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I'm more concerned about these bad acts:

Who is taking the picture.
Why are the people around not stopping her from undressing.
Why does the OP feel this picture is required for public viewing.

Why no one in all the religious people of Nigeria is trying to help.

Its not bad if someone makes you mad. Its the people that cannot cover your unclothedness you should be afraid of.

In another news similar to this, a good man quickly covered her up.
Read:
https://www.nairaland.com/3658654/see-what-man-spotted-doing

Politicians are like this.

Our political leaders should make Nigeria a placing worth living in.

Be happy !

See the guy face.

There is nothing wrong with this.

What !
May her sanity be restored.

https://www.nairaland.com/2913203/herbal-tea-secrete-fathers-used-in-bed

What’s in a kiss?


According to scientists, a kiss is much more than just a way of saying you fancy someone. It’s an efficient means of working out if your potential partner is the one for you. In her book: The science of kissing, Sheril Kirshenbaum explains: “When we’re that close to another person, all our senses are engaged, allowing our bodies to assess compatibility and the potential for long-term relationship.” This behaviour, she says, evolved to help humans fulfil three basic needs—sex drive, romantic love and attachment.

She continues: In other words, kissing helps us find partners, commit to one person and keep couples together long enough to have a child. How does locking lips help us do all that? When you kiss, you can’t help smelling the other person.

And biologists have found that women are more turned on by the smell of men who have very different immune systems from their own. This may be because potential children would have a higher level of genetic diversity, making them healthier and more likely to survive. In this manner, kissing serves as nature’s ultimate litmus test to help us determine when to pursue a relationship.”

And once we find our perfect genetic mate, our bodies respond instinctively to his kiss by flooding our systems with feel-good hormones. A good romantic kiss quickens our pulse and dilates our pupils,” she says, “which is probably part of the reason so many of us close our eyes.

Our brains receive more oxygen than normal and breathing can become irregular and deepen. Our cheeks flush too but that’s only the beginning. There is an associated rise in the neurotransmitter dopamine, responsible for craving and desire. Oxytocin, popularly called the love hormone is involved in bonding,

fostering a sense attachment. This is the chemical likely responsible for maintaining a loving relationship over years and decades.”

More men than women said they preferred kissing their partners with open mouths, and using their tongues. There’s even a good reason for that. Male saliva contains testosterone so it could affect how attractive the kissers find each other.






Source:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/docile-wives-turn-gold-digging-monsters/

How ‘docile’ wives turn into gold-digging monsters

ON MARCH 17, 2017


By Bunmi Sofola

A worrying trend is currently being taken to a dangerous proportion. To some people, the law of survival is: ‘Do unto others before they do you.’ In the last few decades, some calculating wives had schemed their husbands out of their matrimonial homes, a reversal of what is supposed to be the norm in the African society. The calculating way they went about this was chilling, to say the least.

Remember the era of the “photo’ wives? A man who’d put his nose to the grind, so to speak, realised he was now comfortable enough to look after a wife. None of the salad-eating foreign women would fit the bill, so he sent words to his relations at home to start hunting for a suitable village girl.

His ecstatic parents would then go round the village collecting photographs of women of marriageable quality, and send to their son. He made a choice and in time, a starry-eyed bride-to-be, who scarcely knew how to pull the toilet chain, was sent down. Some became baby machines and were rewarded with sandwich courses like needlework or domestic science just when the family was ready to come back home.

In the last few decades however, some of the wives had managed to talk their husbands into sending them to the universities to train as professionals. There, they mingled with other enlightened women and learnt a lot of things amongst which is the western law that stated that if a marriage broke, it was the wife that had the last laugh especially where kids were involved.

According to such laws, the children are owed a duty of care’ by their parents until they’re 16 at least. Their welfare came first—it still does—and the mother is recognised by law to be more competent than the father to provide this duty of care.

The husband is advised to pack his bags and move out of a home he’d built over the years into a dingy hotel, whilst the couple’s lawyers battle to get the most out of a bad situation. The wife would then stay in the family house with the kids and try to price as much maintenance money as she could from her estranged husband.

