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Tanx to dat great guy who suggested THE CARTEL, d story is sumtin else though not complete yet, I had wanted 2 use it nd wait fr d completion of this fiyah's story though disappointed dat after 4 days or so, it only 2 updates were updated by d op, nice story sha, waiting fr d end... Is there any other person who knows abt anoda great piece of work I cn go nd read. Am enjoying dis NL now unlike b4 My observation though, these team hero pple, u'v succeeded in having more post dan d original op of thread, una try sha, wish I cn hv all d strength u guys hv in always posting |
Is it on my thread u are using 2 vent ur anger? |
I do not really know the section to post this buh I think the mods in charge can help me out here Osu caste system is an obnoxious practice among the Igbo in south east Nigeria which has refused to go away despite the impact of Christianity, education and civilization, and the human rights culture. Many people have condemned the system which has traumatized many innocent people but the problem persists. But one fact is that the Osu system of discrimination is an outdated tradition with no basis for its continued practice and observance in the contemporary Igbo society. Traditionally, there are two classes of people in Igboland – the Nwadiala and the Osu. The Nwadiala literally meaning ‘sons of the soil’. They are the masters while the Osu are the people dedicated to the gods; so they are regarded as slaves, strangers, outcasts and untouchables. Chinua Achebe in his book, No longer At Ease, aptly describes Osu thus: “Our fathers in their darkness and ignorance called an innocent man Osu, a thing given to the idols, and thereafter he became an . outcast, and his children, and his children’s children forever”. The Osus are treated as inferior human beings and kept in a state of permanent and irreversible disability; they are subjected to various forms of abuse and discrimination. The Osu are made to live separately from the freeborn; they reside very close to shrines and market places. The Osu are not allowed to dance, drink, hold hands, associate or have sexual relations hip with the Nwadiala. They are not even allowed to break kola nut at meetings or pour libation or pray to God on behalf of a freeborn at any community gathering. It is believed that such prayers will bring calamity and misfortune. According to human rights groups, some of the atrocities meted out against the Osu in Igboland include: parents administering poison to their children, disinheritance, ostracism, organized attacks, heaping harvest offering separately in churches, denial of membership in social clubs, violent disruption of marriage ceremonies, denial of chieftaincy titles, deprivation of property and expulsion of wives. The Osu caste discrimination is very pronounced in the area of marriage. An Osu cannot marry a freeborn. The belief is that any freeborn that marries an Osu defiles the family. So freeborn families are always up in arms against any of their members who wants to . marry an Osu. They go to any length to scuttle the plan. Because of the Osu factor, marriages in Igboland are preceded by investigations– elders on both side travel to native villages to find out the social status of the other party. And if it is found that one of them is an Osun, the plan would be automatically abandoned. Many marriage plans have been aborted, while married couples have been forced to divorce because of the Osu factor. Chinua Achebe also notes this in his book. When Okonkwo learns that his son wants to marry Clara, an Osu, Okonkwo says: “Osu is like a leprosy in the minds of my people. I beg of you my son not to bring the mark of shame and leprosy into your family. If you do, your children and your children’s children will curse you and your memory – you will bring sorrow on your head and on the heads of your children.” Sometime last year, a young educated Igbo man, a successful business entrepreneur based in Atlanta (USA) had been engaged to be married to an Igbo lady, who was a medical doctor. The Igbo lady was already pregnant for the man. During the customary family introduction, it was discovered that the lady was an “Osu” and immediately the wedding arrangements were terminated. The lady gave birth to a baby boy and now lives in Houston (USA) as a single parent. The Igbo man has refused any form of contact with the lady and his child with all the education, western culture, civilization and exposure to Christian teachings. And not too long ago, I met a lady in a friend’s house in Lagos. I was told that she was engaged to a young man from Imo State. Months later, I learnt that the marriage plan had been cancelled because the lady was said to be an Osu. There have been several instances like that where young men and women of Igbo extraction have suffered emotional trauma as a result of this cultural malaise. And now the question is, why is it that this cultural practice has refused to go away even among educated Igbos? The reason is not far fetched. The practice of Osu caste system