kajad:
My job brought me to Port Harcourt a few months ago. I have always heard warning like ‘beware of PH babes’ without really understanding the meaning until now.

The first girl I met in the city gave me a bill of buying toiletries and hosting her birthday party barely after 10 days of knowing her! The second’ a student I knew for one week before she went back to school, calls to requests for phone credit which I oblige her sometimes; the next thing I knew she wants me to send money to her through her bank account.

My thought that a working class girl will be different proved abortive. The working class girl I met told me she wants to go to Dubai during her annual leave to buy goods for sale and that I should lend her some money to augment. This is a girl that has not even been to my house o!

My question is Do you become a benefactor once you ask a girl out in this city or am I being paranoiac? Is this normal with all women everywhere because I have not experienced it before.

Before you ask Please note that I am single and in prime age.

It's not just in PHC,it happens across the country.The moment you ask a Nigerian girl out,you start owing her.

EverythingPhone:


I fix faulty iPhone panels
A trial will definitely convince you

Can you pass through a passcode without losing the data on the device?

Depriest2020:
That's what good/nice men gets, women never likes them except their generosity. Ladies prefer naughty and randy men or bad boys or men with bad boys vibes. They see such men as people who knows whats up and exciting to be with and see nice and good men as unexciting and boring to be with. But after being used and dumped, destroyed with series of abortion, making them baby mamas, then they will have a rethink and start looking for a good man who they would dump their baggages on.

You see ladies that make statements like:

"All men are the same"
"Who love help"
"That's what you'all always says"

Avoid them, they've been uselessed and heartbroken by the bad boys they rejected good guys for.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. You be boss for the streets

They end up losing at the end.

Good to be back again. I kept checking for the past few days.

lexy2014:


What has centering anything got to do with the story?

Are there no passport offices in other parts of the country?

With the population of lagos and it's traffic situation, there is just 2passport offices. What's wrong in making another one available to ease accessibility?

We have in Ikoyi,Ikeja,Festac and now Ikorodu.
Correct me if I'm wrong.

Kobojunkie:
Stop writing rubbish Abeg!

How did he say rubbish?

SoNature:
Labour Congress and its sister unions are the only capable hands that can provide opposition to the category of hooligans running this country now.

If these thieves continue to run this country like this in the next couple of years, they will just put Nigeria on Amazon and sell it off!

I see you so much trust the labour as if there's difference between them and the FG.

Olasveryown:

Are you planning to go and study there?i am waiting for my Skype interview

Did you later make it to Latvia? Please share the details of the process of getting student visa.

eniboi:
i am currently applying for computer system at riga technical university , anybody in latvia in this forum , who can help on visa procedure and admission.

Hello,did you finally make it to Latvia? Please can you share details of how you applied for the student visa?

dealslip:

After 15 years of marriage 😂😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣 the thing pain una. If you become a tenth of who my husband is, You have made it in life. All this Mummy's boy that don't know what it means to be a man and a correct husband. What do we do to you? You and the girls of this generation, you all fit each other

Senseless comment, from a senseless person

dealslip:

I won't descend so low to marry a man that reasons like you. Aren't you worried your wife is not excited about sex with you? Women's sexual need are stimulated emotionally and it's obvious you are not emotionally intelligent so you will continue to abuse her emotion and expect her to be all wet for you. After 15 years, our marriage is even sweeter and I will do anything for a man that is empathetic towards me. Person say he no dey alright to cook and you still want her to fry egg. No be cooking egg be. Selfish man

No reasonable man will marry you except unfortunate one,with this your belief/attitude.

dealslip:

This is so apt!! To be honest Nairaland has the highest number of foolish people on a forum. I have been on Nairaland for almost 17 years and I saw it descend from an intellectual forum to a cesspool of filth, toxic and extremely foolish forum.

Did you call 2012 till now 17yrs?

Spot on. Only for the wise.

Here to read comments

If you ever agree with or you have a backup plan in a RELATIONSHIP, then you're in the wrong relationship. It's better to quit than keep fooling yourselves.

I'm surprised at Men supporting this so called backup plan, you're stylishly encourage unfaithfulness and trust me it will go round and back to you.