Naturally, the poor husband became murderous, but he couldn’t do anything or he would be clamped in jail. Now the worm has turned and the husbands are fighting back to protect what they’d sweat to amass before their gold-digger of a wife came on the scene. It is no longer strange to find a husband in the clutches of a scheming wife kill such wife, pleading it was a crime of passion or feigning temporary insanity. Again, the Western law

is a bit lenient on cases of murder that are not premeditated. It is called manslaughter instead. A crime of passion. The accused gets a jail term that is far from the life sentence reserved for murderers if he readily pleads guilty to manslaughter without wasting the court’s time or the state’s money on prosecution. He then serves half of say a ID-year term before he’s let off on good behaviour. He would then be free to pick up the pieces of his life from where he stopped—property and children restored!

“It is a sad development but what can one do,” sighed Dominic as we discussed the trend recently. A friend of his had just landed a jail term for killing his wife. “As soon as the wife finished at the university,” said Dominic, ‘she landed a mouth-watering job and her husband watched, alarmed as she changed from the obedient village wife he married to a sophisticated wife who warned her husband to pull up his socks and do as much house work as she did.

She went out to parties, expecting her husband to baby sit. They’d fight a few times and he’d beaten her up once or twice only for her to run to the police. The poor husband had even spent a few times in police cell for domestic violence.

“He was no longer in control of his home and was not ready to come back to Nigeria. So he planned for his wife to be caught ‘red handed’ having an affair, had a hot argument with her and strangled her. He then phoned for the police, sounding incoherent, his eyes wild as if he was possessed.

When he was finally tried, the number of times the police had intervened in the domestic violence in the family stood in his favour. He was a man going through a turbulent marriage. He got eight years for manslaughter. The authorities were relieved the kids would be properly looked after by me. My wife knew what was going on and was happy to help.

“Now that I’m back home, I’ve noticed another worrying trend—a lot of the women from my state are getting married to men outside the state. I was told that it’s because the inheritance law in our village is so stringent that widows are not only treated badly by their in-laws, by the time they came out of their long mourning period, after they lost their husbands, their family property would have been looted. The poor women are then left to fend for their children, no matter how many there are. Take my home-town for

instance, if the head of the house dies, the first son, no matter how incompetent he is, takes over as head of the family. His siblings have to tow his line or they get nothing. This leaves a lot of animosity amongst siblings especially where there are two or more wives.

“So do you blame the women for looking after themselves? Now we have strange family names creeping into the village with very few of them bothering to put down any roots. I guess it’s to each their own really. All I know is that the more enlightened the society, the more victims will look for ways to circumvent some of our societal greed…

The fowl that lays the egg should be well fed.
The VP has spoken well.

"He added that the Buhari presidency is therefore working on how to make a positive and long-lasting impact in the region in a way that transforms the lives of the people from the “treasure trove of Nigeria.” The Vice President then added that the FG will welcome the partnership and support of the western countries in that effort."

Niger Delta people deserve a better deal: Osinbajo

On MARCH 17, 2017

Nigerians in the Niger Delta deserve a fair deal, according to the Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, SAN, who outlined the vision of the Buhari administration and why it would depart from past leadership and governance failures in the region.

Prof. Osinbajo said President Muhammadu Buhari is now advocating a New Vision for the people of the Niger Delta.

The vice-president who went on several trouble-shooting missions to the Niger Delta spoke today at the Presidential Villa while chairing an inter-ministerial follow-up meeting with relevant government ministries, departments and agencies involved in the Niger Delta.

“The President believes the people of the Niger Delta deserve justice, and for me also it is a very important point,” the Vice President stated adding that the state of the region and the suffering of the people does not reflect the fact that “it is the resource base of the country.”

“In spite of the past leadership failure, the Niger Delta people deserved a fair deal,” Osinbajo added.

The Vice President told the inter-ministerial team that includes ministers and others MDA heads that the meeting is to ensure that “we are faithful to the promises and the spirit of the presidential engagements with the people of the Niger Delta.”

