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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue Praises Wole Soyinka For Japan Residency Recommendation Letter by focus7: 8:37am On Apr 28
The Yorubas will never stop from rendering support and assistance to the Igbos, even though they have always been repaid with undeserved hatred.
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Is Cole Tomas Allen Facing Charges Over White House Dinner Shooting? by focus7: 9:22am On Apr 27
Fountainofyouth:
Bandits are killing christians at per basis, yet youre calling it a narrative?
That you are alive to post this is proof that bandits are not targeting Christian per say, praise God. It's right to say that bandits are killing Nigerians.
Politics › Re: Why I Stopped Supporting Obi, Ex-Obidient Wearing Tinubu’s Cap At Vanguard Award by focus7: 9:15am On Apr 27
I know many people who supported Peter Obi in 2023 but have since withdrawn their support. It may come as a surprise to him and his supporters that his vote count might not be as strong as it was previously.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Who Is Cole Tomas Allen Facing Charges Over White House Dinner Shooting? by focus7: 9:06pm On Apr 26
Ted Cruz is not seeing the terror activities in America, the latest is the one that happened right in the white house, which threatened the life of American President, he's preoccupied with the gig to promote Christian genocide narrative in Nigeria, sponsored by IPOB.
Politics › Re: How Tinubu’s Reform In TVET Attracted Ugandan Government by focus7: 4:52pm On Apr 22
Peter Obi will not see this type of news except bad news. And even if he sees it, does he know the meaning of TVET?
Politics › Re: Oseloka Obaze Campaigns For Obi - Kwankwaso Ticket For ADC by focus7: 8:30am On Apr 17
You mean the agege guy, I learnt Peter Obi also has an Alhaji boyfriend. Anyways, Kwankwaso has replied that he cannot be VP for Peter Obi, that he's better than Obi.
Christianity Etc › Re: You Can't Be A Christian And Still Join In Pagan Traditions by focus7: 2:18pm On Apr 12
dederocs:
What have Nigeria gained from the two popular religions today?

One is influencing terrorists, the other is fleecing Nigerians of their time and economic resources...not against religion, but I believe in cost/benefit analysis.