is hinged on religion, supernaturalism and theism. And Igbos are deeply religious and theistic people. Osu are regarded as unclean or untouchable because they are (alleged to be) dedicated to the gods. So it is the dedication to the gods that makes the Osu status a condition of permanent and irreversible disability and stigma. The discriminatory Osu practice involves inequality in freedom of movement and choice of residence, inequality in the right of peaceful association, inequality of residence, inquality in the right of peaceful association, inequality in the enjoyment of the right to marry and establish a family, (and) inequality in access to public office. That is the crux of the matter with Osu caste in Igboland. If one may ask, could a right exist if it is not enforced? To put it differently, can a right exist without a specific legislation that provides for its protection and remedies when violated? Oddly enough, the victims of the Osu system do not have any legal remedy in Igboland. And strangely, some people believe that the humiliating Osu caste system is a part of the Igbo culture nobody should tamper with. The Osu case system in Igboland seems to have changed the meaning of life for the group of people branded Osu. The maltreatment meted out to the Osu has forced many of them to migrate to other countries, many development projects abandoned, marriages dissolved and pregnancies terminated. In fact, so many crimes against humanity have been committed against individuals and groups in Igboland in the name of Osu. The Osu caste system has caused communal strifes and wars between the Osu and the Nwadiala in Igboland. According to the United Nations definition, discrimination includes any conduct based on a distinction made on grounds of natural or social categories, which have no relation either to individual capacities or merits or to the concrete behavior of the individual person. Based on the above, I suggest that something drastic has to be done to eradicate this obnoxious system. There is the urgent need for all Igbo leaders of thought, the traditional rulers, the governors, the clergymen and all the people that matter to come together and enact a law outrightly banning the system generally in Igboland as there is no basis for its continued existence |
This was same reason I unfollowed HERO story and others too cuz of the way the update comes, I know it won't mean anything to yous cuz I might be only one person out of hundreds following the thread buh in the other hand I might be the only one who has spoken out, out of the hundreds that have unfollowed stories like this. And with that the intended aim which is to get us the readers might be lost, I know you have real life out there buh I would want to use this medium to beg the writers on this forum, please if you can't handle both the real life ish and the writing, you can suspend the writing until you are sure you can balance the two. My little advice though............not withstanding the fact the story is a nice one |
Like say I go follow dis wey don appear fr front page dis morning |
Omo dis boys no get joy o, na me waka cum??abeg o wat do u tink @smartestpopqueen do I rily nid all dis 2 join d team? |
Team Hero, oh now I got it, hv bin seeing it on fiyah's thread and couldn't comprehend.........then I must say am TEAM HERO |
SmartestPopQUEEN:its ok I hope u kip ur promise dis tym arnd |
#SPQ u are now looking for my trouble o, hv been quite since, tinkin u wil update as usual buh u now update ones in 3days. U dnt knw hw much am waiting 2 read |
I just love this man |
C wat was done 2 a man nd guys here are happy and supporting it buh if it was a female, d hell wuld hv bin let loose, though I dislike trump buh let's call a spade a spade |
Wow, the story have made it to front page for the first time, nice story dear keep it coming dear |
Y do all this pdp supporter always blaming APC for their woes, did APC forced them to take sheriff as their chairman in the Wst place. Why don't u guys blame yourselves for your grievous mistake and man up and face it |
millionaireman:your types are the reason why I don't comment on NL posts, so because oby fought a just course, she must get an appointment, did she in anyway tell you she is an APC member looking for appointment? |
Wat I cn only observe here is dat d haters of dis govt have bin blinded of every reasonable ideas of judgement. Wat is wrong in d army declaring anybody wanted fr security issues, if d tink there's a link between d suspects nd BH den d hv d ryt 2 squeeze out info frm dem, pls buhari haters dis is nt how 2 play opposition. I rest my case |
Nice, gud 2 knw |
Osehnetworld:if d federal govt makes any move to remove him, ur type wil stil complain, saying he want 2 islamize d country or dat cuz he entad like senate president or all oda tins u say 2 discredit d president. So now I see there is nofin dat dis govt wil do 2 please ur type |
repogirl:I think u'v explained it 2 d best of my knowledge nd with this, I tink I hv 2 stp entering the literature section of the NL cuz I c I wil stressing myself a lot by waiting for a single 2 be completed, tanx anyways. Still a nice story, I won't deny |
