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LiteratureRe: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2016
Tanx to dat great guy who suggested THE CARTEL, d story is sumtin else though not complete yet, I had wanted 2 use it nd wait fr d completion of this fiyah's story though disappointed dat after 4 days or so, it only 2 updates were updated by d op, nice story sha, waiting fr d end...
Is there any other person who knows abt anoda great piece of work I cn go nd read.
Am enjoying dis NL now unlike b4
My observation though, these team hero pple, u'v succeeded in having more post dan d original op of thread, una try sha, wish I cn hv all d strength u guys hv in always posting
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EducationRe: What's Your Take On OSU CATSE SYSTEM? by fobiflex(op): 7:30am On Sep 17, 2016
Is it on my thread u are using 2 vent ur anger?
EducationWhat's Your Take On OSU CATSE SYSTEM? by fobiflex(op): 12:24am On Sep 17, 2016
I do not really know the section to post this buh I think the mods in charge can help me out here
Osu caste system is an obnoxious practice among
the Igbo in south east Nigeria which has refused to
go away despite the impact of Christianity,
education and civilization, and the human rights
culture.
Many people have condemned the system which
has traumatized many innocent people but the
problem persists. But one fact is that the Osu
system of discrimination is an outdated tradition
with no basis for its continued practice and
observance in the contemporary Igbo society.
Traditionally, there are two classes of people in
Igboland – the Nwadiala and the Osu.
The Nwadiala literally meaning ‘sons of the soil’.
They are the masters while the Osu are the people
dedicated to the gods; so they are regarded as
slaves, strangers, outcasts and untouchables.
Chinua Achebe in his book, No longer At Ease,
aptly describes Osu thus: “Our fathers in their
darkness and ignorance called an innocent man
Osu, a thing given to the idols, and thereafter he
became an . outcast, and his children, and his
children’s children forever”.
The Osus are treated as inferior human beings and
kept in a state of permanent and irreversible
disability; they are subjected to various forms of
abuse and discrimination. The Osu are made to
live separately from the freeborn; they reside very
close to shrines and market places.
The Osu are not allowed to dance, drink, hold
hands, associate or have sexual relations hip with
the Nwadiala. They are not even allowed to break
kola nut at meetings or pour libation or pray to
God on behalf of a freeborn at any community
gathering.
It is believed that such prayers will bring calamity
and misfortune.
According to human rights groups, some of the
atrocities meted out against the Osu in Igboland
include: parents administering poison to their
children, disinheritance, ostracism, organized
attacks, heaping harvest offering separately in
churches, denial of membership in social clubs,
violent disruption of marriage ceremonies, denial
of chieftaincy titles, deprivation of property and
expulsion of wives.
The Osu caste discrimination is very pronounced
in the area of marriage. An Osu cannot marry a
freeborn. The belief is that any freeborn that
marries an Osu defiles the family. So freeborn
families are always up in arms against any of their
members who wants to . marry an Osu.
They go to any length to scuttle the plan. Because
of the Osu factor, marriages in Igboland are
preceded by investigations– elders on both side
travel to native villages to find out the social
status of the other party. And if it is found that one
of them is an Osun, the plan would be
automatically abandoned. Many marriage plans
have been aborted, while married couples have
been forced to divorce because of the Osu factor.
Chinua Achebe also notes this in his book. When
Okonkwo learns that his son wants to marry Clara,
an Osu, Okonkwo says: “Osu is like a leprosy in
the minds of my people. I beg of you my son not
to bring the mark of shame and leprosy into your
family. If you do, your children and your children’s
children will curse you and your memory – you
will bring sorrow on your head and on the heads of
your children.”
Sometime last year, a young educated Igbo man,
a successful business entrepreneur based in
Atlanta (USA) had been engaged to be married to
an Igbo lady, who was a medical doctor. The Igbo
lady was already pregnant for the man. During the
customary family introduction, it was discovered
that the lady was an “Osu” and immediately the
wedding arrangements were terminated. The lady
gave birth to a baby boy and now lives in Houston
(USA) as a single parent. The Igbo man has
refused any form of contact with the lady and his
child with all the education, western culture,
civilization and exposure to Christian teachings.
