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Politics › Re: 2019: Why I Want To Be Nigeria’s President – Sule Lamido by fobiflex(m): 3:16pm On Mar 23, 2018
everybody clamouring for young vibrant guy, that's how we ended up with that kogi tout as governor, the country is messed up, only God can help us
Literature › Re: Countless (a story of Sex, Betrayal and vengeance) by Darousmart Emmanuel. by fobiflex(m): 9:33pm On Mar 17, 2018
TheBlessedMAN:
bro abeg no vex. But just know that everything is under control. Very soon updates go start to dey sha pra pra...
when e go be na, I don wait tire, osha pro pro
Literature › Re: Countless (a story of Sex, Betrayal and vengeance) by Darousmart Emmanuel. by fobiflex(m): 10:35pm On Mar 15, 2018
my sub finished last month, I refused to resub cuz I wasn't getting value for my money for my network provider, but cuz of your story I changed my mind yesterday and was so disappointed that after more than 3weeks not a single update yet
Politics › Re: 2019: Inside The APC Crises: Senators Battle State Governors by fobiflex(m): 8:54pm On Feb 19, 2018
wetin concern me
Literature › Re: 30 Days And 30 Nights (A Romance Novelette By Kayode Odusanya) by fobiflex(m): 8:16am On Jan 14, 2018
following
Events › Re: Girl Thrills Lagosians With Her Amazing Flexibility At 1lagosfiesta by fobiflex(m): 3:20pm On Dec 28, 2017
this girl is my friend on FBI, keep it up faith
Literature › Re: Countless (a story of Sex, Betrayal and vengeance) by Darousmart Emmanuel. by fobiflex(m): 9:35pm On Jun 06, 2017
finally I caught up though not happy cuz I won't want to wait eternity to read the whole story buh still nice story you got bro
Politics › Re: Ize-Iyamu Campaigns For Jude Imagwe (Photos) by fobiflex(m): 5:03pm On Jan 26, 2017
I thought that was osho baba zone?
Politics › Re: Saraki Reshuffles Senate Committees by fobiflex(m): 5:00pm On Jan 26, 2017
Ndume atleast got something
Properties › Re: Building On Fire At Saka Bus stop Ojo Lagos by fobiflex(m): 10:07pm On Dec 28, 2016
Abimbola29:
I have been leaving here in ojo for 24 years now never heard of saka bustop
bro it's at shibiri after ajangbadi
Literature › Re: 18+ My New Compound Chronicle With Mama Abi by fobiflex(m): 10:23pm On Dec 16, 2016
mrjoshyssb:
More updates today
when is your today
Literature › Re: 18+ My New Compound Chronicle With Mama Abi by fobiflex(m): 11:12pm On Dec 14, 2016
oga mrjosh, u don go on recession?
Literature › Re: 18+ My New Compound Chronicle With Mama Abi by fobiflex(m): 10:06pm On Dec 07, 2016
continue bro
Education › Re: LIST: Federal Unity Colleges In Nigeria by fobiflex(m): 7:37am On Oct 10, 2016
JohnQueen:
I rep FGC Ikot Ekpene. Pro Unitate
wic set
Education › Re: LIST: Federal Unity Colleges In Nigeria by fobiflex(m): 7:36am On Oct 10, 2016
Edygrin:
I rep Fgc Ikot ekpene... Shout-out to 2011 set
hey bro I was ur senior den, 09 set fgc ik
Literature › Re: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 8:04pm On Oct 03, 2016
Waitd like 4eva fr d completion of dis story
Literature › Re: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 3:13pm On Oct 03, 2016
Mrlemuel:
Try "The Preacher's Son", Very Funny....
cn I get d link pls
Literature › Re: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2016
Tanx to dat great guy who suggested THE CARTEL, d story is sumtin else though not complete yet, I had wanted 2 use it nd wait fr d completion of this fiyah's story though disappointed dat after 4 days or so, it only 2 updates were updated by d op, nice story sha, waiting fr d end...
Is there any other person who knows abt anoda great piece of work I cn go nd read.
