₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,345,041 members, 8,515,168 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 November 2026 at 09:10 AM

Toggle theme

Fhunkhy1's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Fhunkhy1's Profile › Fhunkhy1's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 (of 5 pages)

Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 1:29pm On Aug 21, 2020
Will be sharing Kemis story today.

Enjoy!!!
HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW YOUR SYMPTOMS?

As someone living with sickle cell one thing I have come to term with is my symptoms.

Last week Monday, I was home and feeling extremely tired, 3 days prior to that, I have been losing my appetite to eat foods, fruits and even drink water. The highest I can do is to force myself to drink water by adding little garri inside the water.

So Monday came, I was so tired to do anything, with constant headache that paracetamol is no longer working for.

So I decided to go to hospital , before going, I already went to lab to run Malaria Parasite and PCV to enable faster consultation and diagnosis.

Getting to Hospital, I talked to the Dr , see me smiling, the result already show anaemia and presence of malaria parasite.

Though I really can't say how serious it is. I just knew that I will definitely be admitted even if not for blood transfusion.

Knowing fully well I will be admitted, I am still not comfortable, I still try asking if the Dr can treat me with drugs alone.
He laughed at me and said Kemi you are going on admission.

I just told him, I need to go back home and prepare,since I used my leg to come here. Though I was tired , I can still go back home.

Got home and receive some emails that I must attend to urgently. I forgot about hospital and focus on the work.

Back to hospital, I was examined again, I needed blood transfusion.

Thank God I have my brother with me who has same blood type with me.

Did I tell you? All through I was on call to attend to some work. After the call, I have to attend to a client on phone, the phone call was like 1 hr plus.

Even at the lab, the were like you are not too pale, I have learnt to mask my pain or tiredness to some extent.

I never knew I will spent 9 days on that hospital bed.

After the treatment, I still have this constant headache even when I was obviously stable.

But the Consultant said you are staying here because of the headache, I told him Dr give me drugs now, I will be fine. He said no, like he knew there is something more.

Friday evening came, I told my mum, I was feeling cold, I use one blanket, it wasn't enough, use another, it wasn't enough.

Ahhhh, my mummy has never seen me like that in many years. I knew she was afraid.

Within 5 minutes I was shaking like a fish outside water, the vibration was too much.

All I could say was mummy call the Dr, the Dr came running with a nurse, my temperature has skyrocketed, I couldn't breathe again.

God just knew what was happening and sent the consultant to come at the right time.

Dr, check blood pressure, check temperature, body was so hot that the thermometer couldn't read it again, the nurse scream sir, the temperature is so high.

All I could say was to affirm I shall not die but live. The next prayers was God I am yet to fulfill my purpose don't allow me to die with my full potential.

My mum didn't know what to do?
I used all my energy and said Dr please I can't breathe.

The Consultant ran outside to bring oxygen himself, open oxygen it was hard, ahhhhh! Which kind frustration is that, he brought another one,
All through I was already given injection, yet the temperature and cold never reduced.

After 2 hours, the cold started reducing, my veins collapsed, they have to use my leg,

Drips upon drips, test upon test, injections upon injections.

After 3 hours of being on oxygen, I got some relief
My mum, dad and Toba were lost, running helter skelter, buying this and that.

In all this, I am grateful to God, what if I neglect those symptoms and not go to hospital,
What if I thought I was well and force my discharge by signing?

What If I thought I can manage it at home? What if I see no seriousness in it.
Two symptoms I don't joke with is tiredness and headache

I follow my own advise. I kept telling sickle cell warriors, don't neglect symptoms like headache and Tiredness, they are not only linked to Malaria.

Infection and malaria was actually the underlying cause. Even if I drink ugwu, malt,milk, tomatoes,and all that,it won't even help the red blood cells that was breaking down at higher rate because the underlying cause was never addressed.
My mother was scared, I haven't had blood transfusion in the last 10 years but this is me thanking God for sparing my life..

With God by my side, I'll keep winning this battle.

©️Kemi Oguntimehin
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:42am On Aug 16, 2020
hinere:
Why?
Coz I don't want such adverts on my thread.
I don't want people that read thinking that I'm working with any of you . This thread is meant to be neutral with no religious or affiliation with any organizations.

