₦airaland Forum

Sonnobax15:

Is your mother aware your sister has already clocked 31? .

You see this life . Funny life indeed.

A well educated man will marry a stark illiterate woman and upgrade her . But once reverse is the case, it'll look as if the whole world want of crash

Your family should be grateful to that man for at least agreeing to even settle down with someone whom menopause is already smiling at

immortalcrown:
Learn the tradition and culture of your fiance's or fiancée's people.

Someone from Tiv tribe will gladly offer or accept the food on this picture.

I am not from Benue State. But if make up my mind to marry a Tiv girl and her family offers me this food, I will appreciate and eat it because I understand how Tiv tribe values such food.

Sonofgod1990:
If arsenal win today I will kpai my self



God will do it for his Children

Arsenal 1 vs Burnley 2 ✅✅

ClassicMan202:
Lols.. beautiful ladies Ko... Agbero ni


The goal is to make Nigeria better in our lifetime

jojothaiv:
Omo..

I don't understand what this is all about but make I shout omo once again.

Now understand,

Their corner corner form of trades, anyhow transaction and lie lie pricing na him make the NGx samma dem wetin no good.

Xmen149:
I know someone cheap.

See where the renewable energy backup system is sighted.

Even the dam CCTV can't can't pick a single persons face correctly very poor camera

funkmrflexx:
Yesterday I made a post about how I feel my wife
isn’t really adding value to my life.

https://www.nairaland.com/8631753/wife-isnt-adding-value-life

A lot of people attacked me in the comments, asking how I could expect a woman who gave birth to two children in three years to start working.
But let me clear something up.

When I said we had two children, I was only referring to the number of kids in the house. In reality, we have one son who is 2 years old, and my wife’s niece who lives with us. She’s about 12 years old, and that’s the second child I mentioned in the previous post.

Before we got married, we talked about her having her own business. She even chose something she said she was passionate about — makeup and beauty. I supported her and paid almost ₦400k for her to learn the skill at the time.
After we got married, I even opened a shop for her so she could start the business. But around that same time she got pregnant and said she couldn’t manage the shop because of the pregnancy. I understood and supported her.

Even with that, I still paid the rent for the shop for another 1 year and 6 months, just to make sure she had enough time to eventually start when she was ready.

After she gave birth, another issue came up. She said the shop was too far and she couldn’t be carrying the baby there. At that time the baby was around 6–8 months old.

So I suggested something simple: whenever I’m home, she can leave the baby with me and go to the shop. Her niece was also around, so the two of us could look after the baby.
Eventually she started going.

Before leaving she would bathe the baby and then head out. While she was gone, I took care of everything — feeding the baby, making sure he slept, watching over him. I didn’t complain because he’s my son too. I just wanted to make sure she had peace of mind to focus on the business.
Since she wasn’t making any money yet, I even gave her ₦4,000 transport money every day to support her (the distance was about 20 minutes at most)

But she didn’t even last one month before she stopped going.
Her reason was that the place wasn’t moving. Mind you, this was a very busy and popular place in town.
I encouraged her and told her business needs consistency. Customers don’t just appear overnight.
Then she complained about not having a signage, saying people couldn’t easily notice the shop. I paid for a proper signage for her.
Still… nothing changed.
Eventually she just stayed home until the shop rent expired, even though she still had about four months left on the rent when she stopped going.
Later she said she wanted to start selling women’s clothes from the house. Again, I supported her and gave her money to start.
Three months later… nothing came out of it.
At that point I was honestly frustrated and told her I wasn’t going to keep giving money for new businesses again.
Since then she has basically stayed at home doing very little. Most of the day she’s pressing phone. She cooks sometimes, yes, but even taking care of our son is mostly done by her niece.
My son even started school in September, so he’s no longer a baby that requires full-time attention.
Sometimes I even do my own laundry because she doesn’t really handle much in the house.
So honestly I keep asking myself… what exactly is her role in this marriage?
Another thing that worries me is this: what if something happens to me tomorrow? How would the family survive if she has no income or any drive to do something?
I’ve tried talking to her many times. She will act serious in the moment and promise to change, but after some time she just goes back to the same routine.
About a year ago I went through a very difficult financial period. A bad business deal left me in debt and I had to sell my car, something I really didn’t want to do. That was one of the lowest points of my life.
But during that period she didn’t really offer me any support.
Recently she told me she needs a new phone that costs almost ₦700k.
And honestly I just sat there thinking…
When things were good, I never complained about providing. But the economy now is very hard. Fuel alone is around ₦1,250 per litre as I’m writing this.
At this point, I’m honestly just tired.

MaziObinnaokija:
Thank you JESUS but come again . Which bank gave him 9M In Cash cos ECO/FBN own nor pass 500k for a week.