In attendance at the meeting were the Niger Delta Affairs Minister, Pastor Usani Uguru Usani, Petroleum Resources Minister of State, Dr. Ibe Kachikwu and the Environment Minister of State, Alhaji Ibrahim Jubril. Others include the Presidential Adviser on Amnesty Programme Major-General Paul Boroh, and the Managing Director of the Niger Delta Development Commission, NDDC, Mr. Nsima U. Ekere.

All the ministers and officials made presentations about the next steps in the process, especially on how to effectively meet the commitments and deliver the promises made by the Federal Government during the interactive engagement tours led by the Vice President.

In his presentation the Minister of State for Environment disclosed that the ministry has now fully engaged the Ogoni Clean-Up Project Coordinator, Dr. Marvin Dekil, himself an indigene of Ogoni. Besides he also revealed that potential contractors have been visiting the site to demonstrate available and suitable technology to be used for the Clean-Up.

Later the Vice President received a delegation of western diplomats from countries involved in the oil industry in Nigeria. The delegation was led by the Dutch Envoy in Nigeria, Ambassador John C.M. Groffen, and included Ambassadors, High Commissioners or their deputies from United Kingdom, France, Germany, Italy, United States and the European Union.

The Vice President told the diplomats that the idea of the interactive engagements with the oil-producing communities resulted from President Muhammadu Buhari after he met with leaders from the region last November.

He added that the Buhari presidency is therefore working on how to make a positive and long-lasting impact in the region in a way that transforms the lives of the people from the “treasure trove of Nigeria.” The Vice President then added that the FG will welcome the partnership and support of the western countries in that effort.

Ambassador Groffen said the countries represented at the meeting would like to stay involved in the dialogue, while commending the approach of the Buhari administration in the matter.







Source:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/niger-delta-people-deserve-better-deal-osinbajo/

Cute guys!

You can also add your method of clean up for others to learn.

Florblu:
Why did she wait for that long?

Hope!

Hope of a Brighter future!

This is bad.

How do they expect students to learn like this ?

Greatbeard:
Growing up with two sisters taught me how to handle women without violence and emotional blackmail.

one of her strongest tools is her mouth, u can't win a woman in a war of words.

you can't go around beating up women either
( my only exception to this rule is that"when a woman hits you, you can retaliate in equal and opposite force.....make sure you have a witness otherwise,its your word against hers and like I said you can't win a woman in a war of words).

The world is changing, if you need revenge, find a way to do it without violence.

Nice one !

Lovely !

"...he pulled up next to a woman in the Shopko parking lot, pulled out his joystick and began to masturbate on Wednesday morning around 8:42 a.m., police said."

Things like that should not be done in public.

Thank God for her life!

We will continue to pray for this country.

Things go make sense, soon.

See men...

Hmmm !

Congratulations to him!

“My father started sleeping with me two years ago, while I was 13 years. The first time he came, he gave me N500 and forced himself on me."


Too bad!

RIP

Congratulations in advance to those that will finally be selected.

These should not play with people's lives ooo

myfantasies:
So by giving her stitches is the only way to discipline ur wife?

Was dat how u were taught?

No fighting...

Your guys are already engaging in verbal war.

Hope both of you are not in the same house?
Lol!

We are tired of all these.

Let look for ways to move Nigeria forward.

We all know that there is a problem. How do we solve it?

Lady gets 9 stitches on her head after being married to hubby for one month


Author: Adunni Amodeni

The rate at which husbands beat their wife in recent times keeps getting on the rise and only few of them get reported to the police and face judgement.


A lady has just taken out time to report the case of a lady who was brutalized by her husband and at the end, she got about 9 stitches on her head.

Lady identified as Buki O on Twitter, posted saying: “Got a case last week. Hubby beat up wife. She needed 9 stitches in her HEAD, amongst other injuries. This marriage was ONE MONTH old!” she posted another comment saying:

See post below:

Got a case last week. Hubby beat up his wife. She needed 9 stitches in her HEAD, amongst other injuries. Their marriage was ONE MONTH old!




Source:
https://gossip.naij.com/1094217-lady-9-stitches-head-married-hubby-month.html

Kudos to the Nigerian Army.