No such adverts henceforth.
Respect yourselves
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 9:52pm On Aug 08, 2020
Dear warriors, it's generally a cold season, you're responsible for your own wellbeing.
Do the following and keep safe wherever you are........
1. Eat small portion at a time to avoid constipation as digestion process will be slower
2. Eat foods and fruits rich in fiber and drink a lot of water especially warm water
3. Avoid anything cold, it may affect your immune system and allows internal fats to congeal around your body internal organs
4.if you have low hair cut please try to put on your cap, turban or something to cover up to avoid cold
5. If your floor is tiled please put on your socks. Don't walk bear footed. Mostly at night, put on the socks overnight
6.Please if you have the aged ones keep them warm as they are more vulnerable now
7. Please drink more citrus fruits like orange, Lime, lemon, and also pineapple. Add them to warm water to boost your immune system
8. You can as well take ginger tea , garlic tea, tumeric tea, moringa tea and please don't forget your Vitamin C ,( the white for the adult and orange for the children). Remember Vitamin D as well.
9. Don't STRESS yourself
10. Take your routine medications as prescribed (don't be like me)
11. Pray

Have a wonderful night rest.

Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 9:46pm On Aug 08, 2020
Israellionel:
Was Going Through The Health Section And I Saw This Thread.
I'm Not Sickle Celled But Y'all Are Heroes.
Seeing The Comments Here Makes Me Realize That Life Is What We Make It.

What Y'all Are Going Through Ain't Easy.

Y'all Call Yourselves Warriors Right?

You Are Indeed Warriors.

I Would Love To Talk To Some Of You Guys.
If You're Willing To Talk,
DM Your Number.

I Love You Guys.
Thank you @Israellionel for visiting this thread. Thank you for d encouraging worda, they really go a long way.
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 7:59pm On Aug 07, 2020
SICKLE CELL AND ADDICTION

Life struck again and I lost my dear mother March 2014 also due to sickle cell crisis. And this was the beginning of the end for me. When she died, her sister made a statement to me that I am now a man and men don’t cry. I braced up and bottled it all in because I am now a man. The dosages and the frequency of injecting skyrocketed. I started taking 30 vials of Pentazocine daily 6mls per shot. The frequency was five times a day.

https://punchng.com/sickle-cell-and-addiction/
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 10:41am On Jul 08, 2020
Please visit the link below to view this post by Makinde Titilayo titled Sickle Cell and unintentional bullying.

https://www.facebook.com/100003181743583/posts/3119009331548428/?app=fbl

Everyone bullys us ranging from
Doctors,nurses, friends, etc.

I remember a time when I got sick in school ,we were on clinical posting then , so I informed my class rep and clinical posting rep individually that I wasn't fine and needed to go home. They knew my condition so they asked me to go home that they'll inform d lecturer in charge on my behalf.
So I went home. Few days later , my reps called to tell me the lecturer insisted I must come back to school immediately if I didn't want to forfeit the upcoming psychiatric posting trip to Abeokuta.
I felt so threatened. So I got on d bus back to Osogbo, I cried during that trip but I made a friend too.
2 weeks later I fell seriously ill, was admitted to the school health centre and then the lecturer who threatened me came and said "Ha ,sorry, you should have stayed at home when you knew you weren't really fine"
I was so mad but I kept my cool.
She now said I should go home and take care of my self.
Chai.

This is one of the numerous bullying experiences I've had.

But we keep moving.
Never let bullies get the Best of you.
We're unique in our own way�
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2020
I may not know much about Sickle Cell Disease but I know enough to tell you that having the disease is a lifetime job. They tell you
-stay warm ,
-take your drugs
-don't stress yourself,
-avoid high altitudes,
-stay hydrated (@least 6L\day)
-avoid infections
-prevent Malaria
and then you have d guts and call me Lazy because I know my limit, you sure dunno what you're saying sir and ma

You dunno what it takes to be them and they didn't bring it upon themselves either.
The ignorance of a couple in love did it and they are bound to live with it for life.
So, love a sickle Cell warrior today.