And not too long ago, I met a lady in a friend’s
house in Lagos. I was told that she was engaged
to a young man from Imo State. Months later, I
learnt that the marriage plan had been cancelled
because the lady was said to be an Osu.
There have been several instances like that where
young men and women of Igbo extraction have
suffered emotional trauma as a result of this
cultural malaise. And now the question is, why is it
that this cultural practice has refused to go away
even among educated Igbos? The reason is not far
fetched. The practice of Osu caste system is
hinged on religion, supernaturalism and theism.
And Igbos are deeply religious and theistic people.
Osu are regarded as unclean or untouchable
because they are (alleged to be) dedicated to the
gods. So it is the dedication to the gods that
makes the Osu status a condition of permanent
and irreversible disability and stigma.
The discriminatory Osu practice involves
inequality in freedom of movement and choice of
residence, inequality in the right of peaceful
association, inequality of residence, inquality in
the right of peaceful association, inequality in the
enjoyment of the right to marry and establish a
family, (and) inequality in access to public office.
That is the crux of the matter with Osu caste in
Igboland. If one may ask, could a right exist if it is
not enforced? To put it differently, can a right
exist without a specific legislation that provides
for its protection and remedies when violated?
Oddly enough, the victims of the Osu system do
not have any legal remedy in Igboland. And
strangely, some people believe that the
humiliating Osu caste system is a part of the Igbo
culture nobody should tamper with.
The Osu case system in Igboland seems to have
changed the meaning of life for the group of
people branded Osu.
The maltreatment meted out to the Osu has
forced many of them to migrate to other
countries, many development projects
abandoned, marriages dissolved and pregnancies
terminated. In fact, so many crimes against
humanity have been committed against
individuals and groups in Igboland in the name of
Osu.
The Osu caste system has caused communal
strifes and wars between the Osu and the
Nwadiala in Igboland. According to the United
Nations definition, discrimination includes any
conduct based on a distinction made on grounds
of natural or social categories, which have no
relation either to individual capacities or merits or
to the concrete behavior of the individual person.
Based on the above, I suggest that something
drastic has to be done to eradicate this obnoxious
system. There is the urgent need for all Igbo
leaders of thought, the traditional rulers, the
governors, the clergymen and all the people that
matter to come together and enact a law
outrightly banning the system generally in
Igboland as there is no basis for its continued
existence
LiteratureRe: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 5:02pm On Sep 04, 2016
This was same reason I unfollowed HERO story and others too cuz of the way the update comes, I know it won't mean anything to yous cuz I might be only one person out of hundreds following the thread buh in the other hand I might be the only one who has spoken out, out of the hundreds that have unfollowed stories like this. And with that the intended aim which is to get us the readers might be lost, I know you have real life out there buh I would want to use this medium to beg the writers on this forum, please if you can't handle both the real life ish and the writing, you can suspend the writing until you are sure you can balance the two. My little advice though............not withstanding the fact the story is a nice one
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LiteratureRe: Alone.. by fobiflex(m): 7:47am On Aug 29, 2016
Like say I go follow dis wey don appear fr front page dis morning
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 12:44pm On Aug 25, 2016
Omo dis boys no get joy o, na me waka cum??abeg o wat do u tink @smartestpopqueen do I rily nid all dis 2 join d team?
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 5:41pm On Aug 24, 2016
Team Hero, oh now I got it, hv bin seeing it on fiyah's thread and couldn't comprehend.........then I must say am
TEAM HERO
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 11:31pm On Aug 22, 2016
SmartestPopQUEEN:
oh dear... Pls, have even ran out of words to use as excuses for the recent 'once in a while' updates.. Pls I promise to finish this Story Asap.,. We are already getting to the grand finale of the story.... Pls bear with me... Pls....