Chibuchris:
We know your game so when it get to 2027 you would say inec was not mandated to transmit results.
But why are you afraid of transmitting the result mandatory. You are the one in power yet you are scared.

Host78:
Personally, I'd say no.

Yes, the sales boy maybe acting on the fiance instructions, but honestly he's supposed to also use his head.

As a guy, you give her the money and if oga comes, you tell him. If him shout or becomes angry, you call the woman tell her incase of next time.

Also, I honestly don't think that oga/sales boy relationship is ordinary or the man no rate the wife to be at all.

What would be your reaction if this lady was your sister?

SpaceX:
He bought the milk so he has every right to use it, my wife can never try this with me or else I will show her the door, I'm a alpha male.....

karmaolu1:
Match the mergers

Two failed banks

kelmicheal:
Morocco will reach final this I have seen

Chummynoni:
I intentionally skipped it because till forever, I will always hate that course . It made me lose bearing . The course snatched 1st class from me , I had D . 300L second semester , I won't forget forever. I prepared so well for it , and I was so confident I would smash it . From my 200L , lecturers already knew me , and because of that , I was always segregated to sit alone at the front during exams. When I started solving the O.R , just one step that got twisted ,no one beside me to EPP me recap, everywhere got blurred and believe you me , I couldn't write anything again because it was as if my brain went blank. O.R is a crazy course .

VeeVeeMyLuv:
You have to have passion for the course, a kind of passion that drives you to go above and beyond what the lecturers (professor) are feeding you

Otherwise you will be frustrated

And just like that a star is born

God1000:
I don't know why women engage in this evil act, but I blame some weak men who sit back and allow their wives to maltreat kids that are not from their womb this way.

My wife dare not try this in my house, I will send her away

The husband should be arrested, he aided and abetted this evil

Some people are mentally derail. They are mentally unstable

Exousiang01:
I no dey believe all these kind story again.
A lady once threatened me with rape if I dare break her heart
I just do mumu till she tire for me come breakup by herself.

Putindbutt:
And what can wailers do about it?.You think it was during the damaged years of PDP where judges could not afford two meals a day, where they couldn't afford their children school fees. Una go wail tire.

SlavaUkraini:
They should look for that Officer that was guarding that land in the FCT

Where is that Officer Yerima ..... ?

He is the defender of people's property, he should come and defend this Orphans.

He will not show up for these orphans because their late father was not a Retired Naval Officer and because he has not received orders from above...

What a joke of a country

Kobojunkie:
1. They didn't set any such boundary, as is apparent from OP's reveal.

2. Did OP state that his wife does not respect him? Why assume disrespect when OP clearly did not state that he was disrespected by his wife in any of this?

FarahAideed:
I think the Alafin always uses hanky when he talks into any mic ..it had nothing to do with the Ooni

Prokaryote:
Lol, snake in the monkey shadow....na person Papa be this oooo

Predictor3:
See the girl this one dey beg. Men will never learn. My cousin's wife was sponsored in school by a fridge repairer. She met my cousin who had a master's degree from UI and had a good job. Na den she know say fridge repairer no go school and that they're not compatible.
Na then the mama remember say she don dey see her daughter for dream for England just because my cousin dangled UK travel in front of the girl's eyes. Chai, women. Some men can be so stupid

ChildOfDoom:
My dad is currently in a miserable state. One of his legs is swollen. He is having issues urinating properly. A man who once looked sturdy and active, now looks lean and feeble.

In earlier years, he was known for constant womanising and drinking. He was always in debt from gambling too (fled past location).

Health complications have meant that he now spends anything he solicits on drug.

Here I am, a boy of 33, doing worse atrocities than him. I feel I am young now and I can fight off any challenge, unknowingly I am complicating issues for myself. I long to stop but hard.

I started a 33 days abstinence plan which I have failed to keep. I squandered around 70k yesterday in a brothel after getting an alert of six digits.

My addictions are: std and loperamide drugs regular intake (one to fight std and the other to fight regular stooling), up to 3 carbonated drinks daily, betting, womanising, borrowing when unable to pay, junk food and masturbation.

God help us


I go again

Day 1 - 25th September

Womanising free


Day 4 - betting-free

MadamExcellency:
He can't afford it with his salaries. Moreover, this is a case of money laundering. Concealment of wealth and financial corruption.

Stop supporting corruption in the name of political support or affiliation.

LordBiden:
Sowore must be high on cheap crack.

Are you saying a two terms governor of an oil rich state like rivers cannot afford a mansion in USA without stealing state funds.

I still like wike,at least he is a performer and not like other politicians who steals and still don't perform in office.

Other things being equal, he should not be able to afford the properties in question. Not one, two, or even three properties in question. If not that he stole the money.

Do you know how many pple are swimming in poverty in your so call oil rich state and yet someone already secured the future of his kids with state fund? How much is Wike worth before he became minister under Jonathan?

The wife also earns huge income as a judge.