Dis is d reason y I dnt like readin stories here on NL, dis d interestin story she brought up, now its takin up 2 2days 2 update, how on earth cn u pass ur msg cuz I knw I nd my type wil b bored out b4 d story is completed |
SmartestPopQUEEN:hmmm BJ ![]() am I mad nt 2 accept, buh try nd update rapidly it wil make d story more interestin |
Pls there is sumtin I want 2 undastnd here, is it dat u guys write story here as in composing it online, cause I was tinkin u must hv finished d wrk on paper b4 transferrin it here, nd if d latter is d case den y does it take so long 2 finish ur story or typin is d problem? Just nid 2 b clear. Stil a nice work |
How I wish I neva saw dis thread til it is completed.........gettin so boring wit each passing day, though won't deny it is a nice piece buh d updates is killing d vibe |
My SE brodas yet again d party we claim to b ourz hv shown us dat we rily dnt hv a say in nigerian politics, let's just focus in wat we knw best dats business. Buh I rather support apc wit buhari dan pdp again |
How long more wil it take to complete dis story, am kinda running out of sub |
Of recent in lagos, there has been news of notorious gang called 1million boys, I don't if any of u guys here have heard about, it mainly loud at ojo area of lagos BTW. Why is it that all the people arrested under this administration not pleading for there innocence but BAIL? |
Tank God nobody cry fowl cry or smash d mic on d floor on dis, atleast people behaved matured |
It was last year sept 1st 2014 that my younger sister who was just 16yrs brought a man to our house nd told us that she wants to marry him. Though at that time I was not around, was in my final year in school. We did all we could do to stop her from getting married then because we all know she was not ready yet and is very young to settle down at that age but all our advices fell on a deaf hear. Don't know what the guy have told her or brainwash her wit to make very adamant on the issue as he claim to be 29yrs thou we found out later he lied about his age. I was very much against it that I even stopped talkin to my sister but all I did didn't work because after every said and done she ended up doing her traditional marriage and I have no choice than to support her. The problem started that after few months of less than 2months, there was continuous complaint from the guy. My parents did all the could even I myself tried my own part for tins to work out between them, I constantly remained the guy that my sister is stil a small girl that he has to give her him to accept that she is now a married woman, cuz he was the one who agreed to tolerate her when we were telling him weda he wil be able to cope with a girl of her age. 5 months ago or so he sent my sister back home on the ground that my parents should help him train her a little that he will come back and take his wife, which the whole family agreed. But the story changed cuz each and every passing day story keeps coming out about the faithfulness of my sister, which I later discovered that the guy was the one who was instigating all the rumors cuz he wanted to marry anther woman. During the 1st few weeks of my sister stay at home, my mum discovered that she was pregnant and the told the guy, the idiot guy denied he was not responsible that she was not pregnant at his house. To cut the long story short, my sister is 5months pregnant now and she just turned 17 last month. And this guy has spoilt her future by marryin her and dumping her with pregnancy. And I can't sit and watch this happen, I need advice on whta to do cuz I hv alridy planned to take the case to court though am waiting for when the baby is delivered and DNA test is run and the baby is his, what I need from you guys is to help me with any human right strong lawyer contact who can help me in this case, because I want to make sure this guy pays darely for what he has done to my sister and my family, I wuld prefer a strong human right within the viccinity of ojo LGA of lagos state, pls admin notify me when I get reply on thisn pls no insults put yourself in my shoe and the 1st child/1st born, tanx in anticipation. |
My name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help herMy name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help herMy name is obi, am a 24yrs old guy, I hv dis girlfriend who wil be 18 by december, she lives with her cousins in lagos. We are just 3mnths into our relationship buh the problem here is tjat her cousins she is living with want to have canal knowledge of her as she told though one has alridy raped her while the other one want to turn her to his sex slave, I really wanna help buh I don't know what to do as she wouldn't allow me say anytin against them, the one who even raped her has married and they are all living under same roof, please I rily want to do somthing to help her |
Tanoids always looking for sumtin stupid to say, buh sorry no ish yet |
Let dem go ahead nd hang themselves, who cares ![]() ![]() ![]() |