I'm using this medium to encourage myself ,my warrior friends , my warrior patients and every wonderful caregiver. We see you❤️❤️
Keep Fighting Hard Flexed bicepsFlexed bicepsFlexed biceps
#sicklecellday
#SickleCellAwareness
#SickleCellDisease
#June19th
#WorldSickleCellDay
#knowyourgenotype
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 3:15pm On Jun 19, 2020
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaay������������������������
Its WORLD SICKLE CELL DAY!
We celebrate all warriors around the world.
We are warriors!
We are strong!
We are brave!
We are winners!
We are made to harvest the best of the earth!
.
.
.
.
.
#worldsicklecellday2020
#Iambecauseyouare
#ScdBill2020
#Notostigmatizationofwarriors
#goredforsicklecell
#wamirifoundation

Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 10:19am On Jun 11, 2020
Good morning Fam.
How was our night?
Please let's respond to d following questions . Please

*Question of the day*

��Have you ever been referred to as a sickler?
��Were you offended by it?
��How did you handle it?
��What's your take on the term "sickler"? Should people living with sickle cell be referred to as sicklers?
�If you're not a warrior, have you ever called someone a "sickler"? How did you think that made them feel?

Let's share our thoughts on this.
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 1:35pm On Jun 03, 2020
okpurukata:
Dear please drop your account details. I will be of a litte help
Good day sir..Since I Saw this message I've been trying to call Azeez all to no avail. Sent him texts too but no response. I sincerely hope he's doing fine. I'll let you know as soon as I can reach him
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:36am On May 30, 2020
watchindelta:
sickle cell trait
Having the trait doesn't mean you have the disease.
What Is Sickle Cell Trait?
Sickle cell trait (SCT) is not a disease, but having it means that a person has
inherited the sickle cell gene from one of his or her parents. People with SCT
usually do not have any of the symptoms of sickle cell disease (SCD) and live a
normal life.

0What Is Sickle Cell Disease?
SCD is a genetic condition that is present at birth. In SCD, the red blood cells
become hard and sticky and look like a C-shaped farm tool called a “sickle.” The
sickle cells die early, which causes a constant shortage of red blood cells. Also,
when they travel through small blood vessels, they get stuck and clog the blood
flow. This can cause pain and other serious problems. It is inherited when a child
receives two sickle cell genes—one from each parent.
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 9:46am On May 28, 2020
Q:when would you say that you had license to make decisions yourself??
A;I gained my independence @17,, when I went to LAUTECH to start predegree. Prior to this, my parents were really over protective. Truth is my mum even went with me sef. She helped me buy d necessary stuffs,followed me for registration ,, she stayed for almost a week before she left for Lagos. Decisions I made ranged from what to eat to what to wear to other important matters. I have learned and unlearned things,I'm grateful for d journey thusfar.

Q:Did you have problems with ur self esteem?A:Concerning self esteem, I wouldn't say I had low self-esteem,, I just felt inadequate, felt below my peers in material things (this didn't bother me much though) plus I was limping badly then and I looked like a 12 year old.. so I pretty much kept to my self but as a sanguine my true self came out sooner than I expected in d hostel n I made friends.
.
Q: what advice would u give to parents wo have warriors as kids?
A: Whether u let us discover ourselves or not, crises will occur noni.so why not allow us do the things we want, allow us play,do sporting activities etc. One advice u should give in these things is that they shouldn't push themselves too hard.. Don't depriveus of our childhood.
Teach them to be independent, explain the use of each drug they take ad give them a sense of responsibility. Give them tasks and let the take responsibility for it. Correct them when they make mistakes. Be a good Parent.

If u have any questions for me , please ask.
Enjoy ur day.
Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 9:28am On May 28, 2020
watchindelta:
what the difference between SCD vs SCT? I don test last year the doctor told me I have a SCT but I dnt sick!
Please whats do you mean by SCT? Stem cell transplant? Or what?
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:18am On May 23, 2020
May we all find peace.

#staysafe
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:29pm On Apr 26, 2020
�����


Recommedations from *Psychologists*.

*1*. Isolate yourself from news about the virus. (Everything we need to know, we already know).

*2*. Don't look out for death toll. It's not a cricket or football match to know the latest score. Avoid that.

*3*. Don't look for additional information on the Internet, it would weaken your mental state.

*4*.Avoid sending fatalistic messages. Some people don't have the same mental strength as you have.

*5*. If possible, preoccupy yourself with something productive. Spend your time creatively and fruitfully learning something new. Take some time for meditation and prayer.

*6*. Your positive mood will help you to protect your immune system, the negative thoughts only weaken your immune system.

*7* . Maintain friendships that inspire and uplift you. Social distancing is not social isolation.