Am enjoying dis NL now unlike b4
My observation though, these team hero pple, u'v succeeded in having more post dan d original op of thread, una try sha, wish I cn hv all d strength u guys hv in always posting
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Education › Re: What's Your Take On OSU CATSE SYSTEM? by fobiflex(op): 7:30am On Sep 17, 2016
Is it on my thread u are using 2 vent ur anger?
Education › What's Your Take On OSU CATSE SYSTEM? by fobiflex(op): 12:24am On Sep 17, 2016
I do not really know the section to post this buh I think the mods in charge can help me out here
Osu caste system is an obnoxious practice among
the Igbo in south east Nigeria which has refused to
go away despite the impact of Christianity,
education and civilization, and the human rights
culture.
Many people have condemned the system which
has traumatized many innocent people but the
problem persists. But one fact is that the Osu
system of discrimination is an outdated tradition
with no basis for its continued practice and
observance in the contemporary Igbo society.
Traditionally, there are two classes of people in
Igboland – the Nwadiala and the Osu.
The Nwadiala literally meaning ‘sons of the soil’.
They are the masters while the Osu are the people
dedicated to the gods; so they are regarded as
slaves, strangers, outcasts and untouchables.
Chinua Achebe in his book, No longer At Ease,
aptly describes Osu thus: “Our fathers in their
darkness and ignorance called an innocent man
Osu, a thing given to the idols, and thereafter he
became an . outcast, and his children, and his
children’s children forever”.
The Osus are treated as inferior human beings and
kept in a state of permanent and irreversible
disability; they are subjected to various forms of
abuse and discrimination. The Osu are made to
live separately from the freeborn; they reside very
close to shrines and market places.
The Osu are not allowed to dance, drink, hold
hands, associate or have sexual relations hip with
the Nwadiala. They are not even allowed to break
kola nut at meetings or pour libation or pray to
God on behalf of a freeborn at any community
gathering.
It is believed that such prayers will bring calamity
and misfortune.
According to human rights groups, some of the
atrocities meted out against the Osu in Igboland
include: parents administering poison to their
children, disinheritance, ostracism, organized
attacks, heaping harvest offering separately in
churches, denial of membership in social clubs,
violent disruption of marriage ceremonies, denial
of chieftaincy titles, deprivation of property and
expulsion of wives.
The Osu caste discrimination is very pronounced
in the area of marriage. An Osu cannot marry a
freeborn. The belief is that any freeborn that
marries an Osu defiles the family. So freeborn
families are always up in arms against any of their
members who wants to . marry an Osu.
They go to any length to scuttle the plan. Because
of the Osu factor, marriages in Igboland are
preceded by investigations– elders on both side
travel to native villages to find out the social
status of the other party. And if it is found that one
of them is an Osun, the plan would be
automatically abandoned. Many marriage plans
have been aborted, while married couples have
been forced to divorce because of the Osu factor.
Chinua Achebe also notes this in his book. When
Okonkwo learns that his son wants to marry Clara,
an Osu, Okonkwo says: “Osu is like a leprosy in
the minds of my people. I beg of you my son not
to bring the mark of shame and leprosy into your
family. If you do, your children and your children’s
children will curse you and your memory – you
will bring sorrow on your head and on the heads of
your children.”
Sometime last year, a young educated Igbo man,
a successful business entrepreneur based in
Atlanta (USA) had been engaged to be married to
an Igbo lady, who was a medical doctor. The Igbo
lady was already pregnant for the man. During the
customary family introduction, it was discovered
that the lady was an “Osu” and immediately the
wedding arrangements were terminated. The lady
gave birth to a baby boy and now lives in Houston
(USA) as a single parent. The Igbo man has
refused any form of contact with the lady and his
child with all the education, western culture,
civilization and exposure to Christian teachings.
And not too long ago, I met a lady in a friend’s
house in Lagos. I was told that she was engaged
to a young man from Imo State. Months later, I
learnt that the marriage plan had been cancelled
because the lady was said to be an Osu.