its ok I hope u kip ur promise dis tym arnd
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 2:53pm On Aug 21, 2016
#SPQ u are now looking for my trouble o, hv been quite since, tinkin u wil update as usual buh u now update ones in 3days. U dnt knw hw much am waiting 2 read
PoliticsRe: Budget Padding: Gbajabiamila Offers Self For Investigation by fobiflex(m): 8:46am On Aug 20, 2016
I just love this man
Foreign AffairsRe: Naked Donald Trump Statues Erected In New York (Photos) by fobiflex(m): 7:28pm On Aug 19, 2016
C wat was done 2 a man nd guys here are happy and supporting it buh if it was a female, d hell wuld hv bin let loose, though I dislike trump buh let's call a spade a spade
LiteratureRe: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 11:25am On Aug 18, 2016
Wow, the story have made it to front page for the first time, nice story dear keep it coming dear
PoliticsRe: Court Re-affirms Sheriff’s Sack As PDP Chairman by fobiflex(m): 10:04pm On Aug 17, 2016
Y do all this pdp supporter always blaming APC for their woes, did APC forced them to take sheriff as their chairman in the Wst place. Why don't u guys blame yourselves for your grievous mistake and man up and face it
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Blast Army For Declaring Ahmad Salkida Wanted by fobiflex(m): 1:30am On Aug 15, 2016
millionaireman:
Pity Oby Ezekwesili of Bring Back Our Girls.
Oby plunged into what she didn't understand much about when Chibok girls were kidnapped.

Because Buhari understands that Oby didn't know what she was doing, Oby can't make Buhari's appointees so far. Lesson.
your types are the reason why I don't comment on NL posts, so because oby fought a just course, she must get an appointment, did she in anyway tell you she is an APC member looking for appointment?
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Blast Army For Declaring Ahmad Salkida Wanted by fobiflex(m): 1:25am On Aug 15, 2016
Wat I cn only observe here is dat d haters of dis govt have bin blinded of every reasonable ideas of judgement. Wat is wrong in d army declaring anybody wanted fr security issues, if d tink there's a link between d suspects nd BH den d hv d ryt 2 squeeze out info frm dem, pls buhari haters dis is nt how 2 play opposition. I rest my case
CelebritiesRe: Meet Ladi Kwali : The Woman On The Nigeria ₦20 Note. (pic) by fobiflex(m): 10:14am On Aug 14, 2016
Nice, gud 2 knw
PoliticsRe: Budget Padding: Dogara Talks Tough, Says EFCC, Others Can’t Probe Him by fobiflex(m): 10:29am On Aug 12, 2016
Osehnetworld:
i see
buhari got ur back
if d federal govt makes any move to remove him, ur type wil stil complain, saying he want 2 islamize d country or dat cuz he entad like senate president or all oda tins u say 2 discredit d president. So now I see there is nofin dat dis govt wil do 2 please ur type
LiteratureRe: First Night by fobiflex(m): 1:18pm On Aug 10, 2016
repogirl:
I don't write on paper these days, I compose on my phone and I publish here on Nairaland before I am done with the story because comments from readers lets me know how the story is being received

Now why does it take so long to complete, that's personal and different reasons for different writers. For me, it's because after a stressful day the zeal to write isn't there. I need a clear head to write and some free time too which I don't have in abundance as I have real life responsibilities to attend to. This is not afull time job but more like a hobby that I enjoy and when I weigh my priorities, writing is quite low on the list.

Thanks, hope you understand.
I think u'v explained it 2 d best of my knowledge nd with this, I tink I hv 2 stp entering the literature section of the NL cuz I c I wil stressing myself a lot by waiting for a single 2 be completed, tanx anyways. Still a nice story, I won't deny
LiteratureRe: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 1:14pm On Aug 10, 2016
Dis is d reason y I dnt like readin stories here on NL, dis d interestin story she brought up, now its takin up 2 2days 2 update, how on earth cn u pass ur msg cuz I knw I nd my type wil b bored out b4 d story is completed
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 1:12pm On Aug 09, 2016
SmartestPopQUEEN:
I sincerely apologise for whatever my recent low updates might have caused yhu.... Pls... Just bear with me for the meantime.... I promise to give yhu a B**J if yhu accept my app.....
