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lynpetra: Mine is 23

Lynpetra is my birthday mate! yay! Feb 23!

OP, to be candid, this seems more of a personality thing. You must have noticed this behavior before you married your husband. It sounds like he doesn't forgive easily and likes to hold a grudge. He also fights dirty because he knows how much it will hurt to ignore your food. I can bet he always like to be right too (with either men or women!). I know men like this! Huge ego and control issues! You are already in this marriage. Your task now is to try to mitigate your situation (as much as humanly possible). If you love him, then you will have to learn new ways to massage his ego, don't do what he has said he doesn't like - especially not in his presence. This is under the assumption that he is normally good to you when there is no untoward situation. Otherwise, You cannot live your life on eggshells. Make sure you are happy.