😅 but no variety)

tosyne2much:
The moment I realize I was no longer a visitor in a friend's place was the attitude of his wife

This my friend was really envying and snitching me behind my back but in my presence, he would act all nice and caring

First and foremost, I suspected he was telling his wife negative things about me but when I started noticing something was wrong was when I visit him, his wife would tell me he's not around

Most times, I turn back but later on, I suspected he would be at home while his wife would tell me otherwise

There was one day the wife told me he wasn't around and a part of me was telling me that he was inside. To satisfy my curiosity, I asked his children and they both chorused to me that their daddy was inside.. This happened for about three times until I started withdrawing myself because I don't like to stay where I'm not honoured or valued

Now, me and that my friend are no longer in good terms.. He snitched me badly and plotted evil against me

One big lesson I've got to learn in life is that there's no best friend anywhere. Your wife and your children are your best friends

treesun:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-mathematics-remains-compulsory-for-olevel-students-says-fg/

10billionDollar:
Truly you cannot truly say you are successful until you are married.
He survived years of deadly battles as a warlord in the army but couldn't survive 6 months of marital battles.

When elders say women are stronger some men will be arguing nonsense

Salowise:
The husband no get brothers? What if he comes from polygamous family with lots of male children? Or he's the king of boys

Ofunaofu:
Syria’s conflict is a geopolitical quagmire involving superpowers, proxy wars, not bandits on bikes terrorizing poor villagers for ransom.

There’s a world of difference between warlords getting absorbed into peace processes under global pressure and Nigerian police standing by as armed criminals, bandits with RPGs, AK 47 walk in and out like they own the place and then calling that "peace."

Where’s the justice for their victims? Where’s the accountability?

This isn’t strategy. It’s state-backed surrender. If you need to reference chaotic Middle East politics to excuse the IG’s incompetence, you’ve already admitted Nigeria is a failed state.

And sorry, no, this is not standard practice "everywhere." It’s standard in collapsed regimes. And last I checked, we still have a constitution, not a ceasefire with terrorists.

Don't forget; Tinubu once said

Dpharisee:
Dirty habit, desist forthwith before you do more damage to your metabolism