Ola9ja23:
If that would reduce the killings and kidnappings in Nigeria it's a welcome development

Do you have sense at all?

hurryup123:
I just remembered one guy in my neighborhood, a very good tiler .
After paying for kuwait visa 2.6m he ended up in Dubai with just 0ne month visa.

Agents are bad..
Sloy5 God will punish you

I remember the bolded. Man used to lie he was in Turkey and use that to scam many gullibles here.
I don't blame him,I blame you guys that patronised him for being lazy and not doing it yourselves.

TotoGame:
Yoruba men think about nothing but Food and sex

You're so daft for generalizing. Daft ethnicity.

StylesX:
I'm actually 50+, oya rest

Please in everything you do,never leave your new girlfriend for your old crush and don't ever let her find out.

If I were you,I would never have had anything to do with her but no one is perfect and I'm not trying to crucify you. The old crush will likely cheat on you with another guy she crushes on while you'll lose your loyal girlfriend,if she ever finds out.

Play wise.

All these I see are only going to be beneficial to federal & some state government workers. I see nothing concrete for private sectors.

What a failed country.

post=126003326:
Slow and steady we will get to the nation of our dreams.

GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

If you're not daft,you'd realize that one doesn't do things the same way and expect different results.

Carcholce:


They were not biased. It’s a method to keep their women in check. What about DNA test of today? Is it biased against women?

Leave that nuisance to keep wailing. Sissy man.

elmagnifico411:
you have a past, and she does have too.. u decided not to talk about yours cos u don't want us to see u as 'brostitute' like u mentioned, which means u were a bad boy in the past. U must have impregnated girls and paid for their abortion, but u want us to judge your girlfriend, reasons u went on and on about her past. Bros, you're a hypocrite! She's the one I'll blame sha for opening that much to u not knowing u wouldn't be able to handle it. If u cannot continue since u think you're better than her, leave the lady alone! U are not a good person, and u don't deserve a good girlfriend cos that lady came clean to u, which makes her now a good person. Abeg shift.

Very good point, you're one of the few brilliant people here. I blame the girl for telling you what you're not matured enough to handle (not that you're any better).
It's better to free her quickly than wasting her time further but I can tell you something for free.
There are no better girls out there, if you leave your current girlfriend,you'd wish you didn't,and lastly try to grow up.
Too many kids nowadays diving into relationship. Una think say na play?

PussyGalore:
Stupid man, what is his explanation?

Any broke guy who tries that rubbish with me enh

I've got what you need,link up asap.

NwaAmaikpe:



I will pick this over Ewedu soup any day.
It is better I die from eating a fashionista worm than I die from eating hydraulic soup stirred with toilet brooms.

Stop this tribal nonsense,you're a well respected person on this forum, you shouldn't engage in such nonsense.

Zooposki:
You are not even sure you are going to marry her yet you want to chain her to you. Later you will be the one calling her evening newspaper after disappointing her. Let her explore her options.

You girls should better grow sense. Don’t be loyal or dedicated to any guy unless he has put a ring to that finger.

Trash, absolute trash. A good wife is known during courtship. If she can't make a good girlfriend,how can she make a good wife? Use your sense bro.

JustPowerApps:
Omo, she is playing home and away at the same time. Open your eyes, try shine it (in Tinubu's voice) and run!!! Run! Bro, run!! A girl who's involved with another guy while she is still with you is an impending doom, if you are lucky, you will get away with just heartbreak, some guys aren't that lucky, God help us all.

Best comment.

When a woman starts seeing other men while dating you,she becomes toxic and might kill herself or you the partner if care isn't taken.

Heartbreak is better than losing ones life,at least you can pick yourself up and forge ahead.

Speaking from real life experience.

addmole:


I love these bold words. Thank you. SO DIRECT. You hit the nail. This is exactly what they feel. The mother tells me to my face, that if I want to serve her daughter divorce papers, I should bring it. My wife also says she's ready. They don't care. I cannot even pick phone to report my wife to them again. Even with her sisters. I cant try it. The elder sister doesn't listen to me when I try to talk about issues of my wife. I have stopped visiting them since 3 years. Omo, a lot of things to say, be like I go delete this thread.

Something in c'mon