There have been several instances like that where
young men and women of Igbo extraction have
suffered emotional trauma as a result of this
cultural malaise. And now the question is, why is it
that this cultural practice has refused to go away
even among educated Igbos? The reason is not far
fetched. The practice of Osu caste system is
hinged on religion, supernaturalism and theism.
And Igbos are deeply religious and theistic people.
Osu are regarded as unclean or untouchable
because they are (alleged to be) dedicated to the
gods. So it is the dedication to the gods that
makes the Osu status a condition of permanent
and irreversible disability and stigma.
The discriminatory Osu practice involves
inequality in freedom of movement and choice of
residence, inequality in the right of peaceful
association, inequality of residence, inquality in
the right of peaceful association, inequality in the
enjoyment of the right to marry and establish a
family, (and) inequality in access to public office.
That is the crux of the matter with Osu caste in
Igboland. If one may ask, could a right exist if it is
not enforced? To put it differently, can a right
exist without a specific legislation that provides
for its protection and remedies when violated?
Oddly enough, the victims of the Osu system do
not have any legal remedy in Igboland. And
strangely, some people believe that the
humiliating Osu caste system is a part of the Igbo
culture nobody should tamper with.
The Osu case system in Igboland seems to have
changed the meaning of life for the group of
people branded Osu.
The maltreatment meted out to the Osu has
forced many of them to migrate to other
countries, many development projects
abandoned, marriages dissolved and pregnancies
terminated. In fact, so many crimes against
humanity have been committed against
individuals and groups in Igboland in the name of
Osu.
The Osu caste system has caused communal
strifes and wars between the Osu and the
Nwadiala in Igboland. According to the United
Nations definition, discrimination includes any
conduct based on a distinction made on grounds
of natural or social categories, which have no
relation either to individual capacities or merits or
to the concrete behavior of the individual person.
Based on the above, I suggest that something
drastic has to be done to eradicate this obnoxious
system. There is the urgent need for all Igbo
leaders of thought, the traditional rulers, the
governors, the clergymen and all the people that
matter to come together and enact a law
outrightly banning the system generally in
Igboland as there is no basis for its continued
existence
Literature › Re: Silent Seduction by fobiflex(m): 5:02pm On Sep 04, 2016
This was same reason I unfollowed HERO story and others too cuz of the way the update comes, I know it won't mean anything to yous cuz I might be only one person out of hundreds following the thread buh in the other hand I might be the only one who has spoken out, out of the hundreds that have unfollowed stories like this. And with that the intended aim which is to get us the readers might be lost, I know you have real life out there buh I would want to use this medium to beg the writers on this forum, please if you can't handle both the real life ish and the writing, you can suspend the writing until you are sure you can balance the two. My little advice though............not withstanding the fact the story is a nice one
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Literature › Re: Alone.. by fobiflex(m): 7:47am On Aug 29, 2016
Like say I go follow dis wey don appear fr front page dis morning
Literature › Re: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 12:44pm On Aug 25, 2016
Omo dis boys no get joy o, na me waka cum??abeg o wat do u tink @smartestpopqueen do I rily nid all dis 2 join d team?
Literature › Re: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 5:41pm On Aug 24, 2016
Team Hero, oh now I got it, hv bin seeing it on fiyah's thread and couldn't comprehend.........then I must say am
TEAM HERO
Literature › Re: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 11:31pm On Aug 22, 2016
SmartestPopQUEEN:
oh dear... Pls, have even ran out of words to use as excuses for the recent 'once in a while' updates.. Pls I promise to finish this Story Asap.,. We are already getting to the grand finale of the story.... Pls bear with me... Pls....
its ok I hope u kip ur promise dis tym arnd
Literature › Re: HERO (A Violence, Mind Control And Sex Story) a story by Queenliz by fobiflex(m): 2:53pm On Aug 21, 2016
#SPQ u are now looking for my trouble o, hv been quite since, tinkin u wil update as usual buh u now update ones in 3days. U dnt knw hw much am waiting 2 read
Politics › Re: Budget Padding: Gbajabiamila Offers Self For Investigation by fobiflex(m): 8:46am On Aug 20, 2016
I just love this man

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