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Guidette:

I only date people that are worth my time and energy. In a few mths i will be a doc at 24 yrs working in new york. It aint easy at all. So i kno wat i bring to the table apart frm my pussy. The only man who pays for my shit is my dad. Ive never stooped so low to live on handouts frm men. If i feel a man, struggling or not, has potential and is deserving of me, i will date him. My aim in life is to be independent and happy, not mooch off someone else.

So you do live by the said standards.. Good then...although quite a lot will argue that it's because you've got a capable dad @ bills 'et all...however we've seen OK parents whose kids thrive in decadence and the whole points listed in the very primary thread that got us quoting each other...

Wishing you the best on field @ medicine...I draw lines anywayz...#not strokes...if you can decode ....cheers

Atlantian:


You can decide how you respond to me, you have to rights to dictate how I respond to you. Free speech is universal unalienable right of all humans. I am conversant with Christ, and he was murdered 2015 years ago on charges of treasonable felony. His death bring forth Christianity, even though Christ wasnt a Christian. He was a jew and his religion was Judaism.

You said a man's gift to a woman "makes room" for him. What do you mean by "makes room" for him ? My understanding is that "the making of room" is the key to the love. So, without that gift, which is bought with cash or proceed of labour, no room could be made. I hardly pretend, which is the chief reason I am loved, and I have lived on this planet for many decades enough to know how life and love works.

You are a lady and I may be right when I say you are not promiscuous, but a man of my standing. I have been with more women than many folks. When I say, love expires except it is intermittently lubricated by cash, I really mean it. There is a limit to how long a woman can be with a man on the frequency of true love. When there is need for cash as a matter of life and death, the pants are down for a sincere giver and caring giver. It is forgivable. A man MUST make his bed or someone else will 'help him' make it.

In-depth knowledge depicted on the wings of realism...
#Not many people know Christ wasn't a Christian and the Jews only see him as a fellow brother of Judaism....Jews aren't Christians..and spirituality transcends religious bigotry/eccentricity....

Back to the subject...I do agree with you on your angle...however my emphasis is on the foolish prioritization of looks as the exchange card between a successful man and a woman to be kept....the folly is so deep rooted in this generation well birthed by the subconscious manipulations of media elements;a tributary of the very art of sociological interplay of merchant/ manufactures shots calling from time memorial. (looking from the top down). With economic twists and turns finely laid on the fueling of overproduction to aid overconsumption thus, a twist on individual value systems based on whetted appetites driven into the minds of the populace subconsciously via elements such as media, psyco-analytical formulaes, e.t.c. This is whole orientation is a down down resultant of a well laid out sysytem which has leached and grown on the very core and essence of civilization itself. These manipulations cannot be changed from this minute element all the way up.

But then... In this pit of emotional madness,

Men need to learn that beauty is not enough exchange for success sharing with a woman for wife status..the wings of this ideology needs to be choped off...unfortunately only the wise will pick it up.

Yes money does oil the relationship but I won't keep you if all you know how, is to consume..neither will your beauty be a motivator for success... It takes a higher level of consciousness and vibration to be above the whole chaos and shallow obsession..

Am just saying we can't change the fact...but we sure can sow a seed that advances the subject towards reasonable end.

Guidette:

2 thumbs up. If u think women only care abt money, what abt the ladies that stay with broke men while they r still struggling? Ultimately it is about wat u r attracted to. Most men love flashy women who literally have nothing to bring to the table except their rotten pussies. If you want a woman who will stick to u forever, then she has to have substance. Even after men make money and have all the women they want, if the well dries up, they will all leave and u are back to square one.
Men! Shine ur eyes. Not everything that glitters is gold

Coming from a lady...am quite impressed...but do you live by these standards? ....or you do that common method.....keep the broke guy, hangout with all the rich guys, clubbn, and even sex hidden under the umbrella of mistake ,..#bruising the ego of the coming up guy like he ain't a man cause his own ish hasn't clicked yet...

But if you do live by the above standard you depicted then kudos girl...however your types better start speaking up more cause the rotten bunch have tarnished the image of the female folks o ....y'all better start representing...and come out of hiding...lol

sydraay:
I know nairaland will put 'silly'. That silly is a six letter word that starts with S and ends with id.

Posted on www.edondo.com/2015/08/girls-that-have-insatiable-desire-for-money-and-come-from-poor-homes-are-just-plain-stupid

Yes humanity is insatiable. People just want 'EVERYTHING'. I don't want to go into that.

This is why I'm posting.

Why should a poor dirty girl from the dirtiest of gutters, make this statement " I can't date a guy that doesn't own a car"

And ur papa no get beetle. No seriously she made the statement and I did some digging, her dad who should be in his late 50's, do not own a car. I am not insulting the man oh, but nah the stupid child I get problem with.