*8* . Look after your physical health - exercise, eat healthy meals

*9* . Stay happy, play music, dance, call friends, do quizzes, laugh more, limit daytime nap to 30 mins, manage your emotions in these times. Limit your consumption of news about Covid. Watch comedies instead.

*10* ..Most importantly, firmly believe that we will be safe that we will overcome this. Only a few wouldn't and that is the truth.. Stay very positive.
Don't panic.

*Stay positive...Stay safe.*
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 8:34pm On Apr 07, 2020
*“I do not consider isolation having to stay at home with who I love.*

*Isolation is what the seriously ill are experiencing.*

Stop saying that you are bored, upset that you can't leave the house; while everyone in the hospital wants to go home.

So, thank God if you have to stay at home, because despite everything, with money or without money,
with a job or without a job, you are in the best place you could be, at home, surrounded by who loves you!

*Perhaps it is time to transform your house into a wonderful place to stay, a place of peace and not of war, of embrace and not of distance.*

Anyway, look with different eyes at the situation you are experiencing !!

*Make your house a party:* Listen to music, sing, dance ...

*Make your house a temple:* Pray, pray, meditate, ask, thank, praise, plead ...

*Make your home a school:* Read, write, draw, paint, study, learn, teach ...

*Make your house a store:* Clean, order, organize, decorate, label, move, sell, donate ...

*Make your house a restaurant:* cook, eat, try, create recipes, grow spices, plant a garden ...

Anyway ...
make your house, your family, a place of love.".

....................... ..
Saw d above post somewhere and thought it would be beneficial to us all .

For me,
I've been watching too much TV;mostly cartoons coz my sisters kid won't let us watch anything other than Disney Junior so now I know PJ masks,TOTS, Elena of Avalon, Bluey, Vampirina to mention a few.
I've also been listening to songs. Taking my time to download Brymo's latest album and a few selected songs.
And then coming to movies, I've been watching a lot of .but then I came across one today which people have been saying it's making them cry up-and-down that is, very emotional (title- miracle in cell No.7).if u haven't seen it please do. It's highly recommended..


As per reading, I haven't even brought out d books I brought home from my bag..
So tomorrow I'll start reading the book my book club picked for April. The title is "The Alchemist"

I'm also doing mummy duties for my sister's baby whenever she goes to work( she's a nurse too and I'm at her place). .

I intend to add some praying time to my daily schedule.
I also want to search for some online courses to do .

May God help me.

What are you doing during this lockdown?
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:31pm On Mar 17, 2020
speed99:
Beautiful You. You are strong. At times when answers don't come readily, turn to God.
Respect. positive energy.
God keeps me going.. and I pray never to loose my positive vibes. No room for depression.
Thanks for responding boss ��
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:33am On Mar 14, 2020
So I'm here listening to 9lives by Asa and I can't help but think maybe I've got more than one life. I've had numerous near death experiences and baby girl is still here, unshakable and strong and even crisis free .

I'm Grateful Lord.

Community clinical posting still ongoing (2 weeks left) and it's been great. I'm still learning and I'm getting better at being a Nurse.
Below is one of d pictures taken at one of d primary health care centers I've been in d past 4 weeks..

How are you doing today?
Have a great weekend...

Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 6:42pm On Feb 17, 2020
One of the toughest questions I've been asked which I have no honest answer to:

"How frequent do you have crisis?"

Honestly, you want to know? Okay, how do I explain this? Which ones should I count as crisis bayi?� Do I count all what is regarded as crisis (VOC, hemolytic, sequestration, aplastic)? How do one even know those ones?

Or do I count the one that comes with pain (VOC) which everyone regard to as crisis? And how do I even count all those ones? Do I count for every time I feel pain and I had to take a break, or the ones that requires me popping some doses of analgesics in my room? Or is it those that take me to the pharmacy that should be regarded as crisis? Abi I should just count the ones that take me to the hospital? Or the ones that saw me being rehydrated with drips as an outpatient? Okay, I guess I will just count the ones that got me admitted in the hospital and lasted days?�

Honestly, this is one technical question I still find difficult to answer because I lose count of the ones technically refer as VOC and redefine my own crisis per time. It's one of the questions in my research questionnaire that I knew I may not get an honest answer to. Personally I won't even give an honest answer to it, because I don't know. I like to regard just the crisis that got me admitted, and sometimes the ones that got me injected at the hospital as crisis. I lose count of every other ones, as they don't really matter?