hmmm BJhuhhuham I mad nt 2 accept, buh try nd update rapidly it wil make d story more interestin
LiteratureRe: First Night by fobiflex(m): 11:06pm On Aug 08, 2016
Pls there is sumtin I want 2 undastnd here, is it dat u guys write story here as in composing it online, cause I was tinkin u must hv finished d wrk on paper b4 transferrin it here, nd if d latter is d case den y does it take so long 2 finish ur story or typin is d problem? Just nid 2 b clear. Stil a nice work
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LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 11:01pm On Aug 08, 2016
How I wish I neva saw dis thread til it is completed.........gettin so boring wit each passing day, though won't deny it is a nice piece buh d updates is killing d vibe
PoliticsRe: PDP Zones National Chairman To South-West by fobiflex(m): 9:52am On Aug 05, 2016
My SE brodas yet again d party we claim to b ourz hv shown us dat we rily dnt hv a say in nigerian politics, let's just focus in wat we knw best dats business. Buh I rather support apc wit buhari dan pdp again
LiteratureRe: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 9:40am On Aug 05, 2016
How long more wil it take to complete dis story, am kinda running out of sub
Crime1million Boys by fobiflex(op): 4:40pm On Jan 26, 2016
Of recent in lagos, there has been news of notorious gang called 1million boys, I don't if any of u guys here have heard about, it mainly loud at ojo area of lagos
BTW. Why is it that all the people arrested under this administration not pleading for there innocence but BAIL?
SportsRe: Full List Of Winners At 2015 Glo CAF Awards + How Coaches Voted by fobiflex(m): 12:13am On Jan 08, 2016
Tank God nobody cry fowl cry or smash d mic on d floor on dis, atleast people behaved matured
FamilyMy Sister Is Abandoned By Her Husband With Her Pregnancy, Needs You Help by fobiflex(op): 2:15pm On Aug 02, 2015
It was last year sept 1st 2014 that my younger sister who was just 16yrs brought a man to our house nd told us that she wants to marry him. Though at that time I was not around, was in my final year in school. We did all we could do to stop her from getting married then because we all know she was not ready yet and is very young to settle down at that age but all our advices fell on a deaf hear. Don't know what the guy have told her or brainwash her wit to make very adamant on the issue as he claim to be 29yrs thou we found out later he lied about his age. I was very much against it that I even stopped talkin to my sister but all I did didn't work because after every said and done she ended up doing her traditional marriage and I have no choice than to support her. The problem started that after few months of less than 2months, there was continuous complaint from the guy. My parents did all the could even I myself tried my own part for tins to work out between them, I constantly remained the guy that my sister is stil a small girl that he has to give her him to accept that she is now a married woman, cuz he was the one who agreed to tolerate her when we were telling him weda he wil be able to cope with a girl of her age. 5 months ago or so he sent my sister back home on the ground that my parents should help him train her a little that he will come back and take his wife, which the whole family agreed. But the story changed cuz each and every passing day story keeps coming out about the faithfulness of my sister, which I later discovered that the guy was the one who was instigating all the rumors cuz he wanted to marry anther woman. During the 1st few weeks of my sister stay at home, my mum discovered that she was pregnant and the told the guy, the idiot guy denied he was not responsible that she was not pregnant at his house. To cut the long story short, my sister is 5months pregnant now and she just turned 17 last month. And this guy has spoilt her future by marryin her and dumping her with pregnancy. And I can't sit and watch this happen, I need advice on whta to do cuz I hv alridy planned to take the case to court though am waiting for when the baby is delivered and DNA test is run and the baby is his, what I need from you guys is to help me with any human right strong lawyer contact who can help me in this case, because I want to make sure this guy pays darely for what he has done to my sister and my family, I wuld prefer a strong human right within the viccinity of ojo LGA of lagos state, pls admin notify me when I get reply on thisn pls no insults put yourself in my shoe and the 1st child/1st born, tanx in anticipation.
CrimeMy Girlfriend Is Been Sexually Abused By Her Cousins by fobiflex(op): 1:48am On Jul 31, 2015
My name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help herMy name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help herMy name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help her
PoliticsRe: Sadly Enough, Nothing To Criticize President BUHARI For Yet: by fobiflex(m): 12:08am On Jun 14, 2015
Tanoids always looking for sumtin stupid to say, buh sorry no ish yet
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Fights To Control APC- Atiku by fobiflex(m): 11:57pm On Jun 13, 2015
Let dem go ahead nd hang themselves, who careshuhhuhhuh

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