₦airaland Forum

Kazeem47:
Masturbation is worst.If youbdont have money you cant gamble or follow women.But masturbation is free and dangerous.

ahmepic:
I have never started anything I cant stop. Name it I have done them all and stopped at my own volition.
I smoked Indian hemp and stopped when I was almost caught by my mother and I knew she would be heart broken. The fear of disappointing her was too much so I quit.
I was also introduced to gambling and after my friend who introduced me sold his car to bet, I borrowed myself sense and stopped before I get to that stage unfortunately my friend is still stuck there.
Sex is normal and I am married now with kids so I gotta stop playing outside game.
Alcohol too was stopped cos my wife dislike it and I did that for her.
Overall I think I have good control of my bad habits and stopped them when it matters.

Angelfrost:
Teaching can only be a complete joke in a nation that endorses Illiteracy, and celebrates dullards with illegal access to wealth and influence.

The Professional that has badly fallen low remains the Military.

Growing up in the 90s, joining the army was something that was highly revered and widely celebrated.

franchasofficia:
Law
Lawyer
Ndi Lawyer

Followed by:
Lecturers
Ndi Professor

Next:
Bankers
Ndi Bank

Lastly:
Army

IGBOPROMISE1:
Didn’t the army chief make a show of relocating to Benue state last week?

I’m sure by now Christian middle-beltans old enough to remember the uncivil war will rue the day they chose to side with the hegemonic alliance to fight the Igbo/Biafrans! I doubt if given the opportunity to do things all over again, that they would make the same mistake!

NeckingNgulping:
Divide this country now............................

Bebold:
Then civil servants should also see how they can be more productive for themselves.

Having side business can upgrade them too, while demanding better treatment from the government.

Let's not hush certain things not really proper in the society to silence.

The last time I checked, the more advanced a society develops, the lower the number of civil servants.

You can go confirm it.

Don't be comfortable with stipends, the society won't wait for you.

zomby:
Yeah...Go tell your mama the story...I have no interest.
Omo igbo; Omo wereh!

zomby:
You sound like a loser... you must be from the tribe that sells their mothers for money (less than 100k)

ChizzyBuna:
I reached out to a cousin of mine in Norway. I begged him for small financial assistance any amount no matter how small.
He read the message and said he will see what he will do.

That was january 15, since then he rarely reply my message and if he reply he ignores my cry for help
Any one you like, just do it. Call it quite ooo or cut him off, just do anyone u like. Lol

I tried writing him again but tears started rolling from my eyes.
I felt so depressed begging my cousin and him just playing me like a child. Ignoring my messages

I need advice, should i call it quit and distance myself from him?

IvarTheBoneless:
He lived too long with Eastern cannibals

Kushites:
Bolaji Akinyemi should shut the hell up.

See an old man like him full of fear for his fellow man.

No wonder he said Nigeria should not have joined BRICS.

Must have been out of his fear of Trump.

What will Trump do to Nigeria? Invade us because we asserted our rights as an independent nation?

USA can do NOTHING to Nigeria.

As a BRICS nation we are allied to Russia, Brazil, China, India, etc, so unless Trump wishes to start WW3, he knows not to try any shiit with Nigeria.

That is how you should be reasoning Mr Akinyemi, if you weren't paralysed by your colonial fear of anglo-saxon reaction to asserting your rights.

Hushpuppy20:
So if you don't marry army woman you will not stand up to protect your family abi?
Foolish man how did that lady end up been with you sef.

Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Johndavid10th:
If your skill is good enough to start earning from Id advice you save up atleast 300k, make sure your rent is paid for a year. Quit your job and spend 3 months connecting with other web developers and selling yourself on LinkedIn, glassdoor and X. If you push hard enough within 2 months tops, you should land atleast a gig.

By the way im speaking from experience. I quit my job with just 150k in savings ( that was 2021 o) focused on connecting with mentors in my Field (design) in less than one month i go a job that paid 3ple my recent salary plus a bunch of side gigs from guys i connected with. Presently im in another job and earn 7x more. Just go all in.

PissInside:
Get a laptop

Go to Canva.com

Subscribe for premium( You can use the free version too but premium gives you access to unlimited stuffs)

Start creating designs ranging from Magazine,Book & Album covers, Business cards,Posters, Flyers, Social media templates, Business cards, Wedding invitations etc

Register on Fiverr & Upwork and sell your skills

Or you can Use Chatgpt,Google docs and Google chrome to research and learn about copywriting.

55k is not even enough for me to spend in a day not to talk of earning that in a month.

Elsueno:
To be honest, majority of Nigerians are freaking LILY-LIVERED cowards. NOT worth d stress of fighting or advocating for. I thought d man didn't beat d shyt out of d albino rep because he wants to deal with him lawfully. But a las, D COWARDLY BOLT driver folded despite having millions of Nigerians & institutions ready to help am.

To be honest, if na me, d moment dat COWARDLY albino slap me, Wallahi, damned d consequences I WOULD BEAT DA HELL OUT OF HIM TILL HIS FACE TURNS RED!!

Flier:
He was probably paid not threatened.

Flier:
He was probably paid not threatened.

GOTVee:
How does the return of a brutal Man like Trump benefits we Christians celebrating? This is a man that is willing to deport any one especially Christians. Even though I'm a born again Christian, It would have been better if Kamala had won for the peace of this world.

Nethanyahu and Trump at the helms of affairs at the same time is bad for world peace. I wish this mistake can be reversed by Americans. Isreal will have the audacity to misbehave in the middle east because of Trump. Palestinians and others in the middle east needs our prayers not celebration. I hope we Christians see the truth in this message and stop rejoicing over a man who hates us so much.

FourQu:
Obi is a wonderful student. He's seriously learning politics 101 🙄