Medical practitioners, when you ask the question, how frequent is your crisis, or when was your last crisis, what answer do you expect? Which ones (crisis) are you referring to?

Warriors, how do you respond to the question(s)? Which episodes do you count as crisis?☹️

© FAM
...................................................................
Stay healthy and have a great week.
Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 1:35am On Feb 13, 2020
I really don't have much to say these days,some say I've been withdrawn,I dunno, maybe it's true. The past 12 days haven't been what I expected, mood swings all day, one crises, tests,exams, unexpected expenses plus my lacrimal glands have been very active.
I know I'll be fine.
Just want you all to stay strong while I get back on track.

Please send hugs my way.
God bless you

Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op):
It's my Cake day today guys ������� And I'm using this medium to say thank you for reading and following.❤️


Say a word of prayer for me when you see this post.
Thank you very MUCH
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 1:49am On Jan 28, 2020
Tonight let's talk about Leg ulcer another ugly complication of SCD.
.................................................................
LEG ULCERS
Leg ulcers in patients with SCD are often described as punched out wounds with raised edges, necrotic debris within the wound, and sloughing surrounding the ulcerated area. They commonly have a yellowish biofilm and a significant amount of exudate.they are usually situated slightly above the ankle joint.
CAUSES
The exact cause of leg ulcers in SCD patients is unknown, and the causative mechanism is thought to be multifactorial.
Etiologic factors include the sickling of red blood cells in blood vessels, causing vaso-occlusion and impairing oxygen delivery to tissues; as well as the binding of hemolysis-freed hemoglobin to nitric oxide, deactivating it and subsequently resulting in vasoconstriction.

The two major challenges in leg ulcer management in patients with SCD are the prolonged course to recovery and the high recurrence rate of healed or grafted ulcers. Both these challenges are due to the fact that the therapies used, whether local wound care or surgical interventions, do not modify the pathophysiologic factors that have led to the occurrence of the leg ulcers, and the same factors are therefore at play causing the healed or grafted skin to ulcerate.
Another significant challenge to proper care of leg ulcer in patients with SCD is the significant pain associated with these lesions. The constant pain associated with these lesions, as well as the intolerability of dressing changes, makes wound care difficult and decreases patient compliance with wound care regimens.

MANAGEMENT

Therapies currently used for the management of leg ulcers in patients with SCD revolve around
-overall disease control: stay hydrated, eat nutritious meals,use treated mosquito net, taking routine drugs as prescribed and trying not to get infected..
-wound care and dressings:Patients are encouraged to keep ulcers clean, with proper cleansing of the wounds using soap and water, or normal saline solution.
Some topical Antibacterials, anti-inflammatory and some antibiotics can be prescribed..
Compression socks are also used
-debridement:serves to cleanse the wound of its necrotic, senescent cells, inflammatory, and bacterial loads.
-surgical management with skin grafts or flaps.
-Blood transfusions have also been traditionally used to alleviate sickle cell symptoms, including chronic nonhealing leg wounds, based on the premise that higher hemoglobin levels and subsequent better oxygenation should lead to better healing.
-Zinc is believed to have a role in wound healing.

Note:sickle cell leg ulcers are severe chronic and recurrent . No permanent cure has been found.
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 2:52pm On Jan 19, 2020
Happy Sunday Fam.

This year marks the beginning of my final year in school and I'm pretty excited about it. I wouldn't bore you yet with the details of my remaining and upcoming professional exams this year ..
Wait o , did I remember to tell you that your Baby girl is now a Registered Nurse,, I think I did grin grin..

The 31st of this beautiful month will also mark my 24th year on this planet.. Guys I won't lie to y'all, I feel one kain about d new age,,I feel like 24 is a big number and should I say I don't wanna grow old huh huh. .. I'm just scared about the whole thing jàre .
Please say something to allay my fears. What was 24 like for you? Where did you stand then and where do you stand now? Please share them with me.

I'm using this medium to promise you guys that I'm going to be more consistent with my post (at least 1post a week) this year. I dunno how I'm gonna do it but I trust God to help me go about it.

Wishing you a pleasant evening.

