₦airaland Forum

Cj4charles:
not recognised by any other nation except you and your government

HgAkpobomeEr:
Bandits are terrorists. IPoB are freedom fighters.

Hedonisco:
The "certain level in life" this ugly BAT has reached, is it up to Donald Trump's own? How many foreign vacations and useless travels has Trump done since he first became president?

You primitive, backward Nigerians make me nauseous with the way you deodorize and normalize ridiculousness.

Oyinbogyal:
The difference is

1. She does not want him if she dates other people that’s not his business because she is seperated from him and does not want him back.

2. He is the one who wants her back, he doesn’t need to disclose who he dated because they are temporary but he absolutely MUST disclose a child, it is not optional because a child permanent and life changing even financially changing.

3. How can you even compare the two Did I not just say that she does not want him??

Oyinbogyal:
Saying “he didn’t owe her the information because they were not together” doesn’t make sense.

When you are asking someone to consider a relationship, you owe them information that you know would affect their decision.

Let me give a simple example about deception:

Imagine a man who is gay decides to dress like a woman and goes to meet another man who is only interested in women and not interested in men.

The gay man knows that if he says the truth at the start — “I am actually a man” — the other man would likely say no and walk away.

So instead, he says nothing and thinks:

“We are not together yet, so I don’t owe him that information.”

Is that honesty?
Or is that deceit?

The only reason the truth is hidden is because it would change the other person’s decision.

If disclosure truly didn’t matter, it would be easy to say it at the beginning.

This is the same principle here.

My father was asking my mother to forgive him and consider reconciliation while hiding a fact he knew would make her refuse.

He hid it not because it was irrelevant, but because it would end the conversation.

That is deception — whether people are together or not.

TrippleEEEs:
Shu.t your mouth you mortal fellow. How is he different from you? Or you think titles count before God? Are you without sin?

Folks like you are quick to spot a tiny speck in the eyes of others when you have a log on yours. At least he has shown remorse in public and hopefully in his closet before God.

Enough of the criticism as of you're a saint!

Oyinbogyal:
My mother never took him back.
This is about what I believe he was planning to do if she ever did forgive him in the future.

For years, my father was asking my mother to reconcile and resume the marriage while hiding the fact that he had another child.

What I believe he was planning is this:

If, at some point, my mother had forgiven him and allowed him to move back into the home as her husband, he would have secured his place in the house first.

In Europe, once a married spouse moves back into the home, it is very difficult to remove them again unless there is clear legal proof of abuse or another serious incident.

After moving back in, he could then reveal that he had a child all along.

At that point:
• my mother would obviously be angry
• she would likely say she no longer wanted to be with him

But because he would not be physically abusing her, there would be no immediate legal grounds to remove him from the home without a long court process.

So even if she emotionally rejected him, she would be legally and practically stuck dealing with him inside the marriage and the home.

That is why I believe the truth was hidden:
• not because of sex
• not because of culture
• but because revealing it earlier would have prevented reconciliation entirely

This is about withholding critical information to influence consent and control outcomes, not about polygamy.

Even in cultures where polygamy exists, people are told the truth before decisions are made.
Here, the truth was hidden on purpose.


Is this nollywood? He wanted to willingly deceit my mother into taking him back to the house so he can then reveal he had a child and effectively trapping my mother into a marriage

Hhh4444:
Una still dey go church?

Smh

Biafman:
Do you have problem if its about Biafra? Can you force the English, Germans and the French to share a one almighty united country and live in peace an harmony?
Why did the Europeans live in seperate ethnic countries and are forcing you to live in an illusion united countries in Africa, and you as an African can't open your brain and see through theur deceit? What then is your brain for? Are you blinded by the oil and gas of Biafrans to be rooting for a lifetime violence ridden and chaotic country in the name of one nigeria?

Biafman:
It's not about only writing about it, I have always known that it's the only way to peace in that region, and just as we are waiting for Israel to recognize Biafra, they did it for Somaliland and should be applauded. It is the right thing to do, and what a time it was finally done after 3 decades. So, we the peace seeking people of the world are in 100% full support. Do you have problem with that?

Biafman:
The recognition by Israel happened just yesterday and I wrote about it about an hour ago, so whats's your problem? There are still people who are going to write about it tomorrow and in 100 years to come people will still be writing about it. Do you have problem with that?

Biafman:
Why are you angry and against peace in Africa? Fact is that Somaliland is here to stay as an independent country and there is nothing you, the useless AU, or anyone else can do about it. Independence recognition of Somaliland by USA, UK, France, Italy, Germany and others soon to follow.
Once all the super powers recognizes Somaliland independence, then all the small and irrelevant countries like nigeria will be forced to follow suit. Game over for Somalia. There must be peace in Africa.

HacheNoire:
Why are you lots always throwing the Muslim card! I just don’t get it!

You think everyone is mentally conquered like your lots who believe a man died for him in the Middle East?

Do you have a TV? So your TV shows you that anyone pro Palestine is a Muslim?

Hello! I am a deep rooted African! Proud of my culture and identity. I detest terrorism, genocide, cheating, robbery or any other ill you can think off. It does not make me a Muslim, Christian or Hindu!

bro4u:
I believe UsA,, our Nigerian government lie alot

Abufo:
bloody boko bandits.......dis fool thinks USA does not know the true sponsors of jihadi terror! All of you will end up stiff or in jail sooner than later! see the mumu that served with Buhari the patron of boko haram calling Kanu a terrorist! I blame the foolish lagos press that gave you savages cover! ndi ala

Streetinvestor2:
let me equally tell u something for free.SW president will never see more than 10k votes in SE
And don't come with the rubbish that SE votes is useless. The SW votes are more worthless in last election

Nonsoco80:
Pain what? Oga, go warm eba eat.

Nonsoco80:
We know your type, online billionaire. Poor thing

sooperrescue:
There was one official who told the king in the Bible that food will not be available even after a prophet said that there will be food ànd it will come to pass. The prophet told the man that there will surely be food tomorrow but that man will not eat from it. God rules in the affairs of men and he gives power to anyone he chooses. Beware

Nonsoco80:
Just as you will never make it in this life. Just mark it.