Pls tell her you'll pick her up the day her father buys his first car.lol

firstEVA:
LMAO @ the embolden

My only problem with men who want women to bring something to the table finance wise, is when it comes to playing the boss, dishing out instructions and orders, they want to be solely in charge of that, they aren't ready to compromise on that.

That's a totally different subject/case....a control freak will boss and subdue his woman whether or not she brings anything to the table...the gravity and "cockyness" about it may vary a bit depending on the earning power of the lady...totally different subject I repeat

firstEVA:
women are not built for stress, she deserves to marry a well to do man (is she finds)

Here comes firstEVA... .....
If I may ask.....so do men deserve to marry liabilities in this modern economy?....or does "trophy wife" really cut it...can't women see that you can buy all the satisfaction a beautiful woman can give you at a finger snap these days? ....if she can't bring more to the table....what's the point...

#she can't build with me cause she's not built for stress

#she can't also bring finance on board..cause she's not built for stress.

#but she can spend and place orders cause she looks good and is a lady..shay?

#NEWS FLASH:
I can buy all that beauty can offer why keep her? ....
And if its the promiscuous kindda he...he can buy plenty beauties....why keep one?

FirstEVA....don't encourage all these Nawti girls jwo....when I know all that you brought on board for captainswag..besides looks.

sammied:




Bros... You've said it all. Any gal who cannot help stay and lift a struggling guy does not deserve a 'rich' guy. Only if she's also 'rich'.

Men should drop this idea of making money just to impress a woman. It's just animalistic. It wasn't so in days past. It's destroying the society. I was privileged to carry out my NYSC in a village. Poor men still marry very beautiful, well character women.
The value of a man does not consist on the material things he has.

A woman who wants a rich guy must also be rich. Men should insist on that.

Woe unto the man who spends his time working hard,making money and adding value to his life for the sole purpose of impressing a woman.

Thank God. Daily God is blessing our hard work. God forbid I spend my money on a woman who's only interested in that.

A word is enough for the wise.

You totally get the drift

youmour:




Both you and the OP made great points,im just wondering why you got less likes,clearly some NL women liked the OP's contribution more

Lol.'em ladies dont like the sense freely added to more male folks via the post... ....we don't owe dem Jack..... If you want me to put you on a phantom at least drive a Benz on your own first... Lol .....don't be trekking with your father and mother and then be "cross-leggingly" dishing out wishes to be met ..all because you can apply make up well, and you have curves....#THEY ALL WILL FALL.. Besides we can buy that.exclusively...so why keep her?..

naijaboiy:

You deserve a medal.

Raalsalghul:
When I first saw your comment, I thought it was a counter to the Op's thread, but in reality you've just taken the thread further and added things the Op missed. Good one!

Exactly....it's good we all begin to see beyond these pranks.....commitments, love, companionship,and all similar affections between partners must transcend this tactical vain manipulations by a cunny bunch all in the name of feminism...or let me put it lay....." Oh I'm a chick" does not give you the master key to my head and hrt for ludo games...lol.....me sef fit play chess accross boarders sef

doskie:

I endorse you as the father of internet this week.

I struggled believe me. more emotionally than physically. I had not a single female friend in school. I couldnt wear good clothes. infact I know some girls who used to pass me on the road then without even saying hi ao encouraging me to interact with them by their countenance. last month when I was praying. I wanted to thank God for how my life turned out within a year after service. I found no words to speak. I broke down in tears.
now one bitchh in my compound some days ago was fearlessly toasting me?? I wasnt responding. then she told me im boring.
I was like. ... wtf! why dyou think im under any obligation to entertain you. I dont want to have girls around me. I love kids. I just want to build a school and impact on humanity. no time for broke bittches any longer.

Got a title too ...nice ....
The female decadence and manipulations on the subject of love has gotten really disgusting. Furthermore is the baseless assumption that all must revolve around them...like they calling shots on things that ain't even their rights in the first place.......all because you wanna share a life with me...a life that I will put efforts and time for us into o ....#total nonsense

dopeJemi:



Somebody give this man a MEDAL!!!

Yaaay..thanks for the medal ....i just couldn't hold back at the myopic representation of love and naivity that these girls thrive on

Captainswag225:
hahaha yes my bro in law,,, i will take great care of her... She did her best but them cowards didnt lift my ban. Anyway, u got no p after eva,,, she is in safe hands.

Good to know she's safe in the hands of a captain..

Lastruct:
Can I fly this car with 1.4m, cash n carry. serious buyer

Habba!..no sir
Up your bid