Peace ✌️✌️✌️✌️

(Don't forget to comment about the Age 24 thing ��)
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 12:16am On Jan 16, 2020
Late Night Post.
.
.
I'm back in Osogbo after the successful completion of the 6weeks midwifery posting in AMTH , ìbàdàn. The posting was an eye opener with regards to motherhood and the real life challenges that many families go through. And with what I've seen mothers go through in the labor room ,I don't think I have the heart and courage to birth a child natural (per vagina) so don't be surprised when you hear that I'll be opting for a ceasarian section.
I'm not saying this to scare y'all but a battle go on in that room. The battle a woman fights in ensuring she brings forth a life child with no abnormalities...

With regards to me ,I've had crisis for 3 consecutive nights since I got back which I find very unusual but I pass the blame on the stress of travelling back with all my bags and baggages..

Classes have also began and yeah, Final year feels good and I'm catching the vibes already..

Then a classmate pushed me out of a group pic simply because she doesn't want to snap with someone that doesn't have bumbum.. imagine,, how's that supposed to be my fault?as if I created myself... Yèyé somebori.

and catch the 1am sleep train.
Enjoy the rest of your week guys..

Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 11:25am On Jan 12, 2020
fairygeh:
The A lmighty God will have mercy on you.you shall have a pain free year by God's Grace
Amen o.. I pray the same prayer for all warriors all over the world.
Happy Sunday Fam.
Health › Re: Sickle Cell Disease - 6 Crisis In 5weeks. Please Help Why?? by Fhunkhy1(f): 2:50pm On Jan 01, 2020
@Thawarplay
Am also a warrior bro. Let's talk please chat me up. just want to know more about you ni o ,,m not selling you any drug o. Happy New year. I wish you a crisis free year ( I started d year with an episode already) na only God fit save us. I also have a thread here on NL. You'll find it in my profile.
Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 2:39pm On Jan 01, 2020
So I spent the last few minutes of 2019 and the early hours of 2020 learning that Man proposes and God disposes.
@10:30pm yesterday I stood up to prepare for d crossover service and then it hit me .
Pains.
Crisis .
Oh God Not today I begged.
Within few minutes the pains spread from my knees , to my back, to my chest.. .
Without saying anything to anybody,I dragged myself n picked up the necessary drugs, swallowed them in one gulp and waited for it to begins taking its therapeutic effects .
Within me I was still hoping that by 11pm I'll be fine and I'll still be able to go to church.
But no, pain increased(pain scale of cool,, but still assured everyone around that they could go ahead to church and that I'll meet them there soonest..

Then light came (phcn) , switched on TV, managed to smile through an episode of Henry Danger showing on Nickelodeon.

Still in pains ( pain scale of 5 now),I checked the time n it was 11:45pm , that's how I sha Did service with Pastor Adeboye by switching to �️ Dove television.

So in all my years of pain n crisis, it has never happened that I crossed over into the new year in pain, neither has it ever happened that I crossed over into the new year without my folks..

This isn't a Big deal right? I know but you know when you have everything planned out and something unexpected happens. It has made realize I can do nothing and to put All on God this new year.. I'm much better now and I'm grateful.

HAPPY New year Fam ��.
Cheers to a crisis free year ��
#Crisis
#SCD
#2020
#January1st
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 8:30am On Dec 18, 2019
I am not a warrior, but I know nobody likes to be ignored no matter how little.

How to react or control how you feel is solely dependent on who has ignored you. How you would handle an ignoring spouse is different from how you'll handle a friend, sister, colleague, etc

Then the level of the "ignoring" did they really ignore you? Or you are the one feeling you were ignored? It needs to be defined clearly. Why? Some people have character issues without knowing. They feel everyone owe them greetings or respect when life is naturally not like that. Some other person might not just be in the mood you expect or assume them to be in as life deals with everyone accordingly. #nobody is completely free from life's blows... There's always a vacuum(but) in everyones life that's why everyone needs Jesus(HolySpirit)...He helps you to cope with peoples excesses.

Now I think everyone needs to know this...
NOBODY IS IMPORTANT TILL YOU MAKE THEM IMPORTANT.

Importance is like a neck chain you have, only you have the power to choose who you wear it on, and when you feel they no longer deserve it, you politely take it off their neck and keep it.

HOW TO HANDLE BEING IGNORED

1. Don't internalize it when it happens... Don't allow yourself think that they treat you that way because you are a warrior ❌

2. Talk about it with the person if you can, if not, then let it go, don't beat yourself over it.

3. Carriage... Carry yourself in such a way that is hard for someone to ignore you. Am not implying you become proud o please don't get me wrong. Just try to talk when you are suppose to, don't jump into peoples lives uninvited, don't jump on a discussion you are not called into or you don't fit into..