Traditionalism will unify us around our African essence, unite our spirit and purpose and aspirations, this is how nations develop, this is why China is developing, united under Buddhism, which has been the traditions of their progenitors, and China is developing, we here are replacing our culture with foreign culture and where are we today?
It's over 8 years I stopped going to church, and ever since, my life has been better defined and focused, I don't have any regrets for that decision and action.. Let those who chooses to go be going in peace and let them leave us that are not going alone to enjoy our peace too
Crime › Re: Katsina: Bandits Demand 700 Cattle, 1,000 Sheep From Residents, Issue 6-Days by focus7: 12:01pm On Apr 12
The people of Katsina state should hold their governor responsible. He was here the other day negotiating with the bandits plus paying them huge of money, the federal government warned against it but they were defiant.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is Actually The Work Of Reverend Sisters? by focus7: 11:54am On Apr 12
chatinent:
As an ex Catholic, I have really not seen or noticed any work the Reverend sisters do. I mean their actual work in the parish. What is it?
When koji hold Rev. Father, he wouldn't need going far.
Christianity Etc › Re: You Can't Be A Christian And Still Join In Pagan Traditions by focus7: 11:52am On Apr 12
Wth the level of witchcraft they practiced in churches today, who told you that I wouldn't prefer being traditional than Christian.
Politics › Re: Gombe Congresses: Another "Status Quo Ante Bellum" Order Against ADC by focus7: 6:52am On Apr 12
Tinubu again? ADC is already a house of commotion. This is exactly what happened in PDP back then, and it's the same set of politicians now gathered in ADC. Nigerians shouldn't forget so quickly.
Politics › Re: Chaos In Enugu ADC As Rival Congresses Produce Three Chairmen by focus7: 6:41am On Apr 12
Tinubu and APC are afraid of opposition again. grin grin grin
Family › Re: As A Married Man � Will You Like To Remarry Your Wife In Your Next Life. by focus7: 12:29pm On Apr 11
God forbid
Foreign Affairs › Re: 5,000+ Buildings Damaged Or Destroyed Across Israel Since Feb 28 (pictures) by focus7: 7:54am On Apr 10
Oakenshield:
but Israel has humbled Iran. Show us Iran destruction too
If you have the fact of how Israel humbled Iran, you show us the pictures, and mind you, USA and Israel are attacking Iran together.
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Fake Instagram Football Agent Over Alleged ₦11 Million Scam by focus7: 11:13am On Apr 09
When is EFCC arresting Blessing CEO, or is it a selective thing?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Closes Strait Of Hormuz In Response To Israeli Strikes On Lebanon by focus7: 7:33pm On Apr 08
America and Israel are the real terrorist of the world.
Crime › Re: Man Arrested For Killing His Wife During Heated Argument by focus7:
That serves him right. I’ve always said it, any man who beats a woman is a coward. Men must understand that women will be women; at times they may get on your nerves, but that’s where maturity, tolerance, and self-restraint come in. She’s your wife, not your child.
How can a man beat a woman and still expect to be intimate with her afterward? That is completely absurd.
Politics › Re: ADC publishes INEC affidavit affirming David Mark leadership as legitimate by focus7:
When their case lacks credibility, they resort to social media for validation, it’s a recurring pattern. This was evident when Peter Obi and his garrulous, empty-headed supporters flooded social media with IREV claims, even posting pictures of pofpof plastic in court on social media as their proof of winning the election, but at the court they couldn't prove it, as though they had a solid case during the post-election period.
Politics › Re: Photos Of Facilities That Will Be Commissioned By President Tinubu Today by focus7: 3:43am On Apr 07
lagonovo:
Abia State is not competing with Lagos State. Abia is competing with Kosofe Local Government in Lagos. Levels dey this thing abeg o cool
grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Photos Of Facilities That Will Be Commissioned By President Tinubu Today by focus7: 5:31pm On Apr 06
I will like them from Aba to post Alex Otti projects, we want to check something.
Foreign Affairs › Re: You Have To Respect The Sovereignty Of People, French President Tells US by focus7:
This is exactly why I will never be on the side of Israeli and will never support American's military campaign against any country.
Family › Re: My Husband Assaulted Our Maid While I Was Away I Don’t Know What To Do by focus7: 1:23am On Apr 05
Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.
What happened in your relationship is painful, but if you don’t want your children to go through the same struggles you and your siblings faced growing up after your parents’ separation, consider forgiving him and trying to overlook what he did. Stay so you can both raise your children together. This doesn’t mean you should trust him not to cheat again, but rather, learn not to let it consume your attention.
Politics › Re: Why Peter Obi Will Never Be Nigerian President – Tinubu’s Aide, Bwala by focus7: 6:50am On Apr 04
This is obvious to Peter Obi himself, he doesn't believe in the Nigeria project, that's why it's only the negative things about the country he projects.
Business › Re: When Nigeria’s Economic Expansion Fails Its People by focus7: 9:51am On Apr 03
It’s either we maintain the status quo of underdevelopment, or endure the difficult but necessary process of reform. In every nation where meaningful development has occurred, reforms have typically brought initial hardship before progress followed.
Politics › Re: Nigerian High Commission Debunks Igbo King Coronation In South Africa by focus7: 6:25am On Mar 31
Nigeria high commission should stop answering for Igbos in South Africa, they do not represent Nigeria, they represent Biafra.
Politics › Re: 2027: Peter Obi Accuses Nigerian Govt. Of Plotting To Block His Presidential Bid by focus7: 1:39pm On Mar 29
A loser will always complain and find somebody to blame for his failure.
Politics › Re: DSS Arrests Sheikh Ahmad Umar, After Hosting Peter Obi by focus7: 12:10pm On Mar 24
AMINDA:
He is associating with individuals who made Tinubu president. What's wrong with that? Was Peter Obi the one that told Tinubu to betray his helpers?
Mention those Individuals, besides I think he's the saint that wants to destroy the structure of criminality how's he now romancing with them. You all are shameless.
Politics › Re: DSS Arrests Sheikh Ahmad Umar, After Hosting Peter Obi by focus7: 11:21am On Mar 24
That indicates that Peter Obi in his desperation is associating with all those him and his supporters considered as criminals in the past.
Politics › Re: We Will Restore Glory Of Kano, Says Peter Obi by focus7: 5:00pm On Mar 23
Did he restore the glory of Anambra, or does Anambra not have glory.
Sports › Re: Morocco Captain, Achraf Hakimi Rejects AFCON Title, Says Senegal Won by focus7: 11:53am On Mar 21
CAF has turned to a pack of ridicule.
Politics › Re: Crisis In ADC As Atiku's Sons Split Party Into Rival Camps, Vie For Same Seat by focus7: 12:32am On Mar 19
Dino Melaye keeps parading Atiku Abubakar as the unifier that will unify Nigeria, yet, his track record has consistently shown his lack of capacity to justify the title. He scattered PDP with his ambition, now his sons taking after his step to scatter ADC with their ambitions.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Visits Malami After Release From Prison On Charges Of Corruption by focus7: 8:35pm On Mar 17
I have never seen a candidate that doesn't regard his support like Peter Obi. Apart telling them that he's mission is to destroy the structure of criminality he still openly romance with the same structure.

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