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sherryshitt:
Awww, u'd make a good hubby if u ain't one already

Not one yet..but will definitely cherish my woman...'all day errday"..from youth days to the days of fallen boobies (conditional though cause If you take care of your woman...trust me they age gracefully and get better like fine-wine)...because, At the end companionship in truth and love is all that really matters....small boiz learn it a little too late

Captainswag225:
finditng, love professor.

I see firstEVA got you out ....what a gem you've got...lol

Make sure she's well taken care of..else...."got my eyes watching"..."swag go commot" for your captainhood o..lol

Rapmoney:
Ignore this post if you are too lazy to read, please!!!

In life, there are two types of people as regards human reasoning; the idealist and the realist. People who hold idealist view of life see events that happen around them as 'how things ought to be but are not' while people who hold realist view of life see events that happen around them as 'real facts or occurences' and should be accepted without pretending as if we didn't know that this is how things truly are!!!

With deep thoughts, I write this post. I am not afraid to face criticism; neither am I afraid to express my thoughts. I am a realist. I believe that events that happen around us as humans are real!!! Often times, things 'ought to be' in a particular way but in reality, they are not; so it becomes necessary to accept bitter and painful facts! Especially, when they are real!!!

We live in a material world and whether you like it or not, material things play a lot of important roles in our everyday life. As a struggling guy, loving only one girl whole-heartedly might end up leaving you with numerous emotional scars! . This is due to the high level of emotional pressure you would put in the relationship and the possible outcome of getting dumped, especially, when you don't have the resources to spice up the relationship. A struggling guy with low funds would find it difficult to spice up his relationship even when he has the intention to do that . In order not to lose the girl, he might start being too protective/desparate and pester the girl with phone calls, texts messages and numerous 'I love you's' in order to be assured that he is still loved! Common!!! That's trash! Are you begging to be loved? After displaying all these, she would dispise you and might even dump you because the truth remains the same...relationships without trips, surprises and outings are as boring as hell!!! Pretend at your own risk!!! . If truth be told, all young ladies want the good things in life, even those that put up what I call 'social media good face'. You cannot obtain total loyalty from a girl when you are lacking! Don't make the mistake of trying to force her to be loyal; you cannot!!!

Women, sometimes need to feel jealous that their man could be taken anytime by another woman. This can put them back on track when they 'backslide' romantically...but this can only be made easy when you have the resources. She knows fully well that ladies will not flock around you if she leaves you today or tomorrow. Don't love just one lady if you are still on 'struggling mode' . The love pressure you would mount on the relationship might make her get fed up quickly with you and eventually get your ass dumped painfully! Again, I am a realist and I am telling you that sooner than later, your ass will be dumped if you don't have the resources to 'oil' the machines of relationships!

As a struggling guy, you should buckle or lace your shoes and tighten your belt very well. You must set your priorities right. There is what economists call 'scale of preference'. What is on top of your scale of preference? Is it your education or career? Or is it trying to please a girl with your meagre earnings all in the name of seeing her pleased with you? Do you want to waste your youthful years trying to please a girl that might end up being married by another dude, who was probably hussling seriously, while you were doing your usual lovey-lovey? Book of Ecclesiastes says 'Money answereth all things'. Take note, 'all things' and not 'some things' . Take the pains now and strive to be comfortable and you will avoid the painful experience of trying to please a girl!!! The love between a man and a woman is not AGAPE LOVE, let us stop deceiving ourselves!!! It is not the type of love described in the Synoptic Gospels and in the Epistles of Apostle Paul...it is called EROS and it costs something!!! Yes, the eros love goes for something; it doesn't come with nothing and that's the bitter truth we all need to accept

Good morning everyone!

Realistic post indeed...but let me pitch up this simple inverse to your post which you all similar writers, tend to forget...:

Cool...get money...keep your woman happy ....bla bla bla...now here's the turn...who the hell says the objective after making the money should be to please that woman?...why do women have to just slide in with love at that time...who says you as a guy, can't then decide...IF YOU DONT HAVE MY KIND OF MONEY, BOUNCE!..raise your standards boiz and stop giving these girls handouts....I have always said it....its OK when down as a guy..keep up the struggle...but if your woman don't stay...no wahala..but please, when made don't buy that bullshit love yarns if they ain't got your kind of money or a father that can give them same...simple....

Let's see which gender will weep last last ...
Girls be scamming boiz with looks and surprisingly, they are all dying to become acceptable by these bunch of greedy, lazy, unambitious ladies....lol....

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE......upgrade your reasoning men!...
Don't let women toy with you via the "bought" presentation of love...because, really it is BOUGHT when you are made and a broke babe becomes faithful.....
bid higher...get one with similar status and not just looks....now let's see where all these hungry girls who demand things that their fathers can't afford them will run to... .....
unfortunately they constitute about 80% of the female population...

Small evidence: boiz already zoning into Angola, Zimbabwe, mauritius, e.t.c to marry.....lol
the volume of mixed breeds the next generation will have ehn ....it might be only village boys that will produce the majority of next pure nigerians..lol

SexyStrawberry:
OP Plz don't take offence u hear? its called lining not laden, and to be frank with u, its too short for the skirt, and for ur punishment, it's a punishment meted out on u, not melted out on u. Its rejoicing not rejoying .
Depending on ur place of work and ur position, some dress codes are inappropriate.
Lastly, in every organization, one person MUST hate u for no just cause.
Deal with it.