3. Don't invade peoples privacy... Many people don't like it. Either life, emotions, homes, social media etc

4. Be sensitive... Study people you have around you. Everybody have likes and dislikes, some people would naturally ignore people who talk too much, or play too much, etc

5. Don't treat yourself less... You deserve to be treated right, so is everyone. Treat people well too. Dress well even with the little you have, smell well, etc

6. Be presentable... That you are a warrior doesn't mean you have to look a certain way. Don't feel the whole world should pity you cos you are a warrior, no it doesn't work that way.

7. Push, aspire, dream and work towards achieving your dreams and goals... Nobody ignores success.. Work on yourself till you become what you desire. I know its not easy but you must not stop pushing.

8. � always celebrate yourself... Nobody will love you if you don't show them how... Always pause and give yourself a pat in the back and tell yourself you are the best there is on earth. Many people don't know how to love up on themselves self, so how do you expect someone else to try?

Let me stop here � I was just move to say a little and now I have said alot� don't mind me jare. But hope what I said made sense abit? I didn't really know the situation on ground so I just randomly wrote on stuffs I think can help. I hope it helps someone sha.

Merry Christmas everyone. May this season bring you so much Joy that no ignoring can quench �

Message from @ Sarcoella fabrics
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 8:10pm On Dec 07, 2019
Okay o.
So I'm in IB at the moment for the clinical posting I told you about in Adeoyo. It would be one week that I got here tomorrow and I'm grateful for life and for a painless week.
There have been challenges though. The first one being the stress I go through by using the staircase multiple times a day even though I try as much as possible to limit my movements. The second being the stress I go through carrying buckets of water up the stairs daily for use.and Yes I carry Small buckets but I still find the activity stressful. The third being the fact that I stay alongside some colleagues from school(2 of them) And I so much love my privacy so it's kind of an issue for me plus other underlying issues.
Those are the pressing challenges I'm having at the moment...
Ps :Azeez if you can see this post please chat me up coz I'll love to meet you while I'm here in ìbàdàn.
.
.
.
And just in case you don't know guys, your humble girl right here Issa Bead maker and you can bet I'm so good at it( wink I'm not prouding o, na confam). You pipu should help me sell my market while am here .. call @abiola_onileke on 08143505458 for your exquisite beads.
.
.
.
Thanks for reading.
Peace ✌️✌️✌️♡
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 3:13pm On Nov 30, 2019
MessangerOfTrut:
I saw a movie titled 5 feet apart on cystic fibrosis (the white man version of SCD) few weeks ago it shook my perspective about life, I got the same feeling going through this thread. I love the optimism here, keep it alive. Hopefully someday the government will pay special attention to those living with SCD, please drink a lot of water and stay healthy. Enjoy.
Hello . Thanks for visiting the page and I've made a mental note to check out that movie ..
We hope to see more of you here
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2019
Good afternoon sad sad.


I've had a bad day so far. It started off with me purging till day break and then I slipped and fell when I eventually had the courage to get outta bed. I got bruises on my toes and they're swollen and so painful embarassed. And the most painful aftermath of the fall is that my phone screen cracked up real bad and it's breaking my heart sad..
Don't laugh at me o, if only you know the history behind the existence of the phone..and No,,, it's not an iPhone..

So I'm lying down here feeling very weak and bothered about how I'll pack my luggage.
Yeah it's another clinical posting and it's going to be at Ìbàdàn.. undecided for 6 weeks o.

Lemme goan summon courage to start packing up. TTYL.

Peace ✌️✌️✌️
Health › Re: LIVING With SCD(Sickle Cell Disease). by Fhunkhy1(op): 4:11pm On Nov 28, 2019
Hello friends.

I know I deserve all the tongue lashing I'm getting for keeping you waiting for a long time.
Ema binu simi ������. Somekept refreshing the page to see if there's a new post..
I also know that some were hoping and praying for me not to fall sick,,, your prayers kept me going .. while some took their time to call and chat me up,, kisses..

I'm so happy to have you guys,, you're awesome. grin

This is just to let you know that I'm back and better, and that y'all should look forward to new and exciting posts.

Peace ✌️✌️✌️

1 2 3 4 5 (of 5 pages)