Couldn't you simply ignore the typo errors?..she probably hurriedly posted the entire text.. Go easy on her...its been a "funny" day for her...must you add some trash to it?...you lucky she's not my wife...would have e-smacked you..

firstEVA:
hahahaha, if you are banned unjustly and I get to know, I will do it for you too.

Hahahahaha!....#polyandry mode activated?...lol...I can't play the role of husband 2 o ...na just friendship love ......firstEVA....happy campaigning for your hubby

talk2odim:
you have gone down on pricing?

You like? ...noticed it was 1.62 and 1.6 on the other...20k ain't gonna kill a deal na...so..1.6

firstEVA:
Captainswag225 was banned yesterday night by Farano from Dating and Meet up Zone till November 26th 2015. There is no justification for his ban, he was falsely accused and needed to defend himself.

Farano, this is what happened, thesonofmark posted a facebook link directing everyone to the profile of a young teenage Ghanian and claimed it's captainswag225 https://www.nairaland.com/2144338/chat-central-derailers-paradise-welcome/1921#37097661, while thesonofmark also known as Nigerianium was banned till 11th November, https://www.nairaland.com/2144338/chat-central-derailers-paradise-welcome/1928#37102709 Captainswag225 was given a longer ban.

Invasion of privacy is against Rule 10 of Nairaland, it's even worse when a person is alluded to be who he is not.

I urge the moderators to revisit the ban on captainswag225 for the sake of justice.

CC seun and farano.

#singing.......this love is unbreakable..... It's unmistakable..... Chai....my firstEVA has eaten full dose of "efo" ....I'm so getting you a lawyer ...

firstEVA:
I can help him fall in love with a "woman" I am already in love with captainswag225.

Damn....that dude nailed you eventually?...#shocker!....
Persistence of the highest order...

yaay

ahsekeena:
I'm sure that's a kennel. Men & dogs, no difference

Meanie.....so you gonna marry a dog some day?..c'mmon....still some cool men out there....easy "girl wf the big back "drama...lol

Sunday rest

Yeah yeah

Tgif

First payment secures car....keep d calls coming...thanks

OKEMKPI:
5years old car

Used in usa/canada

Used in Nigeria

Mileage still 33,000

Still trying to balance this equation

Somebody help me

Use your head...think more

Back to buiz..keep the calls coming...first payment secures the car..cheers

Carbaby007:
It's only children that Display Such act of brag, u have 200k to waste and u want to sell your car for 1.6m I have seen you that is Baba olowo...It has shown that you can't handle Little taunts you can't even defend yourself till Showing your Engine, you are already getting pissed and Bragging ...Grow Up.

Dude found another route.....lol...
you all of a sudden cautious and polite.....#really interesting...
The things value query does.....
Queried you on two subjects: integrity and finance... And the polite you came alive hiding under the umbrella of taunts....
Mehn go to sleep....
#last you gonna see from me
Mtschewww
#brokearse...philosphyzing...


BTW, focus on selling your dead truck first... Habba..know your mates na..
..

firstEVA:
hahahahahahhaha

The captain just launched missiles my way ....cool him off with a peck biko....E-PECK ONLY .....lol

firstEVA:
finditng long time. Hahahahahahahahahaha. Who are you referring to? That's me and I know I'm sexy like that

Lol....that can't be you....besides...captain swag is taking too long on the subject matter...#too much talk... I just might come scoop you away...lmao.....

Hw would like to ex Mr long talking captain...flight, cruise or plain vanish mode.....

#teasing

Captainswag225:
hahahaha offcourse, what kills me most abt u is ur pear shape.

Just marry her already...you just so obsessed with her...put a face to the pseudonym already...lol...perhaps you two might make a great couple.....

Now firstEVA is gonna come for my head...#runsaway

firstEVA:
i'm sexy and u know it

Lmao....firstEVA darling.....

Don't be shocked when she gets married

kayjasper:
Haba, for a man, you sabi yab oooo.... Lol.


But seriously, since you already proved its a 2010, you could have just overlooked and move on instead of using all this derogatory words and abuse.

Don't mine me jare...I was really disgusted... Integrity is everything in life....if he yabed me..I would have probably ignored... But an attack on integrity is just too key..some calls came through really referring to his post.. I had to say extra 2sentences of assurance and guarantee....well...after d last post on money,.his types normally flee...lol....that's the only language they understand...

#back to back..... He won't answer again

Nawti playful side of me on this thread...lol

Carbaby007:
You just trying to make fun and rendering insults out of nothing...probably you just feeling sad somebody exposed your car's actual year...Don't scam buyers Tell them the truth, who likes your car would buy is not buy it being 2010.
Happy Sales once again.

Lol....gerrarahia..........

Let's make this a bit worthwhile......200k....we pick a neutral nairalander.....I drive d car to a rendezvous......same pics and all....and I open the bonnet for you....if you find the 010 engine in it, your 200k is mine...if otherwise you have my 200k...now put your money where your mouth is......

Don't run o....#brokefool....

I await your response.......

Lemme make some change asap....




He will claim out of Lagos now o.........#brokebunch

Carbaby007:
You just trying to make fun and rendering insults out of nothing...probably you just feeling sad somebody exposed your car's actual year...Don't scam buyers Tell them the truth, who likes your car would buy is not buy it being 2010.
Happy Sales once again.

Lol....gerrarahia..........

Let's make this a bit worthwhile......200k....we pick a neutral nairalander.....I drive d car to a rendezvous......same pics and all....and I open the bonnet for you....if you find the 010 engine in it, your 200k is mine...if otherwise you have my 200k...now put your money where your mouth is......

Don't run o....#brokefool....

I await your response.......

Lemme make some change